Fetish Heels Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I have only been a member of this group for a short period of time but have always been a heel lover and wearer. I have been in many chatrooms and one thing really strikes me is that I have never seen anyone express what they feel when they wear heels? Am I the only one who gets excited to a point when I cannot control my feelings for heels? I hope that a few of you out there feel the same and express how you feel in here. I am not suggesting a porn conversation but rather express all the emotions that we all feel when strolling in high heels be they boots pumps or plats openly. If I am out of order so be it but I am really curious in this area. I took a long time to open up but was so glad I did as I found I was not alone or unique with my "obsession". I look forward to hearing from a few of you very special people, men in high heels!! John
HeelD Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 The feeling I get when wearing "women's" shoes (heeled or flats) and trying them on is a huge rush of adrenalin or a butterflies excited feeling. It's liberating. I love it! Heel-D - Freestyling since 2005
dr1819 Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I feel a sense of comfort and belonging. It just fits who I am as a person. Weird, I know, but I just feel more at home in a pair of heels than a boring pair of flats.
on heels Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 The feeling I get when wearing "women's" shoes (heeled or flats) and trying them on is a huge rush of adrenalin or a butterflies excited feeling. It's liberating. I love it! My wife thinks I have an obsession with women’s shoes, I suppose she’s right, I do enjoy wearing them. Like Heel-D, I have similar feelings even now, it’s great! Something I’ve lived with ever since my teens, which is a long time ago!
heelyandy Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 Hi Like Heel-D I feel excited in heels (I'm currently sitting in the office (on my own) in a pair of 3.5" block heel cowboy boots I've just bought from Evans!), but it's not the sort of kid-before-Christmas excited, its more than that!! Its more sensual (and, yes, sexual) It just feels SOOO GOOOOOD (but its difficult to put into words!) I also get a feeling of satisfaction (and attraction) when I see a girl wearing a pair of boots which I know are the same as a pair I've got!! I saw a girl today in the local shopping centre wearing a pair of Barratt's "Brave" boots, the same as I bought last Thursday! She (and the boots) looked great, and I thought "Yeah, I've got some of them. They look GOOD!" Andrew
new_look Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 heel d gave a good description of the feelings we get when i say physically putting on a pair of heels doesnt turn me on my gf asks what i do feel and ive never found the right words to describe it really, but the butterflies/adreneline is a good choice of words. i do find heels sexually attractive but only when worn by the opposite sex, which i suppose has a lot to do with the different things we get from it. women get the confidence of knowing it has made alterations to their posture, confidence, how they walk, a boost of their own sexual attraction. men would get a rush of something different, new, even exciting etc rather than wearing it to make ourselves look pretty
Guy N. Heels Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 I feel a sense of comfort and belonging. It just fits who I am as a person. Weird, I know, but I just feel more at home in a pair of heels than a boring pair of flats. Ditto for me. The adolecent thrill is gone, but going out in low-cut unattractive men's shoes seems almost strange. Nowadays about the only time I ever wear sneakers or low-cut shoes is when I know that my sense of balance is impaired to the point that it would be unsafe for me to wear heels. I still get a thrill from the idea of stepping out in stilettoes, but my physical condition and common sense dictate that that probably won't happen anytime soon. Keep on stepping, Guy N. Heels
stilettolover Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 I am another one who cannot exactly put my finger on that feeling. I love to see a woman in sexy heels, and that gives me the sexual rush, but when I don heels, it just feels right to me, since it is an expression of my inner self.I just love the feel of a good fitting pair if women's shoes Heels Are GRRREAT!!! S.L.
Griez Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 i love that feeling for hh too;) i cant understand how many man think that they shoes are good looking... i hate them... its so ugly and feeling in them are so bad... every human has they own choices...
chris100575 Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 Heel-D hit it on the head for me, especially when I'm trying on a pair for the first time. Maybe that's why I keep feeling compelled to buy them. Chris
hoverfly Posted November 15, 2006 Posted November 15, 2006 Take a look at my signature down below, need I say more? Hello, my name is Hoverfly. I’m a high heel addict…. Weeeeeeeeeee! 👠1998 to 2022!
asdf174 Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 I don't know what I feel anymore. I'm kind of Heel-D. I get kind of a rush when I first try on a new pair of heels. I like how they look on me, and I like how confident I feel when I wear them. My persona even kind of changes a little bit. It's all good. ~Arron.
JSpikeheels Posted November 23, 2006 Posted November 23, 2006 wow...how can I add my perspective to some of the entries along this thread so far... ...when I pull on a pair of boots in the morning under my Wranglers and see how the jeans cuff hangs straight and even--not gathered on a shoe-top in an ugly clump... ...when the longer leg means the waist is higher and tighter around my stomach(instead of under my belly), my shirts look smoother and straighter and I have shifted the eye from the two-part upper half-lower half to one integrated altogether look... ...when I am driving, look down and see the high heel resting on the pedals and I say to myself "I am really wearing high heels" and feeling the adrenalin buzz... ...and, especially, when I see a pair of stilettos on the street...tripping confidently along exerting their sensuous mystical pull on those very special chosen among us who have "that gene" and who feel the attraction..how sweet to immerse oneself in that psychic link between those spikeheels and mine... philosophers recognize the way we interact with our environment in the appeal and distaste for the articles of life that surround us...one might argue that these so-called inanimate objects do have an energy of repulsion or attraction that determine our likes, dislikes and something more with which we identify in some way and degree at a subliminal level of expression...there is a secret between those high heels and mine that only we can appreciate and it's as though belonging to a very privileged and special society... ...perhaps that adds a metaphysical dimension to why we feel the attraction for these icons of fashion culture but this attraction adds to the "callalou" * that makes us what we are... *callalou- Carribean soup or stew consisting of many varied ingredients including fish, meat, vegetables, spices, etc-for further descriptions please see: "Callalou" by Jimmy Buffett (from "Don't Stop the Carnival") Jim JSpikeheels
HighHeelArt Posted November 24, 2006 Posted November 24, 2006 What exactly I feel about heels worn by women and wearing heels myself is difficult to pin down. I have been attracted to them going back to my teenage years and I can not determine what event might have caused this feeling. I know that my initial response to trying on my mothers heels was one of sexual excitement. It took a couple of years until I got around to buying my own heels which at that time was still linked to that of arousal. But I have to say that in addition to heels I also developed a fetish for corsets and bondage and it appears that all go hand in hand by creating a multiplied feeling of elegant restriction. I suppose I always associated heels with sophistication and with an attitude of courage and rebellion that the wearer must have as it clearly set her and even more so him apart from most other people who do not wear high heels. Understand that if I talk about heels than I mean stiletto heels with at least 4” height. Just wearing female shoes with out stiletto heel does nothing to me. When I finally lived on my own I had many pair of high heels which I wore daily at home. During that time the sexual component was still there but it faded some what into the back ground as wearing heels on a daily basis did not make me excited anymore. How ever I was still always compelled to wear them even so sexual arousal was not in the foreground anymore. Except of one time I have not worn my heels in public but it was for sure very exciting. But it was not exciting from a sexual point of view but of one of apprehension and exhibitionism because it is something that only a few people ever would do because of the reaction of other people towards it. At the end I was happy that apparently nobody even recognized that I was wearing heels despite the fact that including heels I was 6’8” tall. At the end I would say that high heels invoke in me the feelings of: · Open sexuality and the need to attract it from others. · Guts. Because heels will invoke in others either the feeling of looking up to one that has the guts to wear heels or the feeling of envy and negative stereotype of people that whish they had the guts to wear them. · Sophistication. As it forces the wearer to move elegantly and in small steps which set them apart from the herd of all the others. · Self imposed restrictions. As we limit ourselves in movement and the right size heel feels like bondage in itself.
dr1819 Posted November 26, 2006 Posted November 26, 2006 I don't know either. I simply feel more at home in a pair of heels than in a pair of thick, ugly, spread-heel men's shoes. Yuck!
Dawn HH Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 There have been some excellent descriptions in the above posts that can put this anomally into words much better than I. All I know is that I am much more comfortable in heels and I really enjoy the way they feel on my feet and the way that they look on me and I can wear them for many hours on end an feel very natural in them as they are a part of me. I don't get this in boring men's shoes as I can't wait to get them off whereas I never want to take my heels off and I even forget that I am wearing them after a while. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
Griez Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 thats it, when i wear my knee high boots(army) i just want to make them off after a while... and they are just on 1,5 flatheel... and thats not easy... it has 40 lines and realy long take to lace up and down... and thats just one, they are also heavy... every human has they own choices...
johnieheel Posted November 28, 2006 Posted November 28, 2006 What can I say. I just love the way they feel and it's just me! real men wear heels
larry Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 Hello..larry. I grew up in a very wealthy area on the north east coast, USA. Most women in the neighborhood wore classic style stilettos everyday. I rember seeing them in stores or at social functions slipping their feet in and out of high heels while talking or making purchases. The hissing sound of nylon stockings as female feet slipped out of heels and the clicking hollow sound of the heel hitting the floor as the lady would rest one foot on her shoe and wiggle her toes. I loved those days as I was quite young and reinforced toe and heel stockings and stilettos were the epitome fememinity. I remember my first time wearing my older sisters garter belt, stockings and stilettos. It caused an erotic excitment beyond the wildest dreams of a 13 year old male. Today. When I cross one leg over the other and dangle a high heel from my toes, When I see my curved arches and slender toes in real stockings I tremble with excitment. Wearing spikes with my wife in bed when we're together. WOW! I never want to lose those feelings..larry. Love those heels!
heeledlover2 Posted December 13, 2006 Posted December 13, 2006 Guess I have a little bit of different angle on this. So excuse me if this is a little out of order. High heels are mostly a fetish of mine. I'm a gay guy and seeing another masculine guy in heels really makes my head turn. Not into crossdressing, but just love the look of heels. I just signed onto this site a few days ago after spending a year trying to put this side of me away. This past weekend I made my way to electrique boutique here in Dallas to find myself a pair of heels, this being after I ordered two pairs on line. I was extremly nervous trying them on. It was a pair of thigh high heeled boots. They look good on my legs and love the way they feel. I go through spurts, meaning wearing high heels I will love for a while, then it will go away for an even longer while. Then it comes back. Guess I'm kinda weird like that.
whynotheels Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I'm in my mid-30s and I've always done the right, responsible and respectable thing. I never try anything that someone else might object to. My fetish for heels is rivalled only by my desires for a Mini Cooper. HOWEVER, I'm driving a responsible and practical beige four door sedan --BORING!!! When I wore heels, hose, and mini skirt publicly for a week a couple years ago it felt GREAT!!! The feeling of the clothes --tight hose, airy skirt, shoes changing my posture-- were all great. More than that, I got a great feeling of freedom from the right reponsible and respectable thing. I did what I wanted, hurt no one, and had a GREAT time!! And yes, I did go test drive a Mini in my Mini skirt and heels --now that was HEAVEN!!!! Since then, I've reverted back to the bordom of respectibleness. Though when I see a cute girl in skirt and heels, I feel SO jealous and long to buck the system once again.
JeffB Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 Hmm! Expressed feelings! Well, for me, it's a near bottomless feeling of excitement when I venture out and about in heels, it's like I'm doing something incredibly bold and daring. The sensation of being perched on four inch heels, the sharp clicking sound on pavement I hear when I walk, the way I look in a sharp pair of boots or pumps when pefrectly paired with just the right outfit, it thrills me in way I often can't put into words. It's just something I enjoy immensely. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
JSpikeheels Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 Good Morning Everyone: Yesterday was quite a day for me...but my story started Thursday evening... All day as I drove around doing my pickups and deliveries I wore these... (side note: I had actually worn trouser socks-thinner than crew-style socks) with the intention of wearing my Frederick's Of Hollywood stiletto-heel boots-but I got a pickup from a customer I knew would be heavy so I switched to the brown boots for the additional risk-management with the extra lifting) but I felt like I needed to quit fooling around and get to the stilettos on the FOH's (picture coming up later as my story develops) and, so, all day I thought about what I was going to do when I got home... ...I have a little friend who works at one of the Payless Stores nearby and I had been telling her about those white ones.. with the five inch heel and while I have been working every day in boots with varying heel thicknesses I have been feeling a stronger and stronger pull to get on stilettos... ...so, Thursday evening I came home and changed and actually wore these to the store-she was not there but the important thing to note was that I actually ventured out in a full five STILETTO for the first time- stretching my calf muscles into the new positions in a situation where I had to walk in them to and from my truck... ...so part one of my story is the successful transition to the exhilaration of a five inch stiletto in public-and white patent is pretty hard to miss... ------------------------------------- Friday morning..I was still flying from the night before...I feel like "once you go (stiletto)-you never go back" ...beginning about 9am I dressed in my long-length Wranglers (32inch length to the seam) with these babies... and didn't take them off until we got home from dinner later that evening about 9:30pm... ---------------------------------- but the story does not end there... ...when I came home from work around 5:45pm our son was at the house...up until yesterday I had been keeping a very low profile around him with my heel-wearing-but yesterday I just went about fixing my tea, went in and sat down and never took them off-just sat there in front of him and never mentioned a word...just went about "being Dad"... ...Donna went in and changed into jeans with boots(herself) and we went out to one of our favorite restaurants---this is one of the places I had mentioned some time ago where Donna didn't want to be caught 'dead" with me in those high heel boots but she's getting better...well after last night she is definitely getting better because there we went-the three of us- and, me still in those boots, had a very nice meal, those boots there for all the world to see, me secretly thrilled at all the whole thing and just an amazing time... (Now, it's Saturday morning here and Donna and I will be going out later to do some Christmas shopping and the stilettos are staying on every day now...well, we'll see-at least I imagine they will...will just have to let you know what actually develops..) Jim JSpikeheels
iloveboots Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 Awesome few days Jim! You overcame some big hurdles, congrats. You will find that now you have gone out wearing your high heel Boots to places that you regularly frequent and also with your family, it will all be second nature. The acceptance from your family is the biggest win and confidence builder. happy for you. david "Dress For Your Own Pleasure"
JSpikeheels Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 ...Donna and I went Christmas shopping all afternoon-she wore boots identical to the ones I showed you all in my post below-the black 3 1/2" Frederick's Of Hollywood ankle boots...(pause for drumroll)...and I wore them mine again today... got to add at least one jpeg to spice the story a little.. ...we stopped by a supermarket and walked the aisles while she picked up a few things, then to a warehouse grocery/anything store (Sam's Club for those here in the USA) and a couple of clothing/jewelry stores and I did it all on those stiletto-heels-and felt great doing it... ...this was especially gratifying today because she "spoke not a word but went straight to her work.." (words from 'The Night Before Christmas')...she was completely unaffected by my choice and while she didn't bend over and kiss them-she did treat me like she was actually pleased to be out with me... ...to be honest I though she would have had a much greater inertia of resentment but she is becoming more accepting..and maybe some actual encouragement is on the way as she is realizing that I'm still the same guy she has always known and loved...and who buys her earrings for no other reason than I-love-you... ...JeffB recently mentioned a 'bottomless well of enjoyment" and I thank him for that description for I am discovering it's even better than I had imagined it would be... Jim JSpikeheels PS: I am now accepting emails...fixed my options..thx jmc (sidebar: no one seemed to even notice-except for a couple of little kids-down there at ground-level(LOL) with big eyes and one old man pushing a Sam's Club dolly full of product to be stocked who just about dislocated his neck looking up from the floor to see if it really was a guy in those stilettos(LOL)
JeffB Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 JSpikeheels: Bravo! Terrific pics to go along with some really audacious outings! More power to you! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
Thighbootguy Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 Jspikeheels - It sounds like you have found out how much fun stiletto heels really are and I agree, "once you go (stiletto)-you never go back" Sam’s and Payless are both great places to wear boots. I have been posting about going to Sam’s wearing thigh boots for a long time. I stop in at least weekly and the staff expects me to be wearing them. I don’t recommend this with ankle boots, but if the black pair are taller, you might see how they look worn over your jeans/slacks.. I know, getting out of the car wearing boots fully exposed is tough the first time but once you get past that you never have to worry about “did they see my boots”. If you like the look, it really is a lot easier to do away with the worry. Great looking boots by the way. Enjoy them. I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned.
Dawn HH Posted December 18, 2006 Posted December 18, 2006 JSpikeheels:-) Great posts and great pics. Now you have the best of both worlds. Enjoy it while you can. I really enjoy reading of your heeling adventures. Go man! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
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