HeelsWearer Posted February 1, 2020 Share Posted February 1, 2020 It was brought to my attention by a couple of fine gentlemen than males wear high heels daily as well. Please fill out the survey if you'd like! https://surveyhero.com/c/5d7bbf93 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spikesmike Posted February 1, 2020 Share Posted February 1, 2020 HeelsWearer : Great idea this survey, I saw it on the " For Woman Only " site. So I filled mine out there. Thanks spikesmike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cali Posted February 1, 2020 Share Posted February 1, 2020 I filled it out but there was one AGE DISCRIMINATORY question. Something like "Are you going to stop wear high heels when you turn 60?" Well I'm almost 65 and plan wear heels till I'm at least 100, then I will see. You need another choice. "I'm never giving up heels!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spikesmike Posted February 2, 2020 Share Posted February 2, 2020 Cali : Good point . I am going to be 80 yrs old in July 2020. I told my sister " When I die, Have me cremated in my highest heels ". This photo is about 1 to 2 years old. spikesmike 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeelsWearer Posted February 11, 2020 Author Share Posted February 11, 2020 I've posted this survey on other boards as well. I'm hoping to get 250 responses and I'm up over 200 already. If you haven't taken the survey, please do so! Minimum: High heels 4 days a week or more and 3 inches or higher please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heelster Posted February 11, 2020 Share Posted February 11, 2020 1 hour ago, HeelsWearer said: I've posted this survey on other boards as well. I'm hoping to get 250 responses and I'm up over 200 already. If you haven't taken the survey, please do so! Minimum: High heels 4 days a week or more and 3 inches or higher please. Done did - - but I'm not 60 yet - - - but close !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jetheelsfan Posted February 11, 2020 Share Posted February 11, 2020 Oh how I wish I could participate but due to extenuating circumstances --- I am unable to wear heels as often as I would like to be able to do so. Just a bit higher to to delight - low enough for healthy foot comfort and great beginning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
p1ng74 Posted February 11, 2020 Share Posted February 11, 2020 I guess since I don't wear stiletto/spiked or platform/wedge types of heels I don't qualify Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shyheels Posted February 11, 2020 Share Posted February 11, 2020 I had that same issue with the survey... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeelsWearer Posted February 11, 2020 Author Share Posted February 11, 2020 (edited) Thanks all for participating. I wanted to explain a couple of questions. First the age question. Wow, I've heard a lot about that one. Let me explain my rationale behind that one. I am a hostess at a very upscale diner/restaurant. It's located in a section of the city with many banks, law firms, real estate offices, small corporations, and other businesses which tend to have workers who need to dress up. I see many women coming in and out in the course of a day. Not a day goes by where I don't get a comment about my high heels. One thing I've noticed is that many women will kindly tell me my heels look great but wait until I get older. I also hear comments from younger women about how their heels are killing them. Over the past year or so I've been paying close attention to who says what (this led me to the survey). Here is a very generalized overview of what I had thought and I notice the survey is helping to confirm my theory. 1) Most high heel wearers who complain about their shoes are wearing heels in the 2 to 3 inch range. Many of these women, I surmise, are wearing high heels because of the job they're in (implied dress code or societal pressure to present a certain look). I don't think many of these women want to wear high heels all the time but do it anyhow. Many times they'll have changed into sneakers to come in for lunch. I'm guessing their heels come off the second they get home and probably stay off all weekend. 2) I am constantly told that I'll end up going into low-heels or very small heels or flats as I age. This comes from older women who tell me they used to wear high heels but couldn't hack it anymore and the same will happen to me. These ladies mostly are in the 55 to 65 year-old range. 3) Women who tend to wear higher heels, 3+ inches, very rarely complain about their high heels. I have one customer who must be in her mid 60's who wears 4 inch heels everyday. We often chat about how much we love our heels and compliment each other on them. What I'm getting at is that I believe when heel wearers really enjoy their heels they'll wear them higher and usually put some thought into their footwear. They've learned to get a proper fit, they take care of their feet, they get cushion pads for their shoes, they find a style (small platform in front or low cut vamp for example) that works for them and they go for it. They are passionate about their high heels. People who are wearing their lower high heels who don't really want to do it but feel some pressure to wear them probably don't put in the work to learn the finer points of high heeling!. Some women refuse to bend to any pressure to present a certain look and wear flats, which is fine. The reason I put that age question in was to see if a lot of people who get to that age where they just can't take high heels anymore would give up their heels by around 60. My survey so far shows that very few people will give up wearing high heels when they get older. This makes sense because most respondents in my survey are high heel devotees who truly love them. (I've posted the survey to a few high heel websites including High Heel Place and Reddit High Heel Groups.) So when you read about 70% of wearers find high heels uncomfortable or have developed foot problems from wearing them, I'll bet you that 4 out of 5 of those women fall into the 2 to 3 inch range who feel compelled to wear high heels. People who go above the 3 inch range usually don't have problems and my survey shows that. Very few respondents have answered "yes" to high heels being uncomfortable and even fewer reported having any foot/leg/back problems. And quite a few of these people are wearing 4 or 5 inch heels daily! Probably in a survey of all high heels wearers, 75% say they'll give up high heels when they get older but that includes all heel wearers with all heights included have been asked. That number appears to come down sharply as you ask higher heel wearers only. So that is a very long explanation of why I asked the age question. As for stilettos/spikes vs. platform/wedges, it's been my experience that women (I put women here because almost all my interactions about heel types are with women) usually break down heel types into one of those two categories. I realize their are many types of heels, but I believe in general heels can be classified as either having a thinner heel or a thicker heel or stiletto/spike vs platform/wedge. In no way do I have any scientific evidence to prove anything at all. I just went with my intuition and wrote the survey that I thought would be interesting to study. I am sure there are many problems with many of the questions but I'm not publishing anything. I will share with you in a post what the results are but that will take a little while to compile. I've read it here before on this website and I'll say it again, "High heels, either you get it or you don't" and I believe many who don't wear them because they feel they have to which skews any results of a survey to separate the ones who get it with those that don't. Thank you, Carol I am going to post this in the For the Girls section also to get their feedback! Edited February 11, 2020 by HeelsWearer 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cali Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 (edited) I thought I would give you some anecdotal observations. Where I work there are thousands of people who work there or use the place. Of the 400+ women who work there, there are only about 10 to 12 and me in the "High Heel Club." About 8% wear 2-3 inch heels but most at 1 in or less. Surprisingly, several of us n the High Heel Club are size 10. I constantly get asked if my feet hurt by the flats crowd, and then they usually say they can wear high heels because ... I think their feet hurt because they have ruined their feet with bad shoes when they were young or make their purchases with style over fit or they don't have good enough posture to wear heels. I learn very early on that Life's too short for heels that hurt. If it does fit to begin with then I will pass it up. I will buy some that are very close and use my heel stretchers in them. I am a regular at a nail salon where I get my fingernails done. The women all want to see my nails and my heels. Those that are leaving want to see the old ones and ask about my next design. A couple of weeks ago the conversation was about heels, and the phrase "dinner heels" came up and their definition was "the heels your wear from the car to the table and from the table to the car." Edited February 12, 2020 by Cali Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jkrenzer Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 Hi Carol, I believe that the men in this forum are like the women you dicussed who wear higher heels, and do it comfortably for years because of the joy and pleasure we all get from them. I believe that as men on this site, we by nature fall into that category. I've been in high stilettos for over 30 yrs and and constantly asked how i seem to be so effortless in them and told how well they look. I agree with your conclusion that true heel lovers wear shoes that fit correctly and therefore do less harm to their feet. Like Spikes Mike, i intend on wearing heels for many more years. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeelsWearer Posted February 12, 2020 Author Share Posted February 12, 2020 Thanks for the nice replies. I, too, plan on wearing my high heels as long as I'm on this earth! Just love them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonC Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 Carol, thanks for your survey and discussion, It is interesting. And keep wearing those heels! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K2inheels Posted February 12, 2020 Share Posted February 12, 2020 (edited) Great survey! Would like to see the results. As others have said, I do not plan to stop wearing heels just because I am over 60. Heels complete my look and style. In fact I do not walk on flats much anymore unless I am doing something or going somewhere that heels just would not work, like the beach, hiking in the woods, etc. Ciao! Edited February 12, 2020 by K2inheels Correct words Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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