gothic_smurf Posted January 11, 2010 Share Posted January 11, 2010 for New Years Eve my freind worn her heels for the first time in awhile. she knows i have an thing for them so maybe thats why she worn them that night well as the night goes on she removes them and just placing them in an random spot, well the enxt morning as everyone leaves,i notice there elft behind i called her letting her know she elft them behind but she just ingores it and changes the subject so what todo with her heels then,..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwright2104 Posted January 11, 2010 Share Posted January 11, 2010 are they your size if so try them on. i think shes tryin to tell you to try them. tell us all what happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted January 11, 2010 Share Posted January 11, 2010 so what todo with her heels then,..... put them to one side until you next see her. Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sscotty727 Posted January 11, 2010 Share Posted January 11, 2010 for New Years Eve my freind worn her heels for the first time in awhile. she knows i have an thing for them so maybe thats why she worn them that night well as the night goes on she removes them and just placing them in an random spot, well the enxt morning as everyone leaves,i notice there elft behind i called her letting her know she elft them behind but she just ingores it and changes the subject so what todo with her heels then,..... If she likes you, she could want you to bring them over to her as an excuse to see you again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benno Posted January 11, 2010 Share Posted January 11, 2010 I'm most concerned for the Elf. They should be resting at the North Pole this time of year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stefan Posted January 11, 2010 Share Posted January 11, 2010 She probably left them there as an excuse to see you again. As suggested she probably wan't you to deliver them to her personally. Let us know what happens. Best regards, Stefan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tightsnheels Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 I agree with the others it seems like a ploy to see you again. "Look for the woman in the dress, if there is no dress there is no woman."-Coco Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
euchrid Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 so what todo with her heels then,..... put them on eBay? Always High-Heel Responsibly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
partyshoes Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 Yeah, I'd say that she wants an excuse to see you again. When comes round to collect them, joke with her and say 'any longer and I was going to use them myself!' - see where that goes!? Gingers Rogers did everything Fred Astair did .. but backwards and in heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 Quite frankly, she probably "elft" them there on purpose (Duh!) either to see if you took the bait and tried them on or she already knows that you want to have heels of your own and that is her way to giving you a pair without embarrassing you. Obviously, she must like you or else why would she even come to your house and spend the night? Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoverfly Posted January 13, 2010 Share Posted January 13, 2010 Invite her over for dinner............ Hello,  my name is Hoverfly. I’m a high heel addict…. Weeeeeeeeeee!  👠1998 to 2022! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothic_smurf Posted January 14, 2010 Author Share Posted January 14, 2010 still nothing yet havnted got an chance to go over her hosue but i have called and told her but she sill blowing it off,like she dont even want them anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted January 14, 2010 Share Posted January 14, 2010 New plan of action...... Just put them in your closet or on a shelf some where, and give them to her the next time she visits your place. Not to worry, the mystry will unravel itself soon enough (And, if she did give them to you, and she really likes you, you're well on your way to total acceptance and that means a whole lot.) Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vincci2 Posted January 14, 2010 Share Posted January 14, 2010 any chance of putting the shoes pic up here for us to see? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zebra heels Posted January 14, 2010 Share Posted January 14, 2010 if it was me i would call her once a day via text, facebook, or the phone then 2 weeks or longer to keep them. However thats me but you have a great friend that is willing to give you heels. she is a keeper lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janner9409 Posted January 14, 2010 Share Posted January 14, 2010 Any chance of a pic of them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RPMindy Posted January 15, 2010 Share Posted January 15, 2010 i may be way off, but it appears she's not the biggest fan of wearing those heels. and she knows you like them. this could be her way of just being nice and leaving them for you to enjoy without making a "thing" about it. so, let it be. keep them around (unworn) until she decides to take them back (which i doubt she will take them back). consider it a gift. a way to remember her as the friend she is. don't pester her about it. leave it alone. you got a gift for the time being. RPM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pussyinboots Posted January 16, 2010 Share Posted January 16, 2010 i may be way off, but it appears she's not the biggest fan of wearing those heels. and she knows you like them. this could be her way of just being nice and leaving them for you to enjoy without making a "thing" about it. so, let it be. keep them around (unworn) until she decides to take them back (which i doubt she will take them back). consider it a gift. a way to remember her as the friend she is. don't pester her about it. leave it alone. you got a gift for the time being. RPM "Correctamondo!!" Well spotted RPM! "Good Girls keep diaries....Bad Girls just don't have the time...!:icon_twisted:" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothic_smurf Posted January 19, 2010 Author Share Posted January 19, 2010 i may be way off, but it appears she's not the biggest fan of wearing those heels. and she knows you like them. this could be her way of just being nice and leaving them for you to enjoy without making a "thing" about it. so, let it be. keep them around (unworn) until she decides to take them back (which i doubt she will take them back). consider it a gift. a way to remember her as the friend she is. don't pester her about it. leave it alone. you got a gift for the time being. RPM so what to do with them then Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thighboots Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Hello, what sort of heels are they? and are they your size? If you are worried about it and know send them back to her. If your not worried, keep hold of them until she asks fir them back. As previoulsy posted, it may just be she does not like them and doesnt want them back! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackberry Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 I say don't worry about it. You have told her about it a couple of times. Don't bring it up again. Just hold on to them and if they fit you, wear them around the house. She has a reason for leaving them there so enjoy. If she wants them back she will let you know. I would say that if you see or talk to her over the next 3 months and she hasn't asked for them back I would send her a thank you card for giving them to you. Maybe offer to go shoe shopping with her a buy her a pair as a way of saying thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 so what to do with them then You seriously cant figure this out for yourself? Leave them alone and find something else to do. Let it be, dont make more out of it than it really is. Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 Tech is right. As I posted earlier, just put them in your closet or on a shelf somewhere and offer to give them back to her the next time she visits your place. Otherwise, wear them if they fit. But for now, forget them and get on with your business (it's really not heard to figure out.) Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sscotty727 Posted January 19, 2010 Share Posted January 19, 2010 You could always host another party (superbowl, valentines, just-for-the-heck-of-it, etc) and then put her heels in the same spot she left them in the first time. Don't mention them to her, but if she leaves them again she doesn't want them. If she accidentally left them but still wants them, maybe she will see them and take them with her this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted January 20, 2010 Share Posted January 20, 2010 Then again, a great way to remind her to you comstantly. Just look at how she pops up in your mind every time you spot the shoes. I'd say that it is a very clever idea to get to know you much better and it is worth it to her to write off a pair of shoes to do that. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothic_smurf Posted January 22, 2010 Author Share Posted January 22, 2010 so if she dont want them what should i do with them then they been sitting in the corner since she left them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pussyinboots Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 so if she dont want them what should i do with them then they been sitting in the corner since she left them Put them in a Charity Shop....and get on with your life! "Good Girls keep diaries....Bad Girls just don't have the time...!:icon_twisted:" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 so if she dont want them what should i do with them then they been sitting in the corner since she left them Bloody hell, are you still banging on about this? Put them away somewhere and live your life! There are far more fun things to do than be obsessive over this pair of shoes. For a man of 26, you should be more than able to figure out what to do. Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted January 22, 2010 Share Posted January 22, 2010 Bloody hell, are you still banging on about this? Put them away somewhere and live your life! There are far more fun things to do than be obsessive over this pair of shoes. For a man of 26, you should be more than able to figure out what to do. I so agree........ Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted January 24, 2010 Share Posted January 24, 2010 And I agree also. Don't sweat the little stuff. Life is too short. Vincci2:-) Welcome to the HH place. Enjoy your posting while here. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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