beaztheelz Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 before i even ask this question let me tell u that i am 100% straight and have no intentions what so ever of any other orientation and i am sure about my sexual orientation but i want to know if i am the only male like this. for some reason even though i like women and women only whenever i see a man wearing a nice pair of heels it turns me on. i love to see a man wearing a nice pair of heels and it looks sexy to me. is there any other straight men out there like this?
Dr. Shoe Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 Thopugh I'm also a TV I do identify as a straight male but I have to admit that some guys in heels do turn me on. It's not that I'm attracted to them I just want to wear the same heels I think. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
Bubba136 Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 (Snip)only whenever i see a man wearing a nice pair of heels it turns me on. How many times have you seen another man wearing heels? Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Histiletto Posted January 24, 2010 Posted January 24, 2010 My experiences of seeing guys wearing feminine shoes (usually heels) has only made me feel more hopeful knowing I am not the only hetero male to have such desires and that acceptance is closer to happening in this generation's era. As male heeling increases publicly and becomes part of the common activities of everyone's life, heels will just be what they are -"shoes" that present the wearer on picturesque pedestals portraying an atttitude of self-awareness and esteem. Seeing them on both men and women will be great, but as a male, the sight of a women in heels will always be a more rewarding scenario, even though my right to choose stilettos for my attiring has been restored. I really look forward to the idea that both men and women can heel together and share more of their similarities, than their socially manufactured differences.
Dawn HH Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Histiletto:-) I quite agree with what you say. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
Hiline Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 The only guy i've ever seen is myself . I'd love to see some1 else around here just once........
Dawn HH Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Hilne:-) I too have been the only male that I have seen in heels around my area personally except a couple of guys in cowboy boots. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
HappyFeat Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 The only guys I have even seen wearing heels (other than myself) were at a heel meet. No offense to the guys there, but I can't say I was aroused by it. Sorry guys.... Style is built from the ground up!
roniheels Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I wouldn't say I'm "turned on" by the sight of men in high heels (live or pictures), but like Histiletto said, you feel like you're in a brotherhood of other men who enjoy wearing high heels. And many men really make an effort to coordinate their high heels with their fashions. That is what I really admire.
ShockQueen Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I remember those feelings - a mixture of turn-on and a twinge of jealousy, as I wanted to be able to wear those cool shoes too. Well......a few years later, I was doing just that! SQ.....still busting societal molds with a smile...and a 50-ton sledge!
Dr. Shoe Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 The only guy i've ever seen is myself . I'd love to see some1 else around here just once........ Come to the WHM then. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
partyshoes Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Thopugh I'm also a TV I do identify as a straight male but I have to admit that some guys in heels do turn me on. It's not that I'm attracted to them I just want to wear the same heels I think. I the same. Its not that Im attracted to them as a person - its more about the shoes Gingers Rogers did everything Fred Astair did .. but backwards and in heels
jmorv Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 sometimes out of the ordinary things can turn people on...I think this is what would be classified as a fetish, which my interpretation states any object that is transfixed upon for sexual gratification. Your being turned on by that can also be construed as something taboo that stirs sexual feelings, whatever they may be. I am a bisexual person and when it comes to foot fashion, I get turned on by both so you are not alone. Jamie
Bubba136 Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I am a bisexual person and when it comes to foot fashion, I get turned on by both so you are not alone. Jamie I believe you are the first man I've ever heard of that gets turned on by men's shoes......go figure..... Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
FXHH Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 also have not seen any other men wearing heels, some wearing normal clogs, that I have seen from time to time!! heels heels, no one except myself!!
jmorv Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I believe you are the first man I've ever heard of that gets turned on by men's shoes......go figure..... As I said, sometimes it's the out of the ordinary that sparks something inside. Seeing that I have a serious shoe fetish, that's a given for a turn on. I'm hoping you were just being sarcastic with the remark. You familiar with the expression "whatever floats your boat"? That's for me.
Elegant Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 I believe you are the first man I've ever heard of that gets turned on by men's shoes......go figure..... OK, so I'll be the second one... but no, wait, I'm not a man but an androgyne! . Anyway, the truth is that some dress no-longer-men's-only shoes do turn me on. Especially patent oxfords with pointy toes, or cowboy / Cuban boots with higher-than-ordinary heels. There are very few nice and sexy styles though; most shoes are as dull as ditch water. What is good for a goose, can be good for any gender!
Dawn HH Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Nothing sexual here, I just like wearing high heels. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
chris100575 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Hi Beaztheelz. No, not at all. Seeing another man in heels is good in a sort of shared interest kind of way, and it's always nice to be reminded that I'm not the only guy that wears them, but it's not a turn on. I don't think there's anything wrong with it if you do though.
kfsteve391 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Except for photos, I have never seen a man in heels except myself. I find a nice pair of sexy heels to look just as good on male feet as a females. The same shoes turn me on whether being worn by an man or woman.
chris100575 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 I have (literally) once or twice seen another guy in heels when I've been out in Manchester, but never managed to speak to them.
RonC Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 While I have never seen a man wearing heels as a man (a few cross-dressers, but never in guy clothing), I do on occassion enjoy a picture of a guy in heels. However, my focus is on the heels, not the guy wearing them. I get a bit of a kick thinking of how I would feel wearing whatever heels the person in the picture is wearing.
Bubba136 Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 As I'm hoping you were just being sarcastic with the remark. You familiar with the expression "whatever floats your boat"? That's for me. Sarcastic? Perhaps. More like surprised, though. But, for what it's worth, I really don't care. Like you said: "What ever floats your boat." That's really all I want to know about this issue. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Dawn HH Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I'm Popeye the boot wearing sailor, Toot, Toot. TEE! HEE! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
Bubba136 Posted January 27, 2010 Posted January 27, 2010 I'm Popeye the boot wearing sailor, Toot, Toot. TEE! HEE! Cheers--- Dawn HH Dawn! Out of everything I've ever read, that is the worst Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Dawn HH Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 Bubba136:-) Ah shucks! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
shrimper Posted January 28, 2010 Posted January 28, 2010 My experiences of seeing guys wearing feminine shoes (usually heels) has only made me feel more hopeful knowing I am not the only hetero male to have such desires and that acceptance is closer to happening in this generation's era. As male heeling increases publicly and becomes part of the common activities of everyone's life, heels will just be what they are -"shoes" that present the wearer on picturesque pedestals portraying an atttitude of self-awareness and esteem. Seeing them on both men and women will be great, but as a male, the sight of a women in heels will always be a more rewarding scenario, even though my right to choose stilettos for my attiring has been restored. I really look forward to the idea that both men and women can heel together and share more of their similarities, than their socially manufactured differences. Ditto. When I see a man in heels especially if he appears straight, I think about how I feel when I wear heels and that is where the turn on lies, imagining him having the same feeling I have....
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