keels Posted February 9, 2020 Share Posted February 9, 2020 My wife now allows me to wear women's loafers. It's a start! 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cali Posted February 9, 2020 Share Posted February 9, 2020 You got to start somewhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pebblesf Posted February 9, 2020 Share Posted February 9, 2020 Good for you buddy, give her time, she will come around to the heels also Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetheelsfan Posted February 11, 2020 Share Posted February 11, 2020 I have been able to wear some of the women's lug sole shoes at will as they are an "ambidextrous" in appearance oxford. My best has been the hidden heel high-top AirWalk canvas athletic shoes. Just a bit higher to to delight - low enough for healthy foot comfort and great beginning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeremy1986 Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 Good for you @keels! Do you mean allows you to wear them OUT, or allows you inside? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keels Posted February 12, 2020 Author Share Posted February 12, 2020 I wear them out, supermarket, library, around town. No comments so far and the wife is happy! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonC Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 Do they have a heel of any kind, or are the flats? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keels Posted February 12, 2020 Author Share Posted February 12, 2020 They have a small heel so are not totally flat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeremy1986 Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 1 hour ago, keels said: They have a small heel so are not totally flat. care to shoot us a quick pic? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keels Posted February 13, 2020 Author Share Posted February 13, 2020 Here they are. Not to everyone's taste, but the are women's shoes which I wear everywhere. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluejay Posted February 13, 2020 Share Posted February 13, 2020 Very unisex looking. I would wear them. I have lots of women;s flats that I wear out too, when I'm not wearing heels . Welcome aboard! Happy heeling, bluejay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chesterx Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 9 hours ago, keels said: Here they are. My very 1st foray into wearing womens shoes in public was a pair of womens loafers very much like these, the other being keds. I remember being nervous as hell the 1st time, even though they could easily pass as mens wear... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shyheels Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 Indeed, I would not have picked these as women’s shoes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlroseplant Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 My wife has an interesting hangup in that if it's labeled "Women's size 9" she doesn't like it. If the same exact thing were labeled "Men's size 7" it would be ok. So when you say, "My wife allows me to wear women's loafers," a year ago I would have said, "Why did you bother to tell her in the first place? She would never know." In the present day, I think I have answered my own question in that it's the idea she's getting used to. When I bought my young son a very nice pair of dress shoes (low heeled) for a very nice price, she could not really argue with the fact that it was smarter to go the women's shoes route rather than the boys' shoes route. I think a lot of it is simply the perception, rather than the reality. Just because something is labeled "women's" doesn't fundamentally change what it is. A lot of women (and men) ain't figured this out yet. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninboots Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 1 hour ago, mlroseplant said: My wife has an interesting hangup in that if it's labeled "Women's size 9" she doesn't like it. If the same exact thing were labeled "Men's size 7" it would be ok. So when you say, "My wife allows me to wear women's loafers," a year ago I would have said, "Why did you bother to tell her in the first place? She would never know." In the present day, I think I have answered my own question in that it's the idea she's getting used to. When I bought my young son a very nice pair of dress shoes (low heeled) for a very nice price, she could not really argue with the fact that it was smarter to go the women's shoes route rather than the boys' shoes route. I think a lot of it is simply the perception, rather than the reality. Just because something is labeled "women's" doesn't fundamentally change what it is. A lot of women (and men) ain't figured this out yet. I think we should drop the men’s and women’s labels and class everything as unisex, at the end of the day we’ve all proved on here that we don’t need labels 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shyheels Posted February 14, 2020 Share Posted February 14, 2020 2 hours ago, mlroseplant said: My wife has an interesting hangup in that if it's labeled "Women's size 9" she doesn't like it. If the same exact thing were labeled "Men's size 7" it would be ok. So when you say, "My wife allows me to wear women's loafers," a year ago I would have said, "Why did you bother to tell her in the first place? She would never know." In the present day, I think I have answered my own question in that it's the idea she's getting used to. When I bought my young son a very nice pair of dress shoes (low heeled) for a very nice price, she could not really argue with the fact that it was smarter to go the women's shoes route rather than the boys' shoes route. I think a lot of it is simply the perception, rather than the reality. Just because something is labeled "women's" doesn't fundamentally change what it is. A lot of women (and men) ain't figured this out yet. Except women - in choosing their own clothes and shoes - couldn't are less if they come from the men's rack 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keels Posted February 14, 2020 Author Share Posted February 14, 2020 I have had these for a while. Lower cut and a bit more feminine. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonC Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 The low cut of those above is more feminine than the others, but both are nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mlroseplant Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 If I were going to lower myself to that level (poke!), I would choose the more open cut of the second set of loafers. Long before I started shaving my legs, I shaved the tops of my feet so as not to look so hobbit-like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeremy1986 Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 @keels, as said - you should easily be able to get away with these. The 2nd set is a little more feminine, agreed. Great that your wife is taking these steps for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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