Partners thoughts of you wearing womens footwear?

[mk4625]

Again this poll question is directed at the guys.

[squirrelheels]

My ex-girlfriend seemed to approve, judging by the fact she encouraged me. Therefore I'm putting that down as the first option. There ought to be an option for ex-parteners! (although that would be toooooo complex!) SH

[Yamyam]

My last girlfriend didn't seem to mind one way or the other, and the one before that (who was a member of this board) approved and encouraged me. In fact, I'm still sad we split up. And now I'm single again.

[Rockpup]

Hrm.. no "puts up with it, but not in public" answer on this one..

[mk4625]

Hrm.. no "puts up with it, but not in public" answer on this one..

"In home only" or "strictly for the bedroom" would count as an approval.

[shyguy]

no, ocassionaly tolerates this "fetish" in a dutiful wife kinda way but that's as far as we go towards acceptance. Mostly discouraging tho.

[SF]

Been married for 22 years, have worn womens shoes (flats) the whole time, and my spouse has never had any problems with it - we even have some matching shoes! Been wearing heels for about 4 years, she is OK with that too. Have been wearing flats and heels in public, both alone and as a couple. Never get any stares or comments when in flats, but a few (very few) looks when in heels. It doesn't bother either of us. SF

[Rockpup]

Well, my bf showed a friend of his some pics of me in my boots last night. The comment was "my god, I'd break my ankles trying to walk in those" Things may be looking up. Seeya Jim

[Sandalslover]

My wife strongly disapproves...

[squirrelheels]

Well, my bf showed a friend of his some pics of me in my boots last night. The comment was "my god, I'd break my ankles trying to walk in those"

I've had so many reactions like that... They're not negative, but more inquisitive, like "Don't you find them uncomfortable?" or "How do you walk in those things?!?!" etc etc. I like reactions like because it gives me the chance to explain in a little more detail about the whole concept.... Which can only be a good thing! The more people that understand, or that are on their way to understanding, the better!

SH

[Lee]

My wife approves and has even been helpful in learning to walk better in heels. So far though, this has been in home and in bedroom activity. I'm not sure I'm ready to venture out yet.

[squirrelheels]

It's cool that you've got a supportive wife like that Lee... you're very lucky! If you did decide to wear your heels in public, would she be supportive of that too? SH

[mk4625]

I suppose I can say that I now have a partner who doesn't know.

[Alex]

I don't have a partner. I guess that's good

[Dexter23]

Well she doesn't like me to wear heels outside but in house she gets crazy if I wear my 4"boots. About 4 weeks ago O bought a pair of boots with a verry small heel and she lets me weat thost out.

[WarrenB]

She strongly disapproves although she hasn't said anything about the heeled loafers I have.

[HHfanatic]

I have never used them outside, only indoors when I`m alone. She knows about my shoe collection, and think it is ok for me to use them by myself. BUT, not together with her or outside. Maybe she will change her mind in the future.

[Francis]

my missus is cool about it all, although she doesn't like me wearing my 4" when out with her unless she's wearing heels as well

[zorro071214]

My wife think it´s ok and approves it.But she can´t use them her self beacuse she has pain in her svollen feet almost always.She uses softheeled wedges so her steps don´t get to hard.I just love to wear hh all the time out or in does not matter. Jankas

[HHfanatic]

Even if she was okay about me wearing HH outside, I`m not sure if I had the guts to do it. If I had been living in a big town I guess it would have been easier, but on the country side? Njaaaaaa, where everybody knows everybody etc? More difficult, I have to admit. Maybe I`m just making up excuses ............

[Jamie001]

It does not really matter if you live in a small town. It is not illegal to wear heels and it does not make you a bad person. Women wear everything that men wear including or boring drab shoes. There is no reason why you cannot wear your heels in the town where you live. Men faced the same issue with earrings and now earrings are commonplace thanks to the men that got out there and wore them proudly. As Highlun would say, "It is your life, don't let other people dictate your fashion decisions".

[BobHH]

After looking at this for quite a while, I suddenly have a problem with the subject. I know the shoes are labeled as women's shoes, but I disagree. They are just shoes, and they are mine, not some woman's. Mine are high heels like women wear, but women also wear Nikes like mine, so to me they are just high heels, not women's shoes.

[jim]

. Mine are high heels like women wear, but women also wear Nikes like mine, so to me they are just high heels

I couldn't have said it better! Shoes, after all is said and done, are just that..shoes.

jim

[Robert]

After looking at this for quite a while, I suddenly have a problem with the subject. I know the shoes are labeled as women's shoes, but I disagree. They are just shoes, and they are mine, not some woman's. Mine are high heels like women wear, but women also wear Nikes like mine, so to me they are just high heels, not women's shoes.

That's a very good one Bob!

[Nicole]

I thought that I had responded to this one but I had not. I am pretty sure that I voted in the poll though. My wife strongly dissaproves. She also knows that I do wear heels while she is away. It's awkward, but it is about the only arrangement that seems to work. She herself does not much like to wear heels. The way I see it is that it is better to be madly in love with some one who dissaproves then to not be in love, which is the present alternative.

[HHfanatic]

After looking at this for quite a while, I suddenly have a problem with the subject. I know the shoes are labeled as women's shoes, but I disagree. They are just shoes, and they are mine, not some woman's. Mine are high heels like women wear, but women also wear Nikes like mine, so to me they are just high heels, not women's shoes.

I wish I could live up to this statement and being comfortable with it, and ofcourse everyone around me.

But are we asking for a unisex word? Same clothes, same shoes etc.

Ally McBeal was working at a place with unisex toalett. That had been interesting.......

[jchtrumpet]

My wife doesn't mind me wearing heels. I usually wear pumps and open toe sandels of about 4-5 inch heel. I have been wearing heels for over 30 years now and it is just natural for me. I waer them with pantyhose as it is easlier of the feet.

[texasbumpkin]

All I have to say is I am all for it. My boyfriend has a pair of 7" heels that I wish that he would wear more often. All I have to say is ya baby.....drool, drool, drool.

[JCinHeels]

my gf and i both love the other in heels, and we'd encourage everyone to wear them

[Yamyam]

You know I said "I have no partner"? Well, can I change my answer, please? Pretty please? Pretty please with silver heels on? I'm sure you can all guess why ?