MackyHeels

14 hours ago, Shyheels said:

Just go to a different gym.

Nah! Have small dwindling circle of friends years back before I started my feminine style. While making handful of female friends intrigued, curious of my transformation and body or enjoying entertaining factor just knowing a freak like me. 

Do at times go to different gym but recognize some woman who stopped visiting my default location. Looking at there initial reaction recognizing me at the new gym. They don’t like what they see, maybe reason they stopped visiting my frequent gym was they felt uncomfortable with my outfits or appearance. 

Plus everywhere I go people react initially the same. 

At least my home base gym I got a very good sense on who or what they think of me. It enables me to ignore some while enjoying others gaze upon me. 

Lot of Asian woman frequent my gym some days more then other times. Yesterday was one of those times all lined up on every gym equipment that I seen. Looked like a assembly plant one after the other as I was passing by. 

Noticed this Asian jealous young male often tags along with his blonde attractive Asian young girlfriend. Lately he comes alone dedicated for his workout but this time his girlfriend eventually shows up later. While wearing my white gray mesh leggings and heatheed orange tight top. I noticed the cute Asian blonde beauty looking me over in the mirror or in passing in envious manner. Did observe her boyfriend smirk noticing me earlier, thinking to myself he believes my leggings are very feminine in style thus funny to see me wear it.

Do know the Asian male is very jealous of his girlfriend when it comes to me. Anytime his girlfriend coincidentally working out behind me he stares concerned. Once I was confused why his demeanour changed as he was staring at me, little did I know his girlfriend was exercising behind me. Anytime I have an opportunity to chat with the attractive blonde Asian girlfriend the boyfriend will stand between us back towards me from ever communicating. Lead me to believe the Asian goddess is very intrigued in my attire in fact I bet she talks about me to her boyfriend. Enough so leading  to observe the girlfriends moves near me or her curiosity what she likes with my body or attire. Nice to be noticed without any silly juvenile reactions. 

What confuses me most with woman seemingly enjoying or envious of my attire in the gym. Sometimes they walk up to me asking how long I will be finished using the specific equipment or weights. Answer them politely they often smile or grin leaving. Or have smirk on there face as to why I haven’t a clue. Yet whenever there in my line of sight I maybe eyeballing there body and anlyze the clothes. Then they react with smirk to themselves as I’m watching adjusting there outfit pulling up there leggings in front of me having happier demeanour then I ever seen before, leaving with there boyfriend. Maybe some believe I approve or envious of there outfits making them feel superior and confident. Suppose way we look upon each other brings confidence what we are wearing. If these woman respect the style of clothes I wear, then they respect my opinion on what they wear as well. Even though none says a word or compliment one another we can conclude by reactions and demeanour what others think of what we are wearing.

4 hours ago, Cali said:

Why worry about them? Why does their approval mean so much to you? Live above it.

Cali it's not approval i want.  Heck,  fully understanding some clothes i wear are not for everyone to enjoy or for me expecting any compliment. It's being considered an equal wearing feminine clothes or shoes woman in particular shouldn't judge or laugh because it's unusual for them to observe.

Often thinking to myself do i look silly in these dusty mauve  leggings pictured below? i'm wearing standing or sitting on the gym floor. all alone

• Why is that woman i see in the mirror, who observed me hundreds of times in different yet similar  tight outfits chuckling to herself, after initially laying eyes on my outfit?
• Does she find it to girly for male to wear?
• Does she feel pink isn't a colour a man should wear?
•  Are my leggings too light coloured for the season, is it better suited for spring or summer rather autumn or winter?
•  Is she chuckling because she observes me closely noticing, wearing brand new legging, outfits in the gym almost daily or weekly? 
•  Do people find me incorrigible, purchasing  the latest yoga styles or trends, or being poster boy for a specific female athletic brand often seen being first wearing in the gym?
• Does my body physique look alright for what i'm showing and wearing? 
• Should i look to be more modest blending in wearing black leggings more rather standing out? (having butt wedgie in leggings funny)
• Why is the cute gal glancing staring at my bulge beside me while we stretch next to each other? (Am i showing way too much, feelings of being naked and vulnerable, leggings clinging to my body contours like a spray tan?)
• Is she impressed with my body or outfit or just curious, intrigued? (Indeed she has boyfriend or is married).
• Am i respected for the outfit i'm wearing, does it pop and impress making females envious?

Yet all these thought fill my brain making for intense workout fueling my fitness journey making a negative into a positive. Best motivator is having someone being negative and trying to prove them wrong. Wearing my exclusive  feminine gym outfit brings me to a level of confidence i don't have on the street except in the gym environment, puzzles me why. Maybe because of the fact it's a domain i feel i confident proud and compared to others rule to some pathetic degree, at least that is how i feel. While on the street there are so many variables that you encounter and roadblocks that it gets tiresome or expected.  Only option is to grit my teeth and keep walking hoping next person doesn't  voice there negative views or stares upon me as well. 

While most times i stay in my bubble in the gym increasing the sound level to the max from my bluetooth earbuds listening to Post Malone & Swae Lee  -Sunflower https://youtu.be/ApXoWvfEYVU Hiding the pain i feel because i enjoy wearing feminine attire in the gym feeling unaccepted for the most part only few feeling pity give me hello or chat. Yet many just keep there distance out of fear i'm crazy seeing me shake my feet to the beat of the music or shaking my head or lip syncing the lyric at least before i get to the library of  Juicy J songs...Lol. 

Ignoring the x-ray deep stares upon me, by positive competitive gym rat diva, in there newer bright leggings. Seemingly wanting  my approval, or notice there new outfits.. Them believing i want the same attention for my gym outfit needing to top one another anytime we show up in the gym. Amusing to witness that some competitive woman know my style.  Flaunt in front of me  beating to the punch of new released leggings i be wanting to purchase and wear. In fact these competitive divas without talking they know me better than i know myself. From the types of colours, brand style i wear they trigger some jealousy in me that i know is silly. Don't show it externally but some females sense it and like to get a rise out of it seeing them wear what i would purchase and wear in the gym. Makes me little unhappy thinking what could i buy that she won't be wearing and vice versa on her part. Guess it's like a dog chasing its own tail until we all run out of options and money.

10 minutes ago, Shyheels said:

Well, if you’re out looking for revenge and confrontation, you’re certainly going to find it. But is that really a happy way to live your life?

No it's not very expensive. Only reason is part of my vengeance is to wear the best designer clothes or shoes i can find in my size. Thinking it will connect with others haters being angry and jealous while others admiring me sharing the same taste in clothes. Most times it works but i expect a conflict so any compliments are swept under  a rug and shrugged off. While focusing on my haters is very unhealthy and disturbing miserable way to live. 

Cali my goal is to get revenge upon those who mock those who style themselves differently from the normal expectations.

I know there will be haters no matter who wears what. So why not present oneself in the best light as possible. Meaning if some gal wears nice outfit i may take away things i like and add to it in my own style.  If i get mocked, feelings of disappointment and self doubt enter in my mind.

Guess the best dressed women are judged daily for there outfits by fashion experts, laughing, mocking, ridiculing ones brave to wear this or that. So i don't expect total love of everything i wear. Just want to have peace of mind that men or women wearing same clothes or shoes isn't news for anyone in society observing leaving people wearing what they want with respect, leaving there opinions or reactions to themselves rather voicing it readily anyone to hear, be it a facial expression, chuckle,  etc..

How do i get my revenge is try to look as good as i can. Meaning go boldly wearing looking the way i want, when summer days approach i make sure to get dark tan. Helps when i wear female cutoff shorts showing my legs off. When styled daily in the summer i notice some female surely chuckle what they see teenage girl older lady. When a woman notices me often enough and takes objective view of me she honestly likes what she observes. I certainly can differentiate them noticing me non verbal cues. In fact often it's positive experience when i get the stare observing them in my peripheral vision  scanning my body head to toe. Seen this young lady leaving the gym one time as i was entering checking in. The gal stood mouth open looking me over non-verbally astonished about my fashion sense and street attire appearance. Everything told me she was liking everything about me. While entering from the front desk walking  towards the change rooms heard the gal talk to the receptionist about me. Saying something that that guy looks unreal, sense of style, clothes, look amazing for his body, Oh my god, if i could look half as good i be happy. This opinion from very attractive young female came as a shock to me as i cared less of anyone's comments good or bad living in a bubble. 

9 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

Mackyheels,

You missed my point. Time is the great equalizer, the great filter of relevance and irrelevance. What it took you over 500 words to say I expressed in 42. Years from now you shall see you should have done what you wanted without letting sideline distractions get to you because they clearly do. Whether others see and note what you are wearing is inevitable but does it matter?  HinH

Your right but health matters also. Whenever your sick you don't care about superficial stuff as much as survival.  Sorry about the essay i wrote. Don't believe years from now i need to look back regretting the choices i made. Regret them now not wearing the clothes heels i want. Something to do with sizing or availability.

8 hours ago, Cali said:

The issue is, if you want to worry about what other people think then you will, but don't complain about. People will react to anything that is not normal to them. I can walk around in clothes from the women's side all day long and not have a second glance (except for my heels), in fact I just went to the open air market with only clothes from the woman's side. Wear want you want and wear it with confidence. Don't wear it and worry what others are saying about you, be above that.

There's just second glances i can live with that. When it comes to those smirking chuckles or voiced laughter it digs deep. Only because i try hard to dress in envious style woman would wear themselves. Puzzles me to get laughed upon or stared upon in negative demeanour reaction. 

Recent outing today i choose few different outfits on my various errands coming home to change three times. Observed a couple  laughing at my male bland colour matched suede jacket and UGG chukkas, which confused me.

Then i decided earlier wearing tight distressed dark cropped jeans with moto leather jacket and leather sneakers at church which turned few heads, made me smile at the attention, people noticed. 

Later on in the mall noticed woman sitting giving me the entire body scan while  i was walking  wearing my chelsea pointed suede booties with relative low two inch block heel, new skin tight AG leggings distressed step hem jeans and suede moto brown jacket. Just thought what if i was wearing my high heel block heels instead that i left in the car what the reactions would be. Although i was confident more i walked around in the mall i was doubting i should of worn my higher heel booties to complete the outfit better. 

Just want feedback what i wear from others i can tell the difference when someone is envious or jealous or finds my outfit outdated, lame plain silly out of place or style.

Being in my own bubble helps like so many attractive females confident of there bodies not paying attention to there environment only on there phones or friends there with.

Seen this young woman coming out of a store boutique ahead in the mall decent shapely dressed in exact same colour  leggings i wear in the gym same brand same colour and style having on pinkish printed short  varsity jacket and sneakers. Thought to myself none is staring or admiring her outfit, meant to be worn in the gym or yoga class but she used it as acceptable streetwear.  How could i dare wear something like that  on the street rather than the gym? What the reactions would be, even though i prefer wearing legging jeans. Find something wrong wearing gym clothes on the street, yet many do it regardless if they have a gym membership. Yet i kept staring maybe admiring her boldness and the familiarity owning, wearing the exact same leggings in the gym weekly.

On 10/25/2018 at 3:19 AM, HappyinHeels said:

Mackyheels,

  Over that same period of time one will also realize the world does not care an iota about what someone wore or how they wore it unless you live in the public eye and the vast majority of us certainly do not. HappyinHeels

 I beg to differ in fact many woman notice very well what he or she wore yet do it subtly. Yet ask them about it they can recite the clothes someone is wearing days ago at how badly, or well he or she styled themselves. Countless woman know exactly what i wear seeing me often, either approach me saying your wearing  XYZ! that's for woman! I tell them yah, but it's unisex then they sort of agree. Yet seeing me often wearing  different outfits and colours i notice reactions they find it disturbing even call me out about it. Very few are happy for me to be wearing female XYZ in fact they rather take time intrigued, walk behind and around intentionally and  subtly observing, then react to another friend further away with laugh, giggle, smile, OMG! or saying never seen a guy wear that before. Then juvenile banter amongst woman about the outfit continue, he looks pretty, like a girl, how could you tell the difference thought it was a woman look at his legs and butt,  gross, or wish i looked like that ha, ha...

Or the intrigued woman who find what they see are impressed yet afraid too timid saying a kind word. Watched this half breed asian woman closely glancing upon me at every opportunity that presented itself.  I knew she seen me in heel booties before reacted luke warm to my surprise. Curious that i didn't receive a bigger expressed reaction only what could be called fond envy. Months maybe year later she must know what clothes i wear and how i style myself even noticing me glancing upon her attractive state. Could tell by her glances upon me next to her  she was literally figuratively measuring me up very curious...

Had encounter at work this posh blonde attractive young woman i known seeing her dolled up often in designer clothes to my delight. She sees me around finding me bit peculiar, only because i mind my business or don't chat her up.  So one recent encounter i wore a respectable brand ladies dark black, gray camo hoodie at work being fairly cold environment. As i was nearby across from her, with another woman seeing  tall blonde young woman checking out my tight  female Rag & bone blue jeans. Couldn't ignore her glances upon me as though she found it odd, as though she thought those are quite tight on him or something was off or familiar. Had chuckle at her stoic serious stares but both of us didn't say a word only talking about our tasks for work. The blonde posh female was in close proximity listening in could easily notice her bulging eyes onto my hoodie unlike her usual demeanour. Appeared she noticed my obvious brand logo on zipper or hood with thumb sleeves covering my hands and snug fit and the fabric colour pattern. Ever get idea that someone knows exactly what your wearing, well I knew, she knew what i was wearing. It was ladies hoodie in fact i bet she owns the very same or browsed to shop owning one in the future. Either her reaction was total jealousy and envy or shocked a man like me is wearing a female hoodie, made me bit my lip from laughing at her observations and reaction of the hoodie i had on. 

Small stuff like i experienced from woman is telling at how long there memory of what i wear when they know it belongs on a woman's body.  If the two females don't know me by now they already they making assumptions of what i'm about.

Enjoy hearing in the past my boss commenting to others about woman complaints about me wearing weird clothes. No woman can say for sure but they can only comment asking him  don't you believe what he wears is odd and you should talk to  him about it. Yet my boss agrees it's odd laughing but can't do anything about it. Yet i know there is subtle way woman approach to ask him to do something about my attire without really getting into detail specifics what they are truly finding immoral disgusting or awfull for there eyes to witness.

On 10/27/2018 at 7:29 AM, Mr. X said:

Not me my friend. You might as well call this outfit broke Taylor. I can guarantee that my entire outfit costs WAY less than even one of the pieces in hers.

And as much as I like heels, I figured out early on in my journey that I enjoyed putting together complete outfits just as much! It also helps immensely with your presentation when you're out and about. I find that heels look less out of place on a man if they are worn with other pieces that would be perceived to be worn with said heels. For instance heels with sweatpants would look out of place on anybody out and about let alone a man!

Has anyone give you snubbing reactions of your outfit or just chuckle scanning your top, leggings, booties? Only because they view your wearing inferior clothes or shoes. 

Difficult to understand what people think of items we wear from there reactions.. Is it because we’re men wearing feminine clothes or colour choices made, style etc...

Often think, reason some woman with means feel more confident wearing designer brands. Seems anyone chuckling at how we style ourselves, convincing us that high brand name item can reduce the fear factor of what negative  people think.  A young stylish woman I seen recently has a Givenchy hand bag others may be critical voicing they don’t like it, looks to old fashion appropriate for old grandmother. Yet the handbag wearing woman can shrug of naysayers thinking to herself they only wish to afford such luxury accessory.  Or voice her disapproval of critical people’s  handbag which maybe inferior in quality and price. 

Another example today seen female wearing her hot pink purse across her torso front. If it had no brand logo many would find it fitting for a little child. Yet the PRADA metal logo was front and centre. My initial reaction was to be slightly amused,  as we closed paths I noticed the logo brand and suddenly lost my chuckled grin expression. Yet the woman wearing the purse could feel comfortable noticing me being critical initially, then I was put in my place afterwards once seeing the logo. From smiling amused grin to bulging eyes shocked frightened stare upon the purse logo. Sort of like a vampire seeing daylight. 

Often believe whenever I go out in public wearing feminine style they better be designer. If someone laughs mocking me I can look upon there style making a judgement showing my amused reaction. Thinking to myself yah I might of look weird in the style I wear for a male. Yet if the critics have any  fashion sense knowing my brand style I wear, they have to be envious or very least smiling at my correct taste in clothes or shoes. 

On 10/18/2018 at 4:08 AM, subtle said:

Women can act like this to each other, there’s often some jealousy fueled comments among friends about some other lady’s attire, they could be just too but still, the fact here is they are talking about someone else for their own entertainment. I don’t think they’re particularly picking on you, just you’re the easy target that’s in front of their face.

Most Women who have a strong confidence of their bodies or what they wear find think to themselves as special. We say females are competitive or jealous  but in reality they want to appear unique. Thus they enjoy voicing opinions about everyone saying she shouldn't wear that, looks bad on her etc... While the confident woman wants a monopoly of her style believing only her and few select woman can pass wearing XYZ.  It's an attitude feeling superior of others thus they need to show disrespect hoping to slow down a trend or style they only believe can wear. So if a male like me steps in the line of fire there analyzing contemplating of how my body appears looking for any flaws. Then they say it looks weird, slightly perturbed, that if there honest can admit i wear it as well or better then them.  In fact they deep down know it but never admit it, hoping seeing last of me.

3 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

 

Already pretty content this the new boots I get to play with this season.  

Love the crescent heel in the red platform booties very trendy and stylish, little jealous wanting to buy the right pair.

39 minutes ago, Pierre1961 said:

I have a lot of shoes from Fuss. I am 12 woman US. 

I take 43 for round toe cap court shoes. And 44 for boots and more pointy shoes. 

My feet are 27.5cm 

42 for you? 

So i size down wearing court shoe 41?

Bootie pointed toe  as shown above a 42 should fit wearing pantyhose sock or bare feet. One foot is larger then other by 0.5 cm i can go with 43 with shoe inserts for my heel not slipping out. Yet because the the heels are leather they will stretch out slightly to match up the longer foot.

Own some Giuseppe Zanotti booties in 41 and they fit tight maybe 1-2 centimeters  small. 

Measured my foot girth found it approximately 27 cm how do you Pierre1961 believe they would fit the Fuss lineup of shoes?

Thanks for the information.

Looking to buy fuss schuhe pumps. Don't know what size fits seeing my feet are 26. 6cm - 27.0 cm. Confused on sizing euro or Italian no size charts to compare. Anyone have idea on the proper sizing.

On 10/12/2018 at 4:24 AM, redandwhite said:

Have been feeling brave recently! Worn these Zara black leather boots on a few shopping trips

And tried on some beauties! 

And (from another thread) still not had anyone other than a sales assistant comment on my boots or  heels 

Love the purple booties what brand are they? 

Thank you Pebblesf, often I write my experience reactions from others, being outfitted in feminine attire. There is no surprise that i get the odd reactions like to share them here. 

Find some members are afraid to walk out in public wearing what they want. Rarely do they share experience on this board out of fear what others may say. I can be proof of what an  outing could mean for others in my shoes, ain’t that bad. 

For example recently at my workplace. Had a mob of people unrealated to my co-workers behind me in a crowd looking from there advantage point downwards.. Could somewhat overhear couple people discussing me. Couldn’t hear every word clearly  but took snipets of there discussion one louder then the other. Woman chatting about my appearance or the tight skinny jeans jeggings I was wearing. Few mumbling from one to the other Omg! Look at him.. At first I was startled that they were focused on my tight attire being only male dressed in feminine jeans.. Then as always waiting for the negative comments to commence being vocal. While they both were analyzing of how look. I stood not looking back but confident enough not to care, yet couldn’t resist hearing what they had to say.. Of course they both were discussing my jeans. One loudest began to voice she didn’t like it. Other mentioned some positive points as to convince her otherwise, while the reply finished from the negative female saying, yah I agree! Something about me looking fit or good stylish, while other females wearing  skinny jeans have no business in them look far worse , but she replied “I still, think it still looks weird”. Had big grin on my face afterwards. 

Thought to myself it’s true that woman in particular find feminine attiire unique upon a male wearing it. They are so conditioned seeing overweight females in skinny jeans but rarely a fit male in painted on jeans showing his form. It’s surprises people initially and find it very odd to witness or keep a straight face not to laugh. At least in my case these two woman seemed mature and open minded and one thought my body or legs suitable yet couldn’t blame one of them feeling the way she did. More I wear what I do easier on eyes when people notice what I’m wearing. Either disavowing or ignoring it expecting me to be wearing said skinny jeans. 

You can only invent the wheel once and make it different in some subtle ways. So for the naked eye of a woman seeing me wear something so tight, jeggings wasn’t news for her in fact many woman are wearing it themselves without a second thought from others. Yet seeing it on male like me it seemed different yet then same. While in truth  females know it shouldn’t be  a big deal. So she kept holding on a learned binary belief. That  boys and girls have specific colours, and gender clothing they need to wear, otherwise it is confusing or weird  to her eye. 

Often platforms look a bit much depending on the height but  you  style them very well. 

On 9/19/2018 at 9:37 AM, Sydheel said:

Hello to everyone

Been a quiet period, work and weekend sports taking up a lot of time. 

Im just finishing a 3 day trip to Canberra, and was brave enough to wear some shoes normally reserved for warmer climes. I guessed I would be spending most of my time indoors.

Here are a few pics

The 1st 2 are my Wittner peep toe ankle boots in a sand coloured leather. Ive posted these before and these boots are a go to now for me, with denim jeggings

The next 2 are Wittner 11.5cm (4.5inch) stiletto pumps, pointy toe and set back heel. I love these. Lounging in bar with black leggings.

These were the 1st 2 days

Then this afternoon I dropped in to the Canberra Centre Wittner store and checked out some current styles.

try on 1: Gold boots are super comfy and with only a 9cm heel are way easy to walk in. The gold is gorgeous but I dont think went with the denim jeggings, maybe with black or a lighter blue ?

Try on 2: Mid brown thigh boots, a stretch suede that fits like a glove, pull on, but surprisingly easy to get on and off. these have a 10cm heel, they are reduced big time but still $250, so I will wait a bit longer. They also come in black leather which I think I would prefer

 

Love those suede knee high heel stilettos. Would look great with my brown moto suede jacket. 

The Wittner pumps are classic paired with leggings makes a statement for sure. 

53 minutes ago, bambam said:

Who is this Marie? Why do you have so many pics of her?

Sorry i meant shaunna marie npc bikini athlete and fitness coach.

Sometimes there are woman that voice what they are thinking. Although uncomfortable to hear such negative query and opinion of ones outfit. It can be said there completely honest rather the silent types who have a sour puss expression and mocking laugh from a distance. Yet whenever your friendly or in there space they ignore you or keep a safe distance. 

Easy to find negative attributes on someone that dislikes you. Guess it’s a defence mechanism we need to feel better of ourself after negative comments. We always can find negative opinions about someone who dislikes us for what we wear. 

What would you do when your in vicinity of attractive woman looking great. Yet she is initially oblivious to what your wearing, busy thanking people upon their compliments of her style, body so into herself self absorbed trying to look perfect.  Then someone from her group points you out in negative manner in comparison. Then you see there visible reaction because of your outfit how unaccepting and judgemental they view you. How do you deal with that? 

Take the pictures of the fit woman Shaunna for example. 

Ever have experience difficulty to shake off when female for example sake like Shaunna below shows disgust for your outfit then snubs you because of it. Or her group of friends bold, drunk, forward and intrigued ask me  why are you wearing such and such heels or those leggings? Your a man right? Gay? no,   have a girlfriend, no,  so  help us understand, then give off a salty expression from whatever your trying to explain. Or others in the group tell them why your wasting time talking  to him for, he’s a freak get away from him join us. 

Yet you notice from a distance the same group gathered about likely talking about me but  Shaunna having this stoic stiff expression not wanting to look in any direction  not wanting by accident noticing me, Explains to her fan group she is frightened to look noticing him because she may fall sick to her stomach to the laughter of others. While others agree at her comments describing her it's bad, yet many giggle laughing in agreement with Shaunna then do the comparison her to me. While others offer humour to the discussion telling Shaunna that his legs or tan may look better appearing less muscular and same as  hers. Asking her to offer training advice to him so he can look better in sarcastic manner. While she finds the comments troubling wanting to change the topic, uncomfortable being compared to male wearing female attire. While others gleefully mocking her sharing information, he's single and would be great potential boyfriend for Shaunna because she can be sharing same clothes and heels out on dates,  you both can be doubling your wardrobe it's a win win like having twin sister, to her dismay reaction, and laughter of her female admiring group.

Often woman like Shaunna type want the attention solely on her. While in truth what i wear often is something woman would want to own themselves. Just in a group mentality the overwhelming negative vibe persists that whatever male wears that is feminine is bad, disgusting silly, wrong. Yet take the same item leggings, jacket, heels on the woman she be applauded complimented how much they love it.

Always cause for concern when women gather around initially seeing some male like me dressed in feminine fashions heels, leggings etc.. Once they repeatedly notice me time after time they begin to change their tune individually. Often takes time but they find something about me that they see as attractive and enjoy observing without there peers talking into their ear on how unacceptable it is for male to wear. In fact they compliment me or wish to look wearing as good as me. Believe most women get passed the initial gender binary rules of conceding that i won't change my style for traditional masculine appearance. Then notice the positive side of people and compliment them even expect it from me to wear feminine styles, even discuss their opinions what they want to wear or purchase.

Only in the workplace i find woman have to be more accepting to what i wear. If they speak in negative light they can be fired for comments made. Funny how i kept silent talking little to the woman listening to their opinions, making up a character profile of each one  etc.. Then as i slowly introduced female attire they realized what i was wearing and become more friendly then initially appeared in male attire. I felt amused at there clear wall they built with me earlier thinking because i was quite i was weird. Now they see what i wear they know that i have particular taste in my style that lines up to feminine traits. Heard male co-worker question how some woman knows exactly what someone wears he couldn't do that. All the females subtly eyeball my outfit at work from the very fashion conscious females so amusing to observe being scanned head to toe or being followed from the back when walking. Yet i feel they are amused seeing a male wear clothes they desire and have made judgement of me which lets down the wall they built up. Knowing some of the woman they probably think i'm gay which they feel comfortable to become more friendlier towards me. Little do they know there assumptions are wrong but i'm not complaining seeing i 'm now accepted more friendlier manner in there group. Either that or there loving my clothes feeling friendlier bond because what i wear. Nice to be noticed.

Today went to do errands. Went to Costco wearing skinny crop jeans and leather black sneakers and jacket. Thought many woman wouldn’t be wearing anything special least any heels. Go figure lot of booties not very high clunky heels two inches at the most. One female in leggings with a long coat but four or five inch block heel. 

Went home to drop off some groceries and make another stop elsewhere.. Decided to change into my block suede booties and suede camel moto jacket. Standing in line at my first stop behind me was Dad and his older teenage daughter. They definitely noticed my outfit few chuckles behind my back but they behaved themselves. While my other stop at a clothing outlet I was looking through woman’s section for designer leather denim leggings disappointed at my sizing they  didn’t have sold out, While noticing few females taken aback at my outfit felt I looked trendy casual with great fit and shape. Felt confident enough then older woman were browsing near me and were talking in euro language I didn’t understand. They couldn’t see me initially because of the clothing racks but began to  chackle unrealated to me I thought. Maybe because I was shopping in the ladies section they found it odd and funny. As they came around back of me I could tell of the tone of there chatter I must of been discussed. As one to the other chatted they could clearly see me from my bootie heels all the way up. Then the laughter of the woman became more prominent versus the other. Believe each had a turn noticing my outfit at different times. Ordinarily it would of bothered me, looking back at them. For whatever reason I knew I looked great only I couldn’t say that to anyone I observed in the store shopping. While those 50 plus year old euro woman seemed  close minded, knew the type. Probably never seen a man in female clothes before or ever. While nothing exciting to purchase I began to walk out the door with the chackle laughter behind my back. Thought to myself these hags don’t know how to fashion themselves or know the difference between designer clothes or discount items. Let them have at it seemingly buying ugly clothes on some bad backward thinking woman.  Yet I left not fazed or thinking about them at all or burden  on my shoulders to carry on thinking about it on my next stop, quite contrary let it slide without any grief. Think it’s my first time not caring about what these hags or anyone were laughing upon what I was wearing. 

Just letting others know woman can act child like. Yet I don’t care how they view me wearing my outfit today. Only glanced upon the woman as they moved around me initially very bland styled indeed. If there was anyone to laugh should of been me knowing these euro females desperately seeking some style. Yet something told me with sly smile on my face they need a lot of luck... I’m positive a younger trendier female would winch upon these loud vocal euro hags.

Just didn’t surprise me when I was hearing there loud chatter walking into my section. Knew  euro females like them are traditional so having an reaction upon looking at my heels legging jeans was to be expected.  

Anyone else feel the same way when you observe others chatting away stereotype assuming there reaction to your outfit heels and all. 

1 hour ago, maninboots said:

I tend to spend nearly all of my time looking and taking notice of what people are wearing on their feet, if a woman is wearing a nice pair of heels and particularly boots i will spot them from 50 yards, if a man passes me in a pair of heels or boots i would definitely spot them from 100 yards, so why does nobody ever take any notice of what I’m wearing, I’m a man in public wearing high heels boots and nobody bats an eye lid, i don’t try to hide them, if people sit near to me i deliberately position my feet so they can’t help but see them but still no reaction what so ever, does any body else experience this and are you as frustrated with it as i am, would welcome your thoughts 

Do the exact same, in fact i recognize people better by their shoes rather than the face.  Suppose because i look down a lot so the first things i look upon is there feet and unique shoes people wear.  Rarely do i see the exact same shoe worn by people colour style etc..

Do have the same thoughts or beef why others aren't initially staring upon my heels. There two thoughts that come to mind, happens to woman as well. If your outfitted to be seen very outlandish, maybe what some may describe as overly dressed for the location, then people tend to ignore your fashion style. In their mind  believing you want attention and don't know how to dress for the situation, so they rather not give you the satisfaction ignoring what your wearing. Have that happen to me even overheard females discussing that i want people to look upon me that's the reason he wears this or that or showing off. So there mindset is anger hating me, thinking best not to give him the satisfaction and just maybe he will stop wearing whatever  it is.

Second thought is people find it impolite to stare so they subtly initially look but do themselves a favour not to take a double take. Thinking whatever he is wearing is completely wrong and embarrassing for him to be seen in public. So best keep your eyes off him so they won't laugh out loud creating a scene or making obvious judgement to there negative opinion. People don't want to look at gruesome images of someone they believe isn't in there taste of fashion sense. So they look away thinking he looks horrible frightened that he may be insane. If people glance upon him giving off mixed signals, he may interpret it as open door to befriend whomever is looking. People want to be left alone not cause confusion to strangers that could be potentially crazy not respecting people privacy or space.

Believe me woman in particular notice ever aspect to my style even though i don't observe them staring. Often need to see someone with open mouth stares gawking looking at me to be satisfied that they clearly recognized my outfit or body. While that rarely happens woman notice me quicker then i see them before i know it, they made clear head to toe scan what i'm wearing.

Good example is when i'm on the nude beach. When i see a woman 100 yards away she clearly notices me as well. It's easier to stare upon someone at a distance without feeling they know your focused only on them. See clothed woman taken aback when strolling along the beach from a distance observing me. Once they get closer in passing they have there head down or look in entire different direction away from me. Amusing to observe this phenomena because clearly i seen the woman react upon my nude body while  i was standing by the shallow water from a great distance. 

Happyinheels it’s not at work but at the gym. She seen me for years  but seldom did I talk or say hello. Yet when she was single felt she found me somewhat attractive but I never intitated conversation unless others joined in forcing me in some dialogue. 

Find her encouraging attitude towards my style odd always felt she was like others scoffing at my feminine tight clothes in the gym. For whatever reason she voices her opinion about me  maybe feeling comfortable to say what’s on her mind without fear.  Noticing another married  woman at the gym being friendly admiring my body in long conversations with me. 

Talking to female acquaintance about my feminine fashion leggings i was wearing on purpose to be seen by her today. Days ago she encourages me to purchase her same type of leggings  she was wearing, telling me it would look great on me. I told her i have some older ones yet she didn't believe me. So i decided to wear them today in case i ran into the married female acquaintance. She gave me thumbs up with a smile  from a distance, so i had to walk towards her to chat showing off my leggings comparing the differences to her new ones. She was happy and wished to be wearing same leggings. Her laughing out loud saying she and me would be wearing exact same ones only last minute decided to wear her other ones leaving the house. Her replies and comments to me was  i told you so, the colour stands out really well, looks great. She began to talk about other leggings she wanted to purchase but found them sheer showing her underwear beneath deciding not to buy them, as i stood silent while she closely observing my reaction. At the time i spoke very little almost stoic, finding it all to awkward to discuss wearing female fashions in public with her. Don't know if i'm in shock or waiting for the other shoe to drop with this wonderful married female acquaintance.  

Just want to know if anyone discussed with  strangers, a woman in particular about their style and certain female clothes or heels that you as a male can wear?

 Find the discussion to surreal to be talking to a woman about female styles that look good on me to be wearing. Often then not majority of women have a belief male should never think or speak of or even wear any female styles be it heels or clothes made for woman. Just find the discussion very new to be able to talk freely about style or fashion, like we are two girlfriends, sipping on hot coco in our PJ's sitting by a with warm fireplace on Christmas day, with another woman and her being so comfortable or encouraging me to wear it. 

Never have i dreamed a woman can feel comfortable seeing a male like me wear her style clothes yet encourages me further to purchase such fashions while in society norms being taboo for me to wear. 

Feelings of doubt creep in that this acquaintance will shift her beliefs upon me laughing what i wear as entertainment not believing what she was saying to me as truth. Lying to me as some sick joke playing a game on how far i would go to dress up as a woman.  So i lack any faith in the woman i seldom see encouraging me to wear her type of clothes. Often fear sets in closing myself off to her any woman believing there cool with me wearing female styles. Feeling of being made as experiment like some little boy that teen girls will make him into a little girl finding it as a fun game rather than real truth finding it disturbing for male to able to wear other genders style.

It's all about the environment industry of automobile dominant male workers. Whenever we take ourselves into a place of macho surroundings of ordinary people, they are shocked at what they are observing. Sure many of the car wash workers, males were tight lipped until you left either waiting for big tip or until they could express their opinions to one another about you without you being aware.

If it were me in heels like your wearing i'm sure i would be treated differently. Not jealousy but as an oddity or freak. Guys in the auto industry aren't to tolerant of males wearing woman fashions. In fact they roll there eyes trying to avoid any interaction feelings of homophobia come to there mind. Often i change whenever i go to a auto repair shop at an extreme i maybe wearing tight jeans or denim cutoff short shorts. Waiting for my car to be repaired often other customers stare wide eyed upon me when i stand by the counter talking to my mechanic. Owner of the auto repair shop may make a comment i look good or i must workout a lot. While if his wife visits the shop in a large Mercedes or Lexus a posh princess all dolled up in heels, etc sometimes smirks upon what she sees of my benign outfits toned down.  Hate when nice style posh woman finds me amusing to look upon yet seems not to surprised at the same time. As if she observed males wearing female fashions before or looking very feminine, ladyboy like. Suppose she is use to it being born in that part of the world. Suppose seeing me in heels or tight dress wouldn't faze her probably compliment in amused manner.

On 9/12/2018 at 10:44 AM, 6inchheel said:

 Boy you better wear them heels and be proud “ It gave me a boost of confidence, so then I found a pair of Cristian Siriano 4” pointy toe pumps(pictured below) and made my purchase. I left and proceeded to drive to a mall that I always wanted to wear heels to but never got the nerve. Usually my heart would be pounding out my chest but it wasn’t I just kept remembering what the woman said and proudly walked in the mall in my 5” stilettos heels I had on. It felt great! I went in two stores, Charlotte Russe and another Payless . I got a couple of stares but it

Why is is when we get nice comment it encourages us even more or in your case pushes you to wear your heels at the mall. Good Going! 

Have female acquaintance that is married compliments me on my feminine outfit liking what she observes me wearing. Recent encounter she was wearing an outfit hoping for me to notice, could tell she was excited wearing it. She stepped up to me asking if i have the same colour outfit. I told her of course, but she didn't believe me, while we both began to google the online shop for said outfit. While telling her various outfits i own are similar she told me to buy same one she was wearing, that i would look good on me. 

Never seems to surprise me that some woman can get over the fact male wears certain feminine clothing or shoes without judgement. While experiencing happiness  true delight how someone can style themself and be stylish no matter there gender. Has me curious how far i can style myself with the said female before she finds me going over boundary for her beliefs. Thoughts come to mind asking her out for shopping in a mall browsing female styles and trying on maybe purchasing items that we deem look good on us. Yes, i would be wearing heels to the shopping date if i dare to invite her on one. Yet, she has seen me in the pool, sauna, gym, street but never wearing heels. Wondering how married female would accept my feminine heels out in public. Instincts tell me she would love the attention i bring  to my style out in public.

17 hours ago, balletboot said:

Well right now she tolerates them. She doesn't know I've worn them out and she doesn't know about my skirts and skinny jean's yet. But in due time. She can't understand why I like to wear them (even though she has about 30 pairs of heels) I'm struggling to explain to her why I do... 

Woman often can't witness that a male could appear sexy in heels or leggings as you do. Unless she believes males look silly or ridiculous in heels then she will not accompany a male in public feeling ashamed. Usually woman want to feel proud of there man wanting to show him off his masculine qualities to other ladies what a great catch she has.. While in general populous females will be critical of male in heels and pity the woman accompanied. Girlfriends knowingly or not will be told there choice of boyfriend in heels or tight pants is troubling and weird.  

Know many perspective woman that are intrigued in me yet when i attire my skinny leggings jeans they are disappointed ignoring me.They believe i look to feminine thus having me as a trophy boyfriend isn't in the cards. Woman don't want to keep explaining that heels or tight pants  boyfriend wearing isn't a problem. Amongst her  peers, mocking laughter that her boyfriend wears skinny jeans better then us. This becomes a running joke that your dating  a girlfriend rather real man often done in jest with her peers. Woman can’t stand being mocked by others or laughed upon when dating a male for whatever reason. Often siding to peer pressure and not involved in a relationship a deal breaker woman often talk about. Such as if he is bad lover,, smoker, drunk, drug addict, or skinny jean wearer, heels etc..,

Take my recent chat with a female married friend, kept asking me what size in gym leggings i wear, second time she did this in the course of a year. She is confused to the fact i wear obviously woman colours and sizes, she believes it's men's. Asking the size i quoted her was in men's 4 correct? I just rolled my eyes nodded how dumb she is but another female nearby chatting with us was much smarter yet never said a word. Only complimented me to model for the brand and enjoyed observing me wear them in the gym.

While my other dense female friend  can't grasp why male would want to dress in woman's clothes. Yet she compliments and likes my gym attire always telling me so, whenever we chat describing it as sexy clothes.. Felt if we ever had candid discussion she would be confused even laugh mocking that i wear woman heels, leggings, and skinny jeans. 

The second woman i mentioned chatting with us often observes me talking exclusively to the dense female explaining to me and her, seeing us exclusively talking with one another all the time like besties.. Many women believe if the dense female knew i wore women's clothing she wouldn't be so chummy with regards to me. Unlike many woman keeping distance and slight smirk upon  there faces in regards to my feminine attire. 

Often i get uncomfortable talking about my gym attire with said females. Only because negative odd feelings may encounter from my female friend. Thinking to myself is this the discussion the dense female friend, finally clues in i wear womens activewear, later avoids me when informed about my feminine taste in style.  Always worried that another female takes part in our discussion as the other did recently intrigued listening in what we were chatting getting involved. Even though all discussions have been positive and complimentary to me, difficult to accept.

So if the inevitable happens and my dense female married friend realizes all this time she complimented me on female style no wonder feeling silly and amused about me. Then darker thoughts of my sexual preference must aim in same direction as a woman attracted to feminine clothes heels then assume perfect sense he must like males just like she does.  Then her involvement is superficial smiling saying hello but no time spent chatting wasting  away on someone who will never be potentially attracted to her.  So too with the girlfriend you balletboot may need to convince her, your desires only involve woman and never having her to question it. 

With me being single, woman never gave me any thought, only assumed what i wear is simply a red flag, towards my sexaul preference upon females. When the female is married for a decade like the one i described involving herself in our dense friend chat, they care less of my sexual preference or availability rather intrigued of my body aesthetics then any possible relationship or friendship. 

balletboot great experience happy for you. 

Very rare having a woman to notice your shoes or outfit not being judgemental clouding her true opinion. In fact they do appear sexy with right outfit, tight pants as you shown in the photo works very well.  

Women often have difficulties expressing a compliment towards other females because of envy or jealousy. Strange female give a male a true opinion what  she notices your sexy heels without fear of how you may construe her intentions is rare indeed.

9 hours ago, Gudulitooo said:

 

So Macky if I understood well, the reason you loved heels is :

because the block heels you experienced as a kid were so well suited to kick the ass of the annoying others.

This is the most original reason ever registered here I think !

Learned to love them knee high platform boots once i wore them had to defend myself from the teasing was learned behaviour. Only because older new fellow at the time  in the school yard came wearing dress tap shoes kids began like hyena's to tease him. He tried to ignore them but it finally got out of  hand started to kick them in the shins, after observation  i enjoyed his tactics, watching these boys fall like bowling pins, rolling on the ground winching in pain. Telling myself i like this guy, he did better job then i ever could kicking, these kids about, deservedly so. 

The power heel boots brought me was height made me taller also that i was uniquely attired made me feel special. While the pros and cons wearing them as i could defend myself somewhat wasn't reason i enjoyed the platform boots entirely. It was 1977 movie of Saturday night fever came out i was already ahead of the fashion trend at my age was surreal for any adults to understand. Add to that i had light blue polyester suit with white wide open collar shirt with dark blue cuff ruffles i felt very cool wearing, only boots were to hot for summer time styling. Add my hang ten mirror aviator sunglasses to the mix i was hip. Pass me the keys to my cousins 1977 firebird camaro or my neighbour purple dodge charger and i would take the cute teacher out on  a date...Lol.. Hiding the cache of Playboy magazine in alley-way between the neighbors garage don't want the teacher get the wrong idea about me...

Today we are adult can't fight with others because they have negative opinions about my fashion style, heels, leggings skinny jeans, skimpy thong swimwear, or my nudist beach lifestyle.. Yet i don't get teased with the same vigour like when a boy in the school yard back n the 70's. I do notice today people's reactions often are negative towards my type of unique style be it at the nude beach, gym, street, workplace or front yard.

Only recourse is to let it go or get even with a vengeance. Meaning i try not to speak to them hoping they understand my stance upon them as they do to me, no respect, i ignore you stance. While i best try to intensify my style in much bolder louder tone when i know someone overtly doesn't enjoy or like to observe it. Sort of in your face BI@#H!. 

Finally i attire myself in clothes that most women would want to wear yet observing them in cheaper brands i can conclude they wish to be wearing my style of designer attire. Satisfied when i see envy, jealousy or anger from my female haters because of my appearance rather than smart ass smirk or smug chuckle finding me amusing. If i get both reaction laughter tapering off and later envy or jealousy once they look closer to what i'm wearing. Seeing that my clothes look nice wishing they owned exactly the same i feel better about myself and slight jab onto them.

So yes, childhood experience has underlying issues to get even with my detractors today. Subtly keeping a close eye observing everyone's demeanour and acting on my hunch, showing them more what they despised as revolting or unappropriate and gross. Sort of raising the bar each time i notice them.  One day wear XYZ overhear there disapproval about colour or style the next time i intensify the appearance for them to overreact even get angry then they already are. Thinking to myself overhearing there negative opinions wait until i see next time what i be wearing,with slight amused smirk on my face. You don't like me wearing this outfit huh! Love to watch there blood boil until they learn to mind their business and to ignore me, as some of there friends advice don't let him get to you he's really weird. 

Sounds peety i know, but only time i can stand up for myself without saying a word. Lot others on the forum maybe better suited to voice a quick smart quip back at any detractors of there attire. While i no my limitation and find wearing what i do daily often is another way to get through to people that don't understand my style. Relentless is another tool i use not letting others dictate my style because they don't like it.

Just like my female fitness yoga leggings wearing experiences at the gym. People mock me from the beginning even some of the same this very day. Yet they realize whatever there opinions off me i won't change my style. This often develops in confused despondent reactions some females wishing to see me in more masculine clothes yet can't resist at the same time attracted to what they observe. Leading to confusion and frustration upon themselves originally mocked my style now at ease even enjoying it sort of lightened up instead of taking things so seriously with regards to what i wear. Fascinating on how some women observed me in the beginning wearing my unique style mocking me with laughter etc.. Now they compliment me letting me know there true feelings of my appearance all along hiding under peer pressure from others or feared my reactions. Yet surprising on how closely scrutinized i am yet never aware of it until they tell me so.

Maybe when i was a boy didn't know where to kick in the right spot. Lol... 

In fact there few woman who see me would love to do that in the picture to me. One woman did just that, faux kick from behind me, at work. Only concluded she was overly jealous of my zealous attire. Funny thing was she is infatuated with me.  Guess she believes only one to be able straighten me out to more masculine style.