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    So I have been reading all of the comments about wearing heels in public and how to do it and what to wear. I have been going to some low end box stores and wearing really long pants to hind my pumps. I really like to wear very thin stilettos. I feel the pants mostly hide them and I avoid people the best I can in the store and then make a dash for the door when it is clear. Look at my phone and go about my business. So this has been working, no confrontations or anything, not even sure if anyone notices. They sure do make a lot of noise as all of these stores have tile floors. So yesterday I went into a place that I have been to a few times. This time I have new black pants that come down perfectly to the bottom of my shoes. I decided to wear my Black Platform heels. They are rounded toe and very easy to walk in. I have attached photos. So I go in and have to walk by a greeter and I go to the shoe section to see if there is anything I can by for myself or my girlfriend. I have two ladies come by me and look at shoes and make conversation. I didn't thing anything of it, I did find a great pair of heels for my girlfriend and went and bought them. As I was leaving the greeter stopped me and shook my hand, he told me I had everyone in the store checking out my shoes. I didn't know what to say, I just shook his hand and said "thank you". The lady that was looking at shoes with me just said have a good day as I walked by her. Thinking back I wish I would have asked him to elaborate a little more. Was it a good think or a bad thing in their mind? I would love to know what they were thinking. Was I a really weird guy or just that I had crazy high heels on and I am a guy?? Any thoughts from you all? Have you been confronted? I have a few friends that know I do this and they have told me who cares what people think, just do your thing. It was a great feeling to say the least but left me wondering more. Your thoughts...
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    Just obtained these 3 new pairs of shoes from uk eBay (even tho came from China), still breaking them in (except the boots).
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    Hi all I have been reading forums on this website for sometime. Ive only just recently decided to join. I have been wearing heels secretly for about 4 years now. I only get to wear them when I am home alone (which unfortunately doesn't happen often) so I wear them during the night when everyone else is asleep. I like wearing my 4 - 6 inch heels, I have about 6 pairs (2 boots, 1 open and 3 closed toe). I would have more if I had the money, more time to wear them and if more shoes were in my size of womens US 12. I am already quiet tall (long legs) and young so there aren't many people that I can talk to and show my clothing style. Nowhere days the idea of gender and how its portrayed has begun to change (this website for example) so the ideas of gender and clothing is not black and white anymore. It is becoming more a spectrum rather than binary, which means that in the future men and women should be able to wear whatever they wish. These are a few of my shoes in my collection.
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    AJ First, that is a great combination, very powerful.... Next, I will tell you not to be so hard on yourself, and give yourself some credit for being courageous and confident. I have been in the same position once or twice I guess, kind of like a "deer in the headlights" after receiving a compliment. Look at all you have accomplished, and accept the fact that people are actually complimenting you! I'm sure you will engage more after receiving your next compliment. Trust me, the greeter was paying you a compliment. He would have said nothing if he felt you were strange or customers were poking fun at you.
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    I think you sense an opportunity lost here. Oh, well, perhaps it was a learning experience and next time you will engage the greeter or the other shoppers a little more. For example, if you had wanted to strike up a conversation with the gal in the shoe department, you could have broken the ice with some line like, "Don't you just hate it when they're out of the size you want!" or try on a pair and say, "Excuse me, but how do you think these look on me." You'll might get a smile and a pleasant reply and take it from there. Or you could get a frown or a deer-in-the-headlights look as she cautiously backs away from and looks around to see if the coast is clear or if somebody is filming Candid Camera. Not everyone is amused. I like the fact that you had the courage to go to the store and wear what you wanted, but I think you might have come across as a bit shy or embarrassed. You don't want to give the impression that you think what you're doing is wrong or could be construed as wrong. You just want to be outgoing and confident, engage in conversation, and include some humor or joking in your conversation: "A guy can't have too many shoes, right?" Good luck in your future jaunts, and thanks for sharing your story. It gets easier each time, it's legal, and it's fun. And some women are impressed with a guy who has that kind of confidence! Steve
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    Really cool heels, I've tried a similar pair of these on once but didn't buy unfortunately
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    Mostly use block heels with my man clothes, like the attached pictures
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    Name: innskin Age: 67 Gender: Male Location: United States Occupation: Retired Height: 5' 10" Weight: 215 LBS, yup, beer belly Shoe size: USW 12/EU43/CM28 What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto or nice block heel What's your favourite shoe style: open or peep toe Do you wear your heels outside: Block heel type shoes or boots. What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 4" (b) Your highest heel height: 6" How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: 4" (b) Your highest heel height: Ballet heels when In bed Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: hose Anything else you wish to add: not at this time
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    Name: swedeheeler (wont give my real for privacy) Age: 32 Gender: Male Location: North Sweden Occupation: Contractor Height: 6'4 (193 cm) Weight: 18 stone 13 lbs (120kg) Yup I'm heavy, with some love handles around my belly Shoe size: USw 14/EU46, but it may shift depending on maker What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto What's your favourite shoe style: Tigh high Do you wear your heels outside: Nope, not comfy with that yet. What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 5" (b) Your highest heel height: 6.5" How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: When I feeling for it (b) Your highest heel height: In bed Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: It vary from time to time. Anything else you wish to add: I'm still stuck in the shoe closet
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    HappyinHeels Age: 55 Gender: Male, married, adult kids Location: SE Wisconsin, USA Occupation: Fed Law Enf Height: 175cm / 5'9" Weight: 90kg/198 lb Shoe size: US10.5 EU41-42, can fit many sandals in 10 but need an 11 in boots and pumps What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto and wedge What's your favourite shoe style: Pumps, sandals, and knee boots Do you wear heels outside: Yes nearly always now What is your favourite heel height: 5-6 in/12.5-15cm What is your highest heel height: 8.5 in/21 cm How often do you wear: daily. Driving, errands, shopping, etc. Do you wear socks, hose stockings: I wear kneehigh hose daily. Thighhighs if trying on outfits. Anything else you wish to add: I love heels and mix other articles in as well for reasons I don't understand and probably don't matter. I feel alive and confident in heels, especially wedges, and have had very positive experiences. I really want to promote more men to openly wear the footwear of your choice. Life is soooo short and it must be enjoyed today.
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    High Heel Place Hi Sydheel, redandwhite has posted a comment on a topic, Let's get to know each other redandwhite said: James Age: 50 Gender: Male, married, kids Location: Sydney Aus Occupation: Security Height: 179cm / 5'11" Weight: 92kg Shoe size: US11, EU42, ish and like most would love a size smaller What's your favourite heel style: block or slim, all, but i find block and thick stilettos more comfy, block heels essier to hide n blend in under jeans What's your favourite shoe style: knee boots, ankle boots, little platforms are nice. Do you wear heels outside: yes almost always now What is your favourite heel height: 3.5-4.5 inches What is your highest heel height: 5.5 How often do you wear: daily at work Do you wear socks, hose stockings: stocking sockettes normally, thin socks in 1 pair, bare feet in open toes Anything else you wish to add: Happy to be wearing heels. Height is limited by ankle recon and 2 permanent screws which limits movement a bit Im growng with confidence daily and am less and less caring about been seen out. Still working on the 'why is this so' question but have accepted it as who i am. No desire to go further into cd or ts worlds. I also am a bit of a snob, i just dont like the feel of pu or fake leather. You are receiving this email because you are following the Topic 'Let's get to know each other'. Prefer to stop receiving these emails? Unfollow or Adjust your notification preferences. Click here to view our privacy policy High Heel Place
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    Age: 37 Gender: Male Location: UK Occupation: Engineer Height: 6ft 2in Weight: 13 stone Shoe size: uk 8 or 9 depending on make What's your favourite heel style: block or slim What's your favourite shoe style: knee length boots Do you wear heels outside: occasionally, if I'm feeling brave What is your favourite heel height: 4-5 inches What is your highest heel height: 5 inch How often do you wear: 3-4 times per week. Usually driving to or from work Do you wear socks, hose stockings: hose stockings Anything else you wish to add: I wish I could wear out more but fear seeing someone I know and working in a macho industry, it would be pretty much unbearable if "they" found out. Starting to buy more top end / up market styles, I'm a bit obsessed with boots
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    Name: softmover Age: 48 Gender: Male Location: South Germany Occupation: IT Height: 1,73m Weight: 73kg Shoe size: EU42 (...unfortunately not one size smaller) What's your favourite heel style: Chunky, Block What's your favourite shoe style: (Ankle) Boots, Pumps Do you wear heels outside: I wear them every day on almost every occasion What is your favourite heel height: 10-12cm What is your highest heel height: 14cm How often do you wear: daily to work Anything else you wish to add: Thankfully, I have a supporting wife and children who are (most of the time) accepting their 'weird' husband/father
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    Name: Adam Age: 28 Gender: Male Location: Midlands Occupation: Engineer Height: 5ft 11 Weight: 12st Shoe size: EU43-44 - 9/10uk What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto What's your favourite shoe style: Boots Do you wear heels outside: Every weekend and walks at night up to 4 inch, mainly chunky and half hidden What is your favourite heel height: ~5 1/2 inch max comfortable so far but do have 6 and 7 inches What is your highest heel height: giaro wedge 7 inch heel How often do you wear: every day Anything else you wish to add: Big heels fan and my girlfriend also
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    Name: Robbie Age: 49 Gender: Non-conforming/Transgender, consider myself to be femme Location: Oregon Occupation: Business owner Height: 5'10 Weight: 178 Shoe size: Womens US 9.5-11 What's your favourite heel style: Platform, (Chunky), Stiletto, Wedge What's your favourite shoe style: Booties, Shoeties and Sandals Do you wear heels outside: Nearly every day What is your favourite heel height: 3-4inches What is your highest heel height: Currently 5 inches How often do you wear: Every day Anything else you wish to add: I'm gender non-conforming and a femme person comfortable in her own skin. My taste in clothes and sometimes footwear goes through cycles. I can feel a wedge cycle coming on
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    The trash is not limited to Australia, very prevalent in the US also and getting worse.
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    Name: xraynt8 Age: 21 Gender: Male Location: Germany Occupation: IT Height: 1m86cm Weight: ~90kg Shoe size: EU42-43 What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto What's your favourite shoe style: Pumps, Mary Janes Do you wear heels outside: I went on a train ride once with wedge sneakers What is your favourite heel height: ~14cm What is your highest heel height: ballet boots How often do you wear: almost daily Anything else you wish to add: hmm dunno, i just love high heels =) and i eighter want smaller feet or more heels in bigger sizes ^^
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    Name: Age: 56 Gender: Male Location: England, south coast Occupation: Engineer Height: 5' 7" Weight: 12 stone Shoe size: UK 8/9 (depends on make) What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto & block What's your favourite shoe style: Knee length & thigh length platform boots Do you wear heels outside: Mostly in private but occasionally in public What is your favourite heel height: 4-5" What is your highest heel height: 7" ballet heels How often do you wear: Daily, mornings before work & evenings on returning from work. Sometimes I sleep in my comfiest boots too... Do you wear socks, hose stockings or bare feet with your shoes: Mainly stockings & suspenders, but have been known to wear over the knee socks or tights. I never wear boots with bare feet. Anything else you wish to add: I got into boots in the mid-seventies when a girl in my class regularly wore over the knee red leather platforms. Well sexy! A spell in the armed forces thwarted my interest in boots along with a bad marriage. My current wife supports me fully & we share boots as we both take the same size. I have now developed into a 'part time' transvestite with my outfits based on which boots I wear. My wife & I now own over 150 pairs of boots & around 10 pairs of shoes & are specialising in real leather, having discovered that plastic & PVC footwear does not last that well. I have only two pairs of 'male shoes'.
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    Name: Graham, Age: 51, Gender :Male, Location : Manchester, England, Occupation: Employed, Height: 1.63 mts, Weight: 85 Kilos, Shoe size: 10 Uk, What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto, Block & cuban, What's your favourite shoe style: Mary Janes, knee length boots, Do you wear your heels outside: yes, What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 4-5 inch ( Your highest heel height: 4.5 inch, How often do you wear: On my rota days off, Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes:All 3, but mainly Hold ups, Anything else you wish to add: It all started when i was 4 or 5, with a pair of my mums old shoes, white with metal heel and toe tips, oh the noise they made, when i started work in 1979, i started buying from Freeman, Hardy & Willis, yes, you guessed it, stiletto heels with round metal heel tips, today i just use charity shops if possible, i have tried to give up on heels, but the urge is over powering not to have a pair around !
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    Name: Gatis Age: 30 Gender: M Location:Latvia Occupation:don't wanna tell Height:1,91cm Weight:90kg Shoe size: 44-46(somehow find-out different shoe makers make diffrent sizes) What's your favorite heel style: wedges What's your favorite shoe style: boots Do you wear your heels outside: sometime i do when i got IDGF mood What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 4" ( Your highest heel height:5ft 1/2" How often do you wear: (a) Your favorite heel height:- ( Your highest heel height:- Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: it depends what shoes i wear, sandals ofc no socks, stilettos it depends what i do with them, but it can be different like sometime bare feet, another i wear socks(if cold) Anything else you wish to add: wish i could be more brave to wear heels all-time out
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    Name:Jay Age:31 Gender:Male Location:Ok USA Occupation:Industrial Engine Tech Height:5'10" Weight:185 Shoe Size:10.5 USA Favorite heel style:stiletto Favorite shoe type:pumps Wear heels outside:Do now What is: A:Favorite heel height 5" B:Highest heel owned 4" How offer do I wear heels:As often as I can Do you wear socks nylons hose with heels:Bare feet all the way.