New member.

[GrlNxtDr88]

Hello one and all. I am a new member and was introduced to the website by my current boyfriend. Who had recently came out to me about his fascination with heels. The news was not hard to accept, for my very own stepfather, has the same hobby. And made me realize that this is not a bad thing. But a new normal. That there are many men out there like themselves, who are struggling to find a healthy balance and not be judged or shamed. I admire him for his courage and honesty. The strength it took for him to tell another person, has made me respect him even more so. I accept him for who he is. Heels and all. And if this is what makes him happy and feel himself...I am 100% supportive. Our relationship has grown tremendously with our honesty. If there are other women or men out there who are like us. Please feel free to comment and give us your feedback, support and love. Thank you for your time...look forward to hearing from everyone. 

[bluejay]

GrlNxtDr88, welcome to HHP. Thanks for being supportive of your BF's heel wearing. I have been wearing heels out publicly for many years now. My wife is OK with it. We even have matching pairs of heels that we wear out together. We also like to wear matching leggings out together, like we did on Valentine's Day and St. Patrick's Day. There are a lot of women that are OK with men wearing heels out in public. I recently met one woman that works at Sears, that was fascinated with the heeled boots I was wearing, with my leggings.

Hope that you will post some of your heeling, too. Again welcome to HHP!

Happy Heeling,

bluejay

[Shyheels]

Sounds like you have a very nice relationship.

[jeremy1986]

Hi @GrlNxtDr88 - great to have you. And so great to hear about your openness to this.

[Cali]

Welcome to this site. I am happy to hear that you are so supportive of your bf heeling and fascinated that your stepfather has the same "hobby."  For me its not a hobby but a way of life.

[Steve63130]

I'll add my welcome, too! My wife is very accepting of my footwear preferences. Sometimes, too accepting and I worry if I'm overstepping what's good for me! LOL

Steve

[HappyinHeels]

Grlnxtdr88,

If you like heels, and the company of those who like them as well, then you have landed in the right place indeed! AS you referenced your boyfriend I hope you'll both enjoy the site together. Our site is a fashion site, no porn or kinky crap, so it attracts the right kind of advertisers and a reputable membership base. It's all about the shoes and perhaps the outfits and where on this big Blue Planet any of us may be wearing it. There are men who wear men's clothing with their heels. others are more freeform and wear skirts or dresses, or other mixed articles from both sides of the aisle, while others will dress completely en femme. The unifying thread is the love of the high heeled shoe. I have had many discussions over the past several years about the number of men I believe want to try heels and buy them compared to the number who actually do. I have never had a bad experience and, in fact, have had the best experience when actually wearing heels into a store. I have bought all my heels in-person since 2009 when I started shopping at Bakers before they went bankrupt. I have had the pleasure of meeting several of our members over the years. I personally like higher heels and have just two pairs at 4"/10cm. My preferred range is 5-6"/13-16cm. We have some folks here who really have a great fashion sense. Call it getting in touch with their feminine side but I'd say it's just men  finding color and creativity in their lives. ANyways, welcome aboard the "High Heel Train"  HappyinHeels

[pebblesf]

Welcome, your boy friend is a lucky guy to have such a supportive girl friend!  I truly believe most guys have an interest in wearing heels, but not many get the opportunity to explore their interests. 

We encourage you both to participate in the many topics discussed and post some pictures...Don

[Tacchi Alti]

Well done, @GrlNxtDr88 My experience is that most women appear to be threatened by men in heels, as they regard heels as their domain and don't know how to cope! A lot of male heel wearers are in the closet because they know that telling their wives/girlfriends would break up their relationship. I'm very fortunate in that my wife tolerates my heel wearing but only if the heels are not obviously feminine. I wear wedges or block heels most of the time although I have some thinner ones I wear when it wouldn't embarrass her - I've been shopping in stilettos but only away from home and when she hasn't been with me. The amazing thing is that I've never had anyone mention them to me, even when I've worn stilettos.

You're a rare woman, and your boyfriend is very lucky to have you, as no doubt he knows.

[RonC]

Welcome - hope you enjoy the company!  You are a dream fro most of us heel wearing guys!  Your approval is priceless!

[GrlNxtDr88]

On 3/31/2018 at 4:05 AM, GrlNxtDr88 said:

Hello one and all. I am a new member and was introduced to the website by my current boyfriend. Who had recently came out to me about his fascination with heels. The news was not hard to accept, for my very own stepfather, has the same hobby. And made me realize that this is not a bad thing. But a new normal. That there are many men out there like themselves, who are struggling to find a healthy balance and not be judged or shamed. I admire him for his courage and honesty. The strength it took for him to tell another person, has made me respect him even more so. I accept him for who he is. Heels and all. And if this is what makes him happy and feel himself...I am 100% supportive. Our relationship has grown tremendously with our honesty. If there are other women or men out there who are like us. Please feel free to comment and give us your feedback, support and love. Thank you for your time...look forward to hearing from everyone. 

Thank you so much everyone for all the kind words. And encourage of my mates openness. I'll continue to be supportive of him. There is talk of a possible photo shoot. I'll have @Barr post when they are ready. Happy heeling everyone!!!

[HappyinHeels]

GrlNxtDr,

I sure hope you two post some photos together as there is precious little of that anywhere. A few photos here and there but really a dearth of photos of couples wearing heels on the net generally. So, I do look forward to seeing what you two post here. Your runway is ready and waiting. So are the spectators!  HappyinHeels

[SF]

GrlNxtDR...  I have written about this elsewhere, but long ago I told my wife - girlfriend at the time - about my desire, inclination, fascination, whatever you call it, for gals shoes.  Long story, she accepted me and the shoes and many years later we are still married and occasionally wear heels together!!  We even have done our own "photo shoot" of us out in our heels.  

She's a great gal and it has been fun.  I consider myself very blessed.  Support each other...  Take care....   sf

PS I won't post our pictures here, don't want to steal your thunder - ha ha...

[RonC]

Your runway is ready and waiting. So are the spectators!  HappyinHeels

HiH, are you sure they both have a pair of spectator pumps?  Lol!