So now I will try to put my thoughts about the "heels thing" in this blog.
Let's see, how this will work .... , .... and, if somebody is reading this ....
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Edinburgh - 13/6 - my wife bravely joined me for this evening. A walk in 3" block heeled ankle boots from The George Hotel to Cafe Royal, a favourite bar of ours. Stayed for a couple of hours sat on a bar stool, heels hooked over the rest bar.
Edinburgh - 14/6 - called in to Debenhams where Faith have a sale on. Found some strappy sandals, 5" heel, 1.5" platform which we both agreed looked very nice. Being Faith, there's no return on sale items, so no option but to try them on in the store
Since my last entry, quite a lot has happened. I met a lovely lady who is now very much part of my life Not long after meeting her I had a moment of weakness and confusion and went against my self imposed promise of never getting rid of my entire collection of heels and purged my flat of all womens shoes. Gutted. Especially since doing it I told her all about my passion for heels and womens footwear in general and she is totally cool about it. She said she's happy for me to wear them around the
Today I walked publicly in "womens" shoes for the first time! How cool is that?
Now, last night I was reading ILK's post called "the suit" and there's this whole bit in the middle of all the banter about suits where he goes on a big rant about how the reason some of us fellas are scared about wearing heels publicly is all in our heads and not to do with what society deems to be acceptable - or in other words we create the notion that society disapproves in our heads and that 99% of the popu
Well, they're not exactly high heels and I'm not exactly walking around town in them but I am wearing them in a public place. These are my lovely Steve Madden flat ballerinas bought from Barefoottess (a haven - or perhaps heaven - for big footed men and women). I'm on a short notice trip down south on a train and I threw them in my bag as an after thought because I like wearing them round the house like slippers. I've always found that it doesn't matter where they're from but fellas' slippers al
I've reached that stage where I'd normally be thinking about purging. It used to happen about once every 6months to a year where I'd get obsessed to the point of distraction and bin all the heels because I can't cope with constantly thinking about them all day every day. My other big problem is the association with pot and the fantasy world that comes with being stoned and wearing heels.
I am not going to purge this time - I am going to push through and see what lies beyond! I also feel tha
Been talking about it forever but not actually done it yet - this is the start of my HHBlog. I'm not really much of a blogger - don't do social media bla bla but I figured this'd be a good opportunity for me to explore and try to understand/accept my passion for heels and maybe help some others along the way. I've been a closet heeler for years and always felt a sense of shame and like I am weird and out of the ordinary. There's no doubt this is born out of a fetish for such shoes but it extends
Hello everyone.
Today I posted alot of pictures of my many pairs of womens boots. I have a total of 48 pairs. Most of them are size 10s or 11s. I have been wearing womens boots for 30 plus years. It started when I was young and has never stopped. I own only 1 pair of high heeled boots which I have posted a picture of thigh high stretch boots with a 4 inch heel. The best boots all round I have found for me is the Frye Shirley Over the Knee Leather Boots. The leather is the softest buttery le
I don't know about you guys, but I'm getting tired of posting In the forums. Its the same old, same old! People too scared to wear heels outside, worrying what others think and so on. If I find something interesting, I might post, but not right now. Some people might be upset by my comments, but its just shoes and you have nothing to be ashamed of!
I'm going to concentrate on my blogs. This way I can talk about everything I'm into. Heels are I small part of what I'm in. To be honest, I like
I was walking through the Bay(store in toronto). When you are walking thru the cosmetics department, you're always stopped by someone trying to sell something. All the designer outlets are very close together, its sort of like saks 5th ave. In new york. Anyway, I wanted to check out the new christian dior perfumes and then check out the new swatch watches. But a woman from Estee Louder caught my eye. She said if a spend $36. I get a free gift. So I told her I need a good concealer. She did a who
I like the look of womans pants with heels. There are so many different cuts you can get. I like the lowrise supertight from the hips to the knee with a bit of flare at the hem. And you can get them at any length. What's with the mens pants with no shape. Why would you work out hard and get toned just to hide it all. Womens pants are awesome. I'm going to Express today to buy a pair of slim flares to go with my platform pumps.
Ashley.
Heels will be a different this year. There wil be no platform and thee heels will be between 6-7". That sure sounds crazy. But I know a lot of people from this site seem to hate platforms. I like a bit of platform. From 3/4" - 1". It just gives me more cushion for the ball of the foot. But the new heels are just too high for me. Most of my heels are 4.5" with 3/4" of plat. Btw, I measure the heels from the back. Hopefully, the plats will appear next year.
Ashley.
I'm probably going to start confusing you guys. But you are my friends, so I can tell you anything! I saw a shrink that specializes in gender issues. Anyway, I went through a ton of tests, and found out that I have gender disphoria. So in fact I don't have to live my life as a woman. But she told me I could have a mix of the two, if I like. So the girls clothes and the heels will stay the same. As well as the long hair and make-up. It it a relief that I don't have to change my whole life! So I'm
What kind of person buys high fashion items? Is it someone rich enough to not feel guilty about spending so much money, or just a regular person who saved for weeks to get that pair of boots.
I think if you can somewhat afford and want the item badly enough. Designer things are more than just breaking the bank. Designers have a vision on how things are going to look. We have to embrace the designer by taking pride in wearing their stuff. Louboutin and YSL are my favorite shoe designers, but
I went shopping downtown today. I went to the bay on queen street in toronto. This place in the mecca of fashion. Sort of like saks fifth ave. in NYC.
Anyway, each floor has something different. Floor one has jewellery, makeup,watches, and purses. Floor 2 has shoes for men and women, not in the same section. It aslo has a suit shop for men. And floor 3 has all ladies fashions. It also has an expensive designer section called THE ROOM. That's where all the expensive is where we drool over! E
Why are things so limited to men. In pants all they got are regular fit and slim. No waist smaller than 28". And no tall inseams. No good for wearing 5" heels. Ill concentrate on the pants this blog, mens shoes are a whole new ball of wax!
On the contrary, women have pants in, skinny, slim, bootcut, flare, wide leg, long leg, regular, short, capri. Not fair that they got it all.
I got no choice but to shop at womens stores(other than I like to). My waist is a 25-26" and I need an insem of
I go crazy for the bath bombs at LUSH. Spacegirl is my favorite! It has a nice smell and turns the bath water deep purple. And has some glitter on it that will scatter when water hits it. What girl doesn't like glitter?
You don't need any acceptance from. Anyone else. It could be just fashion, or a gender issue. I believe god made a mistake and made me a man instead a woman. I love heels and all clothes that women wear. Its not some kind of fetish, it just makes me feel whole when I look like a girl. I have to be honest to myself and live my life the way a think I should.
You should accept yourself not how someone else percieves you.
Clarissa.
Hi to everyone on here
I'm assuming like minded people are viewing this content, if not you wouldn't be on this forum so your comments on this subject would be greatly appreciated.
Only last week, having concluded my business early that day, I went for a walk around one of the shopping centers in Dublin to pass some time. Well actually I just wanted to go shoe shopping, which is something I absolutely adore doing. Being a man, this might seem strange, but I just love shopping for ladies high
