High Heels For The Looks Or Confidence?

[marit]

hi, girls, do you wear high heels just for the looks, or gives it you more confidence? and what hight do you mostly wear?

[meganiwish]

Hi Marit, I have very small feet, only UK size 3, and I don't normally wear anything very high. 3" is very tops for me, normally about 2". I walk very differently with heels, prouder, more grown up. I sometimes feel like a little girl padding along it flats (sometimes I like to feel that way). I hope I look more grown up when I feel more grown up.

[DebbiNC]

For me, wearing heels is a combination of both for the looks and confidence. I love the way heels elongate my legs and I enjoy the "sense of purpose" they bring to my stride when I wear them. Both are supreme confidence builders for me! I typically wear 3.5 - 3.75 inch heels on a regular basis, but casual Friday is they day I break out the flats!

[alicia]

definitely for both

[Sly Fox]

I think one leads to the other - what it does for your legs and posture, and knowing that it looks good GIVES you confidence. As for the height of heel, they tend to range from about 2 to 4 inches. It also depends upon how long my feet will be in them for.

[Louise28]

Hi everyone, I'm Louise It's looks and confidence for me, I'm only 5' 2 so I need the height boost as well as the leg lengthening as Debbie says. An extra 4" or so makes me feel so much better. Louise

[Amanda]

Both

[alicia]

The way you dress and the way you walk...Don't forget to present your attitude. I love wearing high heel boots. They are a bold and stylish addition to any wardrobeand boosts confidence with the knowledge that wearing high heel boots helps you carry yourself in an attractive way, effortlessly. I am an office girl in the management and it is important to show that i mean business. Remeber your shoes tell alot about who you are.

[Amanda]

from what I've seen you wear them very well Alicia. xx

[MrsFoxyheels]

I feel really frumpy without heels on so I suppose it's mostly for confidence but I think they make me look better so I suppose they are connected.

[Roxyinheels]

for me, its a cocktail of good feelings, i adore to reflect myself in clover. In heels, I feel sexy and elegant and so, confident and dominant. Wearing heels is also a turning on. and...to tell you the truth, I love to catch gentlemen's glances.

[Amanda]

and...to tell you the truth, I love to catch gentlemen's glances.

Something I also enjoy, I'm sure most others here would feel the same.

[meganiwish]

If only there were gentlemen on the street.

Edited September 11, 2012 by meganiwish

[Amanda]

They do seem in short supply these days Megan it's true. (not that I spend a lot of time on the street)

Edited September 11, 2012 by Amanda Snake

[Roxyinheels]

They are few but good

[SexyToesToo]

For looks AND confidence

[Jessika]

How about both....heels give a woman feelings of confidence, sexy, power....and they look great

[HelenInHeels]

There is enough self-confidence in me to wear heels just for the look!

[spikesmike]

HelleninHeels :  Me also . Mike

[pebblesf]

1 hour ago, spikesmike said:

HelleninHeels :  Me also . Mike

Powerful, masculine and confident for sure!

[HelenInHeels]

On 10/1/2021 at 4:47 PM, spikesmike said:

Good morning Mike!

You could post that picture also in the "Best Dressed ..." thread, it would fit well in there.

Helen

Edited October 3, 2021 by HelenInHeels

[diannega]

Heels definitely adds class to any outfit which is for looks then, but looking good adds confidence and hence we wear them for both reasons then

[alicialehoux]

power, confidence and control