RonC Posted January 26, 2010 Share Posted January 26, 2010 HappyFeat, thanks for the straight-forward reply. You are quite incredible in my book. I only wish I had the intestinal fortitude to try what you are doing. I would love to go walk around the mall in a nice pair of stilettos, but alas, my fears are much too great for that. Hope you and the new lady get on well, and that she accepts your style! It's good to know that I can ask about any question (though some likely wouldn't get an answer...lol!). I hope you keep posting pictures, as that is what I enjoy seeing the most! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heelaphile Posted January 26, 2010 Share Posted January 26, 2010 HappyFeat, always a fan of your outings! I used to be on this site as shoelover80 and then left for a little bit. Well, I'm back now! Look forward to reading more of your posts! heelaphile aka "May" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 Happyfeat:-) Great outfits as usual, but the first pic and the last pic impressed me more. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 Greetings HappyFeat :-) I don't know if I will have the courage to ask my stylist...Will see next summer ! Again, well done with your outings and outfits ! I like the outfit in picture # 1: Specially the boots. They are very nice ! (and my style too !) Picture # 4: I could not imagine myself wearing skirts in public. You wear them with ease and now you wear them shorter and shorter. I must say you got a lot of ..... to wear such a short skirt in public ! Maybe next time you may want to wear your mini skirt with OTK boots ? I'm impressed... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thighbootguy Posted January 27, 2010 Share Posted January 27, 2010 All the looks are good but there is and aspect that bothers me particularly on #4, the skirt. To me, the look just seems out of proportion, especially with the elbow patches (they draw my eye down and emphasize the missing waist line.) A long top with leggings may be designed to not have a waist and get away with it, but a skirt should have one. As a suggestion I offer this site on Proportions of the Human Figure (This is a site for artist and there are nude models. If that is offensive to you, don’t go there.) If you keep clicking on the next button you will see lots of examples of where the female waist is placed in comparison the male waist. I think the most successful example of a guy wearing a skirt on out site has been JeffB’s business suit and http://i142.photobucket.com/albums/r96/JeffCB2006/longskirtandboots-1.jpg'> long skirt with a wide belt because both of them raised his waist line a bit. (By the way, I had to go to page 2 to find Jeff’s thread… slacker.) Your look on http://www.hhplace.org/attachment.php?attachmentid=5889&d=1236870190'> 90310_outfit.jpg and 090311_outfit.jpg has a higher waist (and I’m sure there are others). The looks you have been able to present are far better than any efforts I have made so maybe I shouldn’t be critical. Please take my observations as well intended. I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted January 29, 2010 Author Share Posted January 29, 2010 Ahh...I was wondering when somebody was going to say something about the skirt picture. Here were the three things I knew when I put together the outfit: 1) the skirt was way too short, 2) the sweater is not in style (with the elbow patches at least, and 3) I was taking a big risk wearing it with pumps instead of boots. Thighbootguy, I thank you for your feedback. You are welcome to post constructive criticism (and I agree whole heartedly that JeffB is a slacker). Seriously, your suggestions are well taken and quite helpful (though the link to the site doesn't seem to work) and you gave options and alternatives. This is exactly why I post here. Also, I am sure that many people read this thread to get ideas for their outfits. If somebody doesn't point out mistakes or even nuances for improvement, how will we learn. Thanks for the great feedback! Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henri Posted January 29, 2010 Share Posted January 29, 2010 HF, I really like your Thursday and Friday outings. They sounded like fun. Please keep up the outings. I enjoy them. BTW Great pics and I agree with Thursday comment "Nice Legs". Henri If you haven't learned something new today; you have wasted the day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stefan Posted February 1, 2010 Share Posted February 1, 2010 Number 1 is my favourite. Keep up the good work. You always manages to put together stylish outfits. Best regards, Stefan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted February 5, 2010 Author Share Posted February 5, 2010 Here are my latest outings and outfits: Monday January 25 - Since the weather had been a little better, well at least no snow on the ground, I decided to take my Nine West "Pangnotta" d'Orsay pumps with a moderate heel out for their first outing. Since they are fairly dressy, yet conservative shoes I went with a fairly dressy look: white turtleneck, yellow Oscar de Lorenta sweater, charcoal Lane Bryant "Lafayette" trousers, and beige tights. My stops included Marshall's, TJ Maxx, and DSW looking to see if any boots had gone one major markdown. I spent about 20 minutes in each store looking at shoes and did draw some attention, but nothing too out of the ordinary. Since I wasn't having much luck, I headed for the mall where I visited Lane Bryant but nothing caught my eye. The staff always greets me nicely and always offer help and conversation, which is the main reason I stop in. I spent about half an hour in Bakers where the young sales clerk kept bringing me shoes to try, but all in 10s because that store never seems to get in 11's. At Aldo I tried a couple pair of boots, but the shafts were just too small for my calf. My last stop was Banana Republic where I tried on a pair of skinny jeans and even a couple pair of shoes the had on sale, but they were both a size too small, but quite close to fitting none the less. I thought that I would go back later and see if they were still there. I did get a lot of looks while strolling the mall and got a shout out from a group of scruffy 12 year-olds to "find some men's shoes." I did get a bit of a chuckle from that. Tuesday January 26 - During my last round of outings, I bought a pair of suede pants at a consignment store so I wanted to take them out for an outing. The pants are brown, so I matched them with a tan, ribbed Claiborne turtleneck sweater and funky old Nine West "Paz" ankle boots in brown. I hit the Shoe Carnival, willing to settle for even cheap boots if I could find them, but no luck there either. I did have a nice conversation with one of the clerks. I went to Barnes and Nobel to check out a couple books on Photoshop, which I really want, but at the moment really don't have time to use. By the time I could get around to them, I could get them elsewhere for half the money. Again, a couple of glances but no real reactions. Finally I went to Starbucks across the street. The place was relatively empty and I wound up chatting to one of the customers and the staff at the coffee bar. It seems that we all had done our fair share of travel in NE Ohio and new a lot of the same, obscure places. After getting my drink, I bought a paper and pulled up an easy chair near the door. Every customer who came in got a full look at the fairly high heel on my boot. Some people did the double take thing, like they thought they could stare without me noticing. Some looked, smiled and spoke. A couple looked and held back laughter. One of the women working came my way to clean off some tables and we chatted for several minutes about her job, her graduate studies, etc. That was a very nice interaction. Friday January 29 - Pay day, so off to the bank! I have worn heels every time I have gone into the branch, the tellers are always nice, so now I look forward to my semi-monthly bank run. Since I don't want to disappoint, I wore black suede and leather Bass "Alannis" booties with my black suede blazer, red JCrew sweater, white GAP turtleneck and Limited 917 boot cut jeans. The bank was busy, which limited my interaction with the tellers, but it was still a nice visit. They really don't react one way or the other anymore. I stopped at Half Price books and picked up a couple of used book on graphic design and went to Starbucks, the same store I was in on Monday. The same girl I talked to then was working, and we chatted for a bit. Since the store was jammed that day, not only was interaction limited there was no real place to sit, so I left, hot chocolate in hand. I decided to return to the mall. At the Banana Republic, the shoes I was eying were sold, all five pair! I was a bit surprised. I did try on a pair of skinny corduroys pants that were marked down a great deal. I thought about buying a pair, but since I don't like the few pair of tall boots I have and hadn't had any luck in finding new ones, I decided to pass. I browsed the Ann Taylor Loft, but no good sales in my size and looked around H & M. On my way out I looked at the Macy's shoe department, but they had no boots for less than $75. No real interactions save the pleasantries with the barrista in Starbucks and a very nice clerk at BR, but a nice outing none the less. Monday February 1 - My major activity was getting a haircut. It has been quite a while since I have gone for a haircut NOT wearing heels. I started doing it because I was inspired by members here who do it, but also I found it to be a great was to gauge reactions. And besides, getting a haircut is about looking better and I feel that I look best in heels. Never the less, my outfit was understated - black turtleneck, yellow Nautica sweater, black Ann Taylor Loft skinny jeans, black tights, and black patent Bandolino "MacDougal" loafers with a block heel and a gold buckle. Frankly, I think this type of outfit work best for me. Though I had usually gone to higher end salons for my haircuts, I recently started going to Supercuts, one of those strip mall chains because they offer a color treatment that blends in my gray. And they also do a nice job, and the price is quite reasonable. The stylist was friendly, but not terribly talkative. Like every other stylist I have ever had, she made no comment about my shoes (though I did have one tell me how wonderful I looked and what a great sense of style I had) While I was there, the store got quite busy. Some of the waiting customers did check me out and I caught a few staring. When I left, I did see a couple women get up and watch me walk away through the window. What fun! Next, I went to Wal-Mart to pick up a few odds and ends. Though I don't do it often, Wal-Mart is a great place to heel because people seem hyper focused on shopping. In the parking lot, I did catch a few glances. Next I went to Lowe's to get some wood screws to help with adding some boards to attach drywall. I was amazed, I had four women clerks helping me find what I was looking for - almost like they were fighting over helping me. Finally, I stopped by Marshall's on my way home. I found a pair of black Nine West "Blondie" boots in the clearance. They were $40 but had a few scuffs on them. I pointed it out to the clerk in the shoe department and she marked them down to $25 for me! Never hurts to ask! I also bought a black belt to accessorize a few outfits and work on showing my waist, as per Thighbootguy's prior suggestion! Tuesday February 2 - Sometimes I can't help myself. I know an outfit may not be flattering, but I do it anyway. This day was one of those times. I was going consignment shopping, and when I do that I usually wear something over the top. I had decided to take a short break from skirts, until I address a couple of fit issues, but I didn't take a break from going a little too close to the edge. I bought a pair of purple Nine West "Nucio" pumps a few weeks back and wanted to give them a try. I decided to match them with a black jacket and purple wool sweater, but I chose off-white Lane Bryant "Houston" trousers to go with it. Not that the look was too awful, the pants are a bit too big, and the wide leg with the cuff makes them just a bit unflattering. Since that outing, the pants have officially been "retired" along with about six other pair of LB size 16 trousers. First, I stopped at a consignment store that is fairly high end. The store has two locations. The new one is where I bought the suede trousers I wore in my second outing. This store is more suburban and also a little more uptight. They had nothing even close to my shoe size and few things that I would ever wear. However on of the clerks was friendly and told me that I need to come in at least once a month and that a few weeks ago they had several things that I would have liked. She gave me a brochure and told me that she hoped that I would make their store a regular stop.While I was in the store I got many looks from the women shopping, mostly negative and giggles and covert "points" from a couple pre-adolescent girls. Poeple just don't get out much in the suburbs I suppose... My next stop was my regular store. Though I had been in recenlty, there wasn't much new. I did buy a pair of Bandolino boots that were almost new for $15, though they are a size too small, but still fit relatively well. I talked to the owner for a long time about her business (she is thinking of closing) and other assorted small talk. She has a friend who comes into help her, who is about 60, attractive, but scatter brained. She was leaving at the same time as was and said she wasn't in a hurry because she didn't have anybody waiting for her. I said if that were the case, we should grab a coffee, if she wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with a guy dressed as I was. She laughed it off and said that I was dressed very well and looked quite natural so she agreed. We went to a Starbucks down the hill from the store and chatted for over an hour. She is a retired teacher, really into fashion, and had never been married. We talked about teaching and she was quite surprised to find out that I wasn't gay - almost disappointed actually. She lived in New York in the 70s and had a few great stories to tell, so I kind of figured she was an aging "fag hag" who was looking for a new friend. While we were chatting, several people took long looks, checking us out. We must have been quite an odd looking couple. This is one of the great things that I have discovered about heeling - you never know what any outing will lead to! Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maximilian Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Entertaining stories as usual HappyFeat. A good read as usual. I actually like the last outfit the most. I love those purple Nine West pumps. I've finally discovered color as well lol. I bought a purple dress shirt, a red silk dress shirt and a purple tunic/dress. I also finally broke my shoe/boot black-brown-gray pattern and got myself some nice burgundy stiletto pointed toe boots. You know that you've reached the point of complete heeling confidence in public when people staring at you and generally giving you negative looks makes you laugh at their patheticness and only helps to boost your confidence even further. Sounds like you've reached that point my friend. Bravo. Over the past month I've been spending my time in town for a change and I found that my confidence levels have soared as well. I have virtually no problem wearing any of my styles in public and absolutely love that personal feeling of freedom. I have no doubt that anyone on this site can reach that level of confidence. The trick is to take steady and small steps to gradually build up your confidence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thighbootguy Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 HappyFeat – Thanks for the great post. I think the look of the whole collection is excellent but if I have to pick (figure of speech, I know I don’t have to pick), I like #2, the brown suede. Now I’m trying to figure out why I like that look. I do like boots and leather, but aside from that, the colors of that outfit are all in the brown pallet and they go very well together but I think the biggest thing is that they do not generate a lot of contrast. Contrast is good if you want to show something off because it does attract attention but tuning it down, as you have, gives a look that would blend in anywhere. I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonC Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 HF, I agree with you on the look of #4. I think that is your best overall look. Longer slacks can accommodate a higher heel, but the skinny pants with the block heels look good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. X Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Very interesting reads as always Happy. All pics are good but I'm definitely diggin pics 2 and 3. And I love the shoes in the last one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Happyfeat:-) A couple of good outings as usual for you. Congrats! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Last week, door #1 with the blazer, sweater, etc. This week, Door #2 - another winner! It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Greetings HappyFeat :-) Another great post with nice outfits. Well done ! I like picture 2 a lot: It must be because of the brown ankle boots You know what ? These boots are "driving me nuts" and I don't know why ! Wow... ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted February 6, 2010 Share Posted February 6, 2010 Hiya, HappyFeat! Congrats to you on all your recent outings! Sounds like you had a great time on your adventures. And, as usual, your fine sense of style shined through in everything you wore! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted February 16, 2010 Author Share Posted February 16, 2010 The weather in my part of the world has been less than desirable - snow, snow, and snow with a couple of weeks of sub freezing temperatures. It has slowed me down, but not totally stopped me! Monday February 8 - I wore gray/black pullover over a red Izod mock turtleneck, Limited 917 slim fit jeans and red Nine West "New Dealer" stretch boots. I went to Starbucks for a hot chocolate and made wonderful eye contact with a pretty woman in UGGS. She gave me a nice smile, but she was with a small child, so I didn't approach her. I did get many long looks and double-takes, but that is to be expected since I was wearing red boots. After Starbucks, I went to the grocery store to pick up a few things. I will say I drew a lot of attention and many strange looks, but it was still a lot of fun. Tuesday February 9 - My outfit was a gray turtleneck sweater, black blazer, dark Lane Bryant flare jeans and black Enzio Angolini "King" boots. My only stop was Starbucks (not the same one from the day before, but a bit closer to my home). I got a beverage and took a seat at a table. I couple women watched me as I did some work. Later another woman came in and sat at a table across from me and we spoke. Before I left, I headed for the restroom, and made it a point to speak to each of them. Though they returned the greeting, none held eye contact for a conversation. Thursday February 11 - I wore black Ann Taylor slim jeans, a red sweater and a blue tweed blazer with a hint of red in it. Over my jeans, I wore Steve Madden "Stretchout" knee boots with a stiletto heel. I did a little shopping. I got an e-mail from the Bass outlet saying that Women's boots were 80% off. However, they really didn't have many pair of fashion boots. I did buy a pair of flat knee boots that I really wanted last fall, but now they were on clearance. This may be strange to say, but it was the first time I have ever been waited on by a guy. He wasn't friendly, but did ask how I was doing and if I needed help a couple of times. I guess it is another barrier broken. Next I went to Nine West. I bought a couple pair of shoes, but the boots were still not marked down enough for me and they did have several pair of 11's, so I thought to give it another few days. The clerks were very nice and glad to see me. I tried on a few pair of pumps and sandals they suggested and even brought me a style list of items they are expecting to get in over the next few weeks. Friday February 12 - I had a couple of small errands and decided to make it a heeling day. I wore a white turtleneck under an orange Tommy Hilfiger sweater, Limited 312 boot cut jeans, and caramel Nine West ankle boots with a pretty high block heel. The first stop was the bank, where the teller I usually talk to was training a new person, so I really didn't get to talk a lot to her. I did complement her on this great purple scoop neck sweater. She said her mom bought it for her and she has great taste in clothes like I do. Very nice complement I thought...at least they are noticing! After the bank, I stopped for gasoline and even though the station was full of pretty rough looking guys, everybody was quite friendly. Finally I stopped at a drugstore and bought some cards for Valentine's day. That was pretty uneventful. Tuesday February 16 - I had planned an outing for the day before, but the weather prevented that, so I decided to go to Panera Bread for lunch. I wore a buff wool Maurano sweater, a tweed blazer, light Lane Bryant boot cut jeans and brown Bandolino "Astrid" boots. Again, I got a few looks, but the store was pretty hectic. I chatted with the clerk about the cold and got some coy smiles from a couple of young women working. I did some work, ate my lunch and came home to return to my new hobby - shoveling snow... Though the outings were not very eventful, I did wear three different cuts of jeans and for the first time wore only boots...just seems appropriate somehow. Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 Happyfeat:-) Very nicely co-ordinated outfits, all 3 of them. The snow certainly didn't stop you from having your usual stylish romp in your boots.. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted February 16, 2010 Share Posted February 16, 2010 #3 and #5 this week; smart looks! It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Greetings Happyfeat:-) All nice outfits ! (I specially like the red boots in pic #1 and the blazer in pic # 2) I hope you did not damage any of your boots walking in the snow and slush ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. X Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Pic #2 looks smart Happy. And being a jeans guy the last 2 work well for me too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted February 17, 2010 Share Posted February 17, 2010 Wow! Such great outfits! Well, I gotta say that pics 1 & 3 were my faves from your latest adventures. I also admire you for still getting out and about while I've been snowed in. Big time props to you! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted February 18, 2010 Share Posted February 18, 2010 Those are some great looking outfits and beautiful high heeled boots. As I have stated before, you and I share a similar view of wardrobe and high heels combinations. I look forward to your next postings and pictures. Your outings have always inspired me to go to many places in public wearing high heels with my coordinated outfits. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted February 23, 2010 Author Share Posted February 23, 2010 Here are my latest group of outings. Some hits, some misses but all fun! During the last week, I was able to do a little heeling five straight days and I wore two skirts and a dress. Weeks like the last don't come around nearly enough, but it is nice when they do. Wednesday February 17 - I had a dead cell phone. I had been quite lucky for a while and my old phone kept working, but finally it was time for an upgrade. I went big. I got an iPhone, which is a wonderful toy. Anyway, since I had to go to the cellular store, I decided that I was going to do it in heels. I wore a simple outfit: a black and white herringbone blazer, black wool pullover sweater with a collar, dark Lane Bryant bootcut jeans, and black suede/leather Bass "Alanis" booties. I did get noticed as soon as I walked in the mall. One woman stared for a bit, then looked up. We made eye contact, she smiled and we spoke. A nice reaction. I did get several other glances while walking through the mall, but nothing out of the ordinary. In the cell store, the young man who waited on me was quite helpful and friendly. Several of the other employees and customers did make an effort to look at my shoes, but he was never phased. I am really enjoying these type of day to day activities wearing heels and think it is a major sign of progress that I feel comfortable wearing heels to do nearly anything I like. I made a couple stops in the mall. The clerk at Aldo was very friendly. She also wears a size 11 and we discussed the difficulty of finding the nice shoes in larger sizes. She even asked me for an opinion on a bag she was thinking of buying. I went into the Limited where I was escorted to a fitting room without even having to ask. I tried on some jeans and pants. The clerk and I talked about fashion and style as if it was perfectly normal for a guy to like women's clothes. I did buy a pair of gold satin pants, a pair of black velvet jeans and a pair of black velvet Capris, all for $20. So cheap I couldn't pass them up. Thursday February 18 - After a hectic day of work, I decided to go to the consignment store near my house. They had a couple of items the last time I was in that I wanted to see if they still had. I wasn't heartbroken to find that they had sold, because they were still a bit expensive for me and hadn't yet been marked down. If somebody wanted them at the asking price, more power to them. Anyway, I decided it was time to wear a skirt with my new Nine West "Blondie" boots. I wore a cream colored Claiborne pullover turtleneck, black denim Ann Taylor Loft skirt, black cable knit Lane Bryant tights, and the black "Blondie" boots. The store was fairly busy. A high school age girl was working and chuckled when I cam in. I guess I was her first skirt guy. I dug through the clothes, found a few things to try, but didn't have much luck. When I came out of the fitting room, an older clerk asked if I had any luck and she told me a couple women came in earlier in the day and "cleaned out" the large section. I left the fitting room carrying my boots becuase my next stop was the shoes. They only had a few pair of very ugly 11's, but I didn't give up. After my fourth or so pass over their rack I found a very nice pair of suede slignbacks that had a price tag from Macy's showing they originally retailed for almost $100.00. They were only 10's, but I put them on and walked around the store. They fit pretty well and were quite comfortable. I wound up getting them for $12! I had to wait a bit to check out. A tall brunette whom I had talked to before was working the register and the phone wouldn't stop ringing. When she was checking me out, she overcharged my card, had to void the transaction, shuch gave us so time to talk. She told me about a shoe repair store a few block from my house that stretches shoes for only $5 and does a great job. Since I have a couple tight pair, I may take them in as well as getting new heel tips on a pair of ankle boots. A very successful outing and I did have a bit of fun. Friday February 19 - Since the weather finally cracked freezing, I had to do a skirt again. This time I was a bit more aggressive. I wore a gray turtleneck, cream Banana Republic cotton sweater, gray cotton lined skirt, gray tights that are almost sheer enough to be pantyhose and faux snakeskin Fioni knee boots. I went to a shopping district called the Waterfront because business earlier in the day had me on that end of town. I usually make it to this shopping center a few times a year, but it isn't a regular heeling destination for me. My first stop was Barnes and Noble. The store was full of mainly older people, but also a few young hipsters were there since a lot of college types come to this center. I got more than a few looks, but my best interaction was with an attractive woman in her fifties while looking at DVD sets. We had a nice 5 minute discussion about Ken Burns' documentaries and which we liked best. Though she never really made eye contact (we were both looking through the shelves) there was no reaction from her about how I was dressed. Next I went to Lane Bryant. This store is not always helpful of friendly, but I did ask to try on a dress and was cheerfully escorted to a fitting room. Other than being asked how it worked, there was no attempt on behalf of the staff to make any conversation or offer additional help. I wandered through Ann Taylor Loft, but all of the good stuff was gone. The interesting experience there was a couple of young men came in the store for no reason. I am pretty sure that it was to see the guy in the skirt. When I left, the clerk said to come back whenever I wanted. My final stop was Macy's. The Macys there is likely the worst Macy's in the whole chain. The store was reasonably crowded, and I was asked on three occasions if I needed any help before wandering by the fragrance counter where the woman working stopped me and showed me several fragrances that I "might like." The women working in the cosmetics across the aisle didn't even notice me while I talked to the perfume lady. I may not go back to that shopping center for a long time. It really doesn't have enough stores to hold my interest. Also, the skirt I wore fits strangely and I will likely retire it. But it was nice to get out skirting for the second straight day. Saturday February 20 - Finally, I wore my Limited dress. For any of you who read my obsessive postings in the Freestyle Fashion thread, you know this was a big deal for me. The outfit I put together was based on a recommendation from kneehighs to match it with black pumps and a black velvet blazer and I added a wide black belt on JeffB's suggestion. My own touches for this outing were my high Nine West "Lucaro" pumps and micro fishnet tights. Since I had Saturday night free, I went dancing at the club I frequented before I moved. A lot had changed since I was there last, but it has been since September. This club could be hot or miss, but a few people I talked to said it had been dead for several months. I did have a couple of interesting interactions. One guy told me it was great that I felt comfortable to "do my own thing." He was a bit irritating, coming up and asking me questions every 15 minutes or so, but was harmless and truly curious. I had a nice talk with a really hot blonde, who was wearing raspberry Steve Madden pumps, that I guessed for her. She was very impressed. However, she joined a group of women an the "alpha" of that group didn't like me, so the blonde wouldn't even look my way. Strange how packs of people in a club almost become primal in their behavior. I danced for about an hour, though the dance floor was not very popular. I danced with a blonde woman I had danced with last summer and even danced by myself. I was out on Saturday, looking hot, feeling sexy and damn it I was going to dance. About 2:00 AM, the place began to die, so I called it an evening. I stopped to buy gas on the way home and a guy pulling out of the gas station saw me and damn near jumped the curb staring at me. I guess I was hot enough to stop traffic.... Sunday February 21 - A short outing on Sunday morning. I actually thought about going to church on Sunday becuase I heard about a church that is very accepting and I could wear heel, but I slept in. I decided to go to breakfast instead. I went to Panerra for a bacon and egg quiche. I dressed simply, a gray blazer, black v-neck Banana Republic cotton sweater, Lane Bryant flare jeans, and my old Aerosole knee boots. These boots are worn out and may get one more wear before they head to Goodwill. They have sentimental value since they are the shoes I have owned the longest and the very first pair of boots I ever bought, but their time has come... I really didn't get any reactions worth reporting, a glance her and there, but the flare jeans covered the boots pretty well. Though the boots have a nice 3 inch heel, they are actually pretty unremarkable, so don't draw to much curiosity. Again, it was quite nice to just go out in heels and feel no anxiety at all about it. I would have loved to do more heeling on Sunday, but had way too much work to do. Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluejay Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 HappyFeat, Great pictures of your outfits as usuall. As I have said before I really like your pictures and reading your posts!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Saturday night is the winner!! It seems that we all agreed on the plan!! Love the "snakeskin boots" but would have liked it paired with something else. It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Henri Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 Saturday Night was a definite winner. Thanks for the update. Henri If you haven't learned something new today; you have wasted the day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted February 23, 2010 Share Posted February 23, 2010 WOW! Where to start? First things first, great outfits all, sounds like you had a goodly amount of fun on your outings. Hard to pick a fave, but I'll go with the Saturday night outfit which was absolutely sensational, the blazer, dress and pumps looked great on you, and I'm glad you followed my suggestion and added the wide belt as it was a neat touch. Thene there's the Friday ensemble with the snakeskin boots, holy cow, that was awesome! I don't know if I would've had the cojones to wear boots like those in public, and you paired them very well with the skirt you wore. And the Thursday outfit was plenty darn sharp too! Bravo, my friend! BRAVO!! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted February 24, 2010 Share Posted February 24, 2010 Greetings HappyFeat :-) Saturday and Sunday outfits are definite winners ! And I agree with JeffB about the snakeskin boots. They are very nice but I would not have the courage to wear boots like these in public. Wearing a dress and heels seems very easy (and natural) for you. Life is too short: It is better to do what you want while you still can. Too bad I did not realize this 10 or 20 years ago. I would have started to wear heels much younger... BTW, I hope you keep a backup of all the post you made here on HHPlace. Remember that you really should write a book when you retire from the "heeling" scene... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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