While I’m sure that association exists in the minds of many, I don’t think it exists that often in the minds of the people who actually wear high heels - and I mean wear them as a matter of course, as a part of their personal style. None of the women I know who wear high heels wear them because they want to appeal to men - they wear them for reasons of elegance, style, aesthetics and the sense of empowerment they project. And simply because they are fun.
i wear them for the same reasons. I like them. I like the cavalier styling - what a lovely break from the Puritanism on the men’s aisle - and because they are fun and a challenge to wear, and to wear well. I too find them empowering although for different reasons than a woman might. For me they feel empowering because I’m refusing to be cowed by the herd, am making my own style choices regardless of the opinions of others, standing in my own two (heeled) feet.
i think far too much is made of stereotype
its the joy of wearing them I’d like to capture with my camera. Simple as that. It just requires a bit of imagination to find a way to capture it in the shorthand form of a single still image