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SF last won the day on February 7

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    Wearing high heel sandals as much as possible...
  1. Pain relief....

    Why so angry???? Count to 10, take a deep breath and just smile.... It's a beautiful day..... Take care.... sf
  2. Hello from Canada

    A very strange post...
  3. Hello all

    Italiano??? ha ha Have fun in your heels, I do..... Take care, sf
  4. SoCalGal..... Hi. I too found this site quite by accident some years ago. Now to answer your question, Why? I don't know. I am a married straight guy who has worn gals shoes since I was a teen and started wearing high heels 20+ years ago. I like the look and feel of heels and do not necessarily find them uncomfortable - but yes that does depend on the style and where they are being worn. And, guys shoes are, for the most part, pretty ugly. I could go on, but for now will leave it at that. Glad you are here, it's an interesting place...... Take care, sf (NorCalGuy)
  5. It's been awhile

    Well, they are pretty cool shoes !!! ha ha Glad you had a nice time... Take care.... sf
  6. We all have our reasons for wearing high heels in public, and that's fine. I am not out to change the world. For me, wearing high heels brings me enjoyment and the shoes do look nice. Continue to have fun all.... sf
  7. My 6th annual farewell to heels

    Have fun... Enjoy the Pho..... Good stuff.... sf
  8. Hello from Iowa!

    Iowa is cool, been there many times, I have actually worn heels at Hawkeye Point... Fun place. You will find that there is at least one other member here who is from Iowa.... I won't say who, I will let him give it up.... Take care... sf
  9. My 1,000th post...

    My 1,000th post. Wow, it only took 15 ½ years.. When I “stumbled” across this site in 2002, I was elated to find someplace where like-minded folks could gather and exchange ideas. And it has been a wonderful experience. I am a straight, married guy with kids who, for my entire life, has always liked ladies shoes and sandals. And to this day, I still do not know why, but I just do. I knew that there had to be at least one other guy out “there” that felt as I do, and the discovery of this site allowed me to realize that I was not alone. As a teen and young man I wore gals flats, but in 1996 I “jumped the shark” and got hooked on high heels. Being out in public in ladies high heels was, to say the least nerve wracking, but with the support of an understanding and loving wife, coupled with the interaction at this site has made my venture into high heels an enjoyable experience. Looking back, I hope some of my posts expressing my experiences, frustrations and successes in wearing high heels has been helpful, and maybe even entertaining to some. I don’t claim to be an expert; and I certainly don’t have all the answers, but I am very happy that I have found this site and been allowed to contribute over all these years! Thank you... Take care all, enjoy your high heels, wear them proudly – I know I do!! sf
  10. People DO notice - Sometimes.. The weather out here in California is getting warmer and there have been days when sandals are more appropriate (comfy) than clogs or pumps. Since I like having my feet look nice, especially when wearing sandals, I painted my toes a light blue (For you purists, China Glaze "Secret Peri-Wink-Le) shade. I normally paint my toes with a clear coat or some other color that is more neutral and less noticeable, this blue shade was plainly noticeable and not my usual style. Once I had it on, I liked the look, and off I went - in sandals of course. Yesterday while out running errands, I had a total of three folks - all gals - not sure what that means; not only notice but compliment me on my painted toenails. One lady said the look was "really nice, that more guys should do it," and another lady asked if by chance my granddaughters may have painted my nails, since they have done that to her husband in the past. I told her no, the painting was my decision alone, she told me that it looked good. The third gal simply said that she liked my pedicure. Three compliments in one day, now that has never happened before and I kinda liked it!! I will probably go back to the more muted / neutral colors but for now the "secret" stays!! ha ha Have fun all...... sf Oh, here's a pic for proof......
  11. It's been awhile

    Hey Larry..... Them be really cool sandals. Glad you had fun getting out in them. Springtime is almost here, hopefully you can get out in them more often!! Nice to see you back, I know you are very busy with family and work... Take care, be safe..... sf
  12. Getting checked out by a guy with his wife

    I had a similar experience at The Flamingo in Las Vegas a few years ago. I was riding in the elevator with a few other folks, minding my own business, when a guy gets on. He was talking on a cell phone and looking down at the floor. I was wearing a pair of thong sandals with a 2 1/2 inch heel. Suddenly the guy looks at me, smiles and says, "you are wearing high heels!" I smiled back and said "yes" that I wear heels quite often. He then told the person on the phone - later said it was his wife - there is a guy on the elevator wearing high heels! The guy then looked at me and said, "that's really cool, I might try some heels some day." About that time the elevator door opened and we parted our ways with pleasant goodbyes. I do not get many folks commenting / noticing my heels, but when I do the event is always positive. Have fun all.... sf
  13. Merry Christmas

    AJ and all..... A belated Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you... Happy high heeling in 2018....
  14. It's Christmas time, so what better that a nice redish color? I normally don't go this "bold" but hey, tis the season.... I am wearing my VanEli Melea sandals, wonderful shoes, fun to wear... Take care all.... Merry Christmas... sf
  15. my 017 adventures

    Just another good reason NOT to use alcohol or drugs... I get high on life (and high heels), and that's good enough for me!! Merry Christmas all !!!!!! sf