SandalFan Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 I feel great in heels, but I don't wear them in public. Unfortunately, while my wife likes my heels, she's also been disabled and homebound for the last 8 years, and I can't imagine enjoying wearing heels in public without her with me. I admire those of you who've taken those first steps outside your homes. Sometimes I wish I had the confidence to do it myself - Lord knows I'd love to - but I just can't get past the social conditioning. My heels stay inside while I wear my hiking boots out. "Basic instincts, social life... Paradoxes side by side... Don't submit to stupid rules... Be yourself and not a fool... Don't accept average habits... Open your heart and push the limits..." - Enigma
Dr. Shoe Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Yes I love wearing heels in public especially in Tara mode, with a nice smart skirt and top or even with stretchy jeans. Yum! Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
Titou27 Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 Honnestly, I'm feeling extremely good, but even I'm doing this only at home I'm still afraid that somebody could see me...
lotsofheels Posted October 10, 2007 Posted October 10, 2007 For those of you guys who are too nervous to venture out in high heels, but would really like to try, I have some advice. Try first going out at night where no one can really see your shoes. And wear shoes with a block heel that is no higher than 3 inches so it doesn't look too feminine. Once you've done this a few times, try stopping at a fast food restaurant and going in for a quick meal. Once you realize that most of the looks you get when people notice your heels are mostly either "so what" or "that's really cool", you'll start to feel more comfortable and become much bolder about venturing out in ever higher heels. It's well worth the effort because you'll feel really great and tremendously liberated once you can go out in public wearing 5 inch heels.
loveheel Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 I feel great when I wear heels, at home or out. Over the years it has made me a happier, more confident person in my work and personal life.
jmc Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Taller. . . .and it's quite a rush. It still feels like I'm getting away with something, like I'm violating a taboo. It's like striking a blow for freedom, although in a small way. Have a happy time!
Marion Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 I feel like I am... myself ! I usually feel more sexy and confident, especially when I'm out with my girlfriend. My shoe collection album
Katrina Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 It depends. Once when I was out in a pair of spiky 4 inch heels (in guy mode), I didn't care what anybody thought of me. It was actually a rush trying to evoke some sort of reaction out of people. Other times, I want to wear what I feel like and don't really want any reaction. I usually feel bad when I chicken out though and put on more practical shoes before going out. Conversely, if I do go out, I tend to feel proud of myself for having the ba**s to violate society's norms.
shyguy Posted October 11, 2007 Posted October 11, 2007 Taller. . . .and it's quite a rush. It still feels like I'm getting away with something, like I'm violating a taboo. It's like striking a blow for freedom, although in a small way. Couldn't have said it any better, mainly that taboo feeling is what does it for me. He was so narrow minded he could see through a keyhole with both eyes. Brown's Law: If the shoe fits, it's ugly
Heel-Lover Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 Taller. . . .and it's quite a rush. It still feels like I'm getting away with something, like I'm violating a taboo. It's like striking a blow for freedom, although in a small way. This sums it up for me as well. As well as feeling taller in heels I find that when I don't wear them out I feel short. I wear heels out at least 50% of the time. Additionally somedays I feel like being a bit of an exhibishionist and aim to out-do any other heel wearers I might come across...ie. I try to have the highest and prettiest shoes in sight. If you have the confidence to get out there and do it you find you can... and its exhilirating. Heel-Lover
Arctic Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 I am just the same guy barefooted as in heels. It maybe gives me a slight sense of achievement because I have the guts to live out my kink while some others don't. But it is not on the top of my mind most of the time. What's all the fuss about?
Thighboots2 Posted October 12, 2007 Posted October 12, 2007 I feel great as long as I like the overall look. Its got to co-ordinate. TB2 Are you confusing me with someone who gives a damn?
Histiletto Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 Taking out all the history and our social environment, I can't even begin to describe the exhilaration, the physical up-lift, the satisfaction, the anticipation, my desired appearance, and the knowing I can factors of wearing high stiletto heeled pumps. Otherwise, it's great! Thanks for asking.
iloveboots Posted October 13, 2007 Posted October 13, 2007 wow, does that ever sum it up! "Dress For Your Own Pleasure"
hiheellover23 Posted October 14, 2007 Posted October 14, 2007 Wearing heels makes me feel more masculine, superior and sexy. Almost as if I am complete. Its a wonderful feeling I think. What ya see is what ya get no more or less!!
ChipsHH Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 It makes me feel more calm and self-respectful to myself. I feel less negative (cause I am very negative towards alot) and more happy and prepared for the stuff ahead of me. It sounds really odd, but remember, I am just a teen ; Formally "HHDude"
Guest Loveshiheels Posted October 17, 2007 Posted October 17, 2007 It,s make me feel great after a day at work.
Phoenix Posted October 18, 2007 Posted October 18, 2007 I feel like this is my real self when I wear heels out. Calm and confident.
bigbadkatz Posted October 20, 2007 Posted October 20, 2007 I feel confined, vulnerable, and extremely turned on.
ChipsHH Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 I feel confined, vulnerable, and extremely turned on. For reasons unknown, I'm turned on as well (hope it's appropiate from me), except on those select days (it seems), nothin seems to get me. Not even the heels. Formally "HHDude"
Elegant Posted October 21, 2007 Posted October 21, 2007 I'm no longer turned on- I was before all my street-heeling experiences. I guess that my heels lost their fetish appeal [well, most of it]- it's the same as with leather clothing. What is good for a goose, can be good for any gender!
jagman Posted October 30, 2007 Posted October 30, 2007 For all the reasons stated before but also the that incredible sensation when returning home after a few hours, kicking them off and walking around barefooted. So what's all the fuss about?
lolla Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 I can't wear high heels in public. So I remain in my closet.
Marion Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 For all the reasons stated before but also the that incredible sensation when returning home after a few hours, kicking them off and walking around barefooted. Interesting... Personnally I hate this feeling... When I kick my heels off I feel like I'm shortened or lowered (I don't know how to write it in English but I feel "something" is missing ). I wish I had silent high heels to walk around at home (if I keep wearing heels the neighbor complains about them). My shoe collection album
jagman Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Interesting... Personnally I hate this feeling... When I kick my heels off I feel like I'm shortened or lowered (I don't know how to write it in English but I feel "something" is missing ). I wish I had silent high heels to walk around at home (if I keep wearing heels the neighbor complains about them). Exactly! You said it very well Marion. If I wear heels for a long time I get used to them and forget the sensations. This feeling reminds me of what I've done and makes me want to get back into them. Have you tried these. I use them to stop black marks on the wooden floor and to protect the floor not my heels. http://www.danceshopper.com/dance-supplies.Supadance%20Slim%20Heels%20Protectors So what's all the fuss about?
whynotheels Posted November 13, 2007 Posted November 13, 2007 Have you ever tried to explain to someone how a car can be fun to drive? Either they understand the concept that there is more to it than just transportation or they don't. If they don't understand they never will. I get noticed in my fun car, but it doesn't phase me because I'm driving it for me, not anyone else. Likewise, I get noticed in heels (especially when paired with hose and mini skirt) but it doesn't phase me because I'm wearing the outfit for me. On the flip side of the coin, my wife doesn't care for the bouncy ride of my fun car so I usually drive the sedan with her. Her confort is paramount. When it's just me, heels are GREAT!! They give me that feeling of fun that comes from doing something a little different. They give me the sense of accomplishment going the distance balancing on those little pointed heels. They give me a little thrill being "restrained" by the heels as to where I should and shouldn't walk (taking the stairs instead of doing down the grass hill next to the stairs) and how fast I can walk. Still I'm looking for courage. Regardless of how good they make me feel, I'm also left feeling guilty for doing it.
Ninanoora Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 How would you describe the feeling when your wearing heels? Do you feel any differently if so, how? Is it a sexual experience for you? P.S. Sorry if these questions are already asked millions of times, I checked few pages on this forum section. "Even when I'm a mess, I put on a vest... with an S on my chest, oh yes.. I'm a Superwoman.. "
Magickman Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 "How would you describe the feeling when your wearing heels?" Fair question. I feel taller, much taller. More confident. Sexier. Women take notice of me. All in all, I like it.
Marcus Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 It's a non-sexual experience for me Neither for me. When I wear heels I feel taller (and it's fantastic for me) and my legs looks much prettier. I feel better. M Can you see the real me, preacher? Can you see the real me, doctor? Can you see the real me, mother? Can you see the real me?
Pumps Posted February 23, 2008 Posted February 23, 2008 How would you describe the feeling when your wearing heels? I feel like a freak and a complete laughingstock.
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