Fog Posted January 25, 2007 Share Posted January 25, 2007 I have once or twice worn 2" block heels very discretely - and also shown a male colleague a pair of stiletto boots. My job is far too busy and stressed for the distraction of wearing heels. That and the fact that I'm dealing with the fairly sensitive subject of monitoring key performance indicators. Sorry to disappoint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted January 26, 2007 Author Share Posted January 26, 2007 In response to THIS picture of me, THIS bootiful blonde from London stated, "Hey! Thats a rather unusual photo you have there. Was intrigued!" While not an absolute grand slam good response, it certainly qualifies as a faborable one Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 In response to THIS picture of me, THIS bootiful blonde from London stated, "Hey! Thats a rather unusual photo you have there. Was intrigued!" While not an absolute grand slam good response, it certainly qualifies as a faborable one Well, judging from that lady's picture, I'd damn sure say it's favorable! Heh! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JNR Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 In response to THIS picture of me, THIS bootiful blonde from London stated, "Hey! Thats a rather unusual photo you have there. Was intrigued!" While not an absolute grand slam good response, it certainly qualifies as a faborable one Now, she's in London, you say? Well, if that's really her picture, and she's as nice as she looks, I'd say she's worth a "look up" while you're there for the Heelmeet in March. An invitation for a drink at a local pub would let you know how interested she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inscapable Posted January 26, 2007 Share Posted January 26, 2007 In response to THIS picture of me, THIS bootiful blonde from London stated, "Hey! Thats a rather unusual photo you have there. Was intrigued!" While not an absolute grand slam good response, it certainly qualifies as a faborable one Yeah, I'd be intrigued, too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted January 27, 2007 Author Share Posted January 27, 2007 Now, she's in London, you say? Well, if that's really her picture, and she's as nice as she looks, I'd say she's worth a "look up" while you're there for the Heelmeet in March. An invitation for a drink at a local pub would let you know how interested she is. Thats really her. But I happened to meet another girl from England before her that I will most likely be meeting up with instead. More on that later. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bernheels Posted January 28, 2007 Share Posted January 28, 2007 I love the boots! I went to a payless the other day wearing some new 4" stacked heel boots that I had bought there before. I walked right in and picked out some new boots and mules to try on. I had some balck thigh highs on under my jeans. I took the new boots over to where I could sit , slipped off my boots and tried them on. One sales gal walked by - looked and smiled. She never said a word. So I tried them both on - walked a little - put my other boots back on and bought the other 2 pair. She rang up the sale and said that I had good taste in shoes. Wow that was great. Bernheels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris100575 Posted January 29, 2007 Share Posted January 29, 2007 I've posted about this at length elsewhere, so I'll be brief, but I think it's relevent here: I was out in Manchester with some friends, and there were two girls standing at the bar, one of which was wearing a very attractive pair of black patent platform Mary Janes with very high chunky heels. She caught me looking at her shoes, and said "You like my shoes, don't you?". I was honest and told her that they looked great on her, and that I'd noticed them because I wear heels myself. Both her and her friend thought it was really cool, and she asked what size I wore. It turned out we were both an eight, and she immediately asked if I wanted to try on her shoes and I spent a very happy few minutes wearing them. She complimented me on my ability to walk, my shaved legs and having nice feet! Unfortunately she had a boyfriend, but she did invite me to join them at the club they were going on to, and offered to let me wear her shoes there. Sadly I had to decline as I didn't want to run out on the friends I'd come out with. In addition to the two girls, when I got outside one of the girls with us, who I don't really know, said that I looked great in the heels and that she loved that a masculine guy could wear heels. Chris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magickman Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 This last weekend at the singles dance, I danced with 5 or 6 different women, while wearing my black leather ankle boots with 5" heels. While out on the dance floor with one woman, another looked over at me and said loudly, "I love your boots!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted February 11, 2007 Author Share Posted February 11, 2007 ^ Thanks for the story Magickman. Confidence is Cool and Sexy This girl from Hot Or Not in response to this picture of me on Hot Or Not concluded "youre cool i love that you dont give a crap what people think and u do youre own thing very admirable!" Her initial response went as follows," Well I have no prob with it....its highly unusual however..especially since you have no designs to be a woman. What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" Well, for me, curiosity about how my mom could walk in high heels got me started back when I was around 14 and the only way I could answer that question was to wear her shoes. Right then and there, I caught the bug and the rest was history. Attention? God no! I don't worry about that sort of thing. While the sight of a man wearing high heels can indeed be attention grabbing, especially for a guy as tall as I am (6-2), all I want is to blend in with my surroundings as best I can and go about my business. The sexual angle? In the very beginning perhaps, admittedly, it was rather stimulating, arousing even, but not anymore. Nowadays, heels are just another part of my wardrobe, nothing more. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumps Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 ^ Thanks for the story Magickman. Confidence is Cool and Sexy This girl from Hot Or Not in response to this picture of me on Hot Or Not concluded "youre cool i love that you dont give a crap what people think and u do youre own thing very admirable!" Her initial response went as follows," Well I have no prob with it....its highly unusual however..especially since you have no designs to be a woman. What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" I'd like to try hotornot.com too, but it keeps asking for my login, not matter what I do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DandyDude Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 ^ Thanks for the story Magickman. Confidence is Cool and Sexy This girl from Hot Or Not in response to this picture of me on Hot Or Not concluded "youre cool i love that you dont give a crap what people think and u do youre own thing very admirable!" Her initial response went as follows," Well I have no prob with it....its highly unusual however..especially since you have no designs to be a woman. What got u started on it? Are you just looking for attention? IS it sexual?" Kneehighs, forgive me if I've missed something, but do you have a link to your hotornot page? I'd like to see comments in the original setting. I'm sure others would as well. Thanks. "To kiss, pretty Saki, thy shoes' pretty tips, is better than kissing another girl's lips." -Omar Khayyam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted February 11, 2007 Author Share Posted February 11, 2007 ^ You didn't miss anything. Here is a link to my Hot or Not page: http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EZNZBQR&key=DHN No one can leave comments on anyone's page at Hot Or Not though. The comments made to me were done through Hot or Not's internal Private Message system, based on the system's Double Match program. A Double Match is made only if two people both click the YES button to meet each other. If I had the software to create screen shots, I would, to lend credibility to my words. I'd have to bore you guys with other snippets of our conversation to include the entire text for context. Pumps Once you register for an account just like you did here, then you can upload pics straight from your computer. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DandyDude Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 Copied from a reply to Kneehighs on another thread: Several years ago, a Boricua wearing those J.Lo Timberland imitations chatted me up when I was in a well known bar/club in NYC which specialises in Caribbean music. I was wearing black ankle boots very much like them, they came from a site I've mentioned on these boards before. She asked me about my boots and we got into a discussion about men's clothing styles. I gathered she doesn't like the "thugz" thang. I told her that as long as women fall all over "thugz" and the media such as eMpTyV promote it, that men/boys will continue to wear it. I saw her in the club a few times after that. She looked a fair amount as LaLopez did in her more Boricua days, the bountiful behind and all. No fear of "R'n'B types" here, but caution of anyone with a shaven head and FUBU. "Thugz" are "Thugz," period. ------ Wanted to add that she was very pretty. She was dressed in a full skirt with the boots and had a tam on her head. She also had the obviously blondined hair and wore blue eyeshadow so beloved of Boricuas. She did have a bountiful behind, and I miss LaLopez' behind. Where did it go? "To kiss, pretty Saki, thy shoes' pretty tips, is better than kissing another girl's lips." -Omar Khayyam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DandyDude Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 ^ You didn't miss anything. Here is a link to my Hot or Not page: http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EZNZBQR&key=DHN No one can leave comments on anyone's page at Hot Or Not though. The comments made to me were done through Hot or Not's internal Private Message system, based on the system's Double Match program. A Double Match is made only if two people both click the YES button to meet each other. If I had the software to create screen shots, I would, to lend credibility to my words. I'd have to bore you guys with other snippets of our conversation to include the entire text for context. Pumps Once you register for an account just like you did here, then you can upload pics straight from your computer. Is it noticeable that you are wearing heels? I can't see it. "To kiss, pretty Saki, thy shoes' pretty tips, is better than kissing another girl's lips." -Omar Khayyam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted February 11, 2007 Author Share Posted February 11, 2007 Is it noticeable??? It's very noticeable! Just scroll down. Thanks for adding the story about the girl wearing the J Lo Timberland imitations... Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumps Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 Pumps Once you register for an account just like you did here, then you can upload pics straight from your computer. No I can't. I used to be able to, but now it keeps sending me to the loginpage no matter what I press.It tells me I'm logged in. I can rate people and meet people, but not manage my own account. They mention this in the FAQ, saying it's because my cookie is corrupted, but I tried deleting all cookies with the same result. I also tried a computer with IE 6, instead of IE 7, but that's the same problem. I tried to create a new account, but that didn't help either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted February 11, 2007 Author Share Posted February 11, 2007 No I can't. I used to be able to, but now it keeps sending me to the loginpage no matter what I press.It tells me I'm logged in. I can rate people and meet people, but not manage my own account. They mention this in the FAQ, saying it's because my cookie is corrupted, but I tried deleting all cookies with the same result. I also tried a computer with IE 6, instead of IE 7, but that's the same problem. I tried to create a new account, but that didn't help either. I understand what you are talking about now! I'm having the same exact problem, even as I eagerly await to hear back from a brand new Double Match who lives in nyc. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumps Posted February 11, 2007 Share Posted February 11, 2007 I understand what you are talking about now! I'm having the same exact problem, even as I eagerly await to hear back from a brand new Double Match who lives in nyc. I noticed that some of the adresses start with wwww instead of www. Maybe that's what messes up the cookie. I tríed to change these link, but that doesn't help. BTW. Windows comes with screen capture features. Just ctrl+prt scn (above "insert") and then paste in Paint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gary0618 Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 KneeHighs..... 6.6 vs 6.9 as of today LOL kneehighs: http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EZNZBQR&key=DHN Gary0618: http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=RMELGZE&key=KHG FLAT SHOES, LIKE FLAT DRINKS, ARE FOR FLAT PEOPLE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pumps Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I understand what you are talking about now! I'm having the same exact problem, even as I eagerly await to hear back from a brand new Double Match who lives in nyc. Apparently they had some problems with the site. I got on it. 8.3 is pretty good for a guy in heels. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rxrenesis Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 I had a great heeling experience. I had a cell call and wasn't paying much attention to anyone around me in a electronics department store. When a saleswoman just walked up to me and said I like your shoes. I finished my call and attempted to engage her in conversation but she had picked up a customer. Here's a cell phone picture of the boots http://s10.photobucket.com/albums/a145/rxrenesis/Shoe%20Shots/?action=view¤t=img034.jpg rx If the shoe fits BUY IT http://s10.photobucket.com/albums/a145/rxrenesis/Shoe%20Shots/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elegant Posted February 14, 2007 Share Posted February 14, 2007 They look pretty, and are quite masculine too. Kudos! What is good for a goose, can be good for any gender! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kneehighs Posted February 18, 2007 Author Share Posted February 18, 2007 A good word from an attractive member at The Fashion Spot in response to the picture Heel-D shared with us in this post. http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/2840940-post15383.html I almost forgot to mention I LOVE the photo of Heel D WITH Kneehighs in NYC! Btw, Knee... where the f*uck are you hiding? Missing you here! (Love those boots you are wearing on that pic i have just mentioned!) Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
corsair Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 I hope this doesn't get posted twice. The browser was being screwy. Most of my boots are riding-style boots with heels that typically are ¾” to 1.25”. For the most part, no one bats an eye. I wear them to church, work etc, and I do work in a pretty conservative environment, ditto for church. For the most part, the only comments that I have had have been positive. I walked in behind a co-worker and she looked around at me. Later when I went to talk to her about something, she looked very directly at my feet and asked if I was wearing boots. When I said yes, she said that she thought another female was behind her (the sound of the heels) and was surprised it was me. She and another co-worker then commented on how nice my boots were, especially compared to the styless clunkers worn by most of the men. So if anyone thinks they are women’s boots, they give no indication. In fact, I had a guy at church admire a pair of my boots, and went on to confess that he “had a thing for shoes” and had about 50 pairs of dress shoes (mens shoes). Again, no indication that he thought mine were anything but guys shoes. As for the sound of the heels, I have had other guys at work jokingly gripe at me about injuring their necks looking to see who is walking along (presumably a female) only to see me. I just point out that one of the other guys wears loafers with loud heels that sound the same. Of late I have been wearing several different pairs from Nordstroms. One pair are “plain” riding boots with a little buckle well up on the calf where it is never seen. Similar to this but without such a big buckle and strap: http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2901587/0~2376778~2372808~6007659~6007676?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6007676&P=3 I actually liked them so much that after buying a dark brown pair, I went back and bought a pair in black. The other two pairs are lace-up style, in that they are really zipper boots with the laces doing little more than adjusting the snugness of the boots. I can’t find the exact boots on their website, but here is a link to a style that is similar. http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2907633/0~2376778~2372808~6007659~6007676?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6007676&P=2 Picture these boots as knee-high and with a ¾” riding boot heel. I have them in black, and IMHO, they look great. I also have a similar pair in brown with the laces running up the back. Again, I think they look great under my dress pants. My 3 pairs of Nordstrom boots are all very nice leather and just smell of quality. The highest heels that I go out in are a pair of black Naturalizer boots with about a 1.5” heels. They look a lot like these, except that they have smooth shafts with none of the buckles or ornamentation. http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/19739358/c/103.html The Nordstrom boots are made of a nice leather that is very soft and smooth to the touch. They are very warm and comfortable to wear, but with the heel getting that high, I don’t wear them to work or church. I wore them to a recent concert and then to the circus this week, both times under jeans. A tthe circus, I was a bit surprised to find a coworker sitting right behind me. If he or his wife noticed the boots, they gave no indication. Bottom line: I don't get too radical and no one says a word. I may not get to wear as high a heel as I would like, but on the other hand I get to wear my boots every day and just about every where. Corsair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeelD Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 Well, I've had my first positive comments in public regarding my heels. I was in the Union Square branch of DSW in Manhattan about 2 Fridays ago (whilst on my vacation) trying on some lovely Nine West Black Pumps when a cute girl walked past me. As she walked past she giggled and said "Those are nice shoes!" I said, "Thank you." She and I smiled and she walked off. Told my girlfriend who was in another aisle found it very amusing. Funny this was the exact same store that Shafted got his comments when trying on his boots. No problems trying on shoes in this store. I bought the pumps. Heel-D - Freestyling since 2005 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewfieGuyInHeels Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 That's awesome. I really need to do some more heeling to see if I can get some positive comments form ppl other than friends. I plan on going to the mall tomorrow in either: My knee boots: OR my wedge mary janes: With blue bootcut jeans and a casual shirt. I haven't decided which but I welcome anyone's thoughts. I haven't worn either in my home town yet, so it'll be a new experiance either way. http://s77.photobucket.com/albums/j78/darthraze/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeelD Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 I'm guessing as you're in Canada it'll be cold right now, so I'd side with the boots. Both look fine to me though. Heel-D - Freestyling since 2005 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadianbeaver17 Posted February 19, 2007 Share Posted February 19, 2007 I got a good response on Friday - NO response at all! I went out to dinner at a chain resturant with my gf, our friend and her bf. I had on the boots in my avatar under my jeans with like at least 1" heel showing while standing. They got their first and made no comment. We left together to go to a coffee shop and no comment. Walked back to the car together and no comment. It was really the best thing in the world. I previous wore black ballet flats around them and a girls tight zipup sweater and it didn't ruffle any feathers. I guess you can say that if you don't make it a big deal, they won't make it a big deal. This night really gave me more confidence and reassurance to keep on wearing what you like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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