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I work on Santa Monica beach, it happens all the time. Just posing, it's LA.

Yeah, I usually wear mens skinny jeans, although I have some pairs of women that are nice.

Just walked down Olympic here in LA in these during rush hour. People literally stopped in traffic and stared, and three women stopped and merged over to get a better look. It can't be this hard guys, its just so hypocritical...

I mean the skinny jeans are uncomfortable and restrictive, far more so than heels.

nz, I would love to do the skirt thing eventually, but I haven't quite figured out how to deal with my biology yet, and I'm still having trouble with hair management. Turns out I'm a traditional Jew in that sense; wiry hair, pale skin. I'm looking more for slightly baggy pants or capris that look good that I can wear on stage at a gig, and perhaps in photoshoots as well. Skinny jeans really do work best with heels, but are brutal to give rock shows in, and also to just wear around... And the male anatomy makes it difficult.

I am looking for pants that I can wear with heels, pumps, sandals, booties, whatever, without needing to go for the skirt, and without super tight pants. As much as I love the look of skinny jeans, I want something a little more comfortable to wear regularly without cramming myself into tight pants, while maintaining a look that is more fashionable. Any ideas? I'm pretty skinny, but not model skinny...

Myself and an ex at The Abbey here in WeHo, one of the few places where I don't even think about being conspicuous.

Perfect

Love these boots, what are they?

This is exactly how I feel. I feel good, I look good, but there is an existential predisposition that disallows this sort of experimentation. Seeing things like this continues to anger me, but I fear it also reinforces the 'masculinity' cage that all of us fight against, sometimes daily. https://www.thatsbetsyv.com/men-wearing-heels/ I think to a certain extent it needs to be an effort of courage, regardless. Safe spaces don't work, bravery does.

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Can't go wrong with a pump.

btw, I do have a pair of women jeans that are too short, and although I can't wear them (I may cut them up and make them capris, not sure yet), they are far and away the most comfortable and well fitting pants I've ever purchased. Mens jeans are so heavy and ill fitting, these are great.

That Long Tall Sally looks perfect, but holy crap they are expensive... And mens jeans just aren't tight enough at the top, although that makes perfect sense, lolol

I'm tall, 6 feet, and with pumps, I'm way taller. I want to find some boot cut womens jeans or pants that fit properly, but have a long inseam so that they go over the pump or bootie I'm wearing. Any advice for finding the right size? any particular brands that cater to tall skinny women? What should I be looking for? Have you had any luck in this area?