Amanda Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 How would I know? I wouldn't consider myself to bebigoted, intolerant, or prejudiced. However, your opinion of narrow mindedness is after all only relative.
Shafted Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I know where this is going. We don't need a flame war here. I know the discussion is on topic, but please keep it civil. Shafted, the boots that is! View my gallery here http://www.hhplace.o...afteds-gallery/ or view my heeling thread here http://www.hhplace.org/topic/3850-new-pair-of-boots-starts-me-serious-street-heeling/ - Pm me if you want fashion advice or just need someone to talk to.
HHeeler Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 (edited) No chance of a flame war. Done here. My opinion is clearly stated above, and I've grown bored with the direction of the conversation. Edited June 20, 2012 by HHeeler
Steve63130 Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 Shafted, you're a firefighter extraordinaire! Nicely done. Steve
radiodave Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I think what HHeeler is trying to say is that women who see it as a turn off, a little weird, or just not into it is OK, but if they go beyond that and label the guy as "gay" despite evidence to the contrary, then that's going a little too far. Is that right? I think I can relate, I dated a girl like that.
ilikekicks Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 I think what HHeeler is trying to say is that women who see it as a turn off, a little weird, or just not into it is OK, but if they go beyond that and label the guy as "gay" despite evidence to the contrary, then that's going a little too far. Quite so and much to the point on that one. I think many of us have been called Gay, Homosexual, queer, fags.. doesnt mean anything to me. I figure Ive probably been called much worse by better people at some point in time. The woman whom I have found to be the most provocative in their comments were ( trying to be nice here ) the types with what we in my area call ' Kankles '. The type with enough ' extra ' on their legs that it appears their knees hang to their ankles ( thus ' kankles ' ). Other types are the ones whom feel that they are entitled to an exclusive entity of footware and feel taken-back that a man would dare wear something that ' belongs to them '. Umm.. I bought what Im wearing. Its mine. There are some of the mentality of ' insecurity within '. They might see someone walking in some godforsaken heel height and cannot do the same themselves or they feel intimidated in some way/shape/form for no reason at all. Another type would be what I call ' the worst kinds of people '. They think something is ' funny ' for whatever reason and they take it upon themselves to belittle others at every chance that becomes available to them. The overall MAJORITY from my experiences couldnt care what I wear or where I wear it so long as my underware isnt hanging out and I look presentable. At most, they are pleasant and usually offer nice comments ' Where did you get those shoes? '. At worst ' You should try something like this instead, it might suit you better '. Easy going both ways, pleasant . The original topic of this thread was ' do women like men in heels '. There arent that many women answering the question ( there are more men here then women ) so the topic has been kind-of diluted. REPEATEDLY ARGUMENTATIVE, INSULTING AND RUDE. BANNED FOR LIFE.
Chorlini Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Surely It's only the womans problem if she finds that she has become hooked up with a guy who insists on wearing heels? I'll say this though, considering the number of 'players' out there who know how to 'pump and dump' women, I'd say hooking up with a guy who suddenly professes a like to wear heels is probably the least of your worries.
FreshinHeels Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 So this poll better be asked in the woman forum. And here we need a poll "Do man like woman in heels" and that only needs one answer YES! In the process of becoming the person I always was...but didn't dare to let her come out
Amanda Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Thank you Mr Uggs, You're right of course. It would make very little difference to me if my man was teetering around on my arm wearing stilettos in public. Just so long as I hadn't been "pumped and dumped". I'll say this though, considering the number of 'players' out there who know how to 'pump and dump' women, I'd say hooking up with a guy who suddenly professes a like to wear heels is probably the least of your worries.
Rick24 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 I have less a care what females think. I will never marry so I won't be there lap dog so in the end man should wear what he wants. my grandad says I am dong the right thing not marrying he is 88 years of age.
HappyinHeels Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Rick24, Your age isn't posted anymore but I think I remember you're are quite young. The word "never" is way overused by so many nowadays especially considering shortened attention spans. While you may never actually marry in the legal sense I think it extremely unlikely that you'll never have a lasting relationship that may even produce children. Look around you, each year more people are living together with the trappings of marriage but without actually being married. I think its preferable to be legally married and, in some cases such as taking a foreign spouse, one must be legally married to derive any immigration benefit, i also recognize there are many committed souls in very longlasting relationships who never got married. The point is you simply cannot predict that you'll somehow avoid committing to someone at some point in your life. This doesn't mean that you have to embrace a ball and chain just because you marry or live with someone you really love. I would, from the getgo, let whomever it may be know that high heels are a part of your person. HappyinHeels
Mike Hinch Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 Took a look at this opinion poll and can not really commit to any of the limited choices. As for do women like men in high heels. We have about four ways to categorize part of it. Some women may like the appearance of a nice slim fashion dude but not the overweight slob. So the four ways that it could go are some women do like it except when they don't and other women do not like it except when they do. That really depends on a lot of variables. Many times I get complements on my choice of heels and also how I can walk so naturally and smoothly. So some women do and they told me so.
Mike Hinch Posted August 14, 2012 Posted August 14, 2012 Just the other day someone did ask this question and the subject got turned off for duplication and this one is still here so it looks like this is the place to deal with that question. Had to turn this one up from manual search as once again the search function could not find it. Anyway most of the women like it.
ralfyguy Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 (edited) My Wife got divorced from Her previous husband for the fact that he wanted to wear heels just at home for play. She has no tolerance for that whatsoever. Although i am curious as to how heels and hose feel when worn. I once tried to feel out and said to Her that i envy Her for the feel of nylons and heels and that i was really curious about it. She didn't respond too well, not mad, but distant and i was allowed to pull a nylon stocking up my arm. But that was as far as it's gonna go. I will admit that my interest in that is mostly erotic/sexual/fetish, and if She would ask me to wear nice stocking and heels and such with Her together at home a lot, i would not hesitate a second to join. But this is completely out of the question in my case. But She DOES wear stuff like that often and She knows that it excites me incredibly. She does make me very happy though and She does things for me that blow my mind and goes way beyond "vanilla". She is a Dominant kind, if you know what i mean and is good at it too. But me in female attire is not Her thing at all. Concerning the nylons aspect, we DID go and look for clothing that i can wear that does not look necessarily feminine, but has similar feel as stocking when i confessed that i really like that material. As for footwear coming close to heels, that is not possible for me. She likes to wear heels, She likes the sound they make, but She just likes the way they look on Her and how it makes any outfit make look double as good. But never on a man. She also once said, that heels make Her feet hurt after a while and that i wouldn't know how it's like to wear them and told me that i should try them. So i said to Her that Her's are too small for me, so i can't. But that was the end of the conversation. I believe that the majority of women don't like men in heels for whatever reason. Just my humble opinion. Edited August 16, 2012 by ralfyguy
meganiwish Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 I find this the most intriguing thread. I feel the question is directed at men, despite it being in the everyone section. Still, it's interesting to know what the men think. Dr Shoe makes a good point elsewhere. Women dress to impress women. If I go out with a chap it's nice to think he's thought about what he's wearing, but I wouldn't like to think he's thought more about his clothes/shoes than he has of me. Beyond that, I wouldn't care.
Mike Hinch Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 When I read the part. My Wife got divorced from Her previous husband for the fact that he wanted to wear heels just at home for play. Now I can totally agree with that as any husband that would wear high heels at home and not out and about is no real fun. And as for that other thing Do women like men in heels really should be in the everybody department as long as the guys pass along the opinions of the girls and not the opinions of the guys. Now just at the moment I been hanging around with a girl about my age who mostly wears flats and low heel and has no problem with what I wear. Anyway like I posted some other place there was only one time when a she person got her feathers ruffled and that was because she thought that I looked better than she did.
Foxyheels Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 I find this the most intriguing thread. I feel the question is directed at men, despite it being in the everyone section. Still, it's interesting to know what the men think. Dr Shoe makes a good point elsewhere. Women dress to impress women. If I go out with a chap it's nice to think he's thought about what he's wearing, but I wouldn't like to think he's thought more about his clothes/shoes than he has of me. Beyond that, I wouldn't care. Megan I think most women are tolerant of men wearing heels but that number reduces dramatically when it's their own man wanting to wear heels. Women such as my wife are still a rare breed but generally I think the 'live and let live' philosophy is stronger today than ever. High heels are the shoes I choose to put on, respect my choice as I repect yours.
ralfyguy Posted August 16, 2012 Posted August 16, 2012 When I read the part. My Wife got divorced from Her previous husband for the fact that he wanted to wear heels just at home for play. Now I can totally agree with that as any husband that would wear high heels at home and not out and about is no real fun. And as for that other thing Do women like men in heels really should be in the everybody department as long as the guys pass along the opinions of the girls and not the opinions of the guys. Now just at the moment I been hanging around with a girl about my age who mostly wears flats and low heel and has no problem with what I wear. Anyway like I posted some other place there was only one time when a she person got her feathers ruffled and that was because she thought that I looked better than she did. That would be even worse for Her. Not in a million years would She accept me wearing heels in public.
SleekHeels Posted August 17, 2012 Posted August 17, 2012 I find this the most intriguing thread. I feel the question is directed at men, despite it being in the everyone section. Still, it's interesting to know what the men think. Dr Shoe makes a good point elsewhere. Women dress to impress women. If I go out with a chap it's nice to think he's thought about what he's wearing, but I wouldn't like to think he's thought more about his clothes/shoes than he has of me. Beyond that, I wouldn't care. I think in general guys who wear heels are often perceived (sometimes correctly) as extremely vain and self-absorbed (and not a very good relationship prospect), whereas women can wear heels and still be perceived as having empathy, compassion and other admirable qualities (sometimes incorrectly) that are stereotyped as feminine. For sure I'd be delighted to win the silver medal while the gold medal belongs to my date. If you like it, wear it.
meganiwish Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 For sure I'd be delighted to win the silver medal while the gold medal belongs to my date. Perhaps your date IS your gold medal!
SleekHeels Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Perhaps your date IS your gold medal! She and I will have to wear our matching gold heels for each other then! If you like it, wear it.
Gudulitooo Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 (edited) Do women like men in heels ... I feel sometimes they like more the heels than the guy wearing them ! I find this the most intriguing thread. I feel the question is directed at men, despite it being in the everyone section. Still, it's interesting to know what the men think. Dr Shoe makes a good point elsewhere. Women dress to impress women. If I go out with a chap it's nice to think he's thought about what he's wearing, but I wouldn't like to think he's thought more about his clothes/shoes than he has of me. Beyond that, I wouldn't care. Megan, what if your date was thinking more about your clothes than about you ? 'Women dress to impress women ...' same for men. But can you do both (impress same gender while seduce and attract opposite gender) with the same outfit ? It may be better to have an outfit for each task, isn't it ? Edited August 27, 2012 by Gudulitooo
meganiwish Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 I'd be most put out if a chap was more interested in my clothes than me. And he should just accept that I've got it right An outfit for each task? Wouldn't I need a phonebox to change in?
Foxyheels Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 I'd be most put out if a chap was more interested in my clothes than me. And he should just accept that I've got it right An outfit for each task? Wouldn't I need a phonebox to change in? Megan a woman could wear the sexiest outfit and the most gorgeous high heels but if she wasn't a nice person it woul negate the effect. It's ALL about the lady herself that makes her beautiful and desirable. Clothes and make up can make a woman look nice but the true beauty comes from within. High heels are the shoes I choose to put on, respect my choice as I repect yours.
FreshinHeels Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Megan a woman could wear the sexiest outfit and the most gorgeous high heels but if she wasn't a nice person it woul negate the effect. It's ALL about the lady herself that makes her beautiful and desirable. Clothes and make up can make a woman look nice but the true beauty comes from within. oooh Foxyheels that's beautifull and so true, will you marry me? In the process of becoming the person I always was...but didn't dare to let her come out
Steve63130 Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 Moderators! It's getting steamy in here! LOL Steve
Shafted Posted September 4, 2012 Posted September 4, 2012 I not touching that one, yet. Shafted, the boots that is! View my gallery here http://www.hhplace.o...afteds-gallery/ or view my heeling thread here http://www.hhplace.org/topic/3850-new-pair-of-boots-starts-me-serious-street-heeling/ - Pm me if you want fashion advice or just need someone to talk to.
meganiwish Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 Years ago I taught the prettiest little girl, but if she didn't get her way she looked like she'd sucked a lemon. I remember thinking, 'Some poor lad's going to marry that. When will he find out?'
Foxyheels Posted September 5, 2012 Posted September 5, 2012 oooh Foxyheels that's beautifull and so true, will you marry me? Not too sure MrsF would agree to me saying yes but very nice of you to ask :-) High heels are the shoes I choose to put on, respect my choice as I repect yours.
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