The Adventures of kneehighs...

[JeffB]

Sexy Jimmy Choo pumps on my lap at an Interview mag party last night....swooon

Absolutely outstanding!

[Mr. X]

Downright gorgeous pumps if you ask me KH.

I agree. You are one lucky guy KH!

[radiodave]

Sexy Jimmy Choo pumps on my lap at an Interview mag party last night....swooon

Very nice! Lucky you to have those on your lap! Drool....

[Steve63130]

Very nice, KH. I like the reflection of the flash forming a halo. Nice effect! What were YOU wearing? Steve

[kneehighs]

Very nice, KH. I like the reflection of the flash forming a halo. Nice effect!

What were YOU wearing?

Steve

Converse!

[JeffB]

Converse!

Your taste in footwear is absolutely impeccable, my friend!

[Gudulitooo]

Hi Kneehighs,

A few questions below :

I finally pulled together the courage to do pumps with shorts.

What triggered you to this adventure ?

It seems like for every evening, you choose your style the way a chess player choose its moves.

In the first case when the guy told me to leave, (...)

In the second case, (...) The guy tried to start a fight by telling me, "you are wearing heels".

And in the third case, I just told the guy "it's no big deal" and eventually moved to another spot in the club with my date.

In all this three cases, you were directly attacked by a guy who tried to take profit of your wearing heels as if it was a "weakness", a "breach" in which he could place its attack. In my own very small experience, the girl I was with triggered a lot more fights than me, mainly by overreacting to other guys or girls dancing to closely.

Sexy Jimmy Choo pumps on my lap at an Interview mag party last night....swooon

Wow

[kneehighs]

Hi Kneehighs,

A few questions below :

What triggered you to this adventure ?

It seems like for every evening, you choose your style the way a chess player choose its moves.

Stretching and testing my boundaries of comfort. Seeing how it feels to feel sexy, soft and bare skinned, and stiletto clad in public while simlutaneously being with a sexy girl.

In all this three cases, you were directly attacked by a guy who tried to take profit of your wearing heels as if it was a "weakness", a "breach" in which he could place its attack. In my own very small experience, the girl I was with triggered a lot more fights than me, mainly by overreacting to other guys or girls dancing to closely.

Interesting. Do you attract angry women? If I was on a date and a girl lost her temper, I'd offer to relocate with the girl to another location to maximize privacy and safety. If she refused to calm down, I'd leave, which I've actually done.

[Bubba136]

Sexy Jimmy Choo pumps on my lap at an Interview mag party last night....swooon

Was she interviewing you or wewe you interviewingou?

Sexy Jimmy Choo pumps on my lap at an Interview mag party last night....swooon

Was she interviewing you or were you interviewing her?

(based upon your past posts, you would, by far, be the more interesting interview . )

[kneehighs]

Was she interviewing you or were you interviewing her?

(based upon your past posts, you would, by far, be the more interesting interview . )

Thanks for the compliment, but it was actually at the magazine called Interview that was started by Andy Warhol. I hear your sentiment though!

Photos from a recent night. Fun times.

That's from NYC.

But the best is yet to come. STOCKHOLM. Swedish girls! 9 nights of unbridled fun about to come. Can. Not. Wait.

[kneehighs]

Took a girl out on a date a couple of weeks ago when I was in London. That night I wore my 9West heeled oxfords and not a peep was said by either one of us about my heels which were fully exposed. (see girl in pic) Next week I head out to Moscow, should make for some regulated fun.

[kneehighs]

So by now if you've been around the forum for awhile, you'd realize I've pretty much been living my ultimate bachelor lifestyle, something which of late has grown empty for me. I mean, let's be honest, heeling in London and picking up a girl is principally the same as heeling in Berlin or Buenos Aires or Prague or Barcelona. In hindsight and in the end, it winds up being empty, devoid of any true lasting meaning because on a fundamental level, nothing really changes. It's not like I grow in character as a result of meeting a new girl or wearing heels even for that matter. That doesn't mean there's still not a smidgen of pleasure in heeling or socializing, but the extent of it's dominance in my life is no longer as powerful. So on Thursday night I met up with a blonde from Finland. Hair flowing down to the back of her spine, long skinny black jeans with Stella McCartney booties. And she was a total heel addict. The most interesting aspect of the night was when she told me that she had long imagined having a boyfriend who wore heels. Previous to meeting me and being delighted at seeing me with my Zara leather like jeans tucked 4" Nine West chunk heeled boots, she had envisioned being with a guy who liked to wear high heels. She even had a photo in her camera of guy in heels! Fellas, they do exist!

[Shafted]

Wow! Is someone actually thinking about settling down? Well I guess you have a lot to pick from KH.

[kneehighs]

Wow! Is someone actually thinking about settling down? Well I guess you have a lot to pick from KH.

Seems that way, in the workings of my inner world which in time, will come into congruence with my outer world. And yes fortunately, I'll probably have a pretty wide range of choice from which to select. Especially now that I've learned that heels are usually a non-deal breaker--in addition I've learned how to "create chemistry" with the opposite sex.

[Steve63130]

Way to go, Kneehighs! But please continue to post here from time to time; don't give up this forum. While you may not get a lot out of it yourself, you're a tremendous inspiration to a lot of others, myself included. You've really paved the way for many of us. Steve

[kneehighs]

You guys would've loved what happened earlier today. I was wearing my women's leather like Zara super skinny pants tucked into women's knee high riding boots. Then I saw a friend of mine who is a Vcitoria's Sceret model sitting in a cafe with her friend. Naturally, I went over to spark some chemistry and flirting and after her feeling my boots and totally complimenting them, we compared our boots in photos. For we were both wearing similar knee high flats/boots. Was innocent FUN actually. Debating putting them up.

[Jimnj3]

Would love to see the photos!!

[kneehighs]

Freestyling 301

So I've been doing some additional networking in my line of work lately which involves extensive interaction with many women. Many women with boyfriends, who I'd guess 80% of the time get jealous of me. In a few cases, it causes the girl to defer to her boyfriend and thus jeopordize a potential mutually beneficial professional relationship.

The band-aid solution? I thought that maybe I should start wearing pumps or obvious heels during work appointments, in which eventual cash flow is at stake. I work in fashion, so it wouldn't likely negatively affect the evaluation of my professional competency. Further, the pumps/heels would disarm not only the boyfriend, but also the girl. The chances she would perceive me as a possible sexual threat would decrease.

It's almost a contradiction, for I'd be exploiting a stereotype that I've spent years demolishing. So on the INSIDE, I'd still feel that heels secretly make me more attractive by increasing my height, improving my posture, improving my artistic walk, and curving my buttocks; but, on the OUTSIDE I'd be exploiting a stereotype that men who wear heels are gay or sexually non-threatening.

I may try it out tomorrow at a business meeting.

[canadianbeaver17]

Amazing! Can't wait to hear all about it!

[kneehighs]

Here's the shot of my boots alongside the Victoria's Secret runway model mentioned above. She was totally digging them, as my experience has been with 100% of females. It seems the better the looking the girl, the more excited they get about my pants tucked into knee or over the knee boots too. ala 9's and 10's level....

[bluejay]

Right on kneehighs. I have had that same type of experience, myself. Happy Heeling, bluejay

[kneehighs]

Right on kneehighs.

I have had that same type of experience, myself.

Happy Heeling,

bluejay

With a Victoria's Scret model? Just kidding.

I know the message we're both trying to communicate to readers here.

Assimilation with females in REALITY is generally more available than a lot of people here give credit for. Assume it will happen, and generally it does. At least that's what works for me.

I wore a white blazer, grey t-shirt, and black leather pants tucked into 4" chunky heeled boots yesterday. It was a non-issue, even though the girl noticed. In Scandinavia, I had a beautiful model (see attachment) in front of her friends publicly gush with praise for my waxed denim (leather like in appearance) tucked into over the knee boots. She was willing to stake her reputation and social status among her friends to state her approval, for she stated her approval publicly in front of everyone. For women, this is significant, because stereotypically they value social standing so much.

[bluejay]

With a Victoria's Scret model? Just kidding.

I know the message we're both trying to communicate to readers here.

Assimilation with females in REALITY is generally more available than a lot of people here give credit for. Assume it will happen, and generally it does. At least that's what works for me.

I wore a white blazer, grey t-shirt, and black leather pants tucked into 4" chunky heeled boots yesterday. It was a non-issue, even though the girl noticed. In Scandinavia, I had a beautiful model (see attachment) in front of her friends publicly gush with praise for my waxed denim (leather like in appearance) tucked into over the knee boots. She was willing to stake her reputation and social status among her friends to state her approval, for she stated her approval publicly in front of everyone. For women, this is significant, because stereotypically they value social standing so much.

No kneehiighs, It was not a Victoria's Secret model, but a very attractive woman that works at a retail establishment, I shop at. She has said that men in heels "rock", in her opinion.

I also have gotten the same from woman bank teller, that likes to see me in heels too.

It's very flattering to a man to get that kind of attention from women, while wearing heels. Even my wife has commented on, that same thing to me, about the attention I get from other women while wearing heels.

Happy Heeling,

bluejay

[HappyinHeels]

Kneehighs,

As one who likes to travel (armed with a high school diploma, a sense of humor, and five languages) and who loves heels I love the fact you are doing both while wooing the women with your fabulous footwear. I do also travel internationally, both for work and pleasure, but have not had the pleasure of wearing heels in as many countries as you. Like others have said, you may not get as much from the forum as you once did, but always consider the value of your contributions. Someone, though timid today, may be strolling the streets of Paris or Buenos Aires or Montreal a few years from now because of your postings and THAT IS A VERY GOOD THING. HappyinHeels

[kneehighs]

Check for a positive reception from girls in Moscow and Mexico City. While external cultures of the world may change, people on the inside generally don't. Which means I fully expect to attract into my life people who are supportive to the reality of me in heels and I'm simultaneously prepared for some people to outright reject me in heels. Whatever the result may be doesn't really matter to me as I'm happy either way. So I'm prepared for the worst, expect the best, and am detached from the outcome. A philosophy which seems to work! (at least for me)

[Shafted]

That philosophy works me too. It's amazing how if others like you in heels, others even that normally wouldn't have have taken to a guy in heels go along for the ride.

[Steve63130]

While that may work most of the time, don't fail to be cognizant of that small fraction of a percent of people who are homophobic, usually grouped in packs and under the influence of alcohol, who are seeking recreation in the form of beating somebody up. You can't run fast in heels, so be aware of your surroundings and don't get yourselves into a situation you could regret. There are people in this world who may not be tolerant of your footwear choices, and aren't willing or in a mental state to listen to reason. Steve

[kneehighs]

That philosophy works me too. It's amazing how if others like you in heels, others even that normally wouldn't have have taken to a guy in heels go along for the ride.

Cool!

While that may work most of the time, don't fail to be cognizant of that small fraction of a percent of people who are homophobic, usually grouped in packs and under the influence of alcohol, who are seeking recreation in the form of beating somebody up. You can't run fast in heels, so be aware of your surroundings and don't get yourselves into a situation you could regret. There are people in this world who may not be tolerant of your footwear choices, and aren't willing or in a mental state to listen to reason.

Steve

Your Eagle Scout advice implicitly reinforces the point about being "prepared for the worst." A point which has been hammered home for years here, most notably by Thighbootguy. This includes carefully selecting the neighborhoods for heeling as well as carefully selecting the venues.

It's not like anyone here is going to rush to heel in the Favela's of Rio, or Villa 31 in Retiro Buenos Aires, or the Polo Grounds in Manhattan.

It takes about 15 minutes of careful research to discover the upscale creative/artistic/fashion communities anywhere in the world via Google. If that neighborhood is "well heeled" it's even safer. The same deductive process applies to venue selection as well.

[ilikekicks]

While that may work most of the time, don't fail to be cognizant of that small fraction of a percent of people who are homophobic, usually grouped in packs and under the influence of alcohol, who are seeking recreation in the form of beating somebody up. You can't run fast in heels, so be aware of your surroundings and don't get yourselves into a situation you could regret. There are people in this world who may not be tolerant of your footwear choices, and aren't willing or in a mental state to listen to reason.

Steve

I wouldnt call them ' homophobic ', just ass-hats in general. There are some ' bears ' and ' leathermen ' out there whom can fall into the group that would go for the activities you have described.

I have no fears, My friend ' Sam ' has 7+1 reasons why I dont worry. . Theres no need for ' activities ' as described.

Kneehighs :

So I'm prepared for the worst, expect the best, and am detached from the outcome. A philosophy which seems to work! (at least for me)

Best stance to have in life IMHO.

-Ilk

[Steve63130]

Kneehighs, All I'm saying is to be careful. We don't want to lose you!! Steve