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  1. What I am saying is, if you want to normalize it for your wife (i.e. wear them) then you may need to de-fetish them. To many SO's it is a bad thing.  To me a collection is something you have on a self that you rarely use, like a collection of cameras opposed to camera(s) that you use to take photos.

    Almost all the time, 50-100% of what I have on started out on the "women's" side of the store. I wear what I like and what fits me the best.

  2. Sometimes when I get the "stare" I'll simply ask as I pass by, "don't you just love them" and may times I'll get a "YES."  Last real stare was from a woman who followed me out of the post office. As I was getting into my car she stopped behind my car and told me "interesting foot wear." I had my Steve Madden beat up mules on.

  3. Steve,

    I have my Madden heels, my Victoria's Secret heels, Charles David heels, Nine West heels, ..., but they are just heels. My daily shoes.

    Some people have coin collections, stamp collections, toy elephant collections, ..., but if you want to get your SO to be okay with your heels, just call them "my shoes" or "my heels".

  4. Punctuation, WOW!!!! Good job mate.

    I think when you use the word "collection" to describe your heels you set yourself up to having it be called a fetish by other people (wife, SO, etc.).  Do you have a "collection" of shirts or do you just have shirts? I have shoes, over 45 just happen to be high heels.

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  5. On 11/22/2018 at 10:40 AM, bambam said:

    Wasn't that beautiful?? I finally got to breathe outside without smelling smoke.

    After weeks of breathing hazardous air from the Paradise (Camp Fire) it was nice to have clean air. I had a friend who stayed in Paradise and saved his house.  Very lucky.

  6. 11 hours ago, KneeBooted said:

    Haha! I texted my friend a picture and that was her reaction as well! “You just need higher heels!” 

    Great minds think alike.

     

    8 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

    KneeBooted,

    My experience has been that I wear a size 14 in women's jeans but a 16 is good for 4-5"/10-12cm heels whereas a size 18 is better for heels higher than that. You may want to follow suit using whatever your size is without heels and go up from there. On the other hand, if you really want to make a splash then you could just wear some skinny jeans with those heels. Like Shyheels pointed out it would save the tailoring. HinH

    Its not that easy. My size 10 are slipping off my waist, so I am back to size 8 or men's 31/32. Look for TALL versions.

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