4 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

A lot of women wear completely masculine outfits and no one thinks of them as men at first glance.  I think the same applies to men wearing heels, within reason.  Everyone still addresses me as “sir” in this outfit, as I am not trying to be a woman, but like you said just being adventurous in what I wear.  

I have always gotten positive reactions at work about my western boots.  Interestingly, since I started wearing high heels, nobody has noticed or reacted.  It is almost as if heels on a guy are less conspicuous than masculine boots...

Your exactly correct about your statement i highlighted above.  When woman dress masculine it's often wearing drab clothing and blending into the background with others so none stares or takes a second glance. In my observation to use my peripheral vision of the surrounding not looking at anyone in particular. Causes me to make judgements upon other gender. For example if one is average build not to to tall or overweight often just silhouette of them gives me a clue of their gender.  Often is the case woman are wearing tight leggings, pantyhose or long jackets, skinny pants. This gives me clue in the corner of my eye to assess there gender quickly understanding few woman over here over their is group of males etc.. without actually looking closely. 

When someone gets on commuter train and i'm sitting, but only see there backside bundled up in overcoat with a hood on there head. First thing i want to access is their gender, looking upon their clothes giving me a clue without seeing their face. Often i see woman wearing skinny jeans and cues me it can't be a man which is majority of the time i'm correct. When woman decides to wear loose pants it is impossible to discern until i see there face or coloured styled  hair which gives me better clue. 

That is why i believe when i'm wearing feminine clothes leggings, ultra skinny jeans heels many may not notice at first. Until they look at my upper half, face, shoulders and overreact assuming  initially they thought i was woman then at closer inspection or intrigue that i'm a man wearing women's fashions. This phenomenon often occurs when shopping people not looking at one another until lining up at the cashier. How many times i've noticed shopping in the clothing female fashion  side of a retail store none is taking any time to observe me. Thinking to myself these woman i'm surrounded around aren't paying attention then they suddenly are shocked  dear in the headlights syndrome when scanning what i'm wearing. While some people probably knew vaguely that i was around them shopping believing it made sense browsing the female clothing most likely being a woman and wearing tight sexy outfit. Some reactions of female faces as they peripheral vision intrigues them to scan me up and down more closely either liking my outfit or initially making error in judgement of my gender.

There was IG video showing a male walking along with his girlfriend in a store aisle seeing someone bending over wearing black leggings and long hair covering their face. Once the person stood up the male was startled noticing it was  a man rather what he believed or hoped  to be a attractive female. 

Like yourself i to get addressed as SIR in louder then normal tone only because they are looking me in the eye rather making assumptions what i'm wearing. If i'm wearing male outfit then some strangers might address me as boss, for whatever reason. Again it's on how are demeanour is observed from others is he mad, angry, sad, happy etc..then make judgements to approach us or stay clear.

Great that you wear it out in public. Those heads turned observing you must of felt great. Often people just find others as background noise not paying close attention. Probably they at first glance thought your well dressed smart woman. Until they stare longer notice your bold man not afraid to wear what you want. Has your co-workers discussed your outfits. Or have you sensed vibe from them positive, neutral or negative, 

Maxximio. Those look so cool. What size are you and let us know how they fit. 

My morning commute became extraordinary suddenly seen corner of my eye reflection from the opposite side bus window of a woman wearing bootie heels. nude hose, skirt. Have this 6 sense or radar picks up such beauty.  I immediately turned around seeing if I could take glimpse of her. The bus came to a stop I got off with the crowd of people. You could clearly see her tall body and long legs made her stand out, exactly like picture I inserted. Closer examination she was wearing fuss ankle booties which I had my eye on from fuss.

You could see my excitement as hers  observing such beautiful heels what a coincidence. Yet looking at her staring upon the heels smiling, assume they were brand new, first day she was walking in them. In fact the demeanour of her joy wearing those heels in particular was noticeable. Yet she stood out from the crowd sexy legs and perfect heels to match. Never could I wear such heels hesitant to purchase them. Only because the stilettos are so beautiful which brings a lot of attention. Many know I hate people staring at me. Lol...Very formal indeed.  Assume the female I observed took a page to dress same way as the model in the picture great legs indeed and choice of pantyhose. 

More I look at those booties the better they look in nude sheer hose. Very eye catching no doubt she will get many compliments indeed. 

Often you see most women wearing leggings or tight denim skinny jeans with those great knee high boots your posing p1ng74. Skirt and belt look great but with pantyhose and stilettos courts may make the outfit look better and traditional. Over the knee boots skirt hides the knees which oddly isn't effective style. Either your showing off those asume boots or showing your legs in hose or leggings with the skirt. A shorter skirt may work better if your comfortable with it maybe suede or leather compliments the boots.

Only reason I post every detail better to explain people’s reaction. 

Know a infatuated female  co -worker at my workplace, she ignores me when I wear ultra skinny jeans or leggings. Suppose she trying to make a point without actually saying it. Once I wear little looser jeans not much, she is all smiles saying hello. 

If someone does ignore my hello greeting only because what I wear doesn’t sit right for that particular diva. I will not change for anyone’s sake but only my own, or care what they think. I often laugh thinking upon my hater she should see me in my gym leggings or on a beach or pool what I wear, in comparison. In fact I know it gets under her skin seeing me outfitted in skinny leggings. There times I noticed she wanting to kick or hit me for what I wear her beliefs of knocking some sense into me. Yet she persist to play a game of ignoring me to outright pleasant and polite. 

So my attitude becomes closed seeing what game haters are playing.  Thinking female co-workers ignoring me because what I’m wearing that particular day. Then the rest of the days when wearing other jeans I put a wall up from those haters knowing they acted so rudely. Sometimes I laugh at there polite hello greeting wanting to say go F#%k yourself. While I smirk sarcastically at there greetings rolling my eyes knowing fully well they disapproved upon my previous skinny jeans I wore or future attire

Sometimes it’s difficult to ignore people you work with knowing they got hang ups of my clothes.  Even believing there maybe a romantic feelings between us. While I try pushing the envelope on how far I can go just to rub in the faces onto my haters. Yes it costs a lot of time and calories wasted. Yet have no choice, but being oppressed by my co worker haters on those days. Difficult to put them out of my mind as they also try to do to me. We all both fail miserably to ignore one another discussing it with  others. 

Most Woman are like that using the term  “deal breaker” when observing a male there self proclaimed infatuated with, wearing skinny female jeans. Trying to pursuede someone to change because they don’t like a particular style, using any means necessary. Little does these women know me well enough. That nothing will change my skinny jeans style or find out how fashion myself provactivly  differently at work then outside in my personal time. 

Otherwise walking around in the city I enjoy, eyes in the headlight stare, from strangers from time to time. Like many write no big deal men wearing skinny jeans isn’t a earth shattering observation. 

So when I get subtle stares from skinny jean wearing females noticing me walking passed it doesn’t bother me or care at the least what they think. They check me out as I do to them. Often observing through there reactions of me caring less, intrigued or envying the style I wear.  Yet I’m hopeless in analyzing  what they are thinking when observing me. Are they like my female co-workers haters or have same attitude when it comes to how men should dress? Thus making me pondering it over and over. 

Sometimes me and male co -worker sit by at a public open cafeteria lunch area. Analysts of what any given attractive woman is about. For example seeing very serious demeanour attractive skinny blonde walking from lunch to the office. The way she walks, her gait, what she’s wearing, her body,  my co-worker has assumed back story about her breaking up or fighting with boyfriend last night, looking very uptight young woman that lacks special sexual skills, all while she overhearing his commentary. The reactions we get are amusing  because it’s so true or stereotypical from these strange woman walking passed entertains us for awhile anyway. .  At most angers few divas that most likely have qualms observing guy like me or others in the forum. 

While on positive note:

Recent outing at a concert seen this attractive older mom with her young daughter. The mom dressed smoking hot. Wearing short leather black jacket, medium wash distressed blue cropped jeans painted on her slim tiny toned legs, with pointed toe black leather stiletto ankle booties. I was standing waiting for elevator dressed in my charcoal skinny distressed jean outfit with leather black sneakers. She asks attendant directions holding hands with her young daughter. The mom looked over towards me more then once noticing. Then backtracked looking me over again and again from a distance as she walked. As I was admiring her very tight outfit wasn’t obvious  what she thought of mine. Yet knew I got her attention all to well, good or bad doesn’t matter because I was comfortable with my outfit. Although very jealous of her heel booties wishing to be wearing exactly the same with smile on my face. We all know female concert visitors dress up in rock n roll mentality. Heels, leather tight pants, black leggings is often the dress code you will see. 

3 hours ago, Cali said:

Since it has been damp lately I have been wearing my Soda booties. Wish I had gotten a second pair when I could. Love this color.

Looks awfully familiar, except lack the authentic leather nubuck suede uppers . Great knockoffs otherwise same as my Rag & bone booties.

19 minutes ago, Cali said:

I often have women that see me in heels and want to know where I get my shoes. They get unhappy when they find out I have US size 10 women's and can go shopping almost everywhere. They can't.

How big are those women your chatting with? Lol..

See often at gym club a young female very tall. Noticed she has big feet maybe same size or bigger then my men’s 9.5US. Often she observes my outfits I wear. Envious of my style and choice of colours. Just recently I seen her in exactly the same Nike trainers I wear. Assuming she observed my attire figuring to copy me. While I had shocked reaction toward her new trainers looking directly onto them open mouth stare. She immediately looked upon them as to see if something was wrong noticing my overreaction. I clearly chuckled finding it funny someone copying  my style colour coordination. 

Yet from her glances and sudden stares upon me from many visits I could safely assume she respects my style. Even observes my reaction towards her new outfits. While I try to not react finding what woman wear fine, concealing the fact it maybe looks subpar. 

3 minutes ago, Shyheels said:

Well, I wear skinny jeans regularly and nobody gives me so much as a second glance. I wear them with knee boots as well - again, nobody notices.

Sometimes when someone i pointed out at the workplace has strong belief of oneself of style and trends. Then notices designer female clothes on a male it is upsetting and envy, jealousy starts. When other female co-workers start gossiping about me positively in creepy manner, describing my body seen in other locations outside of the workplace. Female in question is disturbed to forget me only because i'm often i'm topic of conversation in eyes of others. Making her observing me challenging even difficult to overcome.

Anytime i wear new pair of style trendy skinny jeans be it new hem. I will be observed upon noticed and her expression will show annoyance bit of anger, which i conclude jealousy. Yet no comments of looks good or i like that. Unlike her she gets complimented raises her strut level a notch or two being more dynamic in her gestures or movement.

22 minutes ago, Shyheels said:

Maybe it’s the way you do it...

It's the way some very prudish conservative woman beliefs are. If she gets angry every time  i wear skinny female jeans it's her problem not mine.  The way wear them is tame at the workplace in comparison a typical outing alone on the street or mall.   Some woman want males they are infatuated with to comply with ordinary code of attire for their gender. Believe me i had some envious jealous stares upon my jeans focused on the flared hems, distressed holes, wash, even colour. Not how tight fitting they look which often is the case but all that is relative to certain cuts, styles of jeans. The woman i work around feels no man should wear skinny jeans least woman styles ever. Although other people may comment something nice about me wearing skinny jeans even accept it as my style. In many overheard conversations polite people will voice good things saying he has nice body for it.  Which of course brings the ire of the fashion conscious female overhearing positive comments upon me. 

On 11/27/2018 at 12:41 PM, Cali said:

I run my errands in my Steve Madden Estrella mules.

Tough to run in, even more to keep your balance.

Was checking out at a grocery store as young couple came walking passed. This cute young pretty tiny woman arm wrapped around her boyfriend walking into a Starbucks inside the grocery store. My eyes could not stop looking at her heel black booties Stuart Weitzman Pure booties without a doubt i recognized on her tiny feet. The crescent heel and pointed toe looked amazing, so fashion forward yet unique to turn heads at least mine.  Really wanted to follow her after i checked out. Such attractive look but needed to leave for work time was short. Definitely had stalker mentality to observe from a distance a pair of heel booties. No doubt i would of complimented her great taste  heel booties if we were close by. Maybe even told her i wished to own a pair myself but never got around to it in my size. Doubt it would be received well, but who cares, which i would probably never see them ever again.

Later on at work seen young female co worker fashionista walking out in the area i had some duties to finish before leaving. She walked up many steps as i came in front of her. I stared upon her boots which she was wearing exactly the ones i bought, for a male, patent hiker boots from Karl Lagerfeld. The shock expression from me was recognizable, she often is in heels all sorts of  but she was leaving in these boots totally threw me to almost laugh. Not they looked bad but often never seen her wear anything else then stiletto heels of four inches or higher. She once commented to another co-worker overhearing it, saying in negative assuming tone, i bet he wears heels along with those tight jeans. From past comments she recognized my brand and gender of denim i wear, so no surprises seeing she assumes i outfit myself with heels yet never seen me wear anything other then flat male shoes or FRYE engineering boots.

Watching this fashion conscious female co-worker over the years and her utter unaccepting beliefs what a male should or should not wear. Feel as though woman who prides herself to wearing feminine clothes and heels is styling herself in fashionable patent male hiker boots is hypocritical. On one hand i get sneered, stared, gazed upon my female jeans, looked upon as crazy, to be wearing even laughed upon once wearing legging dark jeans by her. Only conclude why woman get away wearing fashion styles from both genders and none bats eyeball even compliments them for it. While male is looked upon as strange or odd....

Fetish

14 hours ago, bambam said:

I was out and about last night in a blazer, skinny jeans, and my Jessica Simpson stiletto platforms, and after bracing myself to get out of the car again and walk into the building, as I usually have to, I had a thought... ‘What the almighty hell am I doing???’. Any body ever get that? I have people who are very supportive, but still trying to understand why I do this to myself. Gotta be honest, I don’t know, but it keeps me going..

Yes! i do feel the same, but not always. After further analysis with myself i find only  those thoughts creep in when none is observing me, or there are few people around. If i see someone but they don't notice me or care  and are styled in a very casual manner makes me feel out of sorts. Thinking why bother wearing heels for what reason others won't appreciate it or care. Whom am i showing off to? Am i overdressed compared to everyone else? Often it is the location i'm in which isn't heel friendly or very lame. 

It's not confidence i lack but the experience is less enjoyable when people i observe are styled in lame outfits making me stand out oddly. It's common to observe one woman all dolled up but nobody cares what she is wearing. Yet she gets angry spending lot of money for her outfit but everyone doesn't know what her fashion style is  from Valentino heels to Payless brand.  That is why often woman dress up for dinners showing off standing having drinks for many to observe. After getting tired they can sit down at a table have dinner cross legged dangling there heels enjoying themselves giving compliments and receiving, comparing other like minded heel wearing woman. 

Believe me woman wearing heels have the same thought run through there mind. Often first thing i overhear when  woman talk often complaining about there heels and how stupid they feel wearing them or how they hurt. Yet they fully know what heels do to make an outfit pop, either in skinny jeans, leggings, skirt, dress.. Know matter what damage the heels make to their pretty tiny feet woman love how they style it.  

When your in a environment conducive to heels,  more women are wearing them, it begins a competitive spirit amongst the group if they know it or not. 

There is saying females in Caribbean islands have about fashion. If nobody notices you wearing bright coloured outfit, then your doing something wrong. Often they dress in outrageous flamboyant prints in various colours to gather some second looks.

So to when i had to work bringing me to new location with the crew recently, wearing my designer skinny jeans. Noticed many woman, married moms with kids took double takes observing me and focusing upon my jeans. At first i thought they envied the denim colour wash or recognized the designer brand logo. Yet more women began to stare, it dawned on me they found it unusual to see a male in such tight snug fitting jeans, in my opinion outfitted so well. Nobody laughed in fact some looked a bit surprised in good way, others stared eyes bulging jealous. While i returned the same observation back at them, comparing my brand of denim to theres. Then i judged, i compared  there bodies,  me looking much better in denim  then most thick legged, big booty, moms accompanied with there kids. While my co-workers are used to observing me in snug skinny jeans nothing knew to them. 

So if i seen dozens of woman walk by not caring what i looked like or notice me i would think why on earth am i wearing these rigid uncomfortable skinny jeans. Yes the wash looks great but the comfort was poor yet worth every minute from all the stares from the female single, married or out on a date. Love getting some heads turned noticing me for whatever reason which i conclude accurately or wrongly they liked what they see or very least lasting an impression. In fact some couldn't keep their eyes off my jeans until they walked away was out of sight.

6 hours ago, SF said:

What exactly is this "bulge" that you speak of?????   Some style of heel that I am unaware of??  I'm old and just not that "hip" anymore...  have fun, sf

Haglund’s Deformity

What do you think I was writing about?

46 minutes ago, Gudulitooo said:

Macky,

I was sure there was something with the bulge.

Maybe you could have a more peaceful life in your mind and in reality after seriously dealing with this issue.

Of course ballet dancers are fully displaying it. But dance attire rare rarely seen out in the streets

Regards.

It’s a part of me, some call it exhitionism I  actually enjoy it. In my many chats woman  trainers or various gym members compliment my body. My only question is believing there hypes is it true. Or are they focused there mind only on my prominent bulge. Only question it when a female has tongue ring telling me she loves my body. Then noticing female trainer with her client laughing while the client stares upon me.

Had trainer tell me once you should hear what my clients both female and male say about you. Men wishing  to look like you. Then she grins and laughs telling me I’m not going to tell you about what the woman say. 

In denim jeans bulge display is often lost from  the denier of the fabric for the most part. While in my gym leggings it is prominently displayed.

Recently as yesterday I seen married female gym member  I called out to. She looked me over what streetwear I was wearing. Tight Paige jeans, hoodie and insulated vest and designer leather sneakers. The female gym member fond of my many outfits. Telling me she finds herself feeling in competition with me every time what to wear in the gym, leggings, tank tops etc.. Then told me I wear it better then her. I laughed, knowing we have almost identical physique legs, glutes. 

While many woman I overhear talking telling other newbie members i’m a dancer. Suppose the way I outfit myself in tight leggings and tops with confidence makes people assume it. What type of dancer they believe I am is to be determined. 

9 hours ago, Cali said:

I was in Costco and an young Asian woman came around the corner and she couldn't take her eyes off my heels. She looked up at me for just a moment and went right back to locking onto my shoes. I used the "Don't you just love them" line as I passed. I heard her whisper "yes".

LOL

Reminds me similar experience at Costco. Had this young Asian female chase after me in aisle with the cart. She probably noticed me somewhere between entering the aisle. As I stopped looking at an item, she pulled across from me very excited then stared upon my leggings dark jeans. Wasn’t wearing high heels, but I was positive she was only intrigued of the colour and style of my J-brand skinnny jeans. 

Little did she know as she stared at my bulge profile noticing it prominently displayed. She got eyeful, as I turned towards her to give a better angle to stare. Giving her ample opportunity  acting as  I didn’t notice her bulging stunned focus eye stare. Her sudden  pale complexion from embarrassed observation was evident and her mom chased after concerned  saying what’s wrong dear. The cute high school gal stood dumbfounded looking away trying to respond, loss of words. The mother sort of knew why the daughter took off quickly chasing me down. Mom  having a smirk on her face approaching her daughter slowly knowing she was intrigued at a man in the aisle. 

The young daughter made up excuse looking upon the tuna fish cans. Telling her mom, oh, thought they had something on sale. Mom initially grinning closed lip walking slowly towards her saying thought you hated fish, with a gotcha moment,  ahh open mouth chuckle fully aware the daughter was chasing me down. Then as the Asian daughter began to turn back leaving, the mom said to her. Looks to me you found something you liked in the aisle  with a smile on her face towards the daughter. The daughter feeling embarrassed that her mother might of figured her daughters motives. Leaving me in the aisle being only one nearby in tight jeans aside for the daughter. Lol..

Felt as though the daughter has honest skinny jean fetish or fashion style intrigue. She got a lot more to observe then just denim jeans. 

10 hours ago, Steve63130 said:

SF,

Stares don't necessarily mean disapproval or have a negative connotation. They just mean the observer can't get his or her head wrapped around the idea that a guy would wear women's shoes. It's a disconnect that their brain can't process immediately, and the reaction might be a stare, laughter, or raised eyebrows, for example. So watch it on the stares. Hold the hand rail! LOL

Steve

Exactly but what is the disconnect? Is it because they believe if your a certain gender you must comply wearing clothes and shoes for that sex. 

What i find unusual is when someone looks not what you expect such as androgynous appearance. We as people want to figure out gender quickly when the traditional appearance changes or blurs peoples focus they find staring longer necessary. Sometimes it comes at laughs giggles because at initial superficial look they assumed a gender after a longer stare they figured they misjudged and was wrong.

Was coming out of my car at a grocery store parking lot wearing my skin tight jeans and four inch block heel black leather booties. Seen couple young woman dressed in leggings and chelsea booties and flats. While they were walking very slowly approaching rear of my parked car i thought to let them pass while i was making my way out of the car. As i stood watched them standing by my drivers door, overlooking them on the opposite side. Figured they  be observing me walking into the store following behind thought to let them go ahead of me. While they took almost eternity to get to the back of the truck of my car i lost patience and began to head in front of them. Little did i know i got in front of them literally right  next to them. Startled the one woman because she didn't notice me at all  between the cars or was not paying attention chatting to her friend. Only the torso would of been noticed if they looked as i stood at the drivers door. Suppose it sounds scary having a male creep out at the exact time the woman came walking passed at the dead of night. While i kept walking they instantly noticed my heel booties looking down after there initial scare voicing out Uh! as if there being attacked. Then the one woman voiced out WOE! In low sexy tone. Nothing was said afterwards as i kept walking quickly which wasn't hard behind these turtles. Later in the store i didn't see either of them looking upon me as odd or unusual which surprised me. Expected some giggles or laughter even glares upon me in well lit store but they minded their business cared less what i was wearing.

It dawned on me that from my previous post wearing plain unisex flat shoes along with female tight fitting pants is dilema for some to overcome. Often i read on the forum many wearing stiletto, heels, hose, skirts you rarely get reactions. So to when i complete my outfit with heel block booties people react entirely differently then without wearing heels. Suppose some believe oh he is a cross dresser no doubt leave him be. Don't laugh, don't stare, he is minority maybe transgendered.  While wearing just the female tight jeans people can assume a wider gamut about him such as; he's probably gay, is he wearing his girlfriends jeans looks odd, he is trying to be stylish but fails miserably pitting him, poor guy is single none wants him look at what he wears, no wonder.

Seen this beautiful mallado 20 something woman in suede four inch heel block booties pointed toe that i'm interested in buying for myself. She was coming out of a office building revolving doors all smiles very happy, outfitted in car coat. She had some exchange with black young man who made her smile even more, parting ways while she had a car waiting few steps from the building doors. She looked to being dressed up going out on a birthday date or complimented upon her beauty feeling very good about herself just a hunch. As i was crossing in front wearing my high top leather zip navy blue sneakers, skinny dark denim blue jeggings and insulated black waist jacket.  

While i was observing everything in front of me take place as i was crossing the revolving doors looking for another doorway further on. The young beauty looked upon me as she passed  maybe ten feet away did a scan of my legs which i believe initially started her gazed stare, later upon my designer sneakers. Her demeanour instantly went from very happy on top of the world smile, to serious, stoic, startled,  odd, stare, in millisecond quite the contrast after scanning what i was wearing which i believe had to be my tight  jeans caught her eye. She kept walking towards the car few steps outside the doors of the building while i was crossing next to her never keeping her eyes off my sneakers. As i too was eyeballing her block heel booties trying to figure out the brand she was wearing. Although i began to smile more and later entering the building finally letting out a chuckle upon her contrasting reaction.

Later kept internally trying to figure out why she looked upon me so dead on serious, while just seconds being so happy and carefree. If i wore my heel booties instead of my leather zip high top sneakers i would of assumed it was because of the heels which i could understand her reaction. Then it hit me it had to be my legs wrapped in painted on denim. Or that she recognized me from the building using the same gym. Sometimes people look at me in the street and recognize me from the gym, wearing all sorts of tight female gym outfits leggings tops that they all find amusing, startling, odd, envious, jealous or impressed or unforgetable thus being recognized more. 

Could understand if we were wearing the same booties or similar ones that her laser focus would be on them as i would also stare upon hers. Whenever someone wears same clothes we own it catches our attention sometimes makes us upset that we don't look unique enough but someone dressed up the same. 

Ceases to amaze me that simple plain dark street outfit could change someone's demeanour drastically for whatever reason. Find it bit sad but oddly enough thinking about it makes me laugh (you had to be there to see it)  that i could change someone's mood so quickly with my presence. What a dark shadow  or cloud i bring along with me curse or blessing, just shaking my head in laughter.. This just motivates me to wear my block booties even more.

Anyone have similar experience?.. 

By the way her booties looked similar to Rossi like these but heel was slightly different. What i could tell and assume this young woman like to get dolled up being fashion style is important on her list. 

Anyone swim in heels?

On 11/5/2018 at 5:23 PM, blueparrot said:

I had a pretty understanding boss who thought my boots were "cool".  A few months ago the owner of the company hired an HR lady.  Before the book keeper did the duty.  This new lady is a heel queen with 5 to 6 inch stilettos she wears almost every day.  When the real hot weather subsided I started wearing my knee and over the knee block heel boots.  I wore them last season with no issue brought up.  One day I wore in my new (off ebay) Sam Edelman Rylan OTK boots in deep red.  These have a nice 4" heel and look quite stylish with black skinny pants tucked in.  The HR lady made a big deal about them, even threatening to pull them off me and put them on.  She started making a big deal over my boots for weeks.  When I tried to ignore here she got mad and I started getting called in to the boss over things I supposedly said to coworkers.  I know she was the source of this.  Last Friday I got called in to a meeting with my boss and her.  They told me I was being fired for my conduct, something I can't understand as I have not had any issues and have been getting positive feedback on my work.  She started yelling at me when I tried to leave.  I told them to send my check and she flipped out.  She accused me of poor attendance which is a total lie.  Some how she got it in for me and I can only suspect it was jealously over my boots. 

I am actually glad to get out of there as there are many job openings in the Dallas area right now.  I think the next one I will only wear ankle boots under pants and not chance such a reaction again. 

 

Can't believe what she said.... What was the HR woman's fuss about besides jealousy, ever inquire why? To me it would be funny, even a compliment of her jealousy or envy of those  boots.  It would be amusing to me even liking her response if i were in your shoes or boots. In fact would wear them more often to get the HR women's blood boiling challenging her to give it a try pulling them off me.

Had it happen to me once, well the other time was at a nude beach which i can't comment about on the forum. This sexy older church going, god fearing, single, Asian, school teacher, at my gym which i see daily delighted in observing her. She remarked one time that she loved and desired my new outfit the previous day. Asking me questions about my impeccable taste wearing athletic tight clothing to the gym. She asked if i had everything meticulously organized  at home, closet full the amount of legging outfits i owned. She later responded telling me she wants my clothes, and i should give it to her.... Her response came off very harsh, and awkward, very surprising to hear from such a calm, quiet, lonely, intelligent, woman. If the roles were reversed i suppose a woman in my leggings would run away, even call authorities about a threat.. While i laughed it off as thinking she was joking, even thinking about it, but said nothing to her. She complimented my body but became tongue tide for whatever reason. Now i just keep my distance only saying hello to her from time to time on her daily visits to the gym. Yet can't keep from thinking to let her wear my many various older style leggings  i wear to the gym such a personal item to attire or ask about. Yet i enjoy looking upon her in tight bicycle black shorts, desiring her genetically gifted well defined toned legs. Would be shame for her to cover-up wearing any of my type of leggings. Although can't help thinking what a turn on it would be seeing her wear something i had worn thus my dilemma. 

Your so right woman who wear such heels like the HR you described pushed her buttons because your a man in something that she found very feminine to be wearing. Did you ever believe it maybe sexual fetish reaction she had about your boots or you in them? 

My experience i knew some enthusiastic, well meaning,  nice married woman was pushing the single Asian school teacher to start a relationship with me. Telling her about the many intriguing advantages, one being the wardrobe would instantly double, if we were a couple. The asian women grimaced smiling with the ideas by the other woman,  yet it  planted a seed lighting a fire under her to later ask or tell me she wants my clothes. One thing is certain you have to have some repore with a woman knowing each others names, occupation, single, married etc.. Then someone could make a suggestion to borrow or try on going, shopping asking for a friends gift during the holidays etc.. To have a total stranger discuss my outfit and demand me to give her to have isn't something lighthearted and normal. In fact it has me believe its deeper phycological  the asian woman doesn't want me to be wearing tight female legging outfits in public no matter how much she may desire or be intrigued with my body and parts showing.

3 hours ago, balletboot said:

I felt like wearing my new skirt and new boots today so I went to tjmax and kohls. Didn't find anything cool just ended up buying some new pantyhose at kohls. I ended up making the cashier blush. She couldn't see my lower half over ther counter, as she scanned the hosiery she jokingly said these will look great on you. So I stepped backwards into her view and said I think so too with a smile on my face. She got all red and gave me a compliment on my outfit

 

 

Nice outfit. Shopping dressed up have to hand it to you balletboot doubt i could go out in skirt panthose like you shown. Getting compliment like you did, funny to watch the cashiers  reaction, love it!

 Had encounter at supermarket waiting in line i got to the cashier, she scanned upon what i was wearing. Couldn't help it but back away from the cashier to show off my skinny jeggings i was wearing. She didn't say a word or any reaction through any discernible expression but  definitely gazed upon me as the woman behind  waiting in line stared down at my butt and legs. 

Today i decided to wear my grey skinny jean jeggings with grey sneakers instead of my black heel booties and snug hoodie.  Felt black skinny jeans and booties go better together. So i made a stop and the supermarket had female stop and stare upon me as i bundled up some bananas in plastic bag. She had on tan overcoat 3/4 length and tan timberland boots matching her coat. The stare upon me was amusing but she went on with her shopping. Didn't see anyone particularly dressed in the store but as soon as i got in my car driving off, seen a woman entering the store. She had on red insulated red hood jacket 3/4 length snug fitted, with black skinny jeans and black block 4 inch booties. Thought it was funny because i would of worn the same outfit only black insulted short jacket instead. 

Just Arrived Shall I open it? 

Sawtooth leather hiker boots.

1 hour ago, HappyinHeels said:

pebblesf,

It's Canada, every city is clean. Canadians know how to use garbage bins and recycling containers and their cities are organized and functional. It may not have the glitz of the USA but there is a reason Canada is perpetually in the top ten nations for livability, transparency, and overall quality of life. These observations are based on annual trips to Canada as well as travelling to other US and foreign destinations over the years. I served the USA , in either a military or civilian capacity, for 36 years so I think I've earned the right to speak my mind about it so I can tell you the amount of blight tolerated in American cities is scandalous compared to Canada. Neighbourhood blight and educational blight are the biggest differences between the two nations I am convinced. Special interests leads to divergent municipal funding and a lack of coherent educational policy in many urban areas has brought many American cities to their present state of decay. Canada seems to have avoided this because special interests are kept in check and government appears more responsive and transparent. That's my perspective. HappyinHeels

Forgot the most important point or problem In Canada is buying heels larger than size 10 at any brick and mortar store, Aldo, Marshalls, Stuart Weitzman etc.. At least in any US department store like Nordstrom you will able to purchase and leave with heels in size 12 or 11 in designers that make them. Go to my Jimmy Choo boutique in Yorkdale  Mall you won't be able to find any size 11 and up in stiletto heels to try on.  Maybe because female feet are smaller than most american counterparts.  Think Canada needs a WNBA team have some big foot woman walking around this frozen tundra of ours.

Went to Nordstrom's department store located nearby downtown Toronto eaton centre. Seen spring sale of female Stuart Weitzman booties online and in store. Wanted to buy the Pure Bootie seen online the size 11 and 11.5 were available. Instead of ordering online and getting hit with duties and shipping charges i decided to purchase in store. Nice SA woman in the store told me they don't stock the size i needed but would check online. Unfortunately she couldn't order the bootie to Canada for advertised sale price from the same store from US ridiculous and she agreed apologizing.  After delivery and duties the booties would cost me $1200 and won't be returnable. Just wanted to size and fit tring bootie on but it was impossible. Went down the mall to Stuart Weitzman boutique asked for Pure Bootie in size 11.5 -12 US, dumb SA female told me they don't make a size that large. The maximum is a size 10 US  are sold, go figure, living in Canada. 

Nevermind ordering heels online US shops and when checkout they are disallowed to ship items to Canada. What's the deal with that it's as if i was ordering a brick of cocaine from a Columbian website importation is illegal. Welcome to Canada just want to buy some nice clothes and shoes without paying retail or absorbed duties, shipping fees and taxes often doubling the price of the item.

Just Alexander Wang ponyhair booties i'm desiring eyeballing, doubt I can try on my  Saks store because they don't have the size 11 US in stock.

Nicely done. Block heels one day stilettos next pushing the boundaries observing everyone’s reactions 

Where did you eat? Were people’s reactions obvious as they should be?

4 hours ago, Pierre1961 said:

Today I walked from the hotel to the exhibition place. 3 km. 45 minutes. Not so fast .Not so slow. I am not so disappointed because the surfaces were quite easy but far more difficult than the ones we can find in an airport.

skinny jean and Cuban Oxford  as shown on the picture 

Then i changed for " normal " flat shoes for my working day. 

And back to the hotel ,same distance,same time. Quite happy ! 

I got one congratulation from a black woman who asked me :"what time is it now"

" i love your shoes" 

Tomorrow: same program. Under the rain I am afraid of! 

Pierre 

Take the Bathurst 511 harbour front streetcar easier rather then walking. To the Cne grounds. Gather your working at enercare centre.  

Go checkout Saks fifth avenue Christmas window display at the Eaton centre mall. If you want to do some more shopping spending those euros up in Yorkville posh boutique shops on west of Yonge St along Bloor street until St George. Have some good food in yorkvile and get noticed.. 

Take the subway get off on union station streetcars will take you Cne and underground Path  to eaton centre mall. 

Goid luck. 

Usually before closing only the employees check my outfit also the door security guard often gives off a smiling smirk reaction some say hello..  Seeing very few customers  or sparse crowd often helps because there in hurry or been long day to care what i wear as well.  If your outfitted well then no matter the time of day people will look and usually leave you alone if they like it or make a compliment. Last thing you want is spend cash on great outfit that nobody sees. It's as though your wearing it only at home, what's the point when none sees you in it unless you post pictures online on the forum as some do...

Just last night i lost my gym lock and had walk around with my street clothes in duffle bag. Was afraid to leave my clothes in the open locker because of all the breakins.  Gotten a lot of looks from envious young sexy ladies around the gym because of a fresh new gym outfit.  Later i decided to sport my matching hoodie with camo leggings upon finishing my workout preparing to leave the gym.  Wasn't sure to wear only my leggings pink highlighted sneakers and camo hoodie to do late night errand before the store closed.

Felt very naked just wearing these leggings on the street don't know how woman do it or why i don't care in the gym wearing them... Think woman it's ego thing to receive attention of there proud physique or bottoms to be showing off in public any excuse they can.

While had few woman give me a show in passing at the water fountain showing off their great tight plump backsides in legging in the gym making sure i had to notice, that's entire different story. So i decided to go to the locker room and shower instead of going onto the street and store dressed in my feminine yoga leggings, hoodie. Before i made my way down entering the change room all dolled up in my outfit unsure to use the locker room or leave. Female earlier working out in the gym eyeballing me came out of women's change room, dressed up similar  type of outfit as me, but much cheaper looking a white hoodie dark black leggings white sneakers. She began to walk down a hall straight ahead noticed me and her eyeballs bulged out of cute head as looking upon my matching new outfit,  the hoodie she didn't see when i was working out on the gym floor. Surmised from her later reaction she was very envious of my outfit even the receptionist stared upon without a snickering smirk just a gaze. guess she approved  also or very least liked the dark outfit. 

After my shower i got dressed in skin tight AG distressed jeans and said hoodie and leather black sneakers. Was afraid or uncomfortable walking outside in my camo leggings as i went to the store. Although the store wasn't completely empty not many people noticed my tight jeans only the stock boy who was in aisle seen me with others not caring what i was wearing. Again i could of worn my leggings to the store without much of a incident because it is late before closing mid week not busy at all. Did i regret the choice i made? A little only  because to see for myself what reactions would be received regardless if i felt comfortable in wearing my leggings outfitted like so many women do  on the street. 

Told myself if it wasn't for the matching pink multi coloured trainer shoes with pink tight top i was wearing in the gym i may have convinced myself to wear said new leggings out in the the street and store. Sometimes wearing boring denim tight as i they were and new changing your style at times can make your heart beat little faster and feel different about yourself by doing what comes to mind. Some doubt did enter my mind in my gym routine thinking to wear leggings outdoors as time went on. Looking at one blonde female backside at the water fountain who many people compare us looking similar to her chagrin. She has developed muscles on her backside looking better i could of recognized made me doubt myself and become self conscious about my physique, now i know how some woman feel comparing themselves to fit more attractive people.