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Did you ever get an explanation about which post was offensive, and exactly what was said that caused this issue? Things similar to this have been happening to me on some other sites. I get a generic note about one of my posts being offensive or inappropriate, but never an explanation of which post or just what was said that caused the upset. I write the various webmasters asking for this info, never hear a word back. Even though I feel the world needs to "toughen up a bit", I would appreciate precise explanations so I can learn and not cause issues in the future. Needless to say, selfishly, we all want you to stay here with us. Your sense of style is great and we always like hearing about your various adventures and opportunities for romance. Still hoping this issue can be resolved... But, I surely understand if you have had enough. All the best. Don

Thanks for the mention. I have no idea what your intentions are, but in any case good luck with your endeavors, wherever they may lead you. The post has the feel and tone of a farewell post, but does not explicitly say so. Also, be careful with Prime Ministers' daughters. Boring as my life may be here in Iowa, I actually have a story about THAT subject.

Yes, thank you for your kind words. Like @Bubba136 I am grateful for the civil tone that exists on this site, such a contrast to so many internet forums! I recently joined (but have never posted on) a canal boat forum whose members are astonishingly vicious and backbiting to each other and especially to any newcomers foolish enough to try to join in any conversations. It’s positively staggering and makes one appreciate all the more the genteel tones, tolerance and friendships displayed here. Long may it continue!

KH! Thank you for what I feel is a true heartfelt post. One of the more positive features of this website is that each individual member has their own individual personality formed by their inner most socially unorthodox behavioral characteristics that, if generally known to others, might alter their acceptance and position in today’s society. The fact that they can openly discuss their unique characteristics with others without fear of disdainful criticism, sharing experiences as well as often receiving advice about their own personality characteristics that are not usually talked about in open discussions, makes it unique. For those of us that possess “antisocial” desires and behave beyond what is considered as normal social behavior, whether it is living a alternative lifestyle or crossdressing experiences, etc., it is a place where we can express ourselves, relieve psychological tension all with complete anonymity, without fear of being revealed. What is absolutely astounding is that all of this discussion takes place for the most part with a minimum of conflict, disagreement or argument. While some of the members are not fans of the leadership and others would like to see some of the rules relaxed or broadened, the fact is that there has to be an organized system of maintaining order. While members might not like or always agree with those in charge they can, as you so artfully put it “I can dislike you but be grateful for your efforts for which I truly am.” All this being said is just my way of asking you to just acknowledge the point, take it for what it’s worth and remain amongst us as a truly revered member. You really do belong here. I thank you for your contributions.

You are probably right in thinking that Tech has already deleted the post. There are probably a large number of people cruising the internet, coming across this website that would consider it to be flaming antisocial because “what male in their right mind would ever want to wear high heels or any garment designed for a female?” I know for a fact that tolerance for any lifestyle other than the traditional male, female separation is highly offensive to a point of in sighting physical violence against anyone outside acceptable social behavior, is possible. Those of us that chose to participate in this website can be, and probably are, considered to be “social misfits” because of our “antisocial” behavior, by advocates of traditional social norms. Each and every person has three reputations. One is the one that we present in public, where we work and to our friends and other outsiders. The second one is the one that we have with our families and other really close relatives. The third one is the “secret” one. The one that is known only to us. This is the one that we are prepared to share portions of in this website. It has been demonstrated again and again that while a male member here would love to be able to wear female clothing or shoes when ever or where ever they chose, they are not able to admit that they have these desires to anyone. This is the secret so important that they cannot allow anyone to know. But, this website is a place where they can associate with other people that have the same interests and they can share experiences with them openly and anonymously without fear of exposing ourselves to others outside of this venue. It has been said that “opinions are like assholes.” Because everyone has one. In the context of the United States Constitution, the right to free speech permits the people to freely express their opinions. While this is true, it doesn’t mean that some opinions should not be kept private.

My New Freelance stiletos Their high quality make them confortable and easy to walk with

Here are my latest. I saw these at a local thrift store weeks ago. The fit was a tad tight in the toebox. Nothing major but just enough to where I thought I might not be able to wear them for any length of time, so I decided against them. They were a size 9. I am normally a size 9.5 to 10 but depending on the shoe style and brand, I can also fit into some 9's. I definitely regretted my decision later because it was love at first sight. And I loved the toe cleavage they provided. And they were in pretty good condition. They looked like they were only worn a handful of times at the most. As luck would have it, I went back today, and they were still there calling my name. I tried them on again, and this time, they fit a little better. I could not pass them up twice, so I happily paid the twenty dollars, and they went home with me. I'm hoping that the first time maybe my feet were just having a little swelling problem that day. Or maybe after some wearing, they will stretch themselves out a little. The shoes are Jessica Simpson brand with a thick ankle strap, and the heel measures 4 and a quarter inches.