ilovehiheels Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 hello everyone, i came across a guy in a shopping centre wearing heels & around him people were looking at him, laughing, saying inappropriate comments, since its awkward people seeing men wear heels in public i want to know if any of use had any conflicts or received inappropriate words, it's a scary experience if a male decides to wear heels in public, has anyone here came across this???? any advice??? sorry if someone already posted a similar thread to mine... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
heelguy Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 have a read of my thread, it's full of my heeling outings in Australia... http://www.hhplace.org/everybody/15339-heelguy_s_adventures.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thighbootguy Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 Welcome to a new member but... have you read any of the threads? Jaunts of JeffBThigh Boots in Public Shopping For Heels Trying Them On Courage . . . Lots more hello everyone, i came across a guy in a shopping centre wearing heels & around him people were looking at him, laughing, saying inappropriate comments, since its awkward people seeing men wear heels in public i want to know if any of use had any conflicts or received inappropriate words, it's a scary experience if a male decides to wear heels in public, has anyone here came across this???? any advice??? sorry if someone already posted a similar thread to mine... To your question... It depends on the heel wearer. If done with confidence, you rarely get negaive comments. However, if the wearer looks like he is doing something he shouldnt be doing, he is just asking for scorne. I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 hello everyone, i came across a guy in a shopping centre wearing heels & around him people were looking at him, laughing, saying inappropriate comments Tell us, what exactly did he look like, describe how he was dressed, as best you possibly can...? Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LovesHiHeels Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 He could well be a member on this site. You could of gone up to him and said you liked his heels and that you wear them as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foxyheels Posted February 11, 2012 Share Posted February 11, 2012 Did he realise they wer making the comments and if so how did he react. I'm sure I've had some giggles or bad comments but I haven't heard them as I take no notice of smal minded ignorant people. High heels are the shoes I choose to put on, respect my choice as I repect yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilovehiheels Posted February 12, 2012 Author Share Posted February 12, 2012 Tell us, what exactly did he look like, describe how he was dressed, as best you possibly can...? happened before i joined this forum like a year ago or so.. didn't really look at his face.. white stilettos, tight jeans, white shirt He could well be a member on this site. You could of gone up to him and said you liked his heels and that you wear them as well. who knows.. lol, was with someone else & that person doesn't know my secret.. Did he realise they wer making the comments and if so how did he react. I'm sure I've had some giggles or bad comments but I haven't heard them as I take no notice of smal minded ignorant people. umm he could have heard or just ignoring them.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted February 12, 2012 Share Posted February 12, 2012 Did he realise they wer making the comments and if so how did he react. I'm sure I've had some giggles or bad comments but I haven't heard them as I take no notice of smal minded ignorant people. I've heard the giggles and "comments" myself and that is not unexpected. And you just smile and go about your business and enjoy wearing high heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilikekicks Posted February 12, 2012 Share Posted February 12, 2012 i want to know if any of use had any conflicts or received inappropriate words, it's a scary experience if a male decides to wear heels in public, has anyone here came across this???? any advice??? sorry if someone already posted a similar thread to mine... Ive been mistaken as a woman, no biggie. Comments really dont bother me anymore. Just words from ( on some instances ) someone whos never tried or experienced what I have for whatever reasons ( good or bad, doesnt matter ). I dont expect nor would I encourage any physical altercations. The only thing ' scary ' about wearing heels in public is the little voice in your head telling you to be scared. We all have heard it at one point. Many of us wear heels to work on a daily basis. If my job had an environment to allow such, I would! Theres nothing to fear. -Ilk REPEATEDLY ARGUMENTATIVE, INSULTING AND RUDE. BANNED FOR LIFE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StormClaw Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 hello everyone, i came across a guy in a shopping centre wearing heels & around him people were looking at him, laughing, saying inappropriate comments, since its awkward people seeing men wear heels in public i want to know if any of use had any conflicts or received inappropriate words, it's a scary experience if a male decides to wear heels in public, has anyone here came across this???? any advice??? sorry if someone already posted a similar thread to mine... Ive actually been hit on by a guy.Havent received any negative comments.One possitive one but a girl probalby 3 years younger than me and then being hit on by a guy.Thats was weird. Adive?Keep it cool.Some of the mroe experienced heelers have done very well and we( us inexperienced ones) can learn from that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerbare Posted February 13, 2012 Share Posted February 13, 2012 I have worn my 3" boot heels several times shopping. Gone to walmart on a busy Sat morning there is so many people there that no one notices anyone. I wear boot cut jeans but the heels are spike. I have also gone to out to the Local gay bar with 5" pumps or Red 4" stelotos. Everyone there knows that I'm straight most of the comments that I get are from the women, and a lot of them wish they could walk in heels as well as i can Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kikepa Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 I've heard a couple of snickers after I've walked by, but nothing else. I'm not exactly slight of build... Those who really care about us don't make a fuss about what we wear. Those who make a fuss about what we wear really don't care about us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thighhighs Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 As already said... depends on the wearer. Personally I wear heels everyday as a guy, except to work since it is not allowed due to security reasons. And its everything up to 4" stilettoes. Of course you will get comments and looks, you are doing something outside the safe box where your observers like to be. But I know that it looks good on me and I wear them well so they can't have that much to whisper about. Actually, I have made A LOT of new friends who comes up to me and starts to talk about shoes and boots. My favourite boots: Bronx Scarlet Hi, as in my avatar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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