trevor Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 about a month ago my wife checked her email and she got a great offer at one of the hotels in las vegas. we go to las vegas a few times a year. i checked the flights and the best deal was during halloween week. weve dabbled in with me wearing heels and nylons once in a while just for fun and even in our house on halloween with just the two of us where i put make up and wig on. secretly i would love to go out like this but my wife would never agree to that. i actually look pretty good when dressed and i feel i can pass but being 6 feet with 5 inch platform pumps it might give me away. at our hotel/casino on saturday and sunday they are having halloween parties where they are giving thousands of dollars each night. one night its for the sexiest costume and other different types and on the halloween night they are giving 10000 for the sexiest and the best drag costume. my wife says shell wear her 51/2 inch baker platform pumps and a very short skirt with stockings etc and i can go as her pimp. i figured this is a chance of a lifetime for me so i said to her how about if we go out as best girlfriends and ill dress as a woman.i said it is halloween and youll see alot of this in vegas. she says do you really want to do that and i said why not it would be fun. she says if thats what you want then lets go. i immediately booked the trip before she changed her mine. we went to a goodwill store to buy a dress for me with long sleeves etc. but they only had old lady dresses. i told my wife i would like to go on line and find something. i figured what the hell im going to really go for it and i bought a real sexy short dress with high neck and long sleeves and i got a good deal on a new pair of 5 inch platform pumps that would fit me better than the ones i got because they are way to big. first she said shell dress sexy both nights but shes not keen on seeing me dressed both nights so i said ok. now with two weeks to go and after i tried the dress on in front of her she has said if you really want to dress up both nights maybe ill go along with it . she says only because its halloween and its in las vegas. i am so excited im having trouble sleeping at night. she has no idea how excited i am. im trying to play it down as it is halloween so lets just have fun. Has anyone else been in this situation like this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BCBG Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 No, but I wish I was!! Last Halloween I got to go out as a pirate wench and the wife was Captain Jack. I loved it! My daughter was a little freaked out, so this year I will be in dude clothes and shoes. Opps, my bad. Anyway, we were in Vegas once, with his and her 5 inch boots. I wanted to go out and gamble with mine under my jeans, I didn't get to. I have been out wearing my heels, but only by myself, except for the above mentioned Halloween. Have fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michou Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 Many years ago, on Halloween night, my ex-girlfriend and I went out dancing. During the evening, a good looking man invited me to dance. Being too shy, I decline his offer and, for the last 20 years, I regretted it because no other man invited me to dance again (lol). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboots Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 check in the real life meetings thread...Las Vegas is one of the choices for the 2nd North American Heel/Boot Meet! Make your vote known and join us! David & Cathy "Dress For Your Own Pleasure" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Shoe Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 For me doing the full "drag" thing would not be fancy dress. Last year I went to a halloween party dressed as a [male] pirate. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trevor Posted October 11, 2010 Author Share Posted October 11, 2010 let me say one thing. i would never go out in a normal situation with this type of dress. im really going for it because its halloween and its las vegas. i just dont want to look back later and say i should have worn that real sexy dress because this may be the only time i will be in this position. i also could have gotten regular 3 or 4 inch pumps but there wouldnt be as much a challenge with these. when i walk in 5 inch platform pumps you have to walk more girly and thats what i want. i want to really feel like a sexy girl one time in my life. if you want to see the dress i bought google in glamour boutique. click dresses/skirts on the left and go to dresses. go down to the black dress dr01. thats the one. i tried it on and it fit good except my stomach is sticking out a little. my wife had me try her tight black girdle and that did the trick. with control top pantyhose and this girdle i will be fine. i know its halloween but i really want not only feel sexy but look fairly good. i do know one thing for sure because i will be nervous i am going to have a couple drinks before i go out just to take the edge off. then i will be fine all night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spikesmike Posted October 11, 2010 Share Posted October 11, 2010 Trevor. If you have something of a ponch, most men our age do, go to Bad Influence on Sahara Ave and purchas a corset. That will make you feel sexy. I have several and wear them all the time, even as I type this. I would like to meet you and the wife at the North American H H Meet in 2011. Check with iloveboots if you do not already know of it. Mike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobbi Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 Nice dress, Trevor. I just checked out the photo on Glamour Boutique's website. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 let me say one thing. i would never go out in a normal situation with this type of dress. im really going for it because its halloween and its las vegas. i just dont want to look back later and say i should have worn that real sexy dress because this may be the only time i will be in this position. i also could have gotten regular 3 or 4 inch pumps but there wouldnt be as much a challenge with these. when i walk in 5 inch platform pumps you have to walk more girly and thats what i want. i want to really feel like a sexy girl one time in my life. if you want to see the dress i bought google in glamour boutique. click dresses/skirts on the left and go to dresses. go down to the black dress dr01. thats the one. i tried it on and it fit good except my stomach is sticking out a little. my wife had me try her tight black girdle and that did the trick. with control top pantyhose and this girdle i will be fine. i know its halloween but i really want not only feel sexy but look fairly good. i do know one thing for sure because i will be nervous i am going to have a couple drinks before i go out just to take the edge off. then i will be fine all night. Well I wish you the best of luck on your upcoming outing and I hope you have a great time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 We all wish you well and can't wait to hear about your outing, Trevor Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 Jeah, have fun and really go for it. It seams that you are already well prepaired. Don't forget to give us a report. Would appreciate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trevor Posted October 12, 2010 Author Share Posted October 12, 2010 i would love to get a corsett but you just have to understand i just cant push this thing to far. im really happy with how far ive gotten with this thing over the years by taking baby steps all along the way. i just dont want to run into an answer from my wife like ok now this is getting to much for me and then ruin everything. maybe down the road it could happen but im not going take that chance right now. this opportunity is just something i never thought would be possible. i will definetly let everyone know how this goes when i get back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdmonto Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 I certainly hope you post the results and maybe even some pictures of your experience, since, like you said, it's a really unique oportunity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hhboots Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 I have to agree on the corset if you can find a way to add that to your outfit. It really enhances the shape of the body significantly so it looks feminine (hour-glass). Otherwise most men will look like a pear shape body in the dress, which of course is not good, unless he is naturally very slim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jwhite44 Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 If not a full corset, then maybe just a waist cincher. It can help the shape around your mid drift, without the seriousness that a corset could imply. I understand not wanting to push it, but too little might be worse. Think wearing a dress with heels, but with a beard and no makeup. Especially if you are going with any pretense of trying to compete for a prize, you're probably going need to go all out. You migh try on the outfit at home, and say, "...I'm not sure this (mid section, stockings, makeup) will be good enough to win, what do you think?" If she agrees with you, that might be a window to try to get more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spikesmike Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 Trevor. High heels and a dress in a controlled environment is fine. If you are by yourself, great. I mentioned the corset becouse the corset garters hold up hose better than a garter belt on a man. We don't have the same hipps as women. Also, As jwhite44 said, it gives more of a fem. shape. However-Bottom Line-Your wife is more importent in your life than the material things such as shoes or fabrick. Choose the wiser. Mike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trevor Posted October 13, 2010 Author Share Posted October 13, 2010 first of all im not going to compete for any prize. for me to get on a stage and hundreds of people watching might make me nervous. i wont say its not possible because if i have enough drinks in me you never know.but the plan is to get a little buzz on to take off the edge and have just a few more during the night. i want to enjoy this and not get stupid. as far as wearing stockings with a garter belt or a corsett etc with garter straps it would not look good . this dress is very sheer and thin. those bumps would be sticking out really bad. i know because i also tried on my wifes open bottom girdle with garters. her tight black girdle really works pretty good. i will be shaving my legs and i will be wearing control top pantyhose. i might wear 2 pairs of ph if it makes the legs look better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted October 13, 2010 Share Posted October 13, 2010 This thread is not only WAYYYYYY off topic, but is containing far too much information into the realms of CD/TV... Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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