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Another Amazon splurge purchase. Was looking for another pair of wedges as I only have 1 pair in my collection. These are way outside my normal scope of style, as I prefer the classic looks, but these kept coming up as recommended ever time I went to Amazon & I finally said what the heck. They are from some fly by night Chinese supplier, no name anywhere on the shoe or the box, will have to look at my purchase history if anyone is curious to know. They arrived pretty fast for overseas shipping. There was a strong chemical smell when I opened the box but it dissipated when i aired them out

I searched on forum, but dont see specific thread about this italian choe maker. it has been a while since i dont posted here (some year !) buuuut, i want to post here, because i have just ordered a pair of boot from there website. So, its not cheap, and after several month of savings, i finaly bought the pair of boots of my dreams https://charlotte-luxury.com/products/doolas-black In fact, i initialy wanted to order later this year, but the site has a 15% discount until April 15 ( if you want to order one pair, it is the right moment ! ) Dont look price if you not want h

I ran across this rather humorous clip the other day, and I thought of this thread. I don't know that this comes from TikTok, but it sure is in the style of TikTok. There's something there for both the dangling enthusiasts and for the people who don't quite get it. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CNHxPUVHL8s/?igshid=1ggj86d23vaml

Aubergine-(eggplant in USA i suppose)-coloured:

Picture for april:

RonC : You should be ashamed of yourself ogling and staring at that poor helpless woman struggling in high heels that way . I thought I was the only one that did stuff like that . Mike

JKrenzer : These are very nice heels . They may not look it, But they a true 5" heel on a single soul shoe . Yes I still have them and four (4) other pair just like them in different colors . Also, I still own the house where this photo was taken . Mike This is a shoe with a platform . Easy heels for walking .

Yes I am a veteran and have served in the Persian Gulf before the Gulf wars on a destroyer. Back in the day I did have an incompetent female CO at shore duty station who did wear heels.

If she is anything like my Ex-wife, then yes, you are wrong.

René Descartes walked into a McDonald's and ordered a Big Mac and a large Coca Cola. The kid behind the counter asked him, "Would you like some fries with that, sir?" Descartes considered it for a moment and said, "I think not." He promptly disappeared. Bah-dum-bum! I assume that we are not talking about this kind of basic philosophical perception, where if a tree were to fall in the forest, and my wife didn't hear it, would I still be wrong? That is another joke, by the way, for the benefit of those for whom English is not your first language. I think that one of the biggest proble

beauty warm day in the city: perfect for the "outfit". i went for a lunch date with a gal i've known for many years. while i was out there, on the streets in sauce mode, an older gal said to me: are you wearing a "modesty pad"? i had no idea what she was going on about! ha!

Just wearing high heels would not be cross-dressing any more than wearing a necktie or men's brogues would be cross-dressing for a woman.

My Easter outfit. It's the first time I haven't worn a jacket to Easter services, perhaps ever, but I thought it looked better without the jacket. Shoes are Nine West Bellafina.

Just received my tallest pair of boots. So pleased I just ordered them in red too.

That happened to my wife years ago. She bought some high heels from Italy via internet, and the company send 2 left pumps. She complained and send them back, they apologized and send 2 right pumps. She send them back and the money was returned. Strange, but somehow also funny .....

lsolathor : I love her shoes and I like her style . Mike

I am one of those lucky fellows who has U.S size 9 feet or EU 39-40, depending on who is making the shoe. I imagine that if I had been wearing hosiery of some sort, it might be possible to slip off a shoe without using my hands. I do not wear stocking or pantyhose, but I do have several pairs of trouser socks in several colors, as the situation dictates. For example, it doesn't look right to wear a traditional men's suit with no socks at all. And in fact, I did accidentally walk out of my pump on my way to church a few weeks ago, and right in front of one of the neighbors, too! Luckily, I have

Well,it may be that women have smaller feet than men regarding the width, that would make it easier to dangle. Who knows? We have been part of the german high-heel-community for almost 2 decades, and we have attended many HH-meetings, even organized some ourselves. So we met and came to know lots of women and men wearing high heels. But thinking back i remember only women dangling their heels (especially in photoshoots), i guess i´ve never seen a guy dangling his heel. Funny, but i never thought about that issuse until it came up here. 🤔

Nice to hear that you saw a lady in heels. On Easter Sunday, I noticed a lot of the ladies in heels in church and shopping at the supermarket after. I would venture to guess that more then 50-60% of the ladies were in heels and dressed in their Easter finery. The church was packed considering the max of 50% capacity for Covid rules. Our church holds more than 1,000 people and there was at least 500 there so again I'm guessing maybe 200 or more women in heels. I probably was the only guy wearing heels, a pair of Naturalizer pumps, "Whitney Black Brocade" black with gold, red and blue trim. They

As mentioned by many of us, seeing a lady in heels is pretty much a rare sight these days. Therefore Saturday morning was a rare treat, at the local golf course of all places (they do have many functions there, weddings, wedding and baby showers, etc.) As I was loading up my clubs into my cart, I noticed a young lady about eight cars down the aisle unloading large gift packages from her trunk. She had on a very nice dress, black nylons, and a pair of about 4" single sole instep strap heels. A sight for sore eyes. She was struggling some with large packages and I thought about going to see

Your earnestness is quite charming! My first reaction was, "Oh come on man, that TikTok was some funny shit." But then I got to thinking about it. And I'm like, "I'm going to try it. Right here, right now, at 5 o'clock in the morning." So I did. As I suspected, this method no worky-worky for me. My feet are shaped in such a way that my pumps have to be rather tight, probably too tight, or I walk right out of them. This is why I don't wear pumps too often. There is no way that the toe of the opposite shoe can gain enough purchase to pop the heel out, or even get it started, for that matter.

They've become accustomed to you. It's a good place to be, I know I enjoy it.

New Pleaser boots arrived today. They came all the way from Los Angeles to me because they were sold out on UK sites.

I actually did get my second Moderna jab in high heels, but that was kind of accidental. I didn’t expect to get it that day, they just had some extra doses left over when I stuck my head in the pharmacy. But since I don’t have a picture, I suppose it never really happened.

And of course @chesterx bought two left shoes. But is @chesterx coming or going?

Perceptions change over the course of history, so we are not "stuck" with current perceptions and their rules. I'm the kind of person that kind of enjoys breaking the rules a little, and trying to influence the change in perceptions a little, perhaps one person at a time like @mlroseplant wrote.

If a military commander wishes to deceive his opponent as to his intentions, he enhances his opponent's perception of the situation and hides the reality of the situation. One of the basic tenants put forth in Sun Tzu's 'The Art of War'.

Probably depends on the area you live. Big city, east or west coast, probably not much thought about it. Farm and ranch country and you will get some second looks and maybe a comment or two.

It's April, and starting to feel like summer here:

I’m not saying perception doesn’t matter, only that it is not reality. As I say, perceptions can have real life consequences but they are still perceptions, not the reality. Your boss considering you an idiot does not mean you really are an idiot. That’s the boss’s perception. The reality may be much different - or not as the case may be.

I would disagree with you on this as women can wear just about whatever they want without it being considered as crossdressing. The rules are different for men whether we like it or not.

I don't feel like those are a whole lot wilder than some of your other shoes. Was it the animal print that made you think twice, or just the sheer mass of the wedge? Also, I can't figure out how you got your feet to go like that. Are you, like, insanely flexible? Let us know how things go out in the real world. I've actually had some good luck with the Chinese stuff as far as comfort, and sometimes even durability. Then again, I've had some bad luck, as well.

ASOS have a massive sale on right now. Something that some may want to take advantage of as they have the Recite boots for not much more than £10. Many others for a bargain. UK guys, just a heads up, as we head out of lockdown, be prepared for a massive sale in Debenhams and others who will be closing for good shortly.

Yeah. Our church is suffering the same issue. Just got a new settled pastor and we're hoping that gets things moving in a better direction.

Would be difficult to not desire to wear those black patent pumps! Those are a fine example.

Mine pretty much figured out I was looney after admitting I got lost walking around center city! Figured the heels inquiry wouldn't be much of a surprise at that point....

As a young toddler, who didn't know the difference about much of anything, my desire to wear the shinny black patent leather buckle strapped footwear like the pairs pictured are some of my first memories in this mortal existence. Even after being told that only girls were suppose to wear these styles of shoes, it didn't seem right that my young male desire to wear these type of shoes is forbidden. So I have always wanted and have kept trying to wear stylishly beautiful shoes as I have grown up. I believe when I was about to enter my first year of elementary schooling that a special pair o

Something totally different and unique in my heel collection.

I also have damaged lowest disks. And feel some relief with heels. Even more if I pay attention to keep the abs tight. Never ask my chiropractor. Much too afraid he could say I am crazy.

Looking dapper there

Excellent look. You have the highest heels at the service? You are an elder at church, how large is the congregation? Just notice you have some rot on the lower edge of your siding, looks like a summer project.

Airlines might be one of the few vocations left where the uniform is so explicitly defined. But the day that I saw people wearing flip-flops in the office was the day that I decided that I am not going to lose my job or respect for wearing 4" heels into the office. In most offices now, self expression, rather than conformity, is encouraged.

pebbesf : The picture you are referring to was a day a few years ago . I was at this Mall for a " Walk a Mile in her Shoes" event . The mall was crowded for the occasion . This was just one of many people I spoke with that day . Always jetting comments - like , You don't seem to have any trouble walking in heels like those , or , I cant wear heels any more , or , Don't those hurt your feel ? Why do you wear those ? I usually respond with something stupid like - I never go anywhere bear footed, or , These aren't even my highest heels . <-- True . In truth, I have not received a negative comm

It was a chilly but warmer than usual evening, plus I was wearing the leather jacket. Also the heater in the pickup works well! My wife was a bit surprised I would wear the boots across the yard. We live in the city, small lots. Our back door faces the neighbors, and to the other direction there is nothing to stop neighbors from a couple houses down getting a good look into our yard. It was about a 75 foot walk to the garage, all out in the open, pretty well lit.

Same here, my wife doesn’t wear heels and when I was dating I paid no attention to the kind of shoes my girlfriend wore. I only started having an interest in heels recently in the context of fashion.

What other kinks? I've gotten heavily into leggings. Love me the faux leather and vinyl stuff.

I did not consider that concern but I would point out this is a forum for guys to talk about wearing womens shoes, so I am assuming a certain level openness here. I will say though if someone did want to elaborate on it I would be more than happy to discuss it in a private message here or an email.

I like that way you put that! They do have a FU attitude and is the most magnetic part about them for me anyway Thanks for mentioning this and I assume you are right. I have always been compelled to wear them and it is extremely sexual for me. I also love to see my wife in them but her passion for them does not match mine. I agree on the long hair and nails as well which my wife has but the nails are fake! I agree completely! Why do they have so many more options? Just not fair

The original question was, "What other kinks do folks have. . .?" Only a small number of respondents have actually answered the question, maybe because there isn't a whole lot to answer, and that goes for me too. No kinks, no "gateway drug." I've just always liked heels from a young age, and female feet in general. One might call it a fetish, but only to the extent that I enjoy attractive female shoes and feet. Once I actually put on high heels myself, the sexual aspect of it drops off the scale and is replaced by a general sense of well being. Oh, I guess I also like long hair and long

For me its mostly a sexual fetish. Wearing heels is both fun an exciting to me, giving me sort of connection to the the thing I love most, seeing women in heels. I have zero interest though in going out in walking in heels or make them part of my daily atire. And I suspect that goes for most men. Cause I know a lot of heels are sold to men and I yet have to see a single guy in heels in my fairly liberal university city. I do enjoy talking to other men about heels and wearing them though. Makes me feel part of a larger group and not some freak.