bambam Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 Pff, forget her. Real female athletes climb Everest and K2, and beat the crap out of me at my Jiu Jitsu practices. "Bikini athlete" means nothing to me.
Jkrenzer Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 (edited) On 10/14/2018 at 2:33 PM, bambam said: Who is this Marie? Why do you have so many pics of her? I hate to say it, but reading mackey's posts over time makes me think he has a general issue with women. Edited October 16, 2018 by Jkrenzer 1
HappyinHeels Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 I concluded that as well. Every post seems to be a soap opera. I have tried to be helpful but it seems fruitless. HinH 1
jeremy1986 Posted October 16, 2018 Posted October 16, 2018 Ditto.... but each to their own, right :-)
pebblesf Posted October 17, 2018 Posted October 17, 2018 On 10/8/2018 at 5:33 PM, Heelster said: This is all a bit funny - - - I just walked around a casino in East Chicago - - - - and I don't think anyone noticed. Not that I was blatant about the visuals, but to a trained eye, it was obvious. That was boring - !! I know this feeling for sure... On 10/13/2018 at 10:15 PM, MackyHeels said: Today went to do errands. Went to Costco wearing skinny crop jeans and leather black sneakers and jacket. Thought many woman wouldn’t be wearing anything special least any heels. Go figure lot of booties not very high clunky heels two inches at the most. One female in leggings with a long coat but four or five inch block heel. Went home to drop off some groceries and make another stop elsewhere.. Decided to change into my block suede booties and suede camel moto jacket. Standing in line at my first stop behind me was Dad and his older teenage daughter. They definitely noticed my outfit few chuckles behind my back but they behaved themselves. While my other stop at a clothing outlet I was looking through woman’s section for designer leather denim leggings disappointed at my sizing they didn’t have sold out, While noticing few females taken aback at my outfit felt I looked trendy casual with great fit and shape. Felt confident enough then older woman were browsing near me and were talking in euro language I didn’t understand. They couldn’t see me initially because of the clothing racks but began to chackle unrealated to me I thought. Maybe because I was shopping in the ladies section they found it odd and funny. As they came around back of me I could tell of the tone of there chatter I must of been discussed. As one to the other chatted they could clearly see me from my bootie heels all the way up. Then the laughter of the woman became more prominent versus the other. Believe each had a turn noticing my outfit at different times. Ordinarily it would of bothered me, looking back at them. For whatever reason I knew I looked great only I couldn’t say that to anyone I observed in the store shopping. While those 50 plus year old euro woman seemed close minded, knew the type. Probably never seen a man in female clothes before or ever. While nothing exciting to purchase I began to walk out the door with the chackle laughter behind my back. Thought to myself these hags don’t know how to fashion themselves or know the difference between designer clothes or discount items. Let them have at it seemingly buying ugly clothes on some bad backward thinking woman. Yet I left not fazed or thinking about them at all or burden on my shoulders to carry on thinking about it on my next stop, quite contrary let it slide without any grief. Think it’s my first time not caring about what these hags or anyone were laughing upon what I was wearing. Just letting others know woman can act child like. Yet I don’t care how they view me wearing my outfit today. Only glanced upon the woman as they moved around me initially very bland styled indeed. If there was anyone to laugh should of been me knowing these euro females desperately seeking some style. Yet something told me with sly smile on my face they need a lot of luck... I’m positive a younger trendier female would winch upon these loud vocal euro hags. Just didn’t surprise me when I was hearing there loud chatter walking into my section. Knew euro females like them are traditional so having an reaction upon looking at my heels legging jeans was to be expected. Anyone else feel the same way when you observe others chatting away stereotype assuming there reaction to your outfit heels and all. My hat is off to you Macky, for sure. We all are going to experience a situation like this at some point. I have heard a few chuckles every now and then, but never stayed around long enough to deal with the situation effectively. I have often wondered how I could effectively reply in a situation like this, saying something funny or witty, to show that I am not at all put off/embarrassed by such a negative reaction.... I agree with you totally Macky, we must always "consider the source" when faced with a negative reaction. And, in this case, I agree totally with you sir. These women were put off because you looked so good, just jealousy and resentment for sure. Wish I could go heeling with you sometime, would be a great confidence booster for me! Don On 10/14/2018 at 12:01 PM, Pumped said: Macky, I was wearing a pair of western styled ankle boots at a party and one women practically shouted, "what are those boots you are wearing!" everyone got quiet and she made another comment which I have forgotten, but it was clear she did not like my choice of footwear. I just gave her a "look" and mentioned that I don't normally take fashion advice from some one wearing sweat pants, sweatshirt and trainers bought at Walmart, which is what she was wearing, typical lazy woman's fashion. I got a chuckle from a few people that were watching this unfold and that was the end of it. Yeah buddy, nice work on that great come back! 1
MackyHeels Posted October 17, 2018 Posted October 17, 2018 (edited) Thank you Pebblesf, often I write my experience reactions from others, being outfitted in feminine attire. There is no surprise that i get the odd reactions like to share them here. Find some members are afraid to walk out in public wearing what they want. Rarely do they share experience on this board out of fear what others may say. I can be proof of what an outing could mean for others in my shoes, ain’t that bad. For example recently at my workplace. Had a mob of people unrealated to my co-workers behind me in a crowd looking from there advantage point downwards.. Could somewhat overhear couple people discussing me. Couldn’t hear every word clearly but took snipets of there discussion one louder then the other. Woman chatting about my appearance or the tight skinny jeans jeggings I was wearing. Few mumbling from one to the other Omg! Look at him.. At first I was startled that they were focused on my tight attire being only male dressed in feminine jeans.. Then as always waiting for the negative comments to commence being vocal. While they both were analyzing of how look. I stood not looking back but confident enough not to care, yet couldn’t resist hearing what they had to say.. Of course they both were discussing my jeans. One loudest began to voice she didn’t like it. Other mentioned some positive points as to convince her otherwise, while the reply finished from the negative female saying, yah I agree! Something about me looking fit or good stylish, while other females wearing skinny jeans have no business in them look far worse , but she replied “I still, think it still looks weird”. Had big grin on my face afterwards. Thought to myself it’s true that woman in particular find feminine attiire unique upon a male wearing it. They are so conditioned seeing overweight females in skinny jeans but rarely a fit male in painted on jeans showing his form. It’s surprises people initially and find it very odd to witness or keep a straight face not to laugh. At least in my case these two woman seemed mature and open minded and one thought my body or legs suitable yet couldn’t blame one of them feeling the way she did. More I wear what I do easier on eyes when people notice what I’m wearing. Either disavowing or ignoring it expecting me to be wearing said skinny jeans. You can only invent the wheel once and make it different in some subtle ways. So for the naked eye of a woman seeing me wear something so tight, jeggings wasn’t news for her in fact many woman are wearing it themselves without a second thought from others. Yet seeing it on male like me it seemed different yet then same. While in truth females know it shouldn’t be a big deal. So she kept holding on a learned binary belief. That boys and girls have specific colours, and gender clothing they need to wear, otherwise it is confusing or weird to her eye. Edited October 17, 2018 by MackyHeels 2
subtle Posted October 18, 2018 Posted October 18, 2018 On 10/14/2018 at 10:39 AM, MackyHeels said: Easy to find negative attributes on someone that dislikes you. Guess it’s a defence mechanism we need to feel better of ourself after negative comments. We always can find negative opinions about someone who dislikes us for what we wear Women can act like this to each other, there’s often some jealousy fueled comments among friends about some other lady’s attire, they could be just too but still, the fact here is they are talking about someone else for their own entertainment. I don’t think they’re particularly picking on you, just you’re the easy target that’s in front of their face. 1
pebblesf Posted October 19, 2018 Posted October 19, 2018 On 10/18/2018 at 4:08 AM, subtle said: Women can act like this to each other, there’s often some jealousy fueled comments among friends about some other lady’s attire, they could be just too but still, the fact here is they are talking about someone else for their own entertainment. I don’t think they’re particularly picking on you, just you’re the easy target that’s in front of their face. You have got that right, women can be very tough on one another.....
MackyHeels Posted October 25, 2018 Posted October 25, 2018 On 10/18/2018 at 4:08 AM, subtle said: Women can act like this to each other, there’s often some jealousy fueled comments among friends about some other lady’s attire, they could be just too but still, the fact here is they are talking about someone else for their own entertainment. I don’t think they’re particularly picking on you, just you’re the easy target that’s in front of their face. Most Women who have a strong confidence of their bodies or what they wear find think to themselves as special. We say females are competitive or jealous but in reality they want to appear unique. Thus they enjoy voicing opinions about everyone saying she shouldn't wear that, looks bad on her etc... While the confident woman wants a monopoly of her style believing only her and few select woman can pass wearing XYZ. It's an attitude feeling superior of others thus they need to show disrespect hoping to slow down a trend or style they only believe can wear. So if a male like me steps in the line of fire there analyzing contemplating of how my body appears looking for any flaws. Then they say it looks weird, slightly perturbed, that if there honest can admit i wear it as well or better then them. In fact they deep down know it but never admit it, hoping seeing last of me.
Amanda Posted October 25, 2018 Posted October 25, 2018 Gosh, they do sound like such shallow creatures. 3
HappyinHeels Posted October 25, 2018 Posted October 25, 2018 (edited) Mackyheels, While women, in general, appear more aware of fashion I do not believe they have a monopoly on selfcentredness. You'll find an equal chance of men believing they "are all that". Indeed, a look at many millennials shows a generation with an unprecedented sense of entitlement and selfishness. Over a period of time, however, smart people eventually realize that, outside a small circle of immediate family and friends, they are all not the main character in a very special story. Over that same period of time one will also realize the world does not care an iota about what someone wore or how they wore it unless you live in the public eye and the vast majority of us certainly do not. HappyinHeels Edited October 25, 2018 by HappyinHeels missing word 2
MackyHeels Posted November 2, 2018 Posted November 2, 2018 (edited) On 10/25/2018 at 3:19 AM, HappyinHeels said: Mackyheels, Over that same period of time one will also realize the world does not care an iota about what someone wore or how they wore it unless you live in the public eye and the vast majority of us certainly do not. HappyinHeels I beg to differ in fact many woman notice very well what he or she wore yet do it subtly. Yet ask them about it they can recite the clothes someone is wearing days ago at how badly, or well he or she styled themselves. Countless woman know exactly what i wear seeing me often, either approach me saying your wearing XYZ! that's for woman! I tell them yah, but it's unisex then they sort of agree. Yet seeing me often wearing different outfits and colours i notice reactions they find it disturbing even call me out about it. Very few are happy for me to be wearing female XYZ in fact they rather take time intrigued, walk behind and around intentionally and subtly observing, then react to another friend further away with laugh, giggle, smile, OMG! or saying never seen a guy wear that before. Then juvenile banter amongst woman about the outfit continue, he looks pretty, like a girl, how could you tell the difference thought it was a woman look at his legs and butt, gross, or wish i looked like that ha, ha... Or the intrigued woman who find what they see are impressed yet afraid too timid saying a kind word. Watched this half breed asian woman closely glancing upon me at every opportunity that presented itself. I knew she seen me in heel booties before reacted luke warm to my surprise. Curious that i didn't receive a bigger expressed reaction only what could be called fond envy. Months maybe year later she must know what clothes i wear and how i style myself even noticing me glancing upon her attractive state. Could tell by her glances upon me next to her she was literally figuratively measuring me up very curious... Had encounter at work this posh blonde attractive young woman i known seeing her dolled up often in designer clothes to my delight. She sees me around finding me bit peculiar, only because i mind my business or don't chat her up. So one recent encounter i wore a respectable brand ladies dark black, gray camo hoodie at work being fairly cold environment. As i was nearby across from her, with another woman seeing tall blonde young woman checking out my tight female Rag & bone blue jeans. Couldn't ignore her glances upon me as though she found it odd, as though she thought those are quite tight on him or something was off or familiar. Had chuckle at her stoic serious stares but both of us didn't say a word only talking about our tasks for work. The blonde posh female was in close proximity listening in could easily notice her bulging eyes onto my hoodie unlike her usual demeanour. Appeared she noticed my obvious brand logo on zipper or hood with thumb sleeves covering my hands and snug fit and the fabric colour pattern. Ever get idea that someone knows exactly what your wearing, well I knew, she knew what i was wearing. It was ladies hoodie in fact i bet she owns the very same or browsed to shop owning one in the future. Either her reaction was total jealousy and envy or shocked a man like me is wearing a female hoodie, made me bit my lip from laughing at her observations and reaction of the hoodie i had on. Small stuff like i experienced from woman is telling at how long there memory of what i wear when they know it belongs on a woman's body. If the two females don't know me by now they already they making assumptions of what i'm about. Enjoy hearing in the past my boss commenting to others about woman complaints about me wearing weird clothes. No woman can say for sure but they can only comment asking him don't you believe what he wears is odd and you should talk to him about it. Yet my boss agrees it's odd laughing but can't do anything about it. Yet i know there is subtle way woman approach to ask him to do something about my attire without really getting into detail specifics what they are truly finding immoral disgusting or awfull for there eyes to witness. Edited November 2, 2018 by MackyHeels
HappyinHeels Posted November 4, 2018 Posted November 4, 2018 Mackyheels, You missed my point. Time is the great equalizer, the great filter of relevance and irrelevance. What it took you over 500 words to say I expressed in 42. Years from now you shall see you should have done what you wanted without letting sideline distractions get to you because they clearly do. Whether others see and note what you are wearing is inevitable but does it matter? HinH 1
Cali Posted November 4, 2018 Posted November 4, 2018 The issue is, if you want to worry about what other people think then you will, but don't complain about. People will react to anything that is not normal to them. I can walk around in clothes from the women's side all day long and not have a second glance (except for my heels), in fact I just went to the open air market with only clothes from the woman's side. Wear want you want and wear it with confidence. Don't wear it and worry what others are saying about you, be above that. 2
Pierre1961 Posted November 4, 2018 Posted November 4, 2018 Keys are: confidence and no care about others reactions. Be happy in your own bubble 2
Shyheels Posted November 4, 2018 Posted November 4, 2018 As Eleanor Roosevelt said: what other people think of me is none of my business 3
CAT Posted November 4, 2018 Posted November 4, 2018 I agree with you all. I have said it for the past 5 years,,,, why did I wait so long I missed out on something I love doing and a can’t get a do over. God I wish I could. 2
MackyHeels Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 (edited) 9 hours ago, HappyinHeels said: Mackyheels, You missed my point. Time is the great equalizer, the great filter of relevance and irrelevance. What it took you over 500 words to say I expressed in 42. Years from now you shall see you should have done what you wanted without letting sideline distractions get to you because they clearly do. Whether others see and note what you are wearing is inevitable but does it matter? HinH Your right but health matters also. Whenever your sick you don't care about superficial stuff as much as survival. Sorry about the essay i wrote. Don't believe years from now i need to look back regretting the choices i made. Regret them now not wearing the clothes heels i want. Something to do with sizing or availability. 8 hours ago, Cali said: The issue is, if you want to worry about what other people think then you will, but don't complain about. People will react to anything that is not normal to them. I can walk around in clothes from the women's side all day long and not have a second glance (except for my heels), in fact I just went to the open air market with only clothes from the woman's side. Wear want you want and wear it with confidence. Don't wear it and worry what others are saying about you, be above that. There's just second glances i can live with that. When it comes to those smirking chuckles or voiced laughter it digs deep. Only because i try hard to dress in envious style woman would wear themselves. Puzzles me to get laughed upon or stared upon in negative demeanour reaction. Recent outing today i choose few different outfits on my various errands coming home to change three times. Observed a couple laughing at my male bland colour matched suede jacket and UGG chukkas, which confused me. Then i decided earlier wearing tight distressed dark cropped jeans with moto leather jacket and leather sneakers at church which turned few heads, made me smile at the attention, people noticed. Later on in the mall noticed woman sitting giving me the entire body scan while i was walking wearing my chelsea pointed suede booties with relative low two inch block heel, new skin tight AG leggings distressed step hem jeans and suede moto brown jacket. Just thought what if i was wearing my high heel block heels instead that i left in the car what the reactions would be. Although i was confident more i walked around in the mall i was doubting i should of worn my higher heel booties to complete the outfit better. Just want feedback what i wear from others i can tell the difference when someone is envious or jealous or finds my outfit outdated, lame plain silly out of place or style. Being in my own bubble helps like so many attractive females confident of there bodies not paying attention to there environment only on there phones or friends there with. Seen this young woman coming out of a store boutique ahead in the mall decent shapely dressed in exact same colour leggings i wear in the gym same brand same colour and style having on pinkish printed short varsity jacket and sneakers. Thought to myself none is staring or admiring her outfit, meant to be worn in the gym or yoga class but she used it as acceptable streetwear. How could i dare wear something like that on the street rather than the gym? What the reactions would be, even though i prefer wearing legging jeans. Find something wrong wearing gym clothes on the street, yet many do it regardless if they have a gym membership. Yet i kept staring maybe admiring her boldness and the familiarity owning, wearing the exact same leggings in the gym weekly. Edited November 5, 2018 by MackyHeels
Cali Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 Mackyheels What's your goal? What are your expectations? Are they realistic? I live my life with colored fingernails (currently aqua marine sparkle gel), 4 + inch heels and many other items from the women's side of the store. Some days I only have women's clothing on (like today), but I always present male. That's me, I blend. Others do their own thing.
MackyHeels Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 Cali my goal is to get revenge upon those who mock those who style themselves differently from the normal expectations. I know there will be haters no matter who wears what. So why not present oneself in the best light as possible. Meaning if some gal wears nice outfit i may take away things i like and add to it in my own style. If i get mocked, feelings of disappointment and self doubt enter in my mind. Guess the best dressed women are judged daily for there outfits by fashion experts, laughing, mocking, ridiculing ones brave to wear this or that. So i don't expect total love of everything i wear. Just want to have peace of mind that men or women wearing same clothes or shoes isn't news for anyone in society observing leaving people wearing what they want with respect, leaving there opinions or reactions to themselves rather voicing it readily anyone to hear, be it a facial expression, chuckle, etc.. How do i get my revenge is try to look as good as i can. Meaning go boldly wearing looking the way i want, when summer days approach i make sure to get dark tan. Helps when i wear female cutoff shorts showing my legs off. When styled daily in the summer i notice some female surely chuckle what they see teenage girl older lady. When a woman notices me often enough and takes objective view of me she honestly likes what she observes. I certainly can differentiate them noticing me non verbal cues. In fact often it's positive experience when i get the stare observing them in my peripheral vision scanning my body head to toe. Seen this young lady leaving the gym one time as i was entering checking in. The gal stood mouth open looking me over non-verbally astonished about my fashion sense and street attire appearance. Everything told me she was liking everything about me. While entering from the front desk walking towards the change rooms heard the gal talk to the receptionist about me. Saying something that that guy looks unreal, sense of style, clothes, look amazing for his body, Oh my god, if i could look half as good i be happy. This opinion from very attractive young female came as a shock to me as i cared less of anyone's comments good or bad living in a bubble.
Shyheels Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 (edited) Well, if you’re out looking for revenge and confrontation, you’re certainly going to find it. But is that really a happy way to live your life? Edited November 5, 2018 by Shyheels
MackyHeels Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Shyheels said: Well, if you’re out looking for revenge and confrontation, you’re certainly going to find it. But is that really a happy way to live your life? No it's not very expensive. Only reason is part of my vengeance is to wear the best designer clothes or shoes i can find in my size. Thinking it will connect with others haters being angry and jealous while others admiring me sharing the same taste in clothes. Most times it works but i expect a conflict so any compliments are swept under a rug and shrugged off. While focusing on my haters is very unhealthy and disturbing miserable way to live. Edited November 5, 2018 by MackyHeels
HappyinHeels Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 MackyHeels, If there's an underlying health issue, which you certainly have inferred, then you have my prayers. You may not believe in God but I certainly do. Let me share something about me. I was in Pennsylvania earlier this year and visited Steve63130 on my way there. Had a nice visit with him and with family members in Pennsylvania. Some nine days after I returned home I felt an intense fatigue over several days. What I suspected was Lyme disease and that's what it was. I eventually got the prescribed antibiotics but my body had largely fought it off by then. They did an EKG or essentially an electro-magnetic scan of my heart which was a first for me. I was told I have an irregular heartbeat. I had a full stress test and I did very well on it. My heart is strong but it works differently than others. My cholesterol was 130, triglycerides 45, and blood pressure was consistently in the 110/65 range for the dozen times they took it over several days. I finally met with a cardiologist who quizzed me about family history. Turns out longevity is present on both sides of my family especially my father's side. He's one of 12 children aged 84-106 and all of them are alive. I was asked what kind of diet and other life factors were present. I basically said I ate what I wanted but was drinking more water in the last two years, stayed active outside, always spoke my mind but never maliciously, drink a beer every other day, and swear whenever I needed to vent steam. That was it. So, despite getting bit and contracting Lyme, it will not prevent me from tending to my chores on my 40 acres of forest and pasture in northern Wisconsin. I will spray myself and be prepared. So, despite being told I have an irregular heartbeat, it will not stop me from surging forward and enjoying my life. The cardiologist told me the worst case scenario is perhaps into my seventies I may have to have a pacemaker placed into me. I paused and then replied "Let's just make damn sure that guy has some kickass cutting skills." Humour injected at the right moment I have found to be a supremely good form of medicine. I do not let irrelevant and peripheral expressions, banter, or other such nonsense register on my daily radar so I do not let any of it get to me. I keep myself healthy from stress because I have erected a force field of confidence. I believe you should do the same. Consider two others here who have offered you their perspectives. Shyheels is not someone I know but feel he is very close to my age and who has worked as a journalist. Now, despite the present downward trend of quality in journalism, there are certain focus points worth noting about his profession. Those are an absolute mastery of the language being used. One may disagree with the written content but the article will be written in a smooth style and with no grammar or spelling errors. Another key point is the ability to gather information via the interview and one's own research of databases to create a timeline or a journal of events. He has offered you a perspective based upon his experience both from working in a profession based upon detailed observation as well as having lived a long time. The other member is Cali who I met this past May. He lives at the precise point where the Pacific Ocean bathes the California coast halfway between Canada and Mexico. He wears open-toed high heel sandals, many of them wedges I would wear, with painted fingers and toes and presenting himself as a guy and does not give a f... about peripheral nonsense. He is some six years older than I. He does what he wants, wears what he wants, not hurting anyone or allowing his inner self to be hurt by anyone. We had a good time together and my life was enriched for having met him. No stress, no mess. What both these members have in abundance is confidence. That confidence is not built from talking about but by living life on YOUR terms and not allowing sneers, stares, ogles, giggles, or other meaningless banter get inside your head. Look, I am not a real handsome guy. You might say I have more of a face for radio but as I move about the world, in heels or not, I have found the world responds to me as if I had the looks of a very handsome celebrity because they see the confidence which fuels the personality. It may sound like a refrain from the 1960's but I do believe you must learn to love yourself and be at peace before you can amass the confidence required to take on the world. Okay, it was my turn to write an essay but I'm trying to get through the best way I can. They may just be words but words have proven their power over the centuries. Sometimes for evil but often for good. A coach's final speech before an important game where the whole world thought the odds were too long against them. From Miracle: "If we play these guys ten times they'll beat us nine but not tonight. Tonight is your moment, now go out there and take it." What followed was considered the greatest moment in the history of sport in the United States in February of 1980. I enlisted in the US Navy the following day. Words mattered to that hockey team. Words mattered to me. I hope you'll build the confidence needed to wear what you want and step forward with a level gaze never looking back or to the side. That daily confidence will be your legacy. Like Frank Sinatra and "My Way". He did it his way. Now you need to do it yours. Take care my friend. HappyinHeels 3
Cali Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 11 hours ago, MackyHeels said: Cali my goal is to get revenge upon those who mock those who style themselves differently from the normal expectations. Why worry about them? Why does their approval mean so much to you? Live above it. 2
MackyHeels Posted November 5, 2018 Posted November 5, 2018 (edited) 4 hours ago, Cali said: Why worry about them? Why does their approval mean so much to you? Live above it. Cali it's not approval i want. Heck, fully understanding some clothes i wear are not for everyone to enjoy or for me expecting any compliment. It's being considered an equal wearing feminine clothes or shoes woman in particular shouldn't judge or laugh because it's unusual for them to observe. Often thinking to myself do i look silly in these dusty mauve leggings pictured below? i'm wearing standing or sitting on the gym floor. all alone Why is that woman i see in the mirror, who observed me hundreds of times in different yet similar tight outfits chuckling to herself, after initially laying eyes on my outfit? Does she find it to girly for male to wear? Does she feel pink isn't a colour a man should wear? Are my leggings too light coloured for the season, is it better suited for spring or summer rather autumn or winter? Is she chuckling because she observes me closely noticing, wearing brand new legging, outfits in the gym almost daily or weekly? Do people find me incorrigible, purchasing the latest yoga styles or trends, or being poster boy for a specific female athletic brand often seen being first wearing in the gym? Does my body physique look alright for what i'm showing and wearing? Should i look to be more modest blending in wearing black leggings more rather standing out? (having butt wedgie in leggings funny) Why is the cute gal glancing staring at my bulge beside me while we stretch next to each other? (Am i showing way too much, feelings of being naked and vulnerable, leggings clinging to my body contours like a spray tan?) Is she impressed with my body or outfit or just curious, intrigued? (Indeed she has boyfriend or is married). Am i respected for the outfit i'm wearing, does it pop and impress making females envious? Yet all these thought fill my brain making for intense workout fueling my fitness journey making a negative into a positive. Best motivator is having someone being negative and trying to prove them wrong. Wearing my exclusive feminine gym outfit brings me to a level of confidence i don't have on the street except in the gym environment, puzzles me why. Maybe because of the fact it's a domain i feel i confident proud and compared to others rule to some pathetic degree, at least that is how i feel. While on the street there are so many variables that you encounter and roadblocks that it gets tiresome or expected. Only option is to grit my teeth and keep walking hoping next person doesn't voice there negative views or stares upon me as well. While most times i stay in my bubble in the gym increasing the sound level to the max from my bluetooth earbuds listening to Post Malone & Swae Lee -Sunflower https://youtu.be/ApXoWvfEYVU Hiding the pain i feel because i enjoy wearing feminine attire in the gym feeling unaccepted for the most part only few feeling pity give me hello or chat. Yet many just keep there distance out of fear i'm crazy seeing me shake my feet to the beat of the music or shaking my head or lip syncing the lyric at least before i get to the library of Juicy J songs...Lol. Ignoring the x-ray deep stares upon me, by positive competitive gym rat diva, in there newer bright leggings. Seemingly wanting my approval, or notice there new outfits.. Them believing i want the same attention for my gym outfit needing to top one another anytime we show up in the gym. Amusing to witness that some competitive woman know my style. Flaunt in front of me beating to the punch of new released leggings i be wanting to purchase and wear. In fact these competitive divas without talking they know me better than i know myself. From the types of colours, brand style i wear they trigger some jealousy in me that i know is silly. Don't show it externally but some females sense it and like to get a rise out of it seeing them wear what i would purchase and wear in the gym. Makes me little unhappy thinking what could i buy that she won't be wearing and vice versa on her part. Guess it's like a dog chasing its own tail until we all run out of options and money. Edited November 5, 2018 by MackyHeels
HappyinHeels Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 Perhaps the most helpful six words yet written here?? HinH
MackyHeels Posted November 6, 2018 Posted November 6, 2018 (edited) 14 hours ago, Shyheels said: Just go to a different gym. Nah! Have small dwindling circle of friends years back before I started my feminine style. While making handful of female friends intrigued, curious of my transformation and body or enjoying entertaining factor just knowing a freak like me. Do at times go to different gym but recognize some woman who stopped visiting my default location. Looking at there initial reaction recognizing me at the new gym. They don’t like what they see, maybe reason they stopped visiting my frequent gym was they felt uncomfortable with my outfits or appearance. Plus everywhere I go people react initially the same. At least my home base gym I got a very good sense on who or what they think of me. It enables me to ignore some while enjoying others gaze upon me. Lot of Asian woman frequent my gym some days more then other times. Yesterday was one of those times all lined up on every gym equipment that I seen. Looked like a assembly plant one after the other as I was passing by. Noticed this Asian jealous young male often tags along with his blonde attractive Asian young girlfriend. Lately he comes alone dedicated for his workout but this time his girlfriend eventually shows up later. While wearing my white gray mesh leggings and heatheed orange tight top. I noticed the cute Asian blonde beauty looking me over in the mirror or in passing in envious manner. Did observe her boyfriend smirk noticing me earlier, thinking to myself he believes my leggings are very feminine in style thus funny to see me wear it. Do know the Asian male is very jealous of his girlfriend when it comes to me. Anytime his girlfriend coincidentally working out behind me he stares concerned. Once I was confused why his demeanour changed as he was staring at me, little did I know his girlfriend was exercising behind me. Anytime I have an opportunity to chat with the attractive blonde Asian girlfriend the boyfriend will stand between us back towards me from ever communicating. Lead me to believe the Asian goddess is very intrigued in my attire in fact I bet she talks about me to her boyfriend. Enough so leading to observe the girlfriends moves near me or her curiosity what she likes with my body or attire. Nice to be noticed without any silly juvenile reactions. What confuses me most with woman seemingly enjoying or envious of my attire in the gym. Sometimes they walk up to me asking how long I will be finished using the specific equipment or weights. Answer them politely they often smile or grin leaving. Or have smirk on there face as to why I haven’t a clue. Yet whenever there in my line of sight I maybe eyeballing there body and anlyze the clothes. Then they react with smirk to themselves as I’m watching adjusting there outfit pulling up there leggings in front of me having happier demeanour then I ever seen before, leaving with there boyfriend. Maybe some believe I approve or envious of there outfits making them feel superior and confident. Suppose way we look upon each other brings confidence what we are wearing. If these woman respect the style of clothes I wear, then they respect my opinion on what they wear as well. Even though none says a word or compliment one another we can conclude by reactions and demeanour what others think of what we are wearing. Edited November 6, 2018 by MackyHeels
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