CPB Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 Great looking outfits, the hosiery adds an extra touch of class to a well presented outfit . You're an inspiration, even if I can't walk around in public in skirts & heels.
SkirtDude Posted April 2, 2016 Posted April 2, 2016 On 29/03/2016 at 9:49 AM, JeffB said: Well, I simply do as best I can, and a lot of that comes from understanding where I can go to find those comfort zones and not pushing my luck further than I can, or should. Meanwhile, I was thinking about breaking out my spring and summer tops and lighter skirts today, what with April literally right around the corner, then I heard that temps for the weekend will struggle to reach 50 and will be chilly. Guess I'll leave the winter stuff out for just a little while longer. Just wear the summer skirts but with thicker tights
JeffB Posted April 3, 2016 Author Posted April 3, 2016 On 3/30/2016 at 2:56 PM, mtnsofheels said: Both of you have added much to the confidence and courage for many of us to just go and try getting outside of one's comfort zone. I thank both of you for sharing and encouraging the rest of us to just do it. What really helps is seeing how you put heels together with outfits to show "Dressed well in heeled shoes and boots". Keep going Jeff! Thanks for being you! Thanks for the kind words. 23 hours ago, CPB said: Great looking outfits, the hosiery adds an extra touch of class to a well presented outfit . You're an inspiration, even if I can't walk around in public in skirts & heels. Well, not everyone can do what I do, nor would I recommend it. I'm just kooky enough to make what I do work okay. 21 hours ago, heelsrus2000 said: Just wear the summer skirts but with thicker tights I'll keep that in mind. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
CPB Posted April 6, 2016 Posted April 6, 2016 Oh, don't so be modest. You have an exceptional talent & are lucky enough to be able to exercise it without too many problems
JeffB Posted April 11, 2016 Author Posted April 11, 2016 Jaunt #306, 4/10/2016: After the region saw snow fall on Saturday (no coverage, just wet streets), Sunday was sunny and dry but chilly as temps were only in the mid 40's, still, conditions were good enough for an outing as I headed out in my black leather jacket over a gray turtleneck, a long black knit A-line skirt, the Pleaser 4 inch "Vanity" knee boots and a black handbag. Considering the roller coaster the weather's been on the last week or so, I have no way of knowing if that might represent the last time I wear a winter skirt and boots as I usually break out my spring and summer attire around this time, but this season has been kooky to say the least. I headed downtown, my first stop being the main branch of the Post Office to buy a money order, the air was crisp and chilly, but I felt quite comfortable in my outfit, I stood in line for some ten minutes before I got to the counter, there had been a glance here and there, no big deal. From there, I went into center city, parked a couple of blocks from Rittenhouse Square and enjoyed a good walk to the Barnes & Noble store where I spent a good twenty minutes or so before going to the register with the newest Sports Illustrated, a twentysomething girl with multi-colored hair stood in line ahead of me smiled and said I looked nice, so I smiled back and thanked her. Nothing like that sudden compliment out of the blue! Leaving the store, I headed down the street for a few blocks, then over to One Liberty Place and the food court for lunch. The streets were fairly crowded, despite the chilly conditions, but no one paid me any mind while in my attire, once again, dress appropriately for your surroundings and people will accept you for your presentation. After a long, leisurely lunch where I made sure I was seen, I returned to my car and headed back home to watch my Phillies in action against the hated rival New York Mets. Again, whether or not that represented the last time I wear winter attire is anybody's guess, given the unpredictable nature of the weather over the last couple of weeks, but we'll see what happens in the weeks ahead. More to come.... I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
bluejay Posted April 11, 2016 Posted April 11, 2016 JeffB, Nice look. I totally agree with you about this cold and snowy April. Here, we've had more snow in April, than December and March combined. The temps have been in the 30's and low 40's, for the last two weeks. Nearly 20 degrees below normal. However, there is light at the end of the tunnel. We may see mid 60's here, next weekend. Bring out the sandals! Maybe we can put the boots away for the season. Happy Heeling, bluejay
JeffB Posted April 14, 2016 Author Posted April 14, 2016 With spring apparently having finally established itself, I went ahead and swapped out my heavy fall and winter skirts for my light and airy spring and summer skirts. I'm hoping also to spend quality time in my denim minis as well since short skirts are tailor made for the sort of hot and steamy summer weather that's on the way. Another goal for the upcoming season will be to wear more feminine looking tops like my tanks which I've come to enjoy wearing. And yes, I'm most eager wear my slides and sandals to boot. I want people who see me to see beyond any shadow of doubt that I'm wearing women's clothes from head to toe, a true expression of fashion freestyling. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
Thighbootguy Posted April 15, 2016 Posted April 15, 2016 I just checked the weather.com for the ten day forecast for Philly and it looks like you're good to go for at least ten days... the be ready for the hurricanes and tornadoes. 2 hours ago, JeffB said: will be to wear more feminine looking tops like my tanks which I've come to enjoy wearing Those can be a challenge for a guy to do well. Make sure you do the full length mirror test before venturing out. 2 hours ago, JeffB said: I want people who see me to see beyond any shadow of doubt that I'm wearing women's clothes from head to toe, a true expression of fashion freestyling. Just go out and be yourself... people will see what they want and form their own opinions. An "expression" is something you can make, but as far a "seeing beyond a shadow of a doubt" that is up to the beholder where you will get reactions from, "Huh what I didn't notice" to "Hey Marge, lookey there at that one". (double) I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned.
JeffB Posted April 15, 2016 Author Posted April 15, 2016 Hey there, TBG! I'll be sure to follow your advice. I sure do enjoy a challenge! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
JeffB Posted April 17, 2016 Author Posted April 17, 2016 Jaunt #307, 4/16/2016: Well, it looks like spring has finally settled in after a couple of false starts here and there, and that also means that the season of slides and sandals is also underway, and I've kicked things off with a new pair of shoes bought from Payless, the "Wonder Crossband" platform wedge sandal which I found intriguing from the moment I saw them on the Payless website, so much so, I bought two pairs (BOGO sale), one in black as you can see below and another in white. I found the sandals comfortable to wear and easy to walk in with a wedge heel clocking in at just about four and a half inches. Paired with a black t-shirt, a button down denim skirt and a black handbag, the shoes were the perfect addition to the outfit. And yeah, it felt damn good to be back in sandals, something I never imagined myself saying several years ago. Driving downtown, I parked a block away from my friendly neighborhood comic shop, I did get an odd look from a homeless man I passed on the way to the shop, but that was pretty much it. After some twenty minutes in the shop, it was back in the car and over the bridge into South Jersey where I had lunch at Chick-Fil-A at Moorestown for the first time in awhile, even though there were plenty of kids in the store, but no one paid me any mind as I enjoyed a chicken salad sandwich and a bottle of water, my next stop was to the nearby Best Buy where I investigated some laptops as I need to replace my aging machine, but I'm not in a hurry to buy a new one, after examining close to a dozen machines, taking notes here and there, I left the store with the Blu-Ray version of Ant-Man. My last stop of the day (had to get back home to watch my Flyers who are in the playoffs) was to Sears where I bought a couple of casual skirts, a couple of belts and a black denim Gloria Vanderbilt jacket that was on sale. While my outing was brief, it was enjoyable, especially in the new sandals I wore, and I'm already imagining a wealth of outfits I can wear the new shoes with, and I can't wait to wear them again. More to come.... 1 I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
Thighbootguy Posted April 17, 2016 Posted April 17, 2016 Looks good JeffB. The whole outfit works well together...even the wedgies. 1 I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned.
JeffB Posted April 18, 2016 Author Posted April 18, 2016 TBG: Thanks for the kind words. Much appreciated. Jaunt #308, 4/17/2016: With another day of sunny and warm weather on tap, I decided to head out for a little adventure, pushing the envelope just a little in a cute, knee length print skirt which I paired with a black tank top, the Payless "O'Malley" platform wedge slides in black and a black handbag. As much as I enjoy wearing solid color skirts, printed ones lend an air of, well, excitement, and wearing the O'Malley slides for the first time this season was a definite plus, and yes, they were the first shoes I reached for when putting together the outfit because they're such fun to wear at this time of the year. Heading west into Springfield, I stopped at Acme to buy a few odds and ends, then headed down the road to a branch of TD Bank which is open on Sunday to cash in some coins to the tune of around $65.00 worth, not too bad. From there, I swung by my home away from home, that being Best Buy where I spent some twenty minutes before leaving with the second season of Game of Thrones on Blu-Ray for $19.99. Gotta love taking advantage of a deal! WHOO! After lunch at Arby's, I headed into center city and another favorite place to hang out, that being Rittenhouse Square park which was absolutely packed with people enjoying the sunny and warm weather, finding a bench, I sat down and chilled out, taking in the atmosphere, I got a compliment from a woman my age who said she liked my skirt and that it looked nice on me. I grinned and thanked her. Some fifteen or so minutes or so later, a twentysomething girl who walked past called out, "Cool shoes, dude!" I thanked her too. Two compliments in one outing, not bad, not bad at all! This is why I love wearing skirts and heels. Beyond the fact I feel so incredibly at home wearing such items, I go all out to present an air of normalcy in the clothes I wear, silently saying to the world, yeah, this is who I am, and I love the image I present. And that's what being a fashion freestyler is all about. More to come.... 1 I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
Thighbootguy Posted April 18, 2016 Posted April 18, 2016 Again well done! The necklace makes the tank top work. 1 I dream of a world where chickens can cross roads without having their motives questioned.
JeffB Posted April 19, 2016 Author Posted April 19, 2016 20 hours ago, Thighbootguy said: Again well done! The necklace makes the tank top work. Thanks for the kind words. I plan to buy more jewelry as I've come to enjoy wearing it with my outfits. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
JeffB Posted April 24, 2016 Author Posted April 24, 2016 Jaunt #309, 4/23/2016: Just a short, but enjoyable outing as I headed to the dealership for an oil change, decked out in my denim jacket (it was a tad brisk at 8 a.m.) over a brown t-shirt, a 23 inch khaki pencil skirt I bought from Sears last week, the Payless "O'Malley" slides in brown and a chocolate brown handbag. Once upon a time, I wasn't a fan of wearing brown, tan or khaki, but then, I didn't like wearing slides or sandals either, now I'm hooked on both, heck, I have nearly half a dozen tan/khaki skirts! HA! I arrived at the dealership close to nine for my appointment, checked in and retreated to the lounge area to wait on my car, there were something like ten people in the lounge, including a couple of young kids, a boy and girl, no older than, I'd say, seven or eight, the boy in particular was openly puzzled and a little wide eyed at seeing me while the girl couldn't have cared less. Since that's the sort of reaction I often get from young kids, it was no big deal while all the adults never gave me so much as a second glance. My stay at the dealership lasted around ninety minutes, give or take and I was out of there, passing that same little boy who followed me with his eyes as I left the building, something I found mildly humorous. From there, I headed into town, parked near the Amtrak 30th Street Station, went in the building and to the food court where I had lunch at Subway, of course, my appearance raised no eyebrows or anything like that, I even wandered through the huge, sprawling concourse where passengers wait for trains and attracted no attention, par for the course, more or less, then I left, got back in the car and returned home to watch some baseball, followed by NBA playoff action. Ahh, sports! Gotta love 'em! Heh! While it had been chilly, even a tad damp from early morning showers, it was still an enjoyable little outing, heck, I find enjoyment in all my adventures garbed in women's clothes, it's more fun than I can describe. More to come.... I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
Mr. X Posted April 24, 2016 Posted April 24, 2016 3 hours ago, JeffB said: Jaunt #309, 4/23/2016: Just a short, but enjoyable outing You are describing me to a "T" I don't need to be out for hours on end to have fun!
SkirtDude Posted April 24, 2016 Posted April 24, 2016 (edited) Loving the new skirt, JeffB! Looking forward to your next jaunt Edited April 26, 2016 by heelsrus2000
bluejay Posted April 27, 2016 Posted April 27, 2016 (edited) JeffB, Nice looking ensembles. Love those O'Malley slides. Only a couple of warm days here to wear sandals. Hopefully warmer days are coming! Happy Heeling, bluejay Edited April 27, 2016 by bluejay
JeffB Posted April 27, 2016 Author Posted April 27, 2016 On 4/24/2016 at 9:29 AM, Mr. X said: You are describing me to a "T" I don't need to be out for hours on end to have fun! Well, since my outings tend to be infrequent, I try to get as much out of every trip as I can. On 4/24/2016 at 4:37 PM, heelsrus2000 said: Loving the new skirt, JeffB! Looking forward to your next jaunt Thanks for the kind words. I have one just like that in olive that I'll trot out soon. 3 hours ago, bluejay said: JeffB, Nice looking ensembles. Love those O'Malley slides. Only a couple of warm days here to wear sandals. Hopefully warmer days are coming! Happy Heeling, bluejay Thanks for the compliment. I like the O'Malley's too! The weather here has been hit or miss, 80 one day, 60 the next, that makes planning outfits harder than it needs to be. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
JeffB Posted May 2, 2016 Author Posted May 2, 2016 3 hours ago, heelsrus2000 said: No jaunts this weekend? Nahhhhh! The weather was too crappy this weekend. Perhaps this coming weekend. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
bluejay Posted May 2, 2016 Posted May 2, 2016 Lousy weather here, too. Hopefully it will improve soon. Happy Heeling, bluejay
CPB Posted May 6, 2016 Posted May 6, 2016 On 2016/04/18 at 10:30 AM, JeffB said: Jaunt #308, 4/17/2016: Once again JeffB you're making waves in all the right places. I did a double take when I saw the above outfit, if I'd seen you walking down the street I'd quite possibly have walked into a lamp post. It's well put together, but too much for what I'd be comfortable wearing in public. At home maybe. But if you feel comfortable in it & wear it with a confident step & swagger, then go for it. Maybe us more conservative people need a bit of a jolt every now & then to move us out of our comfort zones. On 2016/04/24 at 11:29 AM, JeffB said: Jaunt #309, 4/23/2016: This is a great outfit, love the handbag, more my taste. I would've managed to avoid the lamp post if I saw you in this. 2
SkirtDude Posted May 7, 2016 Posted May 7, 2016 19 hours ago, CPB said: Once again JeffB you're making waves in all the right places. I did a double take when I saw the above outfit, if I'd seen you walking down the street I'd quite possibly have walked into a lamp post. It's well put together, but too much for what I'd be comfortable wearing in public. At home maybe. But if you feel comfortable in it & wear it with a confident step & swagger, then go for it. Maybe us more conservative people need a bit of a jolt every now & then to move us out of our comfort zones. This is a great outfit, love the handbag, more my taste. I would've managed to avoid the lamp post if I saw you in this. The second outfit looks more youthful and is smart, yet doesnt draw unnecessary attention as the first would. The skirt is a decent length, goes well with his complexion and highlights those fabulous legs. I'd walk into a lamp post to avoid the first outfit
JeffB Posted May 7, 2016 Author Posted May 7, 2016 CBG: Thanks for the kind words. I simply do as best I can and let the chips fall where they may. I can't recommend others where what I do as I enjoy pushing the envelope every now and then regarding what I wear which is great fun for me. Meanwhile, you and heelsrus need to be careful of those lamp posts! Heh! 1 I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
JeffB Posted May 9, 2016 Author Posted May 9, 2016 Jaunt #310, 5/8/2016: After what seemed like months of clouds, rain and chilly temps, the sun returned in all it's glory on Sunday, Mother's Day no less, a perfect opportunity for an outing, with a stiff little breeze blowing, I donned my new Gloria Vanderbilt black denim jacket over a pink t-shirt, my favorite denim skirt which I've had since 2008 and still fits like a glove, the Payless "O'Malley" slides in multi (basically blue and pink) and a black handbag. And yes, as is often the case, those were the first shoes I reached for when assembling this outfit, as for the pink shirt, since Mother's Day is synonomous with breast cancer research, I thought it was a logical choice. I headed west into Springfield where my first stop was Home Depot to buy some gardening tools to deal with the unruly weeds in my small front yard, the place was crowded and busy at around 11 a.m., but no one gave me so much as a glance as I went about my business, paid for my purchase and left after some twenty minutes. Next up was a visit to my home away from home, Best Buy. Like Home Depot, there was a good crowd in the store when I entered, thanks to the four inch heels on the O'Malley slides (though they don't feel that high), I stood over most of the shoppers. After little over half and hour of gadget gazing, I went to the register with season one of True Blood on Blu-Ray, discounted to $21.99, and since I wanted to see what the big deal was about this show, it made for a bargain. With my tummy rumbling, I headed down to Arby's for lunch where I had their classic Beef & Cheddar sammich with a bottle of water. Yummy! From there, I headed into center city to spend some quality time in Rittenhouse Park, as is always the case on a sunny and warm Sunday afternoon, the park was packed with people enjoying the weather and the surroundings, so, as usual, I went ignored as I claimed a bench in a shady spot and just took in the scenery and the energy and festiveness of the park for nearly an hour before returning home. The best part of what I do is being able to blend in with my surroundings and being treated just like everyone else enjoying a day in the sunshine, regardless of how I'm dressed. Because I seek to blend in as best I can instead of sticking out like a sore thumb, I'm pretty much accepted by the public for my presentation, and that's the ultimate goal of my outings. I see myself as living proof that a man can wear women's clothing and shoes in public as a man without looking comical or freakish. And that gives me a good feeling inside. More to come.... 1 I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
SkirtDude Posted May 9, 2016 Posted May 9, 2016 (edited) A great combination as always! Loving the top, skirt and slides. The bright pink is nice, I think more people are used to men wearing pink (I have quite a few pink shirts), though that shade is really outstanding. The fact there were no reactions show what a great outfit it was Edited May 10, 2016 by heelsrus2000 spelling 1
JeffB Posted May 9, 2016 Author Posted May 9, 2016 Thanks for the kind words. As I've said more times than I can count, I work hard to put together outfits that look tasteful and can be worn anywhere in just about any environment. And it's great fun to spend time in my bedroom putting together outfits before deciding on what to wear on an outing. And yeah, it was fun to wear pink yesterday. I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
bluejay Posted May 10, 2016 Posted May 10, 2016 Hi JeffB, I really like your ensemble, that you wore out yesterday, Sunday. That pink top, really puts a pop in your ensemble! I did the same tonight, when I went out to do a couple of errands. I wore black leggings, with pink ankle zippers, a long pink polo shirt and my Aerosoles, "Tapestry", pink patent pumps with 3-1/2' stacked heels. I carried my Vera Bradley, floral colored, cross body bag. Still bit cold here to be out in sandals, after the sun goes down. I had a nice time out in my heels and even got a couple of compliments, too. Keep up the good work! Happy Heeling, bluejay 1
JeffB Posted May 10, 2016 Author Posted May 10, 2016 bluejay: Thanks for the kind words. Wearing a pink top was fun, and I've done that more than once. But pink shoes? Now that would make for quite a challenge! I might have to take that under consideration! I don't want to LOOK like a woman, I just want to DRESS like a woman!
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