kfsteve391 Posted September 23, 2009 Posted September 23, 2009 I love how nice the ladies look wearing their strappy high heel sandals. I want to look just like they do, so I wear the same thing. I look and feel so sexy in them. Like to wear them with my thongs and panties.
tetonheeler Posted September 27, 2009 Posted September 27, 2009 This question has been asked a hundred times. See previous posts.
power2all Posted September 28, 2009 Posted September 28, 2009 I just find the high heel boots (stiletto version) very attractive. Tried them myself, and felt very comfortable with them on.
ShooterHH Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 I voted Both... I love the look and feel! There's not much in a guy's wardrobe to make him feel sexy, and wearing heels is one of my greatest pleasures!
abburke Posted September 29, 2009 Posted September 29, 2009 I think there is much to be said of the word "social" Histiletto. I think you are about to stumble upon something there. When that word is spoken the first thing that comes to my mind is "socialism" and I think of countries like Russia, China and even my own. I know this is not a political forum but I think fashion has every bit as much to do with such things as any other. I believe fashion and the limit of choice in expression for men is an agenda more than a "natural" response as to what men and women should wear or do. I heard a man once quote another in saying that art is usually the last thing to go when a society crumbles. I believe fashion and expressing one's self through his/her clothing or shoes is not only art but creativity as well. I wear heels not because they make me feel feminine or that they are comfortable (although some are, some are not depending on choice), but rather because I like the way a particular shoe looks and how it blends with my outfit. Honestly, the shoe could be a flat or a four inch heel for all I care as long as I like the way it looks. However, I am finding that I shop mostly in the so called women section because that is where the majority of stylish shoes are and I usually choose heels because they seem to look the best and making my foot look smaller doesn't hurt either! I used to be in the "feminine" trap but have since found through self exploration that it was another one of those "social" traps. It seems we all want to be part of a group, or most. These days we are taught to be social and part of the herd rather than standing out, being different or creative. Without sounding like a conspiracy theory nut I think it is executed purposely so that men lose their creativity and expression which contains a lot of our power to think freely and invent or create and not be submissive to others or movements. It is just too coincidental to me that men were some of the first to wear heels and such men were of upper class and power. They also had some of the most colorful and fashionable clothing as well as robes and skirts yet now we are confined "socially" to a near prison outfit which looks pretty much the same as the next guy standing near you. I have probably said too much and gone too far with this post but maybe it will get you to think! LOL Aaron
love_heels Posted October 14, 2009 Posted October 14, 2009 I wear heels because they very sexy and naughty
dww Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 Because I can, and enjoy wearing them. life is not a rehearsal
heelsinmass Posted October 15, 2009 Posted October 15, 2009 i just love the look of heels thats how it started, now i love to waer them. so 60% look 40% feel. wish i could wear them more
CPB Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 I love the way they look & feel. I find high heels very comfortable and sexy.
scotchio Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 It's all about the eroticism for me, I'll only wear them for a short amount of time but its about the way they make me feel, which is horny
Mr.O Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Hi, I'm with Scotchio ..... may I add a few more details - for shoeplay (sitting or standing) - for the clicking sound - like the feeling ... sometimes ... of jammed toes (one pair is a little too small) - sinking the heel into soft ground (grass, mud and so on) - putting out a cigarette in them
johnieheel Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 It's just a bad habit I haven't been able to break since childhood. real men wear heels
JeffB Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Because I can, because I love to. End of story. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
danielp6406 Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 It's just a bad habit I haven't been able to break since childhood. I don't think it is a bad habit since it is good for your health and mind
borg Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Because mens shoes are boring boring boring. I started highlight my hair a few years ago because of the same problem.
MSL Posted December 17, 2009 Posted December 17, 2009 I wear heels because a proper skirt and blouse just don't look right with flats.
mtnsofheels Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 I voted some time ago but did not reply to the post. I like them because how they make me feel, how they look the infinite styles which are available and much more fun to wear. I do not like mens shoes becuase thay are boring boring as many have mentioned. That is with most mens things in fashion and fit too, also they compliment what a person is wearing more than mens shoes. As you can tell I don't like suits! Plus my size is easily found, 11 womens it is not a huge foot, still petit compared with a size 11 mens. Plus finally I like them heels, in all sorts of shapes and sizes styles. Mtnsofheels
highheelwale Posted December 18, 2009 Posted December 18, 2009 i wear them because i feel very good in them i like to walk on my toes so wearing heels make it even easier
Heel-Lover Posted December 19, 2009 Posted December 19, 2009 I voted for the comfort and for the feminine feeling. For me they are more comfortable - they have no weight compared to mens shoes, despite this they offer sturdy support, and the uppers are so soft and mould to your feet (unlike mens shoes). I enjoy expressing my feminine side, I like to wear my heels with a tailored skirt suit, matching handbag etc. I dress in an effort have a coordinated classical style (very feminine shoes and bags) on par with any woman I might encounter, so I love accesories, bags and detailed shoes. I always wear a stiletto heel and aim to wear the highest and finest heels in a room. I like the attention, and I have learnt (as I am sure women know of) that heels represent empowerment - you can take control of a room by entering with the right attitude and look should you wish. High heels are all about confidence - at first confidence to wear them well, and then later the confidence they give you as you learn how to use your shoes (and legs) to your benefit. So I suppose I wear them for the feminine fun side of me - and a bit of an exhibitionist comes out as well! Cheers Heel-Lover
Cl0setheels Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Why do i wear heels. I have no idea why it started. But they are just beautiful!! I love the way they look by themselves. I love the way the look worn by a women. I love the way they look on my feet. And in some strange way it can really calm me down when i sit down relaxing while wearing a pair of heels. And i'm a woman when it comes to shoes. I've read quite a few shoe topics on girl forums and i feel exactly like them when it comes to shoes.
Steve63130 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 I understand exactly! A guy can't have too many shoes! Steve
Maximilian Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 I wear heels because I like various feminine fashion styles. I like the noise they make while I walk and most of all, I like heels because they are cool. I definitely don't wear them for the comfort . Heels will never be as comfortable as flats for me but they are usually much more stylish than flats. For the sake of style, I sacrifice my comfort.
abburke Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 I don't think it is a bad habit since it is good for your health and mind Daniel those podiatrists would argue with you about the health benefits of wearing heels! LOL
abburke Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 Because mens shoes are boring boring boring. I started highlight my hair a few years ago because of the same problem. I have to agree. I yawn every time I even glance at a man's shoe it seems. I highlighted my hair for a while also some time ago which proved to be a lot of fun as well as a compliment magnet. I have medium length hair which is also not normal but I have received a lot of positive attention and compliments about it from women and men. The women think it looks great and the men want to know where I got it done so they can do the same! I think it just goes to show that if you be yourself and creative there is no room for criticism or judgment.
kikepa Posted February 26, 2010 Posted February 26, 2010 These days, I'm thinking "for both." Those who really care about us don't make a fuss about what we wear. Those who make a fuss about what we wear really don't care about us.
danielp6406 Posted February 27, 2010 Posted February 27, 2010 Daniel those podiatrists would argue with you about the health benefits of wearing heels! LOL You are right: I'm sure they would argue. As long as you (we) don't wear them too often and not too high, I'm sure there would not be any negative effect to the feet. I should have said "They are good for your health because they feel good" Happy heeling all !
Regen Posted March 7, 2010 Posted March 7, 2010 Why do i wear heels. I have no idea why it started. But they are just beautiful!! I love the way they look by themselves. I love the way the look worn by a women. I love the way they look on my feet. And in some strange way it can really calm me down when i sit down relaxing while wearing a pair of heels. And i'm a woman when it comes to shoes. I've read quite a few shoe topics on girl forums and i feel exactly like them when it comes to shoes. I couldn't agree more. I am also a shoe love and am very picky in the men's section since so many styles of shoes are ugly. I always want to just browse in the women's section for shoes but when i'm a woman's size 13 US, its a bit hard.
5.5 Thrill Posted March 13, 2010 Posted March 13, 2010 A year ago when this thread started I voted 'other'. The fem part I don't understand, I'm a guy, I just like heels. They are just shoes, right? Comfort, absolutely....my 5" MJs are. Challenge, yes....to become the best heel wearer I can be. Show-off, no....but my public comfort level is really high. Having fun, yes....what more can I say. Take care Thrill IF GIRLS CAN WEAR PANTS THEN I CAN WEAR HEELS
luxxyheels Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 Because tennis shoes do not look good when wearing a dress.
shortskip Posted March 22, 2010 Posted March 22, 2010 ...most of these shoes or boots looks much better than men shoes...and important they sounds much better on hard floor. In the past a man has an outstanding sound, when he stroke his way down the street (not marching!)...Today most of the men take there way loudless wearing sportshoes. I'm not a grey loudless mouse...so I do what I want and wear what ever I want. Shortskip
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