The Adventures of kneehighs...

[Steve63130]

Whenever we dance, my wife says I'm light on her feet!

I love compliments! LOL

Steve

[hhboots]

2 hours ago, Thighbootguy said:

... and even more to gracefully move in heels, but the real effort is mentally seeing what that movement should be.  Therein lies the difference between a guy in heels walking like a guy, and a guy in heels walking like a girl.  I realize that is a generalized stereotyped statement but most gals that wear heels regularly carry themselves with a flowing grace that is difficult for guys to learn (but in my case, not for the lack of trying ).

I think I walk better in heels than about half of the women I see in heels.  Even though I actually try to walk as though I am in normal flats and try to keep my normal gate and pace, etc.  I guess my goal is to look like I am at total ease in heels.  I have practiced before to walk like a woman, but it just doesn't work, the closest I have been able to come is while wearing a corset which sort of helps to force a hip sway/pivot.  Otherwise, a guy's skeletal structure is different, most specifically in the hip region, which is where the 'walking like a girl' as you say, originates.  I don't know some here may be able to pull that walk off, or perhaps that is their goal...  Anyway, I just try to walk like I would in flats, but in heels, and I got to say, I think it looks pretty graceful, but I would definitely fall into the 'guy in heels walking like a guy' category.  After trying the alternative, I am quite happy with that, relatively speaking anyway.   

Edited September 3, 2016 by hhboots

[Thighbootguy]

3 hours ago, hhboots said:

I think I walk better in heels than about half of the women I see in heels. ...  I guess my goal is to look like I am at total ease in heels.

I have also seen many women walking in heels that should have stuck to flats, and I think your goal is properly set.  My praise was for women that, while wearing heels, "carry themselves with a flowing grace" (envision ballroom dancing).  Not too many women pull that off, and I suspect even fewer guys (but ballroom dancers do have partners, but only one is normally in heels).  I do get complements like "You walk in heels better than I do" so I'm not staggering around in heels but I am far from moving with flowing grace.  (I can't dance either. )

[Puffer]

Ginger Rogers was famously alleged to have said about her dancing partner, Fred Astaire: 'I can do anything he can - but backwards and in 5" heels!'   Maybe she didn't ever say it but the sentiment is valid - although one should not under-estimate the skill of the man in leading his partner.

I don't know whether the wearing of cuban heels by a man for Latin American dancing is essentially as fashion rather than for practical reasons.   As a dancer, I can see that such heels will affect the stance and gait of the man to a small extent but whether this is helpful or not is difficult to tell.   Many steps (in ballroom or Latin) require the man to rise on his toes, which a heel will clearly assist but then with the probability that his shoe heel remains on or nearly on the floor rather than clear of it.   Maybe other dancers out there can comment?

[JeffB]

15 hours ago, Thighbootguy said:

I have also seen many women walking in heels that should have stuck to flats, and I think your goal is properly set.  My praise was for women that, while wearing heels, "carry themselves with a flowing grace" (envision ballroom dancing).  Not too many women pull that off, and I suspect even fewer guys (but ballroom dancers do have partners, but only one is normally in heels).  I do get complements like "You walk in heels better than I do" so I'm not staggering around in heels but I am far from moving with flowing grace.  (I can't dance either. )

Yes, I've gotten that compliment from time to time as well. That always makes me feel good as that's validation of my hard work to make sure I look AND walk my best in heels.

[Rick24]

most women secretly like men who do wear heels in public, but what there pet hates is, that if the man has a better high heel collection, than what she has, or they can get frustrated at the fact that this man can wear heels so perfectly, even if he is wearing killer heels, most women have a very snobby and catty attitude to other women who wear an outfit that is better than there's, I read other stories from men who wear heels in public on other forums and they have came across some women who are the catty and sort of snobby type, and those women loved the guys who wore heels, but where very frustrated at the fact that these men would wear higher heels than they could, and could walk better in them,

[GrayLion]

I have been complimented by women on wearing heels they could not pull off. Supermarket car park in rural Ireland.

[robbiehhw]

I have had similar comments from women and actually my reply was pretty much " its not hard you just have to practice " 

[kneehighs]

Fun night out with content the audience here can relate to.  #entertainment 

http://vid69.photobucket.com/albums/i45/storm-trooper/Girls_zpskmb3fsut.mp4

 

[kneehighs]

Time for my annual update here.   It's interesting reading through my old posts here.  It's almost like I was writing computer code to attract women.    Nowadays, I find sleeping with attractive women somewhat uneventful.  It's still exciting, but most of the time, I make little effort.  I will say this though.  The better looking the girl, the better the odds are she's psychologically disordered, especially if she had a dysfunctional family. 

Anyhow, a shot people here might appreciate

http://i69.photobucket.com/albums/i45/storm-trooper/ValentinoRockStud.jpg

 

Edited November 12, 2017 by kneehighs

[Heelster]

 - - - Interesting - - !!

 

[RonC]

Right where those heels belong!

[kneehighs]

Ha, here's another:

http://i61.photobucket.com/albums/h80/cryptobond/Louboutins2_zps3elkc5oe.jpg

This girl, though being very attractive, is also probably Histrionic or even Histrionic Personality Disordered.  I'd hedge the latter.  Comes from a highly dysfunctional family of origin.  Father was absent.   Parents are divorced.  Mother creates lots of drama around herself, even though the mother lives in another state.   Loves attention from men.  Attending to her would be like playing BitCoin Cash.  Get what I want and get out fast.  

Beautiful, but bad news.  

p.s. I just randomly met her on the street.  

 

Edited November 14, 2017 by kneehighs

[alphax]

She also seems to have a case of "man hands"

[kneehighs]

6 minutes ago, alphax said:

She also seems to have a case of "man hands"

haha, the left hand pictured is actually mine

[Bubba136]

Really sad that the pictures were deleted!

[kneehighs]

Hung out with 3 Eastern European girls recently.  One is a Ukrainian fashion designer.   At lunch at Bacarrat's, the designer decided to pop a compliment on my Michael Kors Hamilton Riding Boots..."i love your boots" in front of all her friends.  Not a second later, her friends were all in agreement too.   My skinny jeans were tucked into my boots.

Then recently, I wore the same Micheal Kors boots out to meet 6 friends for dinner.  One is an established serial entrepreneur, the other a president of the board of a fashion/tech company.  We're forming our own local crypto group, yay!   After, we went to a friends apartment for drinks.  Randomly, I wound up sitting next to some sapiosexual from Belarus (pictured with face blocked out to protect her privacy).  Totally, NOT my type.  It was funny to watch her energy rise sexually around intellectual topics though.  I even asked her nonchalantly if she was a "sapiosexual".   She said no.  The lawyer in the group schooled her and said, "someone turned on by intelligence" to which she replied, "oh yeah".  Anyway,  I did ask for her view of my knee boots.  As an intellectual, I wagered she'd give a quality answer.  "You like comfort...and you like to distinguish yourself". But it took her like 4-5 minutes to say that  

Regarding the girl from a few posts above...her pic (with her face hidden to respect her privacy) is also attached.  

Happy Holidays everyone!

[KneeBooted]

2 hours ago, kneehighs said:

Hung out with 3 Eastern European girls recently.  One is a Ukrainian fashion designer.   At lunch at Bacarrat's, the designer decided to pop a compliment on my Michael Kors Hamilton Riding Boots..."i love your boots" in front of all her friends.  Not a second later, her friends were all in agreement too.   My skinny jeans were tucked into my boots.

Then recently, I wore the same Micheal Kors boots out to meet 6 friends for dinner.  One is an established serial entrepreneur, the other a president of the board of a fashion/tech company.  We're forming our own local crypto group, yay!   After, we went to a friends apartment for drinks.  Randomly, I wound up sitting next to some sapiosexual from Belarus (pictured with face blocked out to protect her privacy).  Totally, NOT my type.  It was funny to watch her energy rise sexually around intellectual topics though.  I even asked her nonchalantly if she was a "sapiosexual".   She said no.  The lawyer in the group schooled her and said, "someone turned on by intelligence" to which she replied, "oh yeah".  Anyway,  I did ask for her view of my knee boots.  As an intellectual, I wagered she'd give a quality answer.  "You like comfort...and you like to distinguish yourself". But it took her like 4-5 minutes to say that  

Regarding the girl from a few posts above...her pic (with her face hidden to respect her privacy) is also attached.  

Happy Holidays everyone!

would you post a picture of your outfit?

[MackyHeels]

What if you came wearing the same court shoes of the last picture on the couch? What do you think her answer would be?

[Shyheels]

You seem to have some interesting friends.

[JeffB]

Killer shoes in that second picture!

[CAT]

3 hours ago, JeffB said:

Killer shoes in that second picture!

Exactly what I was thinking!!

[kneehighs]

On 12/24/2017 at 3:31 PM, KneeBooted said:

would you post a picture of your outfit?

Didn't take one sorry.  Just visualize a green army jacket, black skinny jeans, and jeans tucked into boots.  Worn with red scarf.

22 hours ago, MackyHeels said:

What if you came wearing the same court shoes of the last picture on the couch? What do you think her answer would be?

She would probably feel very shocked at first.  If just being friends was a goal, I don't think it would matter.  If being romantically involved for a long term relationship was the goal, if one had enough money to support her and a decent personality,  I don't think it would matter.  If romance on a short term basis was the goal, it probably wouldn't matter as long as one had a decent personality.

22 hours ago, Shyheels said:

You seem to have some interesting friends.

Thanks! They are pretty cool yeah...The prez and I have partied together everywhere from Sao Paulo to Moscow to London.  Small world.

Edited December 26, 2017 by kneehighs

[Shyheels]

You clearly get around...

[kneehighs]

4 minutes ago, Shyheels said:

You clearly get around...

like you!

[Shyheels]

15 minutes ago, kneehighs said:

like you!

WE may well have passed each other in airports!

[kneehighs]

[Rick24]

kneehighs. I think you have done a great service to men who wear heels. and a guy who wears heels in public is more of a man than a guy who hides it in his bedroom. at the age of 24. I made the right choice in not marrying or having a girlfriend, why. because wearing heels is just too much damn fun. a quota from sean connery on his retirement. I'm 30 now and my aim is to wear in public. and to have a huge collection of designer heels and boots to wear in public. and to have a large group of new friends to heel about in. I know that you think I am wrong to ditch relationships over heels. but women say that they have the right to wear what they want. well I want to wear what I want, so if it makes me selfish then so what. life is very short and you have look out for number one yourself. hope you post back.

[kneehighs]

Hi Rick, thanks for your words of appreciation.  I'm not so sure that you can't have both a relationship and the heel lifestyle you want.  It's not necessarily and "either/or" situation but probably in today's world, a "both/and".  Good luck to you!

[Jkrenzer]

totally agree with kneehigh. I wear heels publicly a lot, with and without my wife. She doesn't wear heels, her choice. She has no issues with me wearing mine, often 5 inch thin stilettos. I don't CD, I just wear my heels. Her only concern is not how I look or present myself but rather how my knees will hold up. I tell her, not To worry, as I do wear "male" as work for 9 to 10 hrs everyday so I keep my tendons and knees in good shape. So there is no reason to shun a relationship simply because you want to wear heels. Just do it and let the chips fall where they may. Life is too short without companionship. Male or female, we all need someone.