Forced to wear heels (repost to a thread in girls forum)

[Charlotte]

Wanted to get everyone input on a thread started in girls forum so I'm reposing here.

Posted byMarch 15, 2016 

Have you ever been forced to wear heels on some occasions?

By your parents / bf / Girls / bets

How hard was it?

[Shyheels]

Can’t say as I have, but then I have always been mulishly independent and except in the matter of horse races (where the horses I like to follow like to follow other horses) I am always careful to win any bets I make. :-)

 

[xlheel]

Yes, by my then girlfriend a couple of years ago. Mostly just by her requesting it, but other times she had the heels locked on my feet.

[Charlotte]

1 minute ago, xlheel said:

Yes, by my then girlfriend a couple of years ago. Mostly just by her requesting it, but other times she had the heels locked on my feet.

How long were they locked on your feet?  What kind of heels?

Edited October 2, 2017 by Charlotte

[xlheel]

It varied from a couple of hours to a whole evening, most often 14cm shoes or 14cm ankle boots (Pleaser Domina 434 or 1023).

[PolarSun]

I wasn't forced yet but would like to be locked in very high heels with no platform (for example in 14cm Dominas 1023 or even higher) without knowing for how long it will be and made walk in them. Also I would like to try the same with ballet boots. Hope it will happen some day.

[Tacchi Alti]

I wish... I've locked 5.5 inch stilettos on my feet and left the keys in the car and gone for a half-mile walk, but wish I could persuade my wife to do it for me! I wear heels most of the time in man mode, but more restrained wedges and block heels around 4.5 inches.

I can wear 5.5 inch stilettos for hours, doing housework etc. My toes hurt a bit if I'm standing still for long (eg washing up) but I can walk around with no problem. My lower all-day heels feel like flats until I try to run across the road and am reminded my insteps are not far from vertical, or when my wife purposely leads me over rough ground, slopes, etc.

[SF]

I think the idea of forcing someone to do something against their will is discomforting......   But hey, that's just me.......   Take care...   sf

[walkingtall]

Yes. I really wasn't forced but more coerced by a friend to wear a pair of stilettos.  To make a long story short, it was a challenge that turned into a monetary bet that I refused to loose.  So I ended up wearing a pair of 5 inch stiletto that are kind of too tight for 16 hours.  My feet really didn't hurt until the last 3 or 4 hours, but it felt good to be able to  push the limit.   Anyway, I won the bet and my friend paid up and I had a good time.

Maybe later I will post the whole experience in the stories forum.

[nzfreestyler]

I've never been forced to wear heels but I have felt pressured to wear tall heels out a lot.

Because I'm well known for my heels whenever we go out its sort of expected that I'll wear heels - and the more formal the event the higher the heels etc... No one would demand it but is a pressure I perceive, which is largely self inflicted by my wearing heels almost all the time. I do understand how some women may not look forward to going out if they aren't into high heels.

So I've felt compelled to keep standards up and have worn taller heels on trips/ get togethers when I wouldn't really have done so if it was just me on my own. On my own I would have worn a lower heel option. I also like having the tallest shoes (or put another way I don't like being outdone in the footwear department) so that means I need to keep my heels up.

Got nobody to blame or raise an issue with other than myself - so I'm ok with that - but I thought I'd share my perspective.

 

[Cali]

53 minutes ago, nzfreestyler said:

I've felt compelled to keep standards up

Same here, on the rare occasions I don't have heels on my administrative assistant ask "what's up with no heels".  It's also starting to get that way with my nails. 

[nzfreestyler]

Yeh. My friends tease me for being in mufti if I wear wedges rather than a stiletto heel.

[Amanda]

If you wear heels all the time for too long you can end up being forced to wear them by the simple fact that it hurts like hell if you don't.

It happened to me and I had to spend a long time doing painful stretching excercises until I could comfortably walk without heels even for an hour or two.

It still feels like I have big long clumsy clowns feet when I walk around without heels but at least I'm not forced to wear them in that way anymore.

You boys enjoy your fantasy and that's fine but having to deal with it as a day to day reality is different I can tell you.

[nzfreestyler]

Hi Amanda,

no fantasy here. I wear them all the time but basically never at home.

As you rightly said regarding getting stuck in heels - I have experienced a similar issue many years ago that put me into flats for 18 months while I worked hard to recooperate the tendons/ligaments in my feet (plantar fatia/ achilles etc)My sports med specialists demanded that I run excessively and I was taped up and wear only running shoes for 6-12 months to start with, then move back to flat shoes etc.... That - as I know you'll understand is a crappy situation  and I understand the challenges you'll have to deal with too. Back then  I incorporated flexibility and exercixes into my training (which I do anyway for multisports) every day to ensure that my feet are looked after, I've been doing this for over 5 years now and I've had no niggles/trouble since (touch-wood). None of us appreciate what we have until we are faced with not having it, and I learnt to appreciate high heels more than ever after being so long without them at all.

I nowadays wear heels daily - but never at home. I suspect a lot of others wearing is at home more (which is ok - not as many crazy people as me out there)

Please don't think I'm fantasizing - I'm not - I've been there & learnt from it. I love heels, want to wear & be seen in them daily and am being careful to ensure (hopefully) I can keep that up for ages to come.

 

On an equally important side note - I hope your recovery is ongoing and getting better and I wish you the best in that regard.

 

signing off todays ramble

H

 

 

[Cali]

2 hours ago, Amanda said:

You boys enjoy your fantasy and that's fine but having to deal with it as a day to day reality is different I can tell you.

Hi Amanda,

Also no fantasy here. I wear my 4 inch heels every day, for 12 + hours. I try to go barefoot at night.  I do stretching exercises all the time because I'm a skier.  I've also damage my achilles and torn both calves, one extremely bad (15 month recovery) and other very mild. But those are just minor injuries. When I ski I have to tape both legs.

[Amanda]

On 24/10/2017 at 5:50 AM, nzfreestyler said:

I nowadays wear heels daily - but never at home. I suspect a lot of others wearing is at home more (which is ok - not as many crazy people as me out there)

 

That's what I'm trying to do. My second attempt actually.

I was in denial for about ten years. I knew I had to wear heels all the time but I didn't really want to think about it and I managed quite well to avoid situations where heels would be a no go.

My doctor had a serious talk to me abuot it and he gave me exercises i tried now and then over the last two years but it hurt so i didn't try very hard. Now I'm more serious about it and I can manage barefoot for an hour now before I start to bit my lip.

I was talking to someone alse about feeling like a clown when I'm not in heels, my feet are effectively twice as long as normal and I've been tripping over things. I'm going to stick at it this time though for sure :-)  There's no way I'm going out anywhere in flat shoes though not for the forseeable future. Too ugly!

Edited October 25, 2017 by Amanda

[nzfreestyler]

I get it and I'm sorry to hear that. You just have to keep up with it. Soft tissue injuries/ problems do repair themselves but extremely slowly - especially ligament/tendon issues because connective tissues have low blood supply and therefore repair and heal very very slowly. The best way to increase bloodflow is exercise and heat - which is why when I couldn't walk on my foot my physio and sports med specialists sent me running every day to speed up recovery. Not comfortable but suddenly became ok to run on - but not walk on - that still hurt. Over time both came right, and over time I could alternate heels and flats etc....

I do wish you well - Good luck!

 

[bootlover78]

Amanda, first off, Im sorry to hear that your love of heels caused such pain in your life.  I would like to say however, I think the OP's idea of being forced to wear heels isn't quite as extreme as it sounds.  I also have that same fantasy and was fortunate enough to have my wife help make it a reality one weekend.  See, the fantasy isn't long term or anything like that, it's more a bondage and submission type of thing.  For some of us with a heel fetish (especially with men) once "fun time" is over, we automatically want to go back to our normal vanilla attire.  This is where being forced to continue to wear them is more fun.  My wife had me wear my leather thigh high boots from Friday evening all the way up until Sunday evening while she spent a weekend out with her girlfriends.  They were locked on and she kept the key with her.  It was pure torture and pure bliss at the same time, especially sleeping as I usually need to keep my feet cool to sleep well and needless to say, my feet werent exactly cold.  it was just a constant reminder of my predicament and the dreams I had when I did fall asleep were wonderful.

It's easy for me to see your side of this, saying why on earth would you want to be like that especially since you are already in that type of scenario, but for me, I dont want to be in heels 24/7.  It's more about the temporary loss of control.  I had half a dozen different ways to get out of the boots if I needed to, but it would have ruined the fun of it, so I saved those for emergencies only and enjoyed my weekend.

[Amanda]

On 29/10/2017 at 2:42 AM, bootlover78 said:

Amanda, first off,   See, the fantasy isn't long term or anything like that, it's more a bondage and submission type of thing.  For some of us with a heel fetish (especially with men) once "fun time" is over, we automatically want to go back to our normal vanilla attire. 

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Bootlover I already know all this.

Sorry,

It just makes me grumpy sometimes.

I'll try and stick to playing the word game.

Edited November 2, 2017 by Amanda