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    Equality in Fashions and ending gender based clothing. Human being should be able to wear what they wish with out fear, let people be androgynous be or have the characteristics of of both male and female in fashions. Thus ending Hate...
    To Cross or Not to Cross?



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    Although this blog is not about cross-dressing, I'm aware that many CD friends visit it daily, and, one hopes, enjoy it's contents. That being said, I also bear in mind that what I'm about to state may not be to everyone's liking. In fact, I hope I won't drive my drag-queen fans away, and that they'll keep visiting my blog and enjoying the pics in spite of the following remarks.



    If there's a word I despise, it is precisely "cross-dressing". I implies that there should be some sort of line, of barrier we are supposed to "cross" as we dress with garments of the "opposite sex". And, for what I see, no such boundaries exist, or should exist. Clothing has no "sex" per se, and the reality is that we all Human beings, without exception, show both masculine as well as feminine traits.



    Shouldn't we all acknowledge and even treasure such ambivalence, since it is in fact our real nature?



    If a man feels particularly feminine at any given time, be it for a single day, a period of his existence, or even his whole lifespan, shouldn't his clothing reflect it?



    I've seen a girl wearing a dirty denim overall and battered Doc Martens as she fixes her car, only to encounter her shortly afterwards at a cocktail party clad in a sexy sequin dress and silver stilettos.



    Shouldn't we males also accept ourselves the way we really are and let that less aggressive, more submissive "other self" to surface once in a while? Or most of the time, if that be the case?



    For instance, we could and should display our virile, outgoing, competitive self as we dress in a commanding, corporate double-breasted chalk-striped suit, and, later on, loosen up and show up at a party in a fancy dress, high-heels, and wearing make up.



    We also could and should also choose to be dressed permanently an in-between mixture of both.



    And we wouldn't be "cross-dressing"! We wouldn't be making efforts to "look like a girl" or "pass" as one. We wouldn't be crossing some imaginary line in order to invade the mysterious realm of womanhood, nor braking unwritten laws of prejudice...

    We would simply present ourselves to the world the way we really are, or at least the way we feel at a certain point of our lives.



    The very term "cross-dressing" wouldn't make any sense in such a world. And, on keeping this blog, I can tell you I feel confident that's the world we are heading in to. Who knows, maybe the expression will disappear altogether from the dictionaries in the future, or be labelled as a archaicism.



    In the mean time, if you happen to be one of my many cross-dressing friends, please don't feel upset by my outburst, and please keep following me. And, by all means, continue to cross-dress, if that happens to be your choice. At least until the day arrives in which everyone dresses the way they fancy and the term ceases to make sense.

    Equality in Fashions
    "Lorraine Goetsch" on Facebook.
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  1. Anybody Like Fashion From The 1700-1800's

    I love many of the womans and some mens clothing back then pumpcat and I love and looking for Thigh high boots boots with 4" heels.
  2. Who has bought some new BOOTS?

    Great boots friends, I've added more boots in the last three months my self and just love them, I can wear them all day. Sorry pic's did not come though? Hope this works? Here are some more that I got this year.
  3. The Freestyling World Of Pumpcat

    You may wish to check this out, times are changing as you will see in this link http://www.paulduane.net/style/#comment-1941 also take a look at this http://www.paulduane.net/show/ and Youtub http://youtu.be/rd9aXkZzrf0 Hope you like this.
  4. Blog Gone?

    I hope we see the new blog soon.
  5. Anybody Wear Kneehigh Boots With No Socks?

    I always wear pantyhose with my boots, pumps or shoes. I also wear, thigh-hi's. knee-hi's, tights but never socks.
  6. Negative Experiences?

    Freestyle75, I'd have say I don't see anything to laugh at or about and it's the same way I'd dress too here in Southern California. Don't let it stop.
  7. Well I have 20 pairs some of them are from 4" heel pumps 2 4 1/2" wedges pumps 2 one wedge 5" heel knee high boots 1 4 knee high 4" block heel boots knee high 3" heel block boots 3 and more.
  8. New pair of boots starts me serious street heeling.

    Well I just got this boots in black and brown to wear with skinny jeans and the brown boot to go with the jacket the same color.
  9. Pantyhose

    Yes I do but then I Love knee high boots and they all have 3" or 4" heels with skinny jeans tucked in the boots.
  10. Boot Store

    Check out Zappo's.com
  11. Love Rocky Horror Picture Show, had girl friends that pushed me in to heels and corsets back then, great days, I miss them.
  12. Boots Tucked In Or Not

    With me I wear my boots with skinny jeans and most of the time tucked in my knee high boots that are 4" and got some soft giggles from some teen girls at a restaurant at the next table.
  13. What Else Do You Do While Wearing Your Heels?

    Yes, the same thing here "Pretty much everything if I feel like it."
  14. other female shoes

    Here are some of my heels that I wear from knee high high heel boots to pumps.
  15. New Pics

    I love the dress and the boots, where did you find the dress? if they have my size I'd love to get fabulous dress.
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