Whole New Attitude With Heels

[Curt]

Do anybody feel really cocky when wearing heels? I know why many women wear heels now! It about complete confidence, and power. I feel like I can take on the world in heels. I feel weak with flats on. I went downtown with my brother yesterday, I said to him, I should have worn my chunky heel boots, my feet hurt too much in flats!

[Shafted]

You are not alone in those feelings. That's the real power of high heels.

[Mike Hinch]

They really do not do anything to boost my confidance and actually I still need to be careful where and how high. While I have been out shopping in the six inch stilettos there still are places where they do not fit the plan. Then if I decide to go to Pick a Part then I think I would have more confidance in work boots.

[dww]

I'am affraid time has taken it's toll and I don't feel any differant whatever shoes I am wearing now, should have asked me the same question twenty years ago the answer would not be the same as now.

[eoneleg]

I'm not sure that I feel "cocky," more like accomplished and daring as I move about in one heel with crutches; something that the medical experts frown on. For me, its on the order of "I'll show you," and I love it. E

[Roxyinheels]

since the moment I zip my boots up, I come upon my Femdom feeling. I know that by walkin them, I will open the air. There s an unique feed back possible : men will bow perplex and women will get green of envy.

[SleekHeels]

Not "cocky" in an arrogant way, but certainly self-confident because I'm expressing who I am (and challenging a few prejudices along the way). It also feels good to be making the effort with my appearance, not just the heels but the outfits to go with them, it puts me in a more aspirational mood. It's not a "power" thing for me, heels don't make me feel dominant or submissive, but I can understand if they have that effect for others.

[Foxyheels]

If you mean by 'cocky' being satisfied you have had the courage to be yourself and wear the shoes you want despite society's general consensus that us men should not, then yes I am. i love the feeling of doing as I wish. I will admit I like doing things that are not expected but with heels it genuinely is a desire to wear shoes I think look fantastic and why should I miss out.

[Amanda]

I'm reluctant to use the word cocky but I do stand taller than most men which is partly attributable to my choice of footwear.

[JeffB]

I have to say that I don't feel cocky when out and about in heels since they're just part of the overall image I present to the world at large, but I do feel bold and confident when I'm freestyling.

[Foxyheels]

I'm reluctant to use the word cocky but I do stand taller than most men which is partly attributable to my choice of footwear.

The word cocky should never be used as a terminology for a lady such as yourself. I have to admit the extra height does have it's advantages especially when you are only 5' 8'' like me although that's not what I wear them for.

[Steve63130]

I don't feel at all cocky, but I do feel liberated, confident, daring, and yet just a tad cautious to make sure I'm aware of my surroundings. Not everyone might be as proud and happy as I am regarding my footwear choices. Steve

[Curt]

Maybe cocky is too harsh a word. Maybe a bit uppity or rockstar-ish. I also like to be taller. High heels bring me up to 6'1". Heels make me feel good in my own skin.

[Guest]

I too would avoid the term "cocky", I would reserve it for teenagers that think they're bigger than they are, also not to be applied to girls (lippy) comes to mind. Once settled and any edginess has relaxed to comfortable then the confidence comes in. Boldness comes forward and even for those that normally hide begin to flirt to show. I'd use the term Bravado. Al

[Steve63130]

Al, Good suggestion! You must do crossword puzzles! LOL Steve

[Guest]

Occasionally but badly, the clues often mean nothing to me. But it is true I've gone out to gigs well hidden yet on the return journey it's "give them a flash" Al

[ilikekicks]

Cocky? Not at all. ' Better dressed ', for sure. .

[Guest]

For gigs or just generally, a good pair of blue grey or black jeans Suited and posh, then I want that "edge" for the occasion, sadly I'm not always allowed but getting better. I've still to get out as if for Ascot (tailcoat) and heels but it's going to happen! one day. Al

[mtnsofheels]

Thanks for post Bootcat, I am agreeing with others that "cocky" is not the term I would use either. Perhaps "accomplished", or "fulfilled" and maybe just "freedom" as that is what I feel like when wearing heeled boots/shoes. Good thoughts regardless..... Mtnsofheels

[roniheels]

As the others have said, "cocky" is not the correct term I would use when I am wearing high heels in public. As I have said before, I feel sexy, pretty, handsome, confident, excited, and sometimes even flirty, depending on the feedback I receive from people that I confront and they comment on me wearing high heels.

[Curt]

I think cocky isn't the proper term. Probably posh. Sort of like a victoria beckham attitude. It takes a lot of confidence to strut around in heels publicly. Even a lot of girls don't wear heels much anymore. So the guys have a chance to up our style. Dig it!