ljhh Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 i had a girlfriend that knew about my love for high heels and she said she was ok with that she even gave me a pair of her boots, luckily we were the same foot size about 2 months ago we broke up and ii cant forget about those moments when i wore high heels in front of her now i dont wear high heels anymore because they remind me of her i still look at women wearing heels in the street but i get sad any advice on how to go on it will be greatly apreciated thnx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vector Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 I don't have any magic words other than the old saying, "...time heals all wounds..." Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 That's right. It will take some time. It's ok to feel sad and to cry as well. Remember when things are really bad that they will get better again. Your missing her will only get easier from now on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legs777777 Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 Very sorry to hear about that my friend, time will heal as has already been said but things will feel bad right now, a positive outlook will help, you never know what will be round that next corner, I know you probably wont feel like that at the moment, but try, and also take every new opportunity that shows its self to you, you never know there might be some thing special waiting with your name on it, and get the heels back on again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Shoe Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 Just pull yourself together and get real man! Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 Just pull yourself together and get real man! ..........real men.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heellover21 Posted September 28, 2011 Share Posted September 28, 2011 I found that going out and doing things really helps get your mind off things. And time will heal. Stay strong and you will be in heels and happy again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilikekicks Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 Breathe, relax, live, repeat. If your on the bottom of everything, you can only go up! REPEATEDLY ARGUMENTATIVE, INSULTING AND RUDE. BANNED FOR LIFE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoverfly Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 ..........real men.... Explains a bit about you Amanda, you gracefully up there in age aren't yeah? Hello, my name is Hoverfly. I’m a high heel addict…. Weeeeeeeeeee! 👠1998 to 2022! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charlie Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 It hurts like hell, but like others have said, time truly does heel all wounds. At only 20 years old, it's just the beginning for you. So much to see and do. Charlie Everything I say is a lie!.......I'm lying Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tacchi Alti Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 ..........real men.... Hmmm, they were obviously transfixed by your presence! What lyrics, too! Now I see your role models I have a greater insight into what makes you tick, or flea, or bedbug. OK, don't take me seriously, but for ljhh, I know it's a serious matter at present. Most of us have been through it, and you feel almost suicidal at the time. I say almost, because if we were really suicidal we wouldn't be here now... If there was real chemistry between you, you may well get back together, but whatever happens, remember that grieving is normal in anyone with feelings, so you must be a really nice person. That will show when you get into another relationship, and who knows, she might not only give you her footwear but take you shoe shopping! 'Come, and trip it as ye go On the light fantastic toe.' John Milton Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 You are young. You will, hopefully not but probably, experience something like this again later on down the road. As others have told you, just pick yourself up and get on with living and enjoy every moment of doing things you really enjoy doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SleekHeels Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 It sounds like you had something really good there, and in time the sadness for what you've lost will be replaced by a gladness that you were lucky enough to have it while it lasted. If you like it, wear it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wood&metal Posted September 30, 2011 Share Posted September 30, 2011 I bet that a few years from now, you'll think of her sometime in a passing thought........ and you'll hardly be able to remember her name... Never frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 It's always a sad event whenever any relationship comes to an end. Especially ending in a way that you wouldn't want it to. However, there is life after breakup and I would suggest that get ready and go out to your favorite pub, wearing your most stylish outfit and favorite high heels and strike up new friendships based on who you really. I'm sure it won't be long before some well deserving young lady, that likes you looking just as you are, will make herself known and, who knows,,,,,off and running again. Take heart. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DProud2700 Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 I have gone through a few breakups myself prior to getting married to the woman I love now. I have always found the heels to be a great friend to wear around the house and out and about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beaztheelz Posted October 3, 2011 Share Posted October 3, 2011 Quit feeling sad and get yourself toghether. Its NOT ok to cry over her. Just shut up and get back in your heels and get over her. Crying or feeling sad isnt going to get her back so just hurry up get over her. Its not like you can run away from heels for the rest of your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ljhh Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 great song thank you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ljhh Posted October 7, 2011 Author Share Posted October 7, 2011 thanks for the support to all of you I read all of your comments and saw your avatar pics and now I want to go and wear my high heels again, they are part of me not of her hahaha I remember that she said that I looked and walked in high heels better thann her haha thanks to all of you I will get better soon and who knows maybe I will get a better gf with better taste for high heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tacchi Alti Posted October 7, 2011 Share Posted October 7, 2011 Well done. Move onwards and upwards - in more ways than one! Do they celebrate Halloween in Mexico? I know most Americans hoot and haunt and party that evening, but maybe it's not the same with you. If it is, make the most of it and go out in your highest heels. You never know who you might meet who loves the look. Oh, I don't mean that you should necessarily wait till then!! Just that's it's a prime opportunity. 'Come, and trip it as ye go On the light fantastic toe.' John Milton Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ljhh Posted October 25, 2011 Author Share Posted October 25, 2011 yeah we celebrate halloween here, at least in border cities, haha I will wear heels again at oct 31st Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tacchi Alti Posted October 25, 2011 Share Posted October 25, 2011 Go for it! 'Come, and trip it as ye go On the light fantastic toe.' John Milton Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ljhh Posted November 3, 2011 Author Share Posted November 3, 2011 haha Me and my heels are now back thanks to everyone! I finally uploaded a pic of me w/hh well for my profile only because 4 some strange reason I can´t upload pictures to an album :/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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