The Adventures of kneehighs...

[kneehighs]

So in part because of my efforts at personal branding as of late, it's come to my attention how important EMOTIONAL BRANDING is.  In fact, I'd argue that EMOTIONAL BRANDING is more important than any other kind of branding, since emotions quickly bypass the logical noise inherent in an oversaturated marketplace.

 

Emotional Branding is a concept that starts with Carl Jung's emotional archetypes.  There are 12 emotional archetypes.  Each provides emotions that are universally desired.  In marketing, Nike activates the HERO archetype.  This requires a contrast between Villain and Hero. The villain in Nike's case is the weaker self, the self that wants to procrastinate, the self that doesn't want to get out of bed in the morning.  The Hero is built around constant repitition of "just do it now" or "be empowered".

 

This branding can also extend to an additional option of how to explain our desire to wear heels.   In addition to other proven methods, we can use the Rebel Archetype to explain our desire to wear heels.  You could virtually paraphrase word-for-word this quote from Apple, which taps into the Rebel Archetype.

 

 

 

Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.

 

Gotta run, but just some thoughts to spark your minds.

[AZShoeNut]

So in part because of my efforts at personal branding as of late, it's come to my attention how important EMOTIONAL BRANDING is.  In fact, I'd argue that EMOTIONAL BRANDING is more important than any other kind of branding, since emotions quickly bypass the logical noise inherent in an oversaturated marketplace.

 

Emotional Branding is a concept that starts with Carl Jung's emotional archetypes.  There are 12 emotional archetypes.  Each provides emotions that are universally desired.  In marketing, Nike activates the HERO archetype.  This requires a contrast between Villain and Hero. The villain in Nike's case is the weaker self, the self that wants to procrastinate, the self that doesn't want to get out of bed in the morning.  The Hero is built around constant repitition of "just do it now" or "be empowered".

 

This branding can also extend to an additional option of how to explain our desire to wear heels.   In addition to other proven methods, we can use the Rebel Archetype to explain our desire to wear heels.  You could virtually paraphrase word-for-word this quote from Apple, which taps into the Rebel Archetype.

 

 

Gotta run, but just some thoughts to spark your minds.

 

Love it!

[Thighbootguy]

Just as a matter of personal pride, I hate fitting into any category.  But, using an expression appropriate for this forum, if the shoe fits, wear it.

 

TBG

[Steve63130]

Kneehighs,

 

Great post, as always. I agree that most of us are rebels in that context. I certainly am.

 

Thanks for the thoughful comments.

 

Steve

[kneehighs]

Just as a matter of personal pride, I hate fitting into any category.  But, using an expression appropriate for this forum, if the shoe fits, wear it.

 

TBG

 

Hey I hear you!  But even that comment in it of itself typifies the Rebel archetype...reinforcing how effective it might work for you 

[Gudulitooo]

KH, thank you for putting the right words where they belong !

 

Old threads like "would you continue wearing heels if they became mainstream for men ?" tried to provide a validation to this assumption. Yet it definetely lacked the good vocabulary at the time.

 

 

Another definition that could fit to me, is I am adventurous, but I do not want to engage too much. So I need a joyful, light hearted, real life, easy to set up adventure that does not hurt anybody.

 

Video games are boring. And movies I have seen enough. I am too old for gettiong sensations on bikes or snowboards without threatening my health too much. Not bold enough to engage in the army. I don't want to give up my familly.  Yes I know there are numerous other possible activities. Fishing, etc. Heels, why not.

[kneehighs]

http://four-pins.com/style/8-womenswear-items-you-can-wear-yourself/

 

http://www.theguardian.com/fashion/sharpened-lead/2014/mar/20/five-womenswear-items-men-wear-too

 

Some thoughtful articles on men adapting womenswear with a legitimate fashion interest.

[Shafted]

Interesting.

[JeffB]

I agree. Most intriguing.

[saudade]

From a more scientific bent:

http://youarenotsosmart.com/2014/06/06/yanss-podcast-25-how-the-clothes-you-wear-change-your-perceptions-and-behaviors-with-hajo-adam/

 

While it doesn't touch on anything like what we talk incessantly about here, it does bring up interesting questions regarding clothing in general.

 

Also apparently I need to buy a lab coat if I want to screw up less.

[kneehighs]

From a more scientific bent:

http://youarenotsosmart.com/2014/06/06/yanss-podcast-25-how-the-clothes-you-wear-change-your-perceptions-and-behaviors-with-hajo-adam/

 

While it doesn't touch on anything like what we talk incessantly about here, it does bring up interesting questions regarding clothing in general.

 

Also apparently I need to buy a lab coat if I want to screw up less.

Very cool.  The relevant discussion doesn't start until 22 minutes in.

[saudade]

Very cool.  The relevant discussion doesn't start until 22 minutes in.

 

Whoops my bad, forgot it took a bit to spin up. I tend to listen while running or going to work so I tend to forget about those little details.

[kneehighs]

Whoops my bad, forgot it took a bit to spin up. I tend to listen while running or going to work so I tend to forget about those little details.

No big deal.  I was notifying others to save them the time.  It was very interesting listening. 

[Steve63130]

Kneehighs,

 

Good articles. That the media are even talking about men adapting women's apparel is a very encouraging sign of what the future holds in store. I'm elated that fashion freedom may indeed be a two-way street someday.

 

Steve

[kneehighs]

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/06/20/clothes-aren-t-for-men-and-women-anymore-they-re-just-for-people.html

 

Best quote from the above link is from Valerie Steele:

 

“Clothing, fashion and adornment distinguish—they identify who you are. And one of the primary things we’ve identified, that we’ve wanted to identify, is our gender,” Valerie Steele, director of the Museum at the Fashion Institute of Technology, says. “But now, for a number of men and women, gender has become something that’s not so important for them to emphasize in their clothing. They feel there needs to be something that people can wear just as people.”

 

 

Our culture has reached what Time magazine recently called A Transgender Tipping Point.

 

We are now in the age of gender tolerance.

 

Go forth and wear what you want.

[Steve63130]

This is a very encouraging milestone in our progress as a civilization, which has for too long emphasized sameness and fitting into the pigeonhole determined by your sex instead of letting you decide where on the gender spectrum you prefer to be and what you want to wear, and more importantly, developing tolerance for your decision. The handwriting was on the wall 15 years ago when I started www.actisvkin.com and the trend has been gaining momentum ever since. Guys, we're just ahead of our time - pioneers, if you will (and remember, the pioneers were the ones with arrows in their backs!).

 

Steve

[kneehighs]

POLARIZING OUTFITS FOR ATTRACTION

So here's an idea.  Attraction is often based on polarity.  How about co-creating polarity with our outfits with our dates to create attraction?  

If the girl wears a traditionally feminine outfit, then agree to wear a traditionally masculine outfit with heels.  If she wears lace and chiffon,  then wear a studded leather jacket, tight jeans, motorcycle accessories, studded belt, and strapped/buckled heels. 

Co-coordinate outfits with polarity.  

Definitely, something to try in the New Year if the occassion arises.

[Histiletto]

It's ironic that women can dress in men's wear with heels fashionably, but when men wear heels with men's wear then they are considered cross dressers. To change public opinion or attitudes so that men will be fashionably correct is for more men to openly wear their choice of heels and the attire that fits their tastes. If that delves into a socially regarded feminine look, then remind them that women aren't changing into men from what they wear.   

[kneehighs]

For entertainment sake.  A screenshot of a recent instagram private message with a beautiful Northern European.  We were talking about Gucci heels.

 

Edited August 15, 2016 by kneehighs

[Thighbootguy]

And it's off to the races.   You have to let us know who wins.

[Rick24]

most women and girls for some strange reason, prefer to be in the company of guys who wear what they wear, too them we are there fashion item, and they seem too act more comfortable around us heel wearing guys, they never seem comfortable with guys who are very manly, they never approach them, but if you are a guy who wears what they wear on there feet, there all over you like bees on honey.

[Thighbootguy]

16 hours ago, Rick24 said:

but if you are a guy who wears what they wear on there feet, there all over you like bees on honey

Ah the things you learn at hhplace... A safe way to get a buzz on without drugs or alcohol.

[Rick24]

most people, won't care if a guy wears heels in public, but if you wear a really nice pair of heels then, you get women smiling at you, or they wink at you, or you get women telling their friends about it, they say to there friend ; oh' that guy is wearing a really nice pair of heels; then their eyes have clocked on you, and they have a really big grin.

[bluejay]

I get those compliments from the ladies a lot. I always make my heels visible for all to see. I wear skirts, shorts and capris with my heels. Wearing heels for so many years, I just go out, about my business. I'm totally confident wearing heels out in public.

Happy Heeling,

bluejay

[Rick24]

my dream is to go to a night club, wearing tight jeans with a pair of stiletto boots, and with it, a leather jacket, and then just dance like hell, for the fun, one day it will happen.

[Bubba136]

5 hours ago, Rick24 said:

my dream is to go to a night club, wearing tight jeans with a pair of stiletto boots, and with it, a leather jacket, and then just dance like hell, for the fun, one day it will happen.

There have been quite a few posts describing situations exactly like those you are dreaming about.  They all turned out to be super fine outings.

[Sydheel]

 

On 2 September 2016 at 7:17 AM, Rick24 said:

my dream is to go to a night club, wearing tight jeans with a pair of stiletto boots, and with it, a leather jacket, and then just dance like hell, for the fun, one day it will happen.

That "One day" will come aling sooner than you think. As is oft stated here on the board is that the main thing holding us back is our own headspace. 

As you expand your journeys and become more comfortable you will wonder what you were worrying about. 

The main thing in your plan that wouls stop me is that i cant dance for crap. 

I can waltz properly (took lessons for my wedding). But dancing.... Nope !

good luck

[Puffer]

4 hours ago, Sydheel said:

 

That "One day" will come aling sooner than you think. As is oft stated here on the board is that the main thing holding us back is our own headspace. 

As you expand your journeys and become more comfortable you will wonder what you were worrying about. 

The main thing in your plan that wouls stop me is that i cant dance for crap. 

I can waltz properly (took lessons for my wedding). But dancing.... Nope !

good luck

If you can waltz, you can 'dance'.   Anything that amounts to jigging about is not proper dancing!

[mlroseplant]

7 hours ago, Sydheel said:

 The main thing in your plan that wouls stop me is that i cant dance for crap. 
 

You would think that guys who make it their business to learn to walk in high heels, knowing that they have to be way above average to pull off the look and have the confidence, would be able to dance naturally. However, that is not necessarily the case. I can't dance either. In my younger days, I always made sure I was in the band for that very reason.

[Thighbootguy]

26 minutes ago, mlroseplant said:

You would think that guys who make it their business to learn to walk in high heels, knowing that they have to be way above average to pull off the look and have the confidence, would be able to dance naturally. However, that is not necessarily the case. I can't dance either. In my younger days, I always made sure I was in the band for that very reason.

Dancing is an art form just like drawing or painting where most of the talent is mental rather than physical.  With drawing and painting the hand eye coordination needed to render an image is no more than 10% of the effort, the other 90% is seeing the image in your mind.  I am not a dancer but I suspect the physical coordination for dance is higher than with drawing but I doubt if it is more than 40% of the effort.  The dancer has to be able to see the dance in their mind.

This also applies to walking in heels.  It does take some physical coordination to balance when wearing heels and even more to gracefully move in heels, but the real effort is mentally seeing what that movement should be.  Therein lies the difference between a guy in heels walking like a guy, and a guy in heels walking like a girl.  I realize that is a generalized stereotyped statement but most gals that wear heels regularly carry themselves with a flowing grace that is difficult for guys to learn (but in my case, not for the lack of trying ).