Re-creating the experience.

[Amanda]

I couldn't help but steal this quote from another thread.

(patent heel I sincerely hope you're not offended)

If I see something I like in the real world (ie a sexy pair of heels and nice legs on a woman ), I buy a pair of heels similar to those I saw and re-create the experience in the privacy of my own home.

It is a very fun, exciting and satisfying experience. You can always take pictures too (see attached)!

Kind Regards

PatentHeel

Are you wishing perhaps to create for yourself, an image that you consider beautiful and arousing by dressing your legs in this fashion?.

I wondered if this is often the case for you guys who are sexually straight but enjoy wearing heels around in private....or even in public?.

Just me trying to understand again.

Thanks patent heel for your interesting insight

A xx

[silkyheels]

Actually, I've realised fairly recently that this might be part of the reason why I want to wear high heels deisigned for women. It's made me rethink my desire to wear women's shoes out and about, so I now focus on finding more masculine styles with heels instead - I like the height and the sound of them, but prefer the feminine aspect of them on women. I still wear feminine heels around the house, but I think they're linked to a more sexual aspect of my passion for heels; as you say, possibly in order to try to recreate the physical attraction I feel towards an attractive woman in heels. A good insight, certainly, and perhaps one of the reasons why some men wear more feminine heels.

[t-strap lover]

I've been wearing highheels for over 40 years. I can be turned on just from the look of fiminine footwear. The biggest turn on is seeing a woman wearing heels. It doesn't matter if the shoe is 1 inch or 6 inch as long as its fiminine and sexy. I have no desire for masculine looking footwear on women or myself. I'm not a crossdresser. I have tried it but it does nothing for me. my enjoyment is to wear my shoes in the privacy of my on home. I also don't try to recreate any kind of look by wearing my heels. I just look like a well dressed man in heels.

[johnieheel]

Good question Amanda. I believe that is the case for me sometimes. When I see a woman in a pair of heels that really catches my eye, I look for those heels or something like them so I can recreate the look on myself or my wife. Yes I believe it is sexually oriented and exciting depending on the outfit and the heels that go with it.

[raymond.nl]

I just bought a pair of heels (nothing spectacular: black boots with a block heel) which turned out to be higher than I'd imagined. As a result my feet look too small and overly feminine. While I'd love the look on my wife, I don't think much of it for me. For me wearing heels, things stop around 3". After that things start to look out of place. I like the posture heels give me, and perhaps a dash of femininity is just fine. But pumps, strappy things, and other (sometimes very little) things can make shoes waaay to feminine for me to wear them. If only men's shoes wouldn't be so utterly dull...

[Amanda]

so that's a no then,or is it a yes?.

I just bought a pair of heels (nothing spectacular: black boots with a block heel) which turned out to be higher than I'd imagined. As a result my feet look too small and overly feminine. While I'd love the look on my wife, I don't think much of it for me.

For me wearing heels, things stop around 3". After that things start to look out of place.

I like the posture heels give me, and perhaps a dash of femininity is just fine. But pumps, strappy things, and other (sometimes very little) things can make shoes waaay to feminine for me to wear them.

If only men's shoes wouldn't be so utterly dull...

[Celso999]

Hi Amanda, I think you got to the point when you say "create for yourself, an image that you consider beautiful and arousing". From my experience, it has a lot of doing with the total possession of the feminine image as, as you can read in other threads, many of us straight men, love to regard ourselves in a mirror when using high heels. Others love to take pictures or to make short films of themselves with heels on. In my case, I would love to see my wife posing for me with high heels, just for my pleasure. As she does not have ANY intention of doing that for me, you're probably right - I create for myself an image that I can admire and make it behave any way I want. Best Regards,

[jmc]

In my case I would have to answer "no", I am not trying to re-create an image I have seen on a woman in the "real world". This is because I generally do not try to wear the same styles as the women I notice are wearing. In other postings I have come out in favor of block heels and wedges for my own wear and I don't seem to see a lot of them on women. I tend to see more stilettos on women and while I love the look, sound, motion, etc. of them I don't think they look right on me.

[Givemeheels]

I think seeing beautiful women in great shoes was what turned me on to the idea of wearing heels. Not many of my girlfriends over the years were in to heels - maybe that's what turned me on to the idea of wearing htem myself! I find platforms with stilettoes the sexiest look, it's also what I enjoy wearing. I've tried strappy shoes, they felt great (they were heels) but they didn't feel right to wear lookswise, as I'm not a TV. After much experimentation, I prefer Oxford-type shoes these days.

[Histiletto]

I couldn't help but steal this quote from another thread.

(patent heel I sincerely hope you're not offended)

Are you wishing perhaps to create for yourself, an image that you consider beautiful and arousing by dressing your legs in this fashion?.

I wondered if this is often the case for you guys who are sexually straight but enjoy wearing heels around in private....or even in public?.

Just me trying to understand again.

Thanks patent heel for your interesting insight

A xx

Yes! Thanks patent heel and Amanda for highlighting this subject and post.

Would this also be true for anyone who has seen a pair of heels, hat, sports eyewear, dress, jeans, wig, belt buckle, and/or etc., whether in the shop, on the street, or just being worn at some function. The beholder begins to wish and imagine how they, their husband (or wife), g/f or b/f, or even S/O would look wearing them. Due to the fact male heeling has yet to be fully open, there will be behind the scene activities like patent heel posted. I am willing to speculate, this kind of practice is probably more widely done in varing degrees by a lot of people, men and women. How about that Gucci purse or scarf you saw and wanted, for an example?

When I see or visualize a particular high heel, or anything for that matter, that is with in my priority of desire, I want to possess the same modeled item or set, so that I will have a or another choice. Am I peculiar in this way of thinking or do others have these same thought patterns?

[thedesigner]

i like heels for comfort and style, and i look at women wearing heels with interest, in the same way that women in flats are okay but.... i wear heels cos they r me, not trying to emulate anyone else; being uk size 6 i can reasonably choose anything; also i enjoy being interesting and not a hoodie wearing staffy owning blinged up lout.... yes, i think its original and fun, i like to provoke a reaction, normally shtoom or favorable, maybe i enjoy at last being loud....

[HimInHeels]

Recently I responded to a question on the forum that is similar to your original notion. It reads:

How do High Heels make me feel? Great Question. Hard Question to answer too. I am for all practical purposes a straight male. No experiences with any males although out of curiosity, I did agree to go on a dinner date with a guy I met on AOL way back in the early 90's (HA! HA!, AOL rocked in the day, didn't it?). I suppose I let my curiosity get the best of me. I found the curiosity went away rather quickly after diner and it was time to..., to... begin the date??? I politely shook hands and left. To this day, I still have the curiosity but no desire to exploit it. I love the female body just too much. I do however do not think I would turn away the perfect Post-Op. Perhaps that would be the best of both worlds. But I digress.

The Heels. I simply love the feeling I get when I am wearing them. I have never been a very dominating person and they make me feel rather submissive. I do not mean this in the leather and whips way. I consider myself all man but deep (well, not too deep) inside of me is this female that needs to get out. When I wear heels, stockings, a skirt (rarely, most of the time jeans) there is this female with me doing these daring things, challenging all others to see me for who this secret person is inside of me. A midnight walk, a bold venture to the mall, an evening at the Casino (great place described in earlier posts), is a great turn on for me and my feminine sub counterpart. My vision of a beautiful woman walking in a set of sexy high heels is in my thoughts every "click-clack" I make on a hardened floor and that vision becomes me. The shape of her feet, angled to match the height of the heels. The thinness of her ankle as the calf muscle is tightened and lifted to accommodate the needed balance. The gate in which she walks, one foot placed slightly in front of the other as her entire body reacts with each well placed step. The skirt she wears, just high enough for me to wonder is it almost too short. I can imagine all this with every step I take. I am her now. She is a part of me. Needless to say, this is a great turn on for me and usually ends with me, how should I say, needing a nap?

So, how do “I” feel when I am wearing heels? "We" feel satisfied. I don’t think there are many of us as members of this forum that have a dissimilar feeling. I read allot about freedom of choice here and have come to realize for myself that it is actually a bonding with the other sex I am looking for.

Well, there ya go.

[Bootking]

I don't buy / wear heels because I see someone else in them; it would be because I like them. Most of what I buy are from eBay or catalogs and most do not have a model.

That does not preclude liking the look of someone wearing heels but that is not the prime mover at all.

[sabotalot]

Back in the mid 1980's there was a line of women's shoes called "Candies", which, among other styles, there was an open-back high-heel clog. I admired the style as much as its wearer (early 30-ish lady); I thought that there would never be a way for me to wear something like that, but a year ago I bought my first pair (now have 7 similar but not identical pairs) and don't always wear them, but I do wear them a lot. HH meet in Ohio in October. If you think that you might be attending, could you share some of your other interests here? I like old cars, old tv and radio shows, and restoration of sound on vintage records. I'm glad that there are a number of us who are into this. Easy does it.

[Amanda]

I think some of you read me wrong. Perhaps I wasn't clear enough. What I actually meant was that some of you obviously enjoy emulating women in that all that you see before you when wearing heels, hose,skirts etc represents female elegance.(from the waist down) Maybe because that kind of elegance or beauty does not exist in your own life just now?. You can re-create it yourself. I didn't literally mean that you rushed out and bought a pair of sandals you saw a woman wearing at the theatre in order to directly emulate her appearance. Oh dear, I'm afraid I'm not very good at making posts in the guys forum. maybe it's because I only ever attempt it when I'm tipsy.

[luxxyheels]

I actually do it for just that reason. I love looking at women's legs in nylons and heels, and then recreating that experience when I look at my own legs in nylons and heels. This is also why my heels are all very feminine looking. But this also extends to womens undergarments and clothing. I love it all. It's not the best view, but you get the idea:

[Bootking]

Cheers Amanda!!!

[flamingxy]

Amanda: I believe I saw someone else post a question similar to "Would you still wear high heels if your s/o wore all the heels you would want to wear?" I think it would diminish my interest in some of the more exotic forms, but I would still be interested in developing a social acceptance of some form of men's heels other than cuban heels (which are not appealing to me, and usually relatively short anyway).

[hoverfly]

I think what you are looking for, no mater what is the reason it's really what's pleasing to the eyes and how it makes one feel. One can conclude such "sexual" feelings are not all greatly different between genders in this aspect.

[raymond.nl]

so that's a no then,or is it a yes?

To the question "Are you wishing perhaps to create for yourself, an image that you consider beautiful and arousing by dressing your legs in this fashion?" I'd have to vote Yes on the beautiful and No on arousing.

But "like the way heels walk" and "like to be different" are Yes too.

There you have it!

[Amanda]

I think you're in the wrong thread.

[PatentHeel]

IAre you wishing perhaps to create for yourself, an image that you consider beautiful and arousing by dressing your legs in this fashion?.

I wondered if this is often the case for you guys who are sexually straight but enjoy wearing heels around in private....or even in public?.

Just me trying to understand again.

Thanks patent heel for your interesting insight

A xx

Hi Amanda

Great to be asked that question, thanks for asking.

To try and explain a bit more, if I can that is.

Since starting senior school I've always had a thing for black patent leather shoes.

Not just any type of shoe though, certain types like Mary Jane s, cross straps, buckles, anything with a bow or rounded toe styles. Nothing with laces though! (see my post in the Introductions).

Something about them with white socks and lovely legs, just really made my head turn. As I got older, I began to notice patent heels alot more and they looked nice on females who had nice smooth shiny legs or with shiny tights/stockings and I found them extremely sexy and arousing. (Note: I like shiny and metallic stuff too).

Even as I write this, i'm finding it hard to explain exactly, but all I can say is that they give an even greater feeling of exhilaration and arousement when you actually go the whole hog and wear the heels with the garb.

Obviously if your in a relationship and your partner doesn't wear stuff like that it can be frustrating. Especially when you see other women wearing something that you like but you know that your partner wouldn't dress that way. Therefore, when I wear heels I'm trying to create an image of something i've seen and liked.

As a straight male, I only like women and therefore when I wear heels I like to resemble a female as much as practically possible. Standing in a mirror and looking at your lower half in a skirt, stockings and your favourite heels is a big turn on, just like a straight male would be turned on looking at a sexy female in an adult glamour magazine.

If its not practical to dress up and wear heels, the pictures I've taken are the next best thing. I can look at them at anytime and the feeling of excitment and arousal will come back almost instantly.

I hope I have explained this a bit better and you do not regard me as a freak lol

Cheers

PatentHeel

[Amanda]

Thanks for clarifying your feelings.

I find it very interesting.

I don't think you're a freak. No more than the rest of us.

Anyway all humans are freaks, Why else would all the animals be scared of us and not of each other?.

I hope I have explained this a bit better and you do not regard me as a freak lol

Cheers

PatentHeel

[PatentHeel]

I could be wrong but I don't think many women would dress as males along the same kind of lines.

[Amanda]

I could be wrong but I don't think many women would dress as males along the same kind of lines.

Lol, I would say you're right there.

[PatentHeel]

I think it is the way males are engineered. Same way as most straight men are likey to be turned on by watching two women together, most straight females i've spoken with wouldn't be turned on by watching two men together. Again, I could be wrong.

[Amanda]

I wouldn't be interested in watching two guys together. neither am I turned on by the idea of wmen together. This is way off thread now.

[billyb]

Hi Amanda I understood your question and for me my anwser is no. I am straight and have been happily married now for 34 years. I grew up with 2 older sisters and a mother who wore heels all the time which was during the sixties I remember that I was fasinated with high heels and when no one was around I would wear my sisters shoes and was hooked but I knew I could never wear them. Since I grew up on a farm and worked around horses and cattle I always wore cowboy boots and even now I wear boots and they have always had a 2.5" or 3" rideing heel so I have always worn heels. About a year ago I told my wife about my love of womens high heels and even though she thought I was nuts let me get a pair I was in heaven, and now several pairs later I wear ladies boots or loafers with a 3.5" stacked heel or my cowboy boots to work, the dress code is buisness casual so I dress nice. The only other womens attire I wear is ladies trouser socks and some times pantyhose, other wise I have no desire to wear any other womens cloths. I like wearing heels because of the way they fit and how it feels when walking in them, as you know when in a pair of heels your whole perspective changes compared to flats or mens shoes. So for me it is about the shoes and nothing else.

[Bubba136]

(Snip)

I like wearing heels because of the way they fit and how it feels when walking in them, as you know when in a pair of heels your whole perspective changes compared to flats or mens shoes. So for me it is about the shoes and nothing else.

same with me. I've worn girls shoes since I can remember. Today I wear my penny loafer style shoes with 3 or 4" heels or boots with up to 4" heels everywhere I go.

[PatentHeel]

I wouldn't be interested in watching two guys together.

neither am I turned on by the idea of wmen together.

This is way off thread now.

I agree it is off thread now, but you understand what I mean.

Anyway back to heels!