Do Women like Men in heels?

[brake blocks]

AMI The best help you can give him, is to ask him to go for a walk with you to a local park with both of you wearing heels. this will help!

[johnieheel]

From my personal experience, YES. I would say that most of the women I know like men who are not afraid of there identity and like men in heels. I actually have a date with one next week who insists I wear heels because they are sexy on me. Also have another gf that wants to buy them for me. I have found that mostly its the women who cannot wear them , that don't like them on men or women. But still can't help to take a glance. High heels have power and some women are afraid of that .

[Steve63130]

Johnie, It's all about confidence. Confidence is sexy and you've gotta be a 10 on that scale! Good luck on the dates. And forget the dinner-and-show routine, as Kneehighs has pointed out - that's boring and predictable. Go shoe shopping with her instead. Hardly any women get to do that on a date, so I can almost guarantee it will be a first time for her (unless you have done it with her before), and it won't be boring or predictable! Let us know how it goes. Steve

[morpho]

im a guy and i responded yes, there are some they like to see us in heels, for many reasons, but most of the time few are inclined to the look and style while other for fetish satisfaction.

[spikesmike]

Hi (heels) everyone. I didn't vote on this issue. I feel this should be a Vote for women only. From the previous Gender Poll, we know there are at least 40 women ( who voted on that one) who could share thair openion with greater depth than a self serving male. Of which I am one. Mike

[happyheelgir]

hi i am new and what brought me here is that my boyfriend and I were talking about halloween costumes and he said he wanted to be a woman. so i gave him some clothes to try on and also we have the same size shoe he put on my heels. when i saw him in my clothes and heels i had a mix emotions. i was turned on but it was new

[morpho]

Hi (heels) everyone. I didn't vote on this issue. I feel this should be a Vote for women only. From the previous Gender Poll, we know there are at least 40 women ( who voted on that one) who could share thair openion with greater depth than a self serving male. Of which I am one. Mike

Hi spikesmike, well sorry to tell you that you may be wrong, actually you are 100% wrong (nothing personal) constructively speaking if you were right then the question would be on girls section, on the other hand is an open question, if you know the answer thru any experience (direct or indirect) then fill in the blanks, i m sure you must have an opinion at least about the topic, we are (at least me) interested on knowing it, i love girls and i wish i can meet one that will like me wearing my heels as well as i do for them.

cheers

[spikesmike]

Morpho. No offence taken. We are here to vent our thoughts in a forum that amends some resolve. I have been married three (3) times and every woman has viewed my high heel interests differently. The question is " Do women like men in heels? " Not do men like men in heels? " Your answering a question for a woman, which is your patronage. How do you know what a woman is thinking? As for the forum in which the question is asked, who cares. Women read, have thoughts and openions, they can speak for themselves. I love women, and would hope they would not be ashamed to be seen in public with me. lets hear what they have to say. Mike

[Histiletto]

hi i am new and what brought me here is that my boyfriend and I were talking about halloween costumes and he said he wanted to be a woman. so i gave him some clothes to try on and also we have the same size shoe he put on my heels. when i saw him in my clothes and heels i had a mix emotions. i was turned on but it was new

I'm happy that you chose to join us, thanks for participating, and I look forward to receiving more of your thoughts on the subjects you care about or just want to discuss, even those regarding men wearing heels.

I am wondering what your initial reaction was when your bf said that he wanted to be a woman for Halloween. Giving him a chance to dress in women's attire, says a lot about your good character. Was this the first time he had voiced or implied such a desire? Do you think this is a kind of a one time thing or are you concerned that wearing women's stuff will become part of his wardrobe? You mentioned having mixed emotions upon seeing him dressed in your clothes. Has this experience changed your regard for him? Has knowing the existence of this forum helped you in understanding a little more about your bf or people in general?

Although these questions came because of your posting, I hope you don't feel that I'm trying to target you. These are questions for everyone who have had similar experiences or who have opinions on this matter.

Have a happy Halloween and let us know how you and your bf got through it. What is your costume for this occasion?

[Bubba136]

Hi I am new and what brought me here is that my boyfriend and I were talking about Halloween costumes and he said he wanted to be a woman. so I gave him some clothes to try on and also we have the same size shoe he put on my heels. when I saw him in my clothes and heels I had mixed emotions. I was turned on but it was new

First of all, welcome to hhplace It's always our pleasure to welcome another female member to our forum. I certainly hope that you come here often and participate in our discussions. A woman's opinion is really appreciated.

As to your situation, I would think the big question is: "does your boyfriend really have strong desires to cross dress and wear high heels? If his desire is really strong and he likes to do this often, you have the advantage of learning his "most closely guarded secret desire" before you two got married, had children and were well into a long life together.

First and foremost, you must sit down with him, preferable when he's wearing your clothes and heels, and talk about his feelings to try to find out if this is just a "once in a while" desire or if it is something that he wants to do regularly. Try to discuss this in an open and honest way because he might tend to be ashamed to admit his true feelings to someone to whom he is strongly and romantically attracted.

You must emphasize to him that his cross dressing is nothing to be ashamed of and that you are only trying to discover how strong his desires are. This is immensely important because if his desires are very strong, he will not ever be able to quit. It doesn't matter how hard he tries. He won't ever be able to quit.

Once you learn his feelings, you must, with all honesty, thoroughly evaluate your own feelings about this practice. the fact that you might be attracted to him when he is dressed as a woman, is perfectly natural and nothing to fear.

If there is any possibility that the two of you might take your relationship beyond the boyfriend, girlfriend stage -- with the possibility of getting married, you've the advantage of learning of his predilection to cross dress, or at least wear high heels, before getting married -- which presents you with the opportunity to evaluate your own feelings about being able to live with a person that likes to wear your clothes and shoes.

If, in all honesty, you totally and completely accept this behavior, then, by all means, tell him that you can accept him and his habits and can live with the idea. And, also let him know how attracted you are to him when he's all dressed up.

However, you must be aware that he will never be able to quit and that if you have even the slightest uncertainty about you being able to accept his cross dressing, then, by all means, it's up to you to make up your mind if you will ever become comfortable with the idea. And, if you can't or won't ever be able to, keep in mind that relationships built on unstable foundations usually end quite abruptly, sometimes leaving families divided and children suffering.

However, in the grander scheme of things, it ain't no biggie. If nothing else it will bring the two of you closer together and will be imaginative, enormously fun and thought provoking

We all wish you well and please let us know how things turn out with him going dressed to a party.

[happyheelgir]

so after reading more on this site. I decide to see how much my b/f is willing to wear high heels. So we rented a room and i packed my 4 inch black round toe pumps for him. (he didnt know that) so we went out for dinner and a movie. so i had on my pumps on and he was wearing regular shoes. in the theater i took off my heels and ask him for his shoes to wear because my feet hurt (they really didnt) so the movie ended and i got up and he ask for his shoes and i said no you have to go bare foot or my heels. so he gave me a look and put on my heels. so we walked out through the busy lobby and to the car. he pulled it off nice and i rewarded him later that night. So i guess i like my man in heels. also if he starts buying heels it will just add to my collection because we have the same size lol

[danielp6406]

Greetings happyheelgir :-)

I really like the way you made your b/f to wear your heels: It is very clever.

Want to bet he will ask you to see another movie soon ?

I also like the fact you are open minded. You b/f is a lucky guy indeed.

Well done

[Van]

Sounds too good to be true. I've been around too long probably but I'm pretty sure she (or most likely "he") is a Troll. Sorry if I'm wrong.

[Bubba136]

Sounds too good to be true. I've been around too long probably but I'm pretty sure she (or most likely "he") is a Troll.

Sorry if I'm wrong.

More than likely....but, what the hell

[FXHH]

Totally agree. I wonder if the Tech can trace the origin of the IP, just for entertainments sake.

Such wise words and very well written.

very easily traced!!

[heelguy]

yea i was abit suspiscious as they posted on my thread too... :/ hmm.. would be fantastic if we knew for sure that "she" is real though!

[jay jay]

so after reading more on this site. I decide to see how much my b/f is willing to wear high heels. So we rented a room and i packed my 4 inch black round toe pumps for him. (he didnt know that) so we went out for dinner and a movie. so i had on my pumps on and he was wearing regular shoes. in the theater i took off my heels and ask him for his shoes to wear because my feet hurt (they really didnt) so the movie ended and i got up and he ask for his shoes and i said no you have to go bare foot or my heels. so he gave me a look and put on my heels. so we walked out through the busy lobby and to the car. he pulled it off nice and i rewarded him later that night. So i guess i like my man in heels. also if he starts buying heels it will just add to my collection because we have the same size lol

I was in a same position one day, we went to a movie and my Fiance was wearing lowheel boots and I was wearing a pair of block heels that she chose for me. During the movie she said that the boots are hurting her and do I mind if we swop, I said no and was very proud of her that she asked me to wear the boots. I wish that she would let me wear more of "our" shoes that is stilletos out in public. I do wear all our shoes at home when ever I want to.

[The Shark]

Reading this thread made me wonder something... For the women who've replied and say that they don't like men in heels - is it more to do with the STYLE of the shoe? What I'm getting at, is that I wonder if people are saying "no" to heels because they're thinking of ultra-feminine shoes, such as peep-toes & strappy sandals, as well as shoes with very high stiletto heels? I can understand women not wanting their men to wear anything too girly. But I'm wondering if some of the "no" opinions would change if the heels in question were actually shoes designed for men that have a chunkier heel - or perhaps mens' boots with a heel? There's probably some basic pumps that can look acceptable enough for men to wear too. Would women be more accepting of men wearing heels if the shoes were more masculine (or unisex)? Or do the women that say "no" because they just don't like men wearing anything with a heel?

[Tex77]

I just voted yes. I've met some women in the fetish scene who actually gave me compliments about my choice of stilleto boots. I think they admired the courage to wear them as well. One girl pointed out that used in the right way a pair of stiletto boots could enhance a guys masculinity. A pretty nice experience.

[UpBy5]

Reading this thread made me wonder something... For the women who've replied and say that they don't like men in heels - is it more to do with the STYLE of the shoe? What I'm getting at, is that I wonder if people are saying "no" to heels because they're thinking of ultra-feminine shoes, such as peep-toes & strappy sandals, as well as shoes with very high stiletto heels?

I can understand women not wanting their men to wear anything too girly. But I'm wondering if some of the "no" opinions would change if the heels in question were actually shoes designed for men that have a chunkier heel - or perhaps mens' boots with a heel? There's probably some basic pumps that can look acceptable enough for men to wear too.

Would women be more accepting of men wearing heels if the shoes were more masculine (or unisex)? Or do the women that say "no" because they just don't like men wearing anything with a heel?

I think age has a lot to do with people's opinion. For those of us who grew up "pre-1960s", gender roles were viewed much more rigidly than from the 70s on. These days, the negative attitudes of younger folks must have been instilled by parents, next generation back family, and members of the parents' social groups (read: church, political affiliations). They surely don't get it from TV & movies!

UpBY5

[danielp6406]

...One girl pointed out that used in the right way a

pair of stiletto boots could enhance a guys masculinity....

Greetings Tex77 :-)

Next time you meet this girl, please ask her in what way a pair

of stiletto boots could be used to enhance a guy's masculinity.

I am very curious to know what it is from a female point of view.

[pussyinboots]

Greetings Tex77 :-)

Next time you meet this girl, please ask her in what way a pair

of stiletto boots could be used to enhance a guy's masculinity.

I am very curious to know what it is from a female point of view.

Courage in wearing them publicly.......and strength of character, in making his own decisons without worrying about other's opinions.

[danielp6406]

Courage in wearing them publicly.......and strength of character,

in making his own decisons without worrying about other's opinions.

Greetings PIB and thank you for your input :-)

I never had the courage to wear my stiletto boots fully exposed in

public yet even if I like them a lot and are very comfortable to walk in.

Maybe I should try and see what happens next ?

I admit it is easier said than done: It won't be an easy task...

(Picture of my stiletto boots below)

[pussyinboots]

Greetings PIB and thank you for your input :-)

I never had the courage to wear my stiletto boots fully exposed in

public yet even if I like them a lot and are very comfortable to walk in.

Maybe I should try and see what happens next ?

I admit it is easier said than done: It won't be an easy task...

(Picture of my stiletto boots below)

Gorgeous boots Daniel!

I totally understand how hard it must be for you guys to 'pluck up' the courage to wear high heels in public - there are too many people about who think that they can voice their opinions out loud these days....resulting in an uncomfortable environment for the male high heel wearer.

Frankly - it's none of anyone else's business if you're a guy and you wear high heels. So what? There's far worse things going on in this World - and it's about time folks woke up to it.

My suggestion would be to ask a close lady friend if she would be prepared to go out with you to begin with - it's far more difficult for others to criticise if there are two of you - especially if you're both high heels!!

[Maximilian]

Courage in wearing them publicly.......and strength of character, in making his own decisons without worrying about other's opinions.

Very true.

It's not what you wear, it's how you wear them.

[danielp6406]

Gorgeous boots Daniel!

....

My suggestion would be to ask a close lady friend if she would be prepared to go out with you to begin with - it's far more difficult for others to criticise if there are two of you - especially if you're both high heels!!

Thanks for the compliment about my boots !

Good idea to ask a close lady friend but not sure it would work.

Reason is quite simple: She don't like high heels and don't wear them at all.

(And she doesn't like the fact I wear heels)

I have other female friends who are wearing heels.

Either they are not "close enough" or they are not single... (Too bad ...)

So I cannot ask them to go out with me wearing heels...

[Foxyheels]

If I am honest then I think in general I don't think women do like it but a lot of that is down to social conditioning rather than having an infomed opinion on it. I belive a lot of women would not like it because that's what society expects them to say. Fortunately their are women who have an open mind and a lot of them are on this forum and I love the comments they make. Personally the only womans opinion that matters if that of my wife. She does not mind at all, I wouldn't say she likes it but she knows it means a lot to me so she is completely ok with me wearing them. She is turned on by the fact I am quite manly so, in respect of that I will wear a nice halter neck dress to expose my muscular shoulders which she adores (bedroom only not public). We both bought a lovely figure hugging dress a few weeks ago and she looks fantastic in hers and I think it's not bad on me either.(taking into account I could never pass as a woman). Going back to the original question I think younger girls are much more tolerent as they often strike up a conversation when I buy womens clothes or shoes on my own, so hope for the future?

[wood&metal]

Some do, some don't... I've met, dated, and related with both.. And speaking for myself, I really don't give a damn if they like me in my heels, or not...

[morpho]

so after reading more on this site. I decide to see how much my b/f is willing to wear high heels. So we rented a room and i packed my 4 inch black round toe pumps for him. (he didnt know that) so we went out for dinner and a movie. so i had on my pumps on and he was wearing regular shoes. in the theater i took off my heels and ask him for his shoes to wear because my feet hurt (they really didnt) so the movie ended and i got up and he ask for his shoes and i said no you have to go bare foot or my heels. so he gave me a look and put on my heels. so we walked out through the busy lobby and to the car. he pulled it off nice and i rewarded him later that night. So i guess i like my man in heels. also if he starts buying heels it will just add to my collection because we have the same size lol

Hi Happyheelgirl,

Lucky guy you giot there, if one day he gets bored of the heeling with you, give me a call, im next inline.

About the topic i think, that most women fears also the society reaction rather the actual look or the fact that a shoe has a heel and a sexy look.

I wonder how it would be when/if the fashion will start to show stileto pointy high heels, for men in recognized brands exclusively for men to start considering the new look and the new style, no matter is a man or lady shoeware, imagine that ermenegild zegna, hugo boss, etc or even tods, armani, etc starts to design 4inch thin high heel for men, all of a sudden and grow the variety little by little but easy available, marketing in all magazines and shopping malls, im sure it will be such a shock and big rections towards the brand but at the same time men will start trying them and particularly girls will ecourage their b/f husbands to try the look, meanwhile conservative men will condemn and be away from it as well, so in my hypothesis i think women would be the first ones to encourage the new trend more and more if it is open and available in any mall of the planet.

My wife once asked me to wear her shoes to see the pain as i always say "it looks fantastic you should be always on heels", problem is that my feet is twice the size of hers, but if it was the same size, i have no idea what or how she will feel if i said yes. maybe good maybe bad, no one know what are they thinking really.

[Bubba136]

My wife once asked me to wear her shoes to see the pain as i always say "it looks fantastic you should be always on heels", problem is that my feet is twice the size of hers, but if it was the same size, i have no idea what or how she will feel if i said yes. maybe good maybe bad, no one know what are they thinking really.

The next time she make this comment, be prepared with an answer that indicates your willingness to "try" to wear heels. Something like, OK, I'll d that except we have to buy a pair that I can wear since your shoes are too small.

Then set a time and date to go shopping and purchase a pair in your size.