Heel Convert Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 What would you guys say you look at first on a girl, her face, boobs, bum, legs or heels? Or would you just take a sneaky look at the whole package?
Foxyheels Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 I am very predictable, I look straight at the shoes but an answer to what makes a girl sexy then I have to say heraura or personality, some women just are sexy the shoes, body and clothing re just a bonus. High heels are the shoes I choose to put on, respect my choice as I repect yours.
dblair Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 What would you guys say you look at first on a girl, her face, boobs, bum, legs or heels? Or would you just take a sneaky look at the whole package? Hmmm, I guess I would go with whole package. Great hair can be very sexy too
Simcity3 Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 well firstly shoes Often if it fails at shoes i dont even bother looking at the rest. But if i where to get a new partner personality is my main concern. http://meinheels.wordpress.com/
hhboots Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 The whole package: face, hair, body, legs, how she dresses, speaks, and carries herself, are all variables that add up to a sexy woman. However, I am guessing you will find many here on this forum that focus more on the legs and feet, and that usually includes her shoes. I have to admit, those are probably higher on my list as well.
Dr. Shoe Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 that is a very good question. I think it's a combination of clothes, shape, presentation and movement. Heels accentuate the curves and the movement, some clothes accentuate the shape and show off the movement. If a woman takes the time to do her make-up and select a nice outfit then she is so much sexier than her twin sister in a baggy tracksuit and uggs. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
Secret Simon Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 Assuming, as has been explained by others, this is purely on visuals, in order: Smile, Shoes, Face, Whole outfit, Hair, and then, if I'm entirely honest, Bust. So the first look, is definitely face, to see if she is smiling. Of course, if the first view is from behind, it's shoes.
Histiletto Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 The twinkle in her eyes, the styling of her hair, the way she smiles, the movements of her mannerisms, the outfit she has chosen to wear that frames her enthusiasm and love for life, are just a few of the things that attract this guy at a first impression. Yes stilettos are very high on my attraction scale and I left them separate, because this lovely person already chooses to wear heels when she wants to (just like me).
new_look Posted January 3, 2011 Posted January 3, 2011 ALL features are attractive its the way they are used and carried that makes the attraction!
Rob Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 As the question was, what makes a girl sexy? I would have to answer; Personality. But as most replies here are about looks, I must admit that it's a nice pair of legs that catch my eye. But also her posture and the way she moves and carrys herself. (And of course we would all agree that heels enhance all of the above!) I also can't resist a nice smile, even on otherwise average looking women. 1
Heel Convert Posted January 4, 2011 Author Posted January 4, 2011 I met my man because of the heels I was wearing. I was on my way back from work in a fairly neutral blouse and skirt combo (hardly out on the pull). Most guys I met at school were only interested in my boobs.
Dr. Shoe Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I think it is the height of sophistication to be more interested by what a girl's wearing than the size of her tits. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
swollen Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 A well polished Zimmer Frame and a bad attitude; gets me every time. "The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." Nietzsche.
Majo Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 I think "garbo" is what makes a woman sexy. I don't know if there is an English word for that. It's a combination of personality, the way she moves and looks, and her style. Nothing to do with apparel.
Guest Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Depends what is visible first. Generally face, body or feet. Depending on clothing style its check the shoes on how they are. That shows weather she cares badly worn shoes is a no no. Al
Heel Convert Posted January 4, 2011 Author Posted January 4, 2011 I guess it's universal to both sexes that if a man or woman takes pride in their appearance that makes them attractive. I wonder though if you guys are the rule or the exception?
jdmonto Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Heels are an obvious choice, but even more important is confidence. The person must feel like she looks good, and that impresion may be "projected" to other people. I´ve seen women who were good looking, and used heels, but they were obviously uncomfortable while doing so (not fisically, they just seem uneasy), and that takes away a lot of the sexy factor.
Heel Convert Posted January 4, 2011 Author Posted January 4, 2011 So Mark, you're into stockings? Or tights? I adore stockings and I found that they have really spiced up my life. I have a few pairs of black silk stockings with velvet lace and both My man and I are in love with them.
wood&metal Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 The whole package, but what gets me from the start is an honest smile.. Never frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
roniheels Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 I would say the care taken on her personal appearance from head to toe. Then I would have to say how she carries herself. Attitude, personality, friendliness, and style. I have seen some women whose physical appearance is outstanding, but their attitude and behavior and the way they treat others is an actual turn-off. 1
RonC Posted January 5, 2011 Posted January 5, 2011 If it's purely from a visual standpoint, I would definitely say the whole package, but I will always look to see what shoes she is wearing. I have seen women that from a looks standpoint aren't overly attractive, but if she's wearing a great pair of heels, I can be attarcted. Similarly, if there is a very attractive and shapely woman, I can be somewhat put off by the selection of a shoe style that I don't care for. She doesn't necessarily have to wear heels, as there are some heels that I find to be quite unattractive, and if saw a woman wearing that style I could be turned off by thinking, man, if she wears those things, he other shoes are likely bad as well. That being said, if we are going beyond the physical/visual end of teh scale, than sexy has a much different definition, and personality would rule. However, at this point in my life, I doubt that I would attempt to find someone for a long term relationship that did not wear shoes that I like. I wouldn't dump someone on that basis only because it wouldn't get far enough to be considered dumping unless she fit what I a would be seeking. Right now, I think I'd choose to be without a steady relationship if it didn't include a lady that would wear heels among the other traits I'd be looking for.
SleekHeels Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 For me (as far as shoes go) a girl wearing high-heels isn't necessarily sexy... but a girl enjoying wearing her high-heels can be incredibly sexy. If you like it, wear it.
Fred87 Posted February 21, 2011 Posted February 21, 2011 I would say the care taken on her personal appearance from head to toe. Then I would have to say how she carries herself. Attitude, personality, friendliness, and style. I have seen some women whose physical appearance is outstanding, but their attitude and behavior and the way they treat others is an actual turn-off. Totally agree with Ron, internal beauty goes along ways.
iamduff Posted February 22, 2011 Posted February 22, 2011 Honestly I look at the shoes and outfit first, if she's taken care in her appearance and looks good and confident in what she wears, she's attractive to me.
markc Posted February 23, 2011 Posted February 23, 2011 Heel Convert, any kind of hosiery is great, heels are second.
Histiletto Posted February 26, 2011 Posted February 26, 2011 In the movie called "Sleepless In Seattle", the Tom Hank's character (Sam) describes how he knew his first wife was the one for him. It was the touch of her hand on his as helped her out of the car. The line is riveting and heart-warming. This kind of happening can make a girl so sexy and the guy her knight in shinning armor, just knowing she or he is the one.
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