HappyFeat Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 Oh yeah, I leave the kissing details that ensued for the imagination. Of course a gentleman does not kiss and tell. However at 6'2" without heels I have found that kissing women while they are NOT in heels to be quite a physical challenge. A challenge that I am not one to pass up... Style is built from the ground up!
kneehighs Posted June 17, 2009 Author Posted June 17, 2009 OK, taking a break from some work right now. Went out on Saturday night. Girl originally objected to the idea of a man in heels. She emphatically stated that heels should be saved for the girls. I wasn't wearing heels the first time. The second time we got together, this last Saturday night, I wasn't wearing heels at the beginning either. But in true "girl" mode, I whipped out some 4.5" heels from my bag and changed into them right before her very eyes. Naturally, she didn't object to the Reality of a man in heels. "that is all for now"... Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
HappyFeat Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 I may have to start carrying a bag with heels to slip on spontaneously. To me, this is an example of my theory...it is less about the shoes a man wears than about the man wearing the shoes. Style is built from the ground up!
Phoenix Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 What a great idea. Have a bag (back pack, courier bag) to carry your heels, get to your destination and put them on. Ladies do it for work all the time. Thanks
kneehighs Posted June 18, 2009 Author Posted June 18, 2009 I....To me, this is an example of my theory...it is less about the shoes a man wears than about the man wearing the shoes. The difference is that I address the WHAT, you address the WHY. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
danielp6406 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Greatings Kneehighs :-) Only have one word: WOW !
Bubba136 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 I think this is the first time that we've heard that you went out with the same girl more than once -- Hmmm! Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
kneehighs Posted June 18, 2009 Author Posted June 18, 2009 I think this is the first time that we've heard that you went out with the same girl more than once -- Hmmm! Hmmm, the Good Guy in me says, "more than once = possible start of romantic relationship, full of flowers, picnics, wine, skipping through fields of daisies together, and kisses under the moonlight" The Adventurous Guy in me says, "woman in tow = preselection for other women, proof of value to bouncers at clubs..." I think it's implicit which side I leaned on and ultimately, we both had a good time and both of us benefitted from conjoining forces for the night... Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
Bubba136 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 we both had a good time and both of us benefitted from conjoining forces for the night... Unless the dating scene has drastically changed since I was eligible, isn't that the objective of having a "date?" (and, never underestimate the power of female attraction.....so many single men have "fallen" for just a "casual" friend...... (just "poken" a little fun atcha, kh ) Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
kneehighs Posted June 18, 2009 Author Posted June 18, 2009 Point well taken Mr. Bubba136! I'm getting into a different league of girls now though, so my standards have gone up, not only for physical attractiveness, but for what goes on inside their head too. The girl from Saturday is just too emotionally unbalanced for my taste. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
gwl1 Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Be careful, KH. "The boy chases the girl until she catches him!" LOL GWL
Dawn HH Posted June 18, 2009 Posted June 18, 2009 Kneehighs:-) Nice stratigy. I always started out from home wearing heels and I generally don't change them along the way. But the girls do it sometimes daily, why shouldn't we? Hmmmm! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
HappyFeat Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 The difference is that I address the WHAT, you address the WHY. Ah...but I am all about the why...the what is a given. Style is built from the ground up!
kneehighs Posted June 19, 2009 Author Posted June 19, 2009 Ah...but I am all about the why...the what is a given. If the WHAT is a given, then why do we have years of duplicate threads asking for women's opinions of men in heels? The WHAT that I refer to in this case is the the fact that women respond differently to the IDEA of a man in heels as opposed to the REALITY. That's not a given for a lot of people. Otherwise we wouldn't have years of duplicate threads here asking the same question over and over again. "What do women think of men in heels?" "Ladies, what do you think of a guy in heels?" And we all know how text based critiques over the internet can draw the worst out in some people. WHY women respond differently to the reality of a man in heels depends more on the man wearing the heels, than it does the heels alone, which is what your theory addresses. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
Bubba136 Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 --- That's not a given for a lot of people. Otherwise we wouldn't have years of duplicate threads here asking the same question over and over again. "What do women think of men in heels?" "Ladies, what do you think of a guy in heels?" And we all know how text based critiques over the internet can draw the worst out in some people. The "What do women think of men in heels?" question is only one of a large number of questions repeatedly asked. There is a set of "basic" questions that occur to every male that wears high heels. Questions that are generated by society's dividing clothing by gender. Skirts and dresses = women's wear. Shoes, highly decorated, dainty, high heels, strappy sandals, etc., female wear. Thick soles, lace-up, rugged boots, muted colors = male wear. So, as we all personally know, social taboos play a huge role in the general population's not accepting any male dressing in female attire, anyplace at anytime. While I can't accurately estimate the number, I would bet a Dollar to a donut that close to 100% began wearing high heels in secret and behind closed doors (and, would guess 85% still do). The natural curiosity of all of the guys to compair experiences with other likeminded men is overwhelming. When these heel-wearing guys find an outlet where they can discuss men-in-heels, with other guys, they really want opinions and answers to these basic questions. --Why do you wear heels? How long (when did you start?) -- How did you start (or, what prompted you) to wear heels? -- Does your wife/girlfriend/partner/SO (whatever you identify her/him) know about your high heels? -- How did your partner find out about your heels? -- what does your partner think about you wearing them? -- do you ever wear them outside of your home? Plus many other questions that occur as new members become more involved and comfortable with discussing their heel desire with other men that also wear high heels. Actually, if you stop and think, these same questions are usually posed by the general population, when they come upon someone out and about in their high heels.....as wittnessed by the large number of posts relating "what reaction did you get " when they appearance in public wearing high heels. So, if anyone is looking for a reason why these same questions are asked over and over, again and again, the reason is found in the initial eagerness to "bond" with other like minded people..... That being said, however, it doesn't mean that the repetition of the same questions doesn't become "boring" to time members of this forum or other forms like it. So, while I've answered these questions many times since I've been a member here, I always remember how excited I was when I discovered Internet contacts that shared the same wonderful (to me) desire to wear high heels, and tried to answer them with patience and understanding. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
kneehighs Posted June 20, 2009 Author Posted June 20, 2009 .... --Why do you wear heels? How long (when did you start?) -- How did you start (or, what prompted you) to wear heels? -- Does your wife/girlfriend/partner/SO (whatever you identify her/him) know about your high heels? -- How did your partner find out about your heels? -- what does your partner think about you wearing them? -- do you ever wear them outside of your home? .... GREAT ideas for sticky threads! Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
heelium Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 Kneehighs, I dont come to this forum too much these days, last time was when you were saying that you wouldn't be around here much either, I am pleased to see that you do still post here. PS, I had a great day last week pounding up & down oxford street in a pair of lowish stiletto boots, & managed to pickup a couple of pairs of shoes from my favourite store, what doesnt show up too well in the photo of the 1st pair is they have a really slender & high stiletto heel, glad I saw them in the shop & tried them on as they look much nicer on the foot. http://www.faith.co.uk/productdetails.aspx?pid=273800&language=en-GB&cid= http://www.faith.co.uk/productdetails.aspx?pid=281400&language=en-GB&cid= Every generation laughs at the old fashions, but follows religiously the new.
Bubba136 Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 nice choices, heelium. Newest styles, latest fashion in shoes. I like both pair. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
HappyFeat Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I love both pair, especially the peep toes! Style is built from the ground up!
Dawn HH Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 Helium:-) Both pairs are very nice purchases for you. I like them both. It's good to see that you check back in here on the Site from time to time. Don't forget from whence you came? Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
HappyFeat Posted June 25, 2009 Posted June 25, 2009 Kneehighs, I guess what I meant when I said heels are a given is that if you CHOOSE to wear heels, then it is GIVEN that you are a guy wearing heels. At the risk of appearing to engage in circular logic, I just think that for me to evolve as a heeler (and as a person) it is vital to engage in the deeper questions that just about how people react, if I can be taken seriously in heels, etc. Oh, don't get me wrong, the reactions will always be fun and interesting, but the ontology of the act begins to break down into certain predictable patterns. Most of the threads that address how people react, if women like a guy in heels, etc. are all wonderful, but by not by far the only insight that can be gained from social observation. For me, by addressing the WHY, such as why do people react the way they do or why do they hold the assumptions about what is socially acceptable, etc. even goes beyond heeling for me. I guess WHAT is given is that I am going to wear my heels where I want, and when I want regardless of whether society approves of not. I hope this clarifies my statement. Style is built from the ground up!
Phoenix Posted June 26, 2009 Posted June 26, 2009 Both are good looking shoes. I really like the Coshi - "Leather court shoe featuring unique T-bar and buckled ankle straps. The Coshi courts have a covered platform and back." I love closed toe strappy shoes and these have a hidden platform. It allows the heel to be higher but is easier on the ankles.
kneehighs Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 Last Saturday I number closed a blonde in literally like 2 minutes. Later the next day when texting her and attempting a "let's meet for drinks close, she was resisting. Now knowing that my interactions with women can be neatly systematized into stages of progression, I realized I had failed to develop comfort with her. Two hours later after a relaxing talk, we agreed to meet today for drinks. So in the afternoon, she texts and says she's too burned out to make it. Realizing that she might feel better later on in the day, I called her. I suggested that we talk later on in the day to see how felt. 2 hours later a text Comes in suggesting we meet. So here I am, 3 minutes away from an exciting evening with a delicious blonde. Of course, the heels are on... Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
Thighbootguy Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 "So here I am, 3 minutes away from an exciting evening with a delicious blonde" What in the world are you doing texting us??? Priorities man priorities! I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned.
kneehighs Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 She's in the bathroom right now. 4" patent bcbg stilettos!! (lust) Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
Bubba136 Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Adventures? I'll say (texting is good to occupy your hand...when they could be getting you in trouble.......even when all alone! Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Tech Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 She's in the bathroom right now. 4" patent bcbg stilettos!! (lust) Dont you think she might find it "creepy" that your blogging her every move? Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP!
kneehighs Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 Dont you think she might find it "creepy" that your blogging her every move? Not that I really care! We've already changed tops. It couldn't get any better! Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
kneehighs Posted June 29, 2009 Author Posted June 29, 2009 "So here I am, 3 minutes away from an exciting evening with a delicious blonde" What in the world are you doing texting us??? Priorities man priorities! haha. She got my undivided attention when she arrived It was an amazing time...we started with dinner near the new High Line Park, bounced to a Mexican restaurant where she knew the waitress, then ended at a lounge in Soho by the west side highway. The bouncers there know me, so as soon as they saw me, they lifted the velvet rope without so much as a word coming from my mouth, which made for a moderately impressive entrance. At the place in Soho, she took me by my hand to the bathroom where we both went into a stall. The door shut and she took off her top (a black mini dress) and wanted to trade for my top, which was the white sequined mini dress. Hilarious. I looked really stupid in her black mini dress, but was able to cover it up with my blazer. As soon as we came out of the ladies bathroom, an employee of the lounge came up to me 'scolding' me for being in the ladies bathroom. Ultimately, it was no big deal. Fun times were had by all. My outfit for the night was simple, but effective. A Black satin Calvin Klein blazer, a white sequined mini dress I bought from Zara in Stockholm, dark denim jeans from Urban Outfitters, and 4.5" booties from Nine West. Feminine Style . Masculine Soul. Skin In The Game.
danielp6406 Posted June 29, 2009 Posted June 29, 2009 Greatings kneehighs :-) A very nice encounter indeed but a small detail is missing from your story: The first time she saw you, did she notice you because you were wearing heels ?
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