muddypaws Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 I wanted to add a comment to the ladies pitch on sleeping in heels, but it is taboo. So lets put it on it's own. Have you ever or do you want to? As I have said before, my partner does not approve. full stop. We went on a holiday in the caravan a while ago and as usual I took a pair of heels with me. There is not a lot of room in the van to tuck things like 4" shoes out of sight, but I managed. When she takes the dog for a walk, out come my heels. This is not really enough so I ended up by wearing them in bed. I had wanted to for a while. As she is always in be before me it does not create much problem. I put them on and go straight to sleep,HEAVEN!. This is fine and although I can wear them all day with no trouble, I find that during the night, I have to kick them off for a short while, then put them on again. Those shoes enjoyed a three month holiday in France, and so did I (& she) I have been known to take the caravan to the Midlands, on my own. So I am able to take whatever I want and live happily for the weekend. As my kids both, and partners know, I am free to do my thing! That includes living in heels all day and sleeping in them all night. What more could ANYONE want? I love you all. Muddypaws:w00t2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennard Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 Hello, everyone! I wanted to add a comment to the ladies pitch on sleeping in heels, but it is taboo. So lets put it on it's own. Have you ever or do you want to? Yes, I have, several times (whenever I'm in the mood). I just have to remember to lock the bedroom door, otherwise my sister may come in and catch me red-handed (high-heeled). K. If the high heel shoe fits, wear it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeshoething Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 I have back when I lived at my parents house, but since I have moved into a new house with my wife, I have not, but wish I could. I used to love the feel of my legs and feet under the sheets when wearing hose and heels. The smoothness of the sheets on my legs, and the arch my feet made...Oh so good...I miss that feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bootking Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 I have but only when I was alone (with the exception of after sex). LOL It's all about the heel! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeshoething Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 Bootking, You have great legs in your avatar!! Way Up!! That would be great. Last time my wife and I used my heels as an accessory, she asked me to remove them before curling up and going to sleep. I did leave them on as long as possible, but still to no avail. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gwl1 Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 My wife and I frequently rub legs to relax before going to sleep. I often wear heels to keep my feet warm and to prevent her from touching my very ticklish soles; and hose because it feels better when she rubs my legs. I also usually put skin lotion on my feet to keep the skin soft; when it gets dry it cracks and can get infected. So the heels and hose keep the skin lotion from rubbing off onto the sheets and keep the lotion on my skin where it does good. When we are ready to go to sleep, I will often just turn around on the bed and keep the hose and heels on. But I can never sleep too long in heels. After an hour or two, my feet get too hot and I have to take them off. I once had some sandals I reserved for this purpose, but I gave them away to heel-mates. I should get another pair, but I never like wearing sandals any other times. So yes, heels are fun to sleep in. I've never torn a hole in the sheets and (fortunately) never kicked my wife (although she once ran her foot into my heel - ouch!). It didn't hurt that bad and we both had a good laugh. She thinks I'm nuts. Could it be? Nawwww! GWL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CassieJ Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 I have a pair of ballet boots that I have worn to bed from time-to-time. They really stretch out my foot and increase the arch over time. Problem is, after a couple of hours, I have to remove them as I wake up uncomfortable. It is very hard to walk barefoot after taking them off so I am tippy-toe for a few minutes until the muscles relax and allow me to walk flat footed again. If I wear regular heels to sleep, they have to be sandals as my toes get crunched in closed toe shoes with the covers putting stress on my feet. Sometimes the wife uses her feet to see if I am wearing heels under the covers. She likes it. Cassie - http://www.fetishforhighheels.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stilettoscot Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 Yes, I do. Occasionally, when I buy a new pair of heels or I just can't keep the things off my feet, I'll sleep in them. But, I always wake up a couple hours later...but it feels great. Walking in ultra-highs because it's exciting...and it is!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
f_private Posted October 30, 2008 Share Posted October 30, 2008 I do it occasionnely, like it even if it's a really high heel it hurts after a few hours Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HHLover Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Yes, I've done it. I've worn some of my higher pumps to bed and have done my ankle boots as well as my ballet boots. As others have said, usually after several hours I wake up and need to take them off because of pain. Even so, it is really a great feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Muddypaws:-) What the wife doesn't know won't hurt her, eh! I have never worn heels to bed. I have upon occasion worn pantyhose to bed. Makes it a lot easier to turn over when needed. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 The times I have slept in high heels is after I bought a brand new pair, wore them day and night, and then just went to bed wearing them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
secondtake20 Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 I have worn heels to bed many times. When I had my girl friend she wanted me to always wear hose and heels to bed. The first couple of time I did it they woke me but I got use to it. I have worn knee high boots with a 5 & 1/2 heel to bed and sandles and ballet boots all night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muddypaws Posted October 31, 2008 Author Share Posted October 31, 2008 Thank you everybody for that fantastic feedback. I didn't realise so many indulged in my "fantasy". No it isn't a fantasy. It is the real thing. Your feelings reflect my own all the way. Muddypaws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 One word: WHY? Sleeping in ANY shoes, least of all high heels would never occur to me. But that's just my viewpoint. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stilettoscot Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Jeff, I think it's just a nice feeling to know you've got them on, even under the sheets. Plus, especially with patent, they slide nicely in the sheets... Walking in ultra-highs because it's exciting...and it is!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyFeat Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 Only if I fall asleep while they are still on. I have never worn heels to bed... Style is built from the ground up! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Histiletto Posted October 31, 2008 Share Posted October 31, 2008 When I was a young child I got use to wearing feminine shoes to bed, because that was usually the only time I wouldn't be bothered. Now, it just part of my bedtime attire. Some heels I can wear all night without having to take a break. After waking up, it is nice to step out of bed and feel the height of the heels, instead of looking for a pair to wear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danielp6406 Posted November 1, 2008 Share Posted November 1, 2008 I never wear heels in bed but wondering what kind of bed sheets you are you using. Are they reinforced with steel or what ? I can't imagine how you never made a hole in the sheets while wearing heels unless you fall asleep immediatly and never move all night. I know I move a lot while sleeping. Sometime, I almost need to redo the bed when I wake up... So I don't think I could ever sleep in heels... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffB Posted November 1, 2008 Share Posted November 1, 2008 Jeff, I think it's just a nice feeling to know you've got them on, even under the sheets. Plus, especially with patent, they slide nicely in the sheets... Sorry, I just don't see it. The only feeling I like in bed is the warmth of a comforter during winter, that's it. No shoes whatsoever! But hey, if others enjoy that, more power to them. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heelsfeel Posted November 1, 2008 Share Posted November 1, 2008 hello, I allways wear heels in bed. Especially my 6.75 oxfords and 6.5 laced boots. (because you can't take them of or loose them while asleep). I like to wear a corset, garters and stokings. I allways wear a pair of "UNDER STOCKINGS" (allways textured) and a pair of nylons with seams. I don"t damage my sheets. I learned how to sleep with heels. Even ons silk sheets. It is a matter of how you take your heels: allways low. I made love with my late gf up and above:never damaged the sheets. She liked me to walk on the streets beside her, she wearing her heels I wearing mine in stockings a corset and a tight skirt. I love it. And still sleeping with heels, a corset and nylons Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted November 1, 2008 Share Posted November 1, 2008 I'm like JeffB. I see no need to wear heels to bed while sleeping. I like my feet bare and only use a top sheet for a cover all year around no matter what the weather. When you are hot, you are HOT. TEE! HEE! There may be snow on the roof, but the fire down below still burns brightly. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Histiletto Posted November 1, 2008 Share Posted November 1, 2008 I never wear heels in bed but wondering what kind of bed sheets you are you using. Are they reinforced with steel or what ? I can't imagine how you never made a hole in the sheets while wearing heels unless you fall asleep immediatly and never move all night. I know I move a lot while sleeping. Sometime, I almost need to redo the bed when I wake up... So I don't think I could ever sleep in heels... Having become so accustom to wearing heels to bed, when I haven't on occasions, I'm using my freedom to choose. I have torn or put holes in some sheets because of wearing stiletto heels while I slept, but this happens so infrequently that I don't worry. Having them on is more of a comfort. I also look at it this way: Should an emergency dictate that I leave my residence immediately, I still won't have to worry about finding a pair of shoes to wear. I may have some "splainun" as to why later, but at least I'll have something on my feet for protection and I'll let later take care of itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
t-strap lover Posted November 1, 2008 Share Posted November 1, 2008 I sleep in heels every night. I miss maybe 3 nights a year. t-straps are my favorite style. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jwhite44 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 For those that wear them to bed, how did you feel the following morning: - feet & legs hurt like heck. - pre-stretched ankles made it much easier to wear heels the following day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
William Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Yes -- especially after sex. My wife actually told me (after an evening we were both wearing heels) to keep them on. I didn't need to be told twice. Wearing 7.5" thigh high boots were so warm I had to sleep on top of the sheets. It was hard to sleep at first, but then, wonderful. If we're having sex when I or we dress sexy, I wear leather jock and sometimes a chest harness. It's way cool to wake up like that. I suggest it to everyone. But be prepared for legs to hurt like hell the moment you take your boots off. I hurt for hours. Not enough to seop doing it again and again and again. Oh, and if you're a morning sex guy, you will be SO ready for fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 Really a little more than I wan't to know. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jwhite44 Posted November 2, 2008 Share Posted November 2, 2008 I had an opportunity to try it last night. Overall, it was better than I thought it would be. My footwear was a pair of Payless Flex Pumps. These are actually loose on me (13W), but have a decent 4 1/4" heel. I put them in some heavy supermarket-type bags, with a rubberband around my ankles to bags on my feet (basically protection from the heels doing any damage to my bed). One foot didn't do so well. I was uncomfortable enough that about 2hrs after laying down, I had to take the heel off my foot. It was a problem with my toe in the shoe (which a bit of a nail trim the following morning seemed to correct). However the other foot was fine. I wasn't sure if I'd have more problems with my foot being in the shoe all night, or my ankle being in stretched position, but neither were an issue at all. I slept for the rest of the night without any difficulty. In the morning when I got up, the first thing I did was put on the other heel! For some reason that's what I felt I belonged in. I almost didn't want to take a shower (don't have any heels I want to get wet!), but I did. Afterwards, I really still wanted to be in heels, so I put on my 3" ankle boots for the couple of places I've had to go to in the morning. First time I've ever worn heels there. Except for the noise from the heels, no problems walking in them at all. After coming home, I went out again with them to Walmart. Exact same results - no problems walking, and no looks or comments. I'm sure actually walking in heels is the best practice, but it seems like wearing them to bed can help with your ankle flexibility. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CassieJ Posted November 3, 2008 Share Posted November 3, 2008 Wearing shoes that stretch your ankle out and increase your arch can assist in walking in higher heels. I wear ballet heels to bed sometimes and have a nightly exercise to flex my foot out (top extending the leg without any angle). Over the past 2 years, I have noticeably increased my arch and can now stretch my foot out straight in-line with my leg. When I started, I was not close to either goal. My arches are very noticeably higher and I can wear higher heels more comfortably than I could before. Cassie - http://www.fetishforhighheels.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muddypaws Posted November 4, 2008 Author Share Posted November 4, 2008 Hello Jwhite44. Welcome to sleep heelers. It's fun. Love it! Enjoy it. No need for plastic bags, unless your sheets are worn thin, they will not tear. If you can find a partner who also agrees, then you have twice the magic. Muddypaws Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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