audreyk Posted March 13, 2008 Posted March 13, 2008 Are high heels intimidating to guys when they make you taller than him? I recently went out with a guy who I liked a lot, but he said he didn't understand why women would wear heels when they made them taller than their significant others. I guess he must have been referring to me, since I was wearing 5" heels that night with him and they might have made me a little taller than him. He kind of suggested that he would rather me wear flats. I stopped seeing him for other reasons though. Would guys not approach a woman because her heels make her taller than him? I guess it's time for me to find taller guys?
sevenup Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I have found it too be the other way round, my ex fiance would not ewear heels out with me because she would have been taller, i didn't care and told her so, she wouldn't do it ,i wish she had she had great feet and legs and looked great in 5" heels, but she had a hang up not me ! too me if you are comfortable with it then i've got the best of bost worlds !!
Dan J Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I don't think it should be an issue, for the guy or the woman. Lots of women who are 5'-5 or 6 barefoot may be 5'-9 or 10 in heels which, depending on the guy, may be taller than the guy. If the guy wants to, he can wear heels, but he shouldn't feel that it's necessary. Dan
latindancer Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I personaly like it. I really don't mind if a woman wore heels and was taller than me. My ex-wife would wear 4" heels all the time and was taller than me. I actually took it as a thing of pride because I had this tall beautiful woman by my side. Just to tell you I am 5'10", therefore, he wearing heels made her over 6 feet. If a guy hated that then he has an issue with his height, his problem and his mistake. So wear on and enjoy wearing your heels so you should be able to find someone who's not bothered by you being taller in heels. I wouldn't. LD
hoverfly Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Depends on the person, my GF is taller than me in her heels if I am flat footed. I have no problems with it, for others......that's their problem and maybe a hint of their personality. Maybe you are looking at for the wrong type of person. Yes there are guys who will not approach women who are taller then them. But I am will to place my bets on most men who see a tall women in heels thinking you are all ready taken. Hello, my name is Hoverfly. I’m a high heel addict…. Weeeeeeeeeee! 👠1998 to 2022!
johnieheel Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Being only 5'6" on a good day, I have always been under the impression that the majority of the girls wanted taller guys. On the other hand, I had one gf that was 5'10" bare foot and she made me feel the same. Our height difference was never an issue. Then I had a gf that was 4'10" in heels and didn't make a difference either. Now my wife is 5'2" and taller than me when she wears heels but doesn't like it so if she wears heels when we go out, I have to also. It's a goooood thing. I suppose it just depends on the persons preference. I think some guys are intimated by taller women because of all that macho crap maby. real men wear heels
Bootking Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I am taller than my wife by 2"; but with the 3 & 4" heels, she's taller! I'm fine with that but would like to be taller than her in my own heels; maybe someday............. It's all about the heel!
lorriette Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I know a few couples where wife is taller, even without heels. They don't seem to have a problem with it. Perhaps we are the wrong people to ask, as to us, it is a good excuse for us to wear our heels too. totter along into history
sevenup Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 I'm about the same as johnnie 5'7" ,( i just make 6' in heels) , if a woman was taller than me in her heels , so be it , if i passed comment on it i would be hoping she would suggest me wearing heels!! that would be brill!! a woman who would accept your fetish ! If you see a guy you llike and he is shorter when your in your heels ask him if its a problem , you in heels , he may be a heel lover then you have the best of both worlds!!
Thighboots2 Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Audreyk, You love to wear heels, so do so. If being taller than your partner is an issue for you, then you'll have to address that. BUT, if it's an issue for the guy, all he is showing is personal insecurity and perhaps he would be suited to someone else. To me, it isnt an issue. Wear your heels with pride and thoroughly enjoy them, just wish we all could (heels I means, not yours ). TB2 Are you confusing me with someone who gives a damn?
Pumpfan Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 Not a bad problem to have. I know my GF probably wouldn't mind my heels so much if I didn't tower over her already. The highest heels she can wear are about 4". Just enjoy in/out of the house or bedroom.
thedesigner Posted March 14, 2008 Posted March 14, 2008 soulmate is pleased for me to wear heels as she likes me being taller than her as she always does 4" + when we go out. The phone message was "i'm doing big heels tonite", but now i've got my 6" heels she bought me, and can walk in, she doesnt bother phoning....
RPMindy Posted March 16, 2008 Posted March 16, 2008 i used to have this philosophy when i was younger.. i don't care for height.. as long as on her tallest day, she's my height (up to 6 inch with no plats) however.. i've long gotten over it. because it sounded sillier and sillier every passing year. i don't care or am intimidated by height. i dropped my 'moto' when a friend of mines in heels was several inches taller than me.. and i found i don't care. however.. most men i talk to do care a lot and have yelled at their dates for showing up in heels that made them taller than they were. to me, that is ridiculous. i've met guys who refuse to date heeled women.. mainly because their mom and aunts lived only in high heels. their lost.. and also why they're still single many many years. some women also have told me they feel awkward being taller than the guy. one even told me she feels less secure with a shorter guy than she.. and won't wear heels to avoid being taller than her man. shame.. really. bottom line.. folks. please be secure in yourself. height is only a number that you can't really control unless you wear heels to add to it. i love seeing women in high heels and won't mind being shorter than her just to enjoy extra inches on the heels. turns out.. my wife at her tallest is my height (so funny enough.. my motto came out.. but just coincidence.). even if she went up to 6 inch (so far no go) and was taller than me.. i'd not care... and highly encourage her to keep going with the 6 inch.. and beyond (though i've been told that she won't attempt anything beyond 6 inch.. and i respect that) RPM
Phoenix Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 Are high heels intimidating to guys when they make you taller than him? I recently went out with a guy who I liked a lot, but he said he didn't understand why women would wear heels when they made them taller than their significant others. I guess he must have been referring to me, since I was wearing 5" heels that night with him and they might have made me a little taller than him. He kind of suggested that he would rather me wear flats. I stopped seeing him for other reasons though. Would guys not approach a woman because her heels make her taller than him? I guess it's time for me to find taller guys? My wife is 5'4" barefoot. I'm 5"8". When she wears heels she is at least my hight sometimes taller if they are platforms. She enjoys being taller. But, when we both ware heels of the same height I'm taller. She still would like to be taller than me but it would take some very tall heels. But I wouldn't mind!
roz Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 I always go for men who are quite a bit taller than me, I just feel comfortable in the company of a tall man. I am 5ft 3" so it isn't hard to find blokes who are taller than me - my current BF is 6ft so he has a 9" headstart on me. I normally wear 5-6" heels out and about, so even then he is still 3" taller than me, but I love wearing platforms in the bedroom as I nearly match him for height. Because he is normally the one that towers over me it is nice to feel a bit more powerful in intimate situations. My BF never feels intimidated, but that's probably down to me still being shorter when in 6" heels, and only being as tall as him in the bedroom which he loves. I can't imagine he would ever feel intimidated though, however tall heels make me.
shrimper Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 If my mate is comfortable being taller than me, I am thrilled with it. I'm even more thrilled with the thought of ending the evening by slipping into her shoes AND her p*&^y at the same time.
hoverfly Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 If my mate is comfortable being taller than me, I am thrilled with it. I'm even more thrilled with the thought of ending the evening by slipping into her shoes AND her p*&^y at the same time. Hello, my name is Hoverfly. I’m a high heel addict…. Weeeeeeeeeee! 👠1998 to 2022!
flavio Posted March 17, 2008 Posted March 17, 2008 Some of you must know I'm 203cm (6ft 8in) and never meet woman higher then me. Some very high (more then 180cm) but never close. My wife is 158cm (5ft 2in) very small person. I would be very happier if I was a bit small, with smaller feet to find shoes easier. It's very difficult to find my size in Brazil, even the stores that carries larger ones are smaller then I need. Flavio - Brazilian heel lover, now in France.
roniheels Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 To me personally it doesn't matter. If I were with a woman and both of us were wearing high heels and she was taller than me, that would be a little exciting to me. I once danced at a shaker dance with a very tall oman in 3 or 4 inch heels. I had on men's heels, but she was at least 5 inches taller than me. It was fun dancing with her and she was very nice to me. I once saw an female adult porn star in our town making appearences at various men's clubs. I saw her in the parking lot as she was going to her car. She was billed as 6'6" in naked feet. When I saw her, she was wearing at least 4 inch heels. She was a very pretty woman and so stauesque. I look up to tall women wearing high heels (no pun intended).
yozz Posted March 19, 2008 Posted March 19, 2008 My wife is less than 2 inches shorter than me. So when she wears heels and I don't she may be taller. I then call her my tall one. When she wears flats and I wear heels she is my short one. In both cases we enjoy and have fun. It is so superficial to make a big point out of relative size. My wife told me about a woman she knows who is 6 feet 2 inches and loves to wear heels. It makes her special. For the ancient Greek the size of a woman was a measure of beauty. Who doesn't like a beautiful woman (at least to look at)? Y. Raise your voice. Put on some heels.
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