Bootking Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 3/28/2010: then I headed out, nearly bumping into a trio of teenage girls who went all wide eyed and gasped when they saw me. We locked eyes for a couple of seconds, I stared right at the girls, no nerves, no anxiety, no nothing...and THEY blinked and quietly rushed away from me. Jeff, you have some of the greatest outings, and fun when doing them! Outfit was great, but the teenage girls thing - you had me roaring!!! Thanks for the big smiles!!!!!!!!!!! It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted March 29, 2010 Author Share Posted March 29, 2010 Thanks for the compliments, everyone! As always, I appreciate it! Regarding that encounter with those teenage girls, my impromptu staredown was the best I could come up with on the spur of the moment, but wound up being the best option as I wanted to, well, control the situation with the girls, not let them get the upper hand if that makes any sense. Maybe I frightened them with that stare, who knows, but it got the job done, and that's the important thing. Meanwhile, going through the mall was more of an adventure than what I usually do, but it was fun too, while my face was neutral and impassive, my heart was absolutely pounding, all things considered, it was quite an experience. As for the long skirt, I enjoyed wearing it because it was very stylish when paired with the Pleaser boots. Hopefully, I can get to wear that combo again before the weather warms up. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 Perhaps, Jeff, your "look" was so stylish that the girls were really surprised at how nice you looked, which incidentally, probably was also a very good example of how to dress when going to the mall -- which, if the teenage girls around here are any sample, really need some guidance....beginning with those ugly flip-flops that are reappearing now that our weather is getting warmer. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted March 29, 2010 Share Posted March 29, 2010 Bubba136:-) As you say, the ugly flip-flops are already appearing as the weather modifies itself. But I have also noticed a small trend down at the Science Center beginning to appear. I have noticed a good many young girls wearing pretty flats, both round toed and pointed toed, and a good many ballet flats also. A longer period of time will determine if this is a welcome trend or not before we can safely say that the use of flip-flops is on the way out. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted March 30, 2010 Author Share Posted March 30, 2010 Bubba136: Well, between the return of flip-flops (saw more than a few girls wearing them, despite temps no better than mid 40's) and the ever wretched Uggs, footwear mistakes abounded, and then some! I seriously doubt I could teach those knuckleheads anything! Dawn HH: I agree about the abundance of pretty looking flats women have been wearing, even I've taken interest in them and wouldn't mind wearing a pair if they were only available in 13 wide. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted March 30, 2010 Share Posted March 30, 2010 Dawn & Jeff; I have also noticed several girls wearing "flats" style shoes. It also appears that the more stylish and "pretty" their shoes, the better dressed they are. I mean, although they might be wearing jeans and blouses, the jeans look new or clean and pressed and the tops starched and ironed. Really a step up from the usual "ghetto" look they seem so fond of. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted March 30, 2010 Share Posted March 30, 2010 I agree about the abundance of pretty looking flats women have been wearing, even I've taken interest in them and wouldn't mind wearing a pair if they were only available in 13 wide. Greetings JeffB :-) Same with me: I noticed many girls and women beginning to wear plats these days. Even if they got no heels, they make a very nice looking feet. (Specially with nice legs and tight jeans...) Unfortunately, if the feet is too long (like most of us), the look is not the same at all. (Just my opinion...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 I'm glad that others here have observed what I have observed at the Science Center. It seems to be a good place to be to view any suttle changes in the dress of the young girls and woman. Now if only the young boys would shape up their appearance and get rid of those awful oversized baggy pants with the pockets down at calf length. I'll be working there on Easter Sunday and I am anticipating seeing some wonderful Easter outfits on the girls and women and maybe some heel sightings too. Sure makes my job much more interesting for me. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted April 11, 2010 Author Share Posted April 11, 2010 4/11/2010: With plenty of sunshine, blue skies and temps in the low 70's late this morning, it was time for a jaunt. Here's what I wore: A merlot polo shirt, a 19 inch black denim skirt from JCPenney, the Payless "Hazel" pumps, bare legs and my short strap handbag. A note about the skirt I wore, it's the same one I wore a couple of weeks ago, but this one was a size smaller than the other and, as a result, it was delightfully snug and emphasized my butt. Whoo! It's one thing to wear a short skirt, but quite another to wear a short, tight skirt, and I loved the experience! My first stop of the day out in the western 'burbs was to Staples in Springfield, you see, I had bought a laptop the previous day and needed a case to carry it around in, so I went there to buy one. Getting out of the car and walking to the door, enjoying the sharp click on the heels on the pavement, a wiggle in my hips, a mother and her young daughter, having left the door both gave me a wide eyed stare as I walked past. Once inside, I asked for assistance from a salesperson who gave me a friendly smile and led me to the aisle where the cases were. I spent a goodly fifteen to twenty minutes choosing which case would suit me, the store was fairly empty, only a few customers were inside, so it was all cool, after picking out a case, I casually strolled to the register, paid for my purchase and left, pretty as you please. After putting the computer in it's new case, it was off to Borders. As is my usual custom, I intentionally parked a good distance from the store so I could enjoy a good little walk and, like outside Staples, I turned a couple of heads on my way to the door. I guess the sight of a middle-aged guy in a tight skirt and high heels was a tad unusual. Heh! After entering, I went straight to the lounge area, bought an iced tea and spent some quality time with my brand new toy. By the by, the lounge area is bare floor, and quiet as it is, my heels sounded like gunshots as I walked past, a couple of people looked up from their own laptops, probably expecting to see a woman, but were noticeably startled to see a guy instead. I tried not to grin, but I found that to have been humorous. I wound up spending a couple of hours in the lounge area with the laptop, using it to do some serious writing and a wee bit of web surfing before having to pack up and answer the demands of my stomach as it was lunchtime. Another terrific outing for me, while I didn't break any new territory, it was, as usual, great to be out and about in a skirt and heels which feels perfectly natural to me, and is tremendous fun as well! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfsteve391 Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Congratulations on your latest outing. I like your outfit. The 19 inch black skirt shows off your legs very nicely. I bet you looked great walking from your car. I would have to say you look sexy. Keep up the good work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 JeffB:-) You rascal you. I can just picture you srutting your stuff past all of those unsuspecting people who thought a woman was walking by. What fun for you, my friend. Don't stop now---keep on public heeling as long as possible. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heelguy Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 you definately have alot of bottle going about your business dressed how you feel comfortable and to not even think twice about people's generalisations. Your an inspiration for every male heeler and skirt wearer and for that i admire you greatly. keep up the good work! heelguy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Jeff ... I have always admired you fashion preference, your choice of high-heeled footware, but especially your attitude when heeling in public. I think of you and some others here at the site when I spend a day wearing high heels in public. I congratulate you on your latest outing and I thank you again for sharing it with us. Please keep the posts coming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted April 13, 2010 Share Posted April 13, 2010 No you didn't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The tight skirt is fantastic; you go Jeff!!!! It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted April 13, 2010 Author Share Posted April 13, 2010 kfsteve391: Thanks for the compliment. Me? Sexy? Well, I wouldn't go THAT far! HA! Dawn HH: Yeah, that's me, the rascal! It was quite humorous about how I fooled those people. That was perhaps the best part of my outing! heelguy: Well, I'm glad to be an inspiration to you. That certainly makes me feel good inside, knowing people look up to me in that way. roniheels: The proper attitude is important when it comes to wearing heels in public. You have to act like you belong in whatever environment you're in, you have to act bold and confident, if you don't, you'll never get anywhere. Bootking: HA! Why not! I had fun wearing that skirt! And I plan to wear it again soon! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rxrenesis Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 My hero! If the shoe fits BUY IT http://s10.photobucket.com/albums/a145/rxrenesis/Shoe%20Shots/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted April 18, 2010 Author Share Posted April 18, 2010 4/18/2010: Despite plenty of blue skies and sunshine, it was mildly nippy, what with temps in the mid 50's, so I dressed appropriately for today's jaunt with the following outfit: My black leather jacket over a black turtleneck which was under a Polo sweater, my tight gray jeans, the Pleaser "Legend" 8868 thigh high boots and my short strap black handbag. Even though I had jeans on, I didn't want to disturb the clean lines with bulges in my pockets from my wallet, keys and cellphone. Besides, I've come to enjoy carrying a handbag which is fun and has become as natural to me as, well, wearing high heels. And, with that, it was off to the western 'burbs with my first stop being Borders for some quality time with my new laptop to put through it's paces. I arrived in the lot where Borders was just after ten when it opened, as usual, I parked a distance away so I could enjoy my usual stroll through the lot for the thrill of hearing my heels on the pavement as I approached the store. God! That awesome clicking sound is so intoxicating! Once inside, I noticed that it was pretty quiet and the lounge area was fairly empty, so, after choosing a table, I bought a large iced tea and sat down to fiddle around with the new toy, going online via Borders' Wi-Fi capability, something that wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be. While I sat at a table where people could see me and my boots, I was left alone for the almost two hours I was in the store, a bit of a shame as I'm always eager to engage curious and complimentary people in conversation about my eclectic choice of footwear. By around noon, my stomach was rumbling, so I packed up, grabbed my jacket, bought an anime magazine and it was out the door I went and then it was off to Subway for lunch. Subway, just like Borders was uneventful, save for one middle aged man who paused from eating to give me a long, puzzled look after I entered. My final stop of the day after Subway was to Best Buy for some leisurely wandering and gadget ogling for almost forty-five minutes here and there. Now, I did get more than a few looks, stares and double takes from shoppers young and old, but no one bothered me, well aware of eyes on me, I maintained my casual expression, as if what I was wearing on my feet was no big deal, because to me, it wasn't. I was simply wearing what I like, nothing more, nothing less, if what I wore wasn't looked upon as being "conventional" for a male to wear, so what? As I've said before, I don't let society influence my choice in fashion, I make that choice, and I choose to wear high heels. End of story. Meanwhile, I'm sure Thighbootguy has heard this from me before, but damn, wearing thigh boots is so much fun! Hopefully, I can wear them again before it gets too warm outside! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShockQueen Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 New laptop, anime mag, AND heels! JeffB, you are definitely one of my heroes! Sounds like you had a wonderful time! SQ.....still busting societal molds with a smile...and a 50-ton sledge! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 Hey Jeff, first the tight skirt, now the tight jeans; lookin' good man, lookin' good!!!! It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted April 19, 2010 Share Posted April 19, 2010 JeffB:-) You are not only happy wearing tight skirts, but tight jeans with your thigh high boots. No question what they are when people see you wearing them and wearing them well. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted April 19, 2010 Share Posted April 19, 2010 ...I was simply wearing what I like, nothing more, nothing less, if what I wore wasn't looked upon as being "conventional" for a male to wear, so what? As I've said before, I don't let society influence my choice in fashion, I make that choice, and I choose to wear high heels. End of story... Well said and well done on your last outing I agree with you: It must be quite amazing wearing your thigh high boots ! Maybe one day I will do the same ! Happy heeling all ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted April 20, 2010 Author Share Posted April 20, 2010 Thanks for the kind words, everyone! Yeah, I guess I am kinda pushing the envelope by wearing tight skirts and jeans. It's great fun, and, I like to think I have the butt to pull it off! And yeah, daniel, wearing thigh boots IS amazing! By all means, give it a try! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 There is nothing like the feeling of wearing a pair of leather pointy-toed, stiletto heeled thigh boots. You will think that you died an went to heaven when you wear them. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted April 20, 2010 Share Posted April 20, 2010 ...And yeah, daniel, wearing thigh boots IS amazing! By all means, give it a try! ...You will think that you died and went to heaven when you wear them. Cheers---Dawn HH Hmmm...You both are beginning to really convince me to give it a try... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted April 21, 2010 Author Share Posted April 21, 2010 Hmmm...You both are beginning to really convince me to give it a try... Sure! Go ahead! You only get one ride on this rollercoaster called life. Go ahead, wear those boots and have some fun! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thighbootguy Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 I'll not let JeffB be the only encouraging voice. Give them a try! I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 JeffB - Dawn HH - Thighbootguy For now, I don't own any thigh high boots (This may change next winter...) The highest pair I got are those below which are just under the knee. I never had a chance (or guts) to show them fully exposed yet. If I do, I guess I will make many head turns... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted April 22, 2010 Author Share Posted April 22, 2010 JeffB - Dawn HH - Thighbootguy For now, I don't own any thigh high boots (This may change next winter...) The highest pair I got are those below which are just under the knee. I never had a chance (or guts) to show them fully exposed yet. If I do, I guess I will make many head turns... Good heavens! I'm shocked that you haven't shown off those boots! They're beautiful! By all means, show them for all the world to see, turned heads be damned! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. X Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 JeffB - Dawn HH - Thighbootguy For now, I don't own any thigh high boots (This may change next winter...) The highest pair I got are those below which are just under the knee. I never had a chance (or guts) to show them fully exposed yet. If I do, I guess I will make many head turns... I agree with Jeff. Those boots need to be seen for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiffany Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 Those are some nice boots danielp6406! I agree with the rest, you should go show them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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