zebra heels Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 so my friend who opened me up to the world of high heels left last week for Germany for 6 months and i joked about watching her heels that she didnt bring with her. i was at her going away party and i didnt get a chance to ask her. so we have been emailing and i asked her if she took her heels with her and she replied" I did not bring my heels. I will probably buy a pair here. Europe is awesome! You can go to my house and steal my heels." so what should i do ask her mom or sneak in her house when no one is home and get them or nothing?
BoyLegs Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 "Nothing" is the only choice that isn't creepy, unless you can wear her shoes and she lets you. Even then, I don't see how asking her mother works. "Mrs. Smith, Jane said I could wear her heels while she's in Europe." Not so much.
heelguy Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 If her mum knows about your passion for high heels and is also aware that her daughter gave her concent for you to take the heels, then i'd go round there and ask to take them. I dont think sneaking in when nobody is home is such a bright idea, for something that is actually quite innocent, it could be seen as breaking and entering, and no pair of heels are worth doing jail time for in my opinion! lol, it also depends on how comfortable you are in asking her mum for pemission to go and get them? i strongly advise against sneaking in when nobody's home. heelguy
shrimper Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 Ask her to set it up with her mum so you can get the heels. Let her decide what she'll tell her mum.
Bubba136 Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 My gosh, man! Let hers go and go get your own. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
pussyinboots Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 "Nothing" is the only choice that isn't creepy, unless you can wear her shoes and she lets you. Even then, I don't see how asking her mother works. "Mrs. Smith, Jane said I could wear her heels while she's in Europe." Not so much. Agreed. My gosh, man! Let hers go and go get your own. Agreed again. "Good Girls keep diaries....Bad Girls just don't have the time...!:icon_twisted:"
Dawn HH Posted June 4, 2010 Posted June 4, 2010 I agree with Bubba. I wouldn't touch that with a 20' pole. Go and get your own heel stash. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
roniheels Posted June 5, 2010 Posted June 5, 2010 Get your own high heels and when she gets back, show them to her and maybe the two of you can share in each other's high heels.
johnieheel Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Print out a copy of the email she sent you and show it to her mom. real men wear heels
Kittyinboots Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Unless it is her own place and she gave you a key, it is not appropriate to sneak into her mother's house.
Dr. Shoe Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I think she was probably joking about you stealing her heels... Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
LovesHiHeels Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I think the best thing to do is buy your own heels.
Maximilian Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 so what should i do ask her mom or sneak in her house when no one is home and get them or nothing? Huh?! The way you mentioned her answer, it sounds pretty obvious that she was kidding. As a few people have mentioned, go buy your own shoes. Not only will they be yours, it's much more satisfying wearing a new pair of heels than wearing shoes that belong to someone else, unless you have a fetish for such a thing.
maninpumps Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Nothing, get your own . they make 1001 pair of heels a day . Not so "creepy" that way. Plus mom is not in the picture . Here is the best part, you get the fun of shopping for them!!
hhboots Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Agree with everyone else's comments. Go get your own heels. If you like this girl and want to share your passion of heels with her, do it the right way. Anything else you have mentioned borderline on creepy and perhaps illegal.
Guest Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Agreed buy your own! If you had been left a pair then another situation opens - keep them as a reminder/keepsake, cherish and look after them as a sacred item until she returns intact. or wear them as you do not have them then get your own it would be a far better thing. Al
johnieheel Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 I still think u should show MOM a copy of the email she sent u. real men wear heels
pata Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 If it would have been ok before; if she would have allowed you to wear her high heels when she was there... then, it would be another issue. but doing it like that would be misusing her friendship and trusting you... just my opinion...
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