MackyHeels

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w6ish Wrong surroundings, vibe and judgemental dudes like them. Would make me very uncomfortable if i was in your heels. Overhearing or assuming through body language reactions from these guys isn't something i want to be part of even waiting for goddess like you have.

It's all about the scene your surrounding yourself with. To me your experience was all to wrong. Yet like you if i was forced in situation like you put yourself in i would despise the dudes style and criticize there physiques. Best remedy would be buy these guys pie or cake to support there big fat frame. Make them even fatter best revenge. Rarely would anyone with lack of control reject sweet dessert later feeling worse understanding your kindness was revenge you having the last laugh.

It's old trick often giving chocolates to females who reject me or are critical with my appearance. Temptation of only having one or two bites is often rare and they devour majority of the fattening sweet treat. Fully aware it's my revenge knowing they will regret it next day feeling bloated terrible developing sweet tooth for many days later. Opposite what females want to look thin and lean only getting fatter. 

Yes, whenever we are with knockout woman men have hard time not looking at them. Often surprised why she is with us, assuming the obvious when we show our lean bulging body in tight fitted clothes. 

Men have often tried to laugh or judge me observing my style. Yet many stop analyse what they see and stop themselves in being so critical. As my gal pal says, there jealous of your body, don't pay attention F-them. 

Best time is find surrounding that suits your style often it's LGBT community that is less critical with your fashion sense but also comes with some cons itself. Only know your in best environment when you overhear people observing you and compliments are made or tossed around.  

Suppose you did the best you do considering the circumstances in small rural community. Better in the big city people careless or more intrigued with other things on there mind then bored in small bar amused at a sighting male in polished nails, bronzed skin and wicked pornstar platform sexy heels. 

Take a look at Tv show guy like us W6ish walks around in only a thong at bar later in the video. Just in case link gets censored i will PM to you.

http:// https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fSKQw2Kbkgc&t=2464s  

Seeing a great looking female wearing knee high 4 inch stiletto heels with grey leggings with shorter winter wool coat at costco the other day.  Wanted to tell her she looked great in them but instead glared upon her passing by with my cart  minding my business. Only because something i like and even want to wear myself i have second thoughts in opening my mouth to give out genuine compliment. Been observing woman in particular for months, never seen any in heels for long period of time going shopping etc.. Did find her very attractive and the heels just raised the bar and other things much more. While i try to stay subtle even jaded upon woman styles i couldn't stop glaring upon her heels and legs. She had the winning combination i adore tight fitting leggings printed in grey scheme in cotton or wool fabric perfect for winter. Added with knee high snakeskin boots but thin stiletto heels which complimented her lean tone legs looking marvelous.  

Suppose the spike heel boots came as pleasant shocking surprise to me. Thinking if i were to compliment her she would take it entirely wrong manner believing i'm perverted or way to interested in her more then just enjoying her great sexy appearance. So i stayed mute, yet knew she glanced upon me knowing i had my eyes on her slim legs, tight bum, and killer heel boots. Could see she knew i was looking and therefore her style was successful in gathering my attention.  Don't know if she just noticed my shiny black Moncler puffy jacket and found it stylish herself.  Feel it would be to awkward for me to make a comment of her heel boots, telling her "loving it" while she was bending over the frozen chicken wings.  Later on, in the store noticed one other lady in heels yet much older and heavier. Felt the winter months kept many woman stopped wearing heels, so they decided to put them on to feel better or sexier than plain flats they often wear. Rarely see woman shopping in heels no matter the time of year guess they find it overdoing it or less comfortable for the surroundings. 

Feel if i did compliment the first attractive  woman i seen at costco it would make her feel good although doubt she needs any encouragement to look sexy or has self doubts about her beauty. Would make me feel better that if i communicated a compliment even though it may of came out awkward or to forward. Either way heels do make people feel better ones who observe others wearing it knowing it makes a statement we care how we look or style ourselves from mundane boring flat bottom shoes styles.

At the time wasn't wearing any heels just flat uggs in skinny jeans. So any compliment given by me, woman wouldn't assume i like there heels for myself which would come as a shock or joke to them if i mentioned it.  Regretting not wearing heel booties myself who knew i would encounter few woman in the store wearing heels.  It may have changed my persona slightly observing the woman maybe smiling at her noticing both our stylish outfits

13 hours ago, w6ish said:

i forgot to mention my little "protege":  he did come up with an outfit and i was happy to see he went full out and bought the blaring white 7 inch heels from Pleaser  (size 8!!!).  but the poor lad does not have the body that i have nor the confidence.  nor the long black hair!  i looked him over and said for heaven's sake, take those stupid long jeans and throw them in the garbage!  i had the afternoon off so i said to the poor lad: let's go shopping and we'll square you away in the jeans dept.  

he ended up buying some fun and super stretchy jeans that are tight to the ankles.  unfortunately for him he doesn't have the goods to make those jeans work like they should but the effort is there.  in the change room, one of those big outfits where they have a mirror down at the end of the hallway, he came out with the jeans on and the white heels, which he brought along, and looked himself over in the mirror.  i was at the far end waiting and seated in a fancy chair and my initial thought was good lord the poor kid doesn't have much to work with, body wise, but the spirit is there.  

he said: he would never wear that in public and never wear those shoes with his bare toes sticking out!  

i laughed of course.  i said:  one:  in the summer-get a tan, including your feet.  two:  either have it done or do it yourself, get your toe nails done.  three:  (not sure about this one)  i said you might consider growing your hair out and longer, but i'm not sure about that as he is wearing a particular hair style, long but not shoulder length, but it is definitely working for him.  

interesting at any rate.  the poor lad has no idea how fabulous he could look.  i say poor lad but clearly he comes from a place of money.

Protege, huh! 

Often see younger male at my workplace which wears designer clothes and shoes  glitter sneakers  etc.. His haircut coloured asymmetrical cut medium length yet short. Often makes me giggle at him walking with his designer crossbody designer purse undoubtable coming from money. His dad must think his young son is gay or appears that way. Sort of trying to be masculine in his clothes pants shirt even hairstyle but is begging to show off his feminine style yet to fearful to wear heels, skinny jeans etc.. Suppose everyone has there timetable to outgrow there basic styles and have the courage to wear what they really love like you w6ish. 

Today at my workplace was sitting down while females surrounded me trying to glance upon my lap. While i enjoy only wearing female skinny jeans for various reasons you w6ish described with the protege. I gotten tired proving myself to these newbie woman at my workplace gossiping upon my unique physique they are so intrigued to look upon especially the young ones. Overheard one cute female talking over me to another about covering myself hiding something they believe is disappointing to look upon. 

Sometimes wearing or showing off blatantly can cause disturbance or like you w6ish write about "fuss".

Don't know if the group of ladies at my workplace recognized something from my jeans that looked painted on from the hips yet comfortably stretchy.  Which i gotten much more attention then previous days while some newbies just wish to get closer better looks. Maybe they thought i was teasing them or warming my hands in my lap from the heat of my body. 

Wearing tight jeans for some males can be intimidating let alone leggings like i frequent in the gym with disregard who is watching. My lady friend told me today loves how other woman recognize me with that daze. While telling me i'm all so confident unlike many who enter the doors of a gym.  Confidence goes long way with regards to how people treat you or visualize your body. 

17 hours ago, KneeBooted said:

I wanted to post about the most interesting encounter I’ve had thus far in my heeling.

Previously, I mentioned how I wore my new Sorel wedges and left them pretty noticeable, to the point where at least one female coworker noticed and asked about them as well as complimented them.

This past Tuesday, I was wearing the same jeans with the Sorel wedges that I had before, so that the majority of the boot was noticeable.

On Tuesday mornings, I participate in one of the classes that our gym coaches facilitate. In that class there are two new interns to the company, a male and female.

After the gym, a shower, and morning routine, I made my way to our cafeteria to get coffee. I happened to cross paths with these two new people, and the female immediately took notice of my shoes. She complimented me on how nice they looked, adding that she liked the heel/wedge of them. I thanked her and said they’re quite comfortable for day to day wear. The she surprised me by turning to the male intern and telling him that he needed to get a pair. He looked down and said ‘Nah I’m good. I’m not short so I don’t need heels’ I laughed and told him I don’t wear them because I’m short(I’m 5’10” flat footed). He then just kind of shrugged it off.

But wow, talk about a confidence booster! Not only did she like them, but she recommended another guy get a pair!

I am pretty sure I was on Cloud 9 the rest of the day lol!

This is occurrence that happens with me. Usually woman don’t say anything to me but instantly notice what I’m wearing.

Be it at the beach or pool wearing thong swimsuit or gym in leggings. In heels often never overheard female ask a male friend that question. Usually woman are upset, me wearing heels and tight fitted outfit Criticizing me for it to them. 

While some females find it intriguing question to ask there partner. They immediately turn and ask there male companion if he to would like to wear that.

Same male response is often no way! The female finds his quick adamant answer amusing. Or pats and rubs him on the back telling him you sure it’s okay. Comments usually are don’t have the body like him. Female then feels sorry telling him don’t feel bad or laughs mocking him in jest. 
My belief is male being asked often feels homophobic. Female is testing his closed mindedness or kinkiness how or what his boundaries are. It often solidify’s her understanding of her male partner finding how open minded or fearful he is. Either way most woman feel they are teasing him  enjoying his stern answer. 

On 1/30/2020 at 3:35 AM, w6ish said:

at the diner:  waiting.  i could not believe she made me wait!  

(fun memory anyway!)

Who made you wait, the waitress? 

On 1/28/2020 at 1:03 PM, Pierre1961 said:

One ((bad) opportunity for reopening this subject 

Today I had to fly from Paris( Orly,an airport I don’t like) fo Madrid. 

Before boarding I bought a coffee and sat close to the counter I got it. 

I heard a male voice at the coffee counter saying  to his female coworker: “ the world is turning wrong side,look at the shoes of this guy!” She didn’t answer,or I didn’t heard. Then 5  minutes later he called a guy from the security,probably a friend of him( and same physical aspect) and said  very loudly:” look at the shoes of that guy” Again I wasn’t able to hear the answer. 

I didn’t move,did show any trouble,kept on reading my book after I had finished the coffee 

Not a big deal. But for sure not encouraging because that kind of guys is now quite common in some places of Paris. Where I never go. 

But that it is the first time is happens to me in an airport 

So,yes sometimes wearing heels need courage!

the shoes were the ones  you can see on the picture. Brown  14 block heels 

Surprisingly this doesn't happen more often. Maybe because most people rather talk about us in wearing heels or other outfits behind our backs so we can't overhear.

Had booties like thm before woman would hear me coming and look up while shopping startled what they seen.

Guys like you described remind me coworker bad mouthing individuals like that saying same things. My boss being his best friend tries to tame him down saying stop talking bigoted like that, but he doesn't care because he isn't in the company of those who wear such things. Little does he know my boss has idea about me but can't say for sure since i never wear heels at work and tempers his comments around me. So far don't hear my co-worker talking openly about males in feminine clothes and shoes anymore joking about it as before around me now.  Doubt his attitude changed but stays distant around me unless it's necessary to work together. What i know some people are bothered about others believing there is normal way to dress and behave and everyone else is crazy very close minded. Yet same time telling me i don't care yet making it vocal of his opinions to anyone listening.  Guys like my co-worker believe if they shame others or make a comment publicly they don't respect there choices it's learning moment. Rather encouraging others saying how great it looks.

Suppose woman i see never give compliments it's because of fear do so. Only that  guy like me may take it as flirtation then positive  encouragement. My reactions as some woman also do  wearing something great, need compliments only because of validation what we are wearing is alright. Always in your mind asking myself do i look bad in these heels and outfit, is it too much, guess i look terrible none says anything ignoring me. Silence or minding their business often is another sign people may object to your outfit and heels. Then again not everyone needs to say positive reinforcement what everyone is wearing unless there fashion diva.

Do like some of the replies to Pierrie1961 experience never had it happen to me would i think of mocking others about our heels. Especially love the usual female teens asking others to look what a male is wearing heels giggling about it. Confront them giving yourself a chuckle that yeah want to get a closer look showing them off. Love it!  Reactions catching them off guard thinking there laughing upon your heels yet don't care confronting them for your own amusement.  

Just had recent experience with younger couple white gal and her black boyfriend at the gym pool. While i was swimming laps in next lane beside  them finishing doing leg exercises in shallow end holding onto the edge. The female was approaching next lane commenting or giggling that i was wearing a thong swimsuit to her boyfriend. I'm sure she noticed or he did while i walked along the pool deck showering and making my way into the water. So there was no surprises yet she commented unclearly something to the fact i was showing off and wanted to do something. Her boyfriend telling her no and began to get out of the pool. Maybe she wanted to wait in the pool to see me leave looking upon my backside not sure.  

Goes to show you some people believe what your wearing isn't for purpose of you loving to wear it but being exhibitionist for reaction for others. This often leads to people or woman specifically giving me less attention ignoring what i wear. Often believe it's out of jealousy or envy but it can also be they don't want to give me more attention then necessary making me feel less desirable in their eyes failing miserably. 

Stopping, staring gotta love it! Know the feeling think it's my best part when woman are caught off guard. Very few times in my experience it happens woman walking normally unaware and looks over at me  suddenly deer in the headlights stands still, Lol.... Brings huge smile on my face yet if i seen them before i try to look unaware or clueless they are watching. While playing dumb and unaware as i'm simply wearing ordinary outfit knowing what i have on is getting attention. One hottie woman could not take it anymore with me. she followed  closely looking me over finally broke down screaming never forget it. People running to help her seeing what was wrong then she realized her top of her lungs scream was vocalized being embarrassed telling it was nothing. After my ears stop ringing had to feel good i provoke that reaction to woman cares so deeply about me but hates my outfits.

    Difference between you and me W6ish i would observe and listen to the negative reactions if in your shoes. Happy you can block any form of negativity and enjoy the pleasure of being the man all these woman intrigued with. The gay question often comes up with me also woman asking or commenting to others he's got to be.  Only when they figure out i'm  not the disbelief on there faces is precious same as initial stares upon my outfit or body at the c/o beach.

Have to laugh about the questions woman ask about the brand of jeans. It's old excuse for you or me to raise up the shirt to uncover the pocket emblems if they are covered to show there some kind of designer ones. In reality these clever woman want me to show off my backside or frontside to get better look. Other excuse woman asking what time is it? Wearing a phone pouch on my belt have to raise my shirt in order to get the time. Often shirt sits on top of the pouch leaving my entire side raised showing off what they really want to see.

It was perfect situation for you and yeah i couldn't help not think i to was stripper amongnst the ladies surrounding you. Imagination goes on overdrive in those situations thinking fantasizing what could be or what these ladies are thinking.

The sneaking picture taking looks to be surprise seeing these women were not teens but obviously had to show their girlfriends talking about you.

How did you answer the question why the boots? Or the gay question and reactions from them. 

Glam lady if she didn't approach you then she had to be jealous of the attention to your outfit. Woman like her want attention from the ladies and compliments, Oh i love your hairstyle, great outfit, beautiful heels, you look great etc... It builds her ego and encourages the glam lady to be model of style and fashion. Sure she hated you for over shadowing her. Yet same time deep down loved your fashion sense seeing you care as much as her having similar tastes. 

You the man w6ish!  You got into a  situation which was to perfect not resisting to exhibit your "heels" and tight skinny jeans. How old were the ladies, were they quality females observing your unique style? What reaction did you observe care to share any comments you  overheard? My guess lot of wide eyed mouth open stares and upper lip bites.

Certain the woman sitting beside you was no accident distracted not paying attention to the conference. You or me probably know from experience exactly where these ladies minds were racing and eyes focusing subtly upon, heels, legs and other parts of the outfit, hahaha. 

What type of length T-shirt were you wearing often tight outfits going to loose with a t-shirt, sweater or jacket may take something off with the entire outfit appearance. Just like wearing plastic bag or potato sack  as top not good look. Initial observation tells me  instinct  that heels were the shock these ladies were noticing then the legs. While sure some may have thought your female at first then did the obvious double take noticing more than they ever seen before. Lots of fun i know that stare and laser eye focus some woman do when i sit down in skinny jeans. I try not to have smirk on my face from there disbelieving stares knowing where they are looking.

While i never gotten myself into your type of situation. I did wear super skinny jeans the other day at workplace.  Skin tight light distressed denim you could see every muscle fiber on my hamstrings to give you idea how tight like a spray tan. Woman looked even my haters just staring as i was at buffet bar getting my dinner. I didn't look at them but i noticed there eyes burning upon my warm hot thighs while they were seated looking upon my legs at eye level as i stood next to them. 

This style gives me hidden smile on my face as these woman stare looking even those i know who hate it. Yet there eyes can't help but look just to encouraging to do wear it more. 

Some ladies hate us for it while others are angry at themselves not looking as lean or the legs they want. Suppose some females have dissonance looking at our bodies and outfits. They can't help themselves yet resent that male should look so feminine which they learned to hate or judge to be all wrong. Whenever i catch them looking upon me i know i did something they love even if they project it for themselves. No compliments for me but that stare is only thing i need to see from the ladies to know i pull it off well.   

Heels at Costco did that before wearing my bootie heels, leather jacket skiin tight jeggings. While waiting in the long lineup at the cashier people looking from behind. Either you love the attention or not. Sometimes you overhear comments couples discussing me. Often the husband laughs out loud while the wife mumbles telling him hush,.. usually the line consist of Asians they smirk observing or single older females finding my outfit special either amusing or very stylish for male to wear out shopping.

Only can say wearing stilettos isn’t good idea because of lifting heavy case of water making it unsteady to place underneath the cart and lifting it in the parking lot. 
 

Do find many if not all my comments dressed up came from workers or shoppers at Costco. 
At the door female employee asked me if I was a model. Then called me liar when I denied it, pulling back the receipt when handing back to me. 
On the negative side one female 20 something was commenting next lane to her boyfriend about me. My cashier began to join in agreeing with her while I stood paying for my items. At the time stood frozen unsure they were talking negatively about me what I was wearing. Chuckled that they openly in front of me were critical of my outfit. 
 

While other times young female would see me and chase me down in aisle to get a better look at my skinny jeans she liked. Her mom sort of knew what her daughter was checking me out grinning upon her trailing behind. Only the daughter got more of eyefull once she seen me at every angle. Then her mom asked whats wrong she looked so stunned. The daughter covered up saying nothing embarrassed what she just witnessed from me. Do look great in skin tight jeans only the asian daughter didn’t expect to see every curve and outline with my lean legs. 
 

Recent visit to Costco didn’t dress up in my low block Designer suede pointed toe booties just skinny jeans and leather sneakers and moose knuckles coat. . Seen this very attractive blonde in Tight Levi’s and snakeskin low block bootie heels similar to what I wear.  Not the design print but style itself low cut. . Could tell she recognized me from previous visits from the store. Remember her with a boyfriend this time she was alone. Could see she was checking out what I was wearing. 
Couldn’t be sure where else I recognize her from maybe another store or gym member.

Later we were checking out at the cashier, her being in the next lane beside mine. While I stared upon her intensely couldn’t help keep my eyes on her extremely sexy body. Looking so good but knew she was wearing cheaper clothes rather designer brand I often do. While I knew she could tell my intrigue about her. Was disappointed I didn’t that one time wear my bootie block heels to the store. Goes to show you never know who you going to see any given day. 

Cat is right. When people see male in heels there is point of no return. Meaning there minds are made up or label has been branded. 

Trying to hide the heels or boots camouflaged so to speak., none notices, is amusing or joke  because many will look eventually. 

Had same type of hang ups not with heels or skirt but feminine workout outfits in the past. Now I wear whatever colour I want or provocative outfits for my own pleasure. 

Those who find my appearance silly or wrong don’t look or ignore me. While others are intrigued, envious of what I wear. 

Just takes strong minded attitude that you careless what others will say. Disregarding  them haters  pointing  plastic fingers or heads turning laughing upon me. Only because they never seen some male wear feminized clothes or heels before. 

She also says whenever trying on heels to purchase, if you can run in them, sold!

7 hours ago, kneehighs said:

Totally illegitimate A/B Test/Pop Quiz!

Does sleeping with a girl before introducing her to my high heel wearing style affect her opinion of me wearing heels?

I got bored.  So I mobile messaged a couple girls.  One I slept with before I showed a pic of me in heels.  One I didn't sleep with before I showed a pic of me in heels. 

Girl A said, "I didn't expect this at all :).  But it fits you :).  You look good, but it's unusual.  I don't completely understand such things and at the same time don't think it's something bad.  So I don't know how to rate it."

Girl B was asked, "Dateable or not dateable?" Girl B answered, "Mmmm, I would say no.  There are a bunch of ways you can make feminine style work and it looks sexy on some even but heels I think is not one of those things."

Guess which one is Girl A and which one is Girl B!

GIRL A

GIRL B

Tough one but females who believe there attractive than other woman have sense of style about them. Girl B looks the type she is modest in her beliefs even traditional thus what she told you was nice way to say Yuk for man wearing heels. 

The other girl A finds it odd but seeing she slept with you is more forgiving yet shocked as girl B. Yet Girl A finds it not issue unless you begin to be serious couple then she may reaccess things that don't make her feel comfortable.

Did the same tonight sent out cache of my premium pictures i shared on the forum and then some to female. Difficult to gauge her reaction will be suppose she will lie say i look great blah blah but deep down think i'm total freak. Doubt it will have any bearing on our friendship although she may not feel as attractive to me as before. 

It has to do with the occasion and desire you want to covet from someone you seen be it magazine walking along the street etc... 

If you buy a parka in the summer there is no desire to wear it, even find it silly to be thinking of such things. When you see others wearing what catches your eye in some lovely heels your brain gets stimulated even desire to wear them yourself. Motivations lust on the way you see yourself wanting to wear it.

Another factor lack of confidence that you can't look as good as you seen others in the same boots, shoes. This makes us take second look finding whatever we intially bought not as we visualized it purchasing it initially.

Many people i've talked to collected or bought items and thought to ourselves how the heck we thought this was a good idea at the time. Later just collecting dust in the closet never returned or worn ever. 

Blame store mirrors and lighting thinking at the time these pants colour looks great and fits me fine. Once you get home you feel terrible buying such  item and want to return it only finding it was final sale non returnable. Look on brightside at least you got your money back. 

6 hours ago, CAT said:

I would have to say that I have had stares on my travels in the leggings and wedges. No comments but you can tell a nice approving glance to a omg are you kidding glance.  BUT I could care less.  What I will tell you is I have great comments and conversations when I’m wearing a skirt and 6inch heels.   Can’t figure that out,,,,, maybe I need to wear a skirt and heels on my next flight!!!!     I also have several (a lot)  Lulu speed tights and the logo is on the left side calf.   Again I have no problem have someone see I’m in Lulu that is marketed to women but when worn properly can look just as good on a guy.  I can’t tell you how may times I have gone into the handful of Lulu stores in my area that the staff knows me and and I have not been in leggings.    I have never had a bad experience with or without my GF   

Cat  i'm glad your not oblivious to reading people's glances and reactions onto your leggings and wedges. Impressed by your cavalier careless attitude for those disapproving of the outfit. My question is how you ignore them with the giggles, laughter or incessant derogatory commentary?

My view and experience is wear leggings as best as i can with latest styles colours i can find.  Like you i don't hide the logo on the left calf. Woman if fashion educated know i'm wearing feminine leggings with colours to match and contrast with. With many glances from woman  about my appearance brings them smirks of the style i bring on daily visits to the gym. Even if woman disapprove of a male wearing feminine clothes they can't help themselves encountering me and smile thinking this guy is so bold wishing them to look as good in yoga outfits. Woman understand they are being scrutinized wearing whatever they want. Yet woman feel self conscious walking by, knowing i'm critical of them as they do it to me. Often see woman hike up there leggings passing by feeling they just don't measure up to me at least in their eyes. Thus they feel envy anguish, jealousy demoralized to even compete with the likes of myself. 

Think it has a lot to do with social media and smart phones. 

People are so preoccupied with that life they don’t notice anyone surrounding them. 

Before people were bored took photos of there surroundings or people they found funny. Now it’s all about there social media friends and constant communication between them. So when individual goes shopping alone they have there friends text away never feeling alone and topics of discussion are endless. 

None noticed guy in heels walking by unless they are bumping into each other from there heads buried on there phone screens. 

Have female friend standing no more no more twenty feet in front of her she didn’t notice me later was leaving. My outfit was outlandish in colour yet no reaction. She was distracted on her phone and thinking what to write next. Even took a picture of her sending it to her . Her reaction OMG! Busy Sexting.  

Her husband noticed her driving next car lane pulling up beside her. She didn’t respond while him laughing video recorded her singing in the car, radio loud with windows open. Oblivious of others surrounding her. 

So people are distracted and involved in there life much deeper then in the past. 

Guess it works for us heel wearing males also. Oblivious of others mocking us and endless intrigue of social media like minded friends. We then have no opinion on people’s reactions to our outfits. Only because we don’t pay anyone attention caring only selective group of people we associate with. Makes wearing any outfit so much easier, 

17 hours ago, CAT said:

My usual travel heels are my Sorel wedges   I just traveled from Chicago to and from Lake Tahoe thru Denver. This was one of my outfits.  I always wear some type of a Lululemon outfit with my 3 “ wedges. 

Surprised nobody or woman specifically don’t give you giggling smile noticing your brand of leggings. 

Often when wearing leggings woman notice I’m wearing same style colour as they own. They become giddy or need to laugh or vent what they are observing. Sometimes can’t believe it needing to comment to others what there observing. 

Added to fact you wear wedges with high socks gets smiling cute reactions from many ladies. 

In my case I try to analyze woman’s reactions of me seeing if they find my outfit silly or envious and cute. 

If I see woman laugh at me instantly know they are closed minded and find my outfit silly foR man to be styling.

Other reactions from ladies of smirks surprised stares tell me they sort of like it yet shocked seeing it working on male. 

Dont wear wedges but navy blue combat leather designer boots which attracts intrigued attention away from my leggings but my boots. I can tell when woman like them or are envious of my boots. 

Often I keep my cache of lululemon leggings I wear in the gym. While on the street skinny female jeans,  jeggings. 

As you can see I try not showing the waistband with logo in the back. Gets more laughs from the ladies when they are intrigued with any leggings I’m wearing. Better keep them guessing when wearing ladies leggings what brand etc..  Somehow when woman aren’t sure what style or brand you have on or gender it’s made for, they are less likely to express a laugh out loud or OmG! 

Yet the reverse is true when I see a lady in same leggings i own. My reaction is noticeable different wide eyed stare with disbelief . While I say nothing or giggle nor laugh woman wearing there leggings feel i’m  infatuated with them. Only if they knew that I wear or own the same clothes and shoes as they do. 

Often find it unfair with opposite reactions when I wear same misty merlot or figue coloured leggings  woman tend to be a gashed. While woman wearing it is cute and fun. 

At least in the gym same people see every time so reactions are mute. Only when I wear something new or matched complimentary outfit woman tend to envy stare longer. Suppose I take that as positive compliment that they like my choice of outfit yet stay quite. Stoic stare no smirk or giggle even wide eye expression observing me I know ladies who seen me before love my outfit. To bad they can’t say kind word or two. 

On 3/31/2019 at 3:07 AM, P08C said:

Thanks for all the great responses. 

@MackyHeels to me it seems like your heels are serving a double purpose. 1. They make you look and feel great. 2. They're helping you filter out the people type of people you don't need in your life anyway. Life is too short to surround yourself with close minded people. 

Thanks for your response as well. 

Your correct in accessing what I’ve experienced and filtered out on many occasions people’s perspective of me. 

Often being surrounded by closed minded people you hope they have a change of heart about my appearance.  Unlikely they do which is disappointing to me. Difficult to treat them with respect knowing how they feel. Makes for lonely exsistance because some are misinformed or uncomfortable with my presence.

Often out of necassitity or lack of luck  i’m surrounded by narrow minded individuals or groups for short time. Often thinking to myself or comparing myself  that some maybe envious or jealous what I wear to some degree. Even if it’s my false assumption or internal delusion about others about me versus them. Helps me cope with what I wear not breaking apart, confident and resolute of there negative amused reactions. 

Only problem i encounter people assuming  i'm gay because of my attire. Even when you tell them your straight they don't believe you. Often giving lip service okay your straight but every opportunity they have gay innuendo persist onto me as some joke they enjoy. Which becomes annoying and disturbing someone believes i'm a liar or won't admit it openly. People like that are tiresome persistent thinking they know others character better oneself.

People who don't want to be labeled as gay are straight single males. When people assume comment to others don't waste your time on him honey he's gay. This type of label can hurt even narrow your choices for relationship with woman.  

13 hours ago, Cali said:

And in more colors and styles.

Only cords today came from the men's side; everything else, including my sweater (jumper) came from the other side. A friend stopped by this morning to pick up a power tool. She doesn't usually see me on my way to work (in my work clothes) and told me I looked good, really liked my sweater. Then I told her the sweater was from VS and she still said it looked good on me.

That happens to me also. Often i believe because women like their certain styles or color of clothes, seeing it on anyone, a man for instance, will often give out compliments regardless. In most of my experiences woman use me as litmus test of the clothes i wear what works what doesn't. They know the brand i often wear,  so they never need to ask or talk to me. If woman are intrigued liking my clothes and i've been told  by some  observing they definitely do go out of there way to look. Then many go out purchasing the same clothes i'm seen wearing.  Sometimes we clash  wearing the identical same print of pants dressed alike. While they notice me as i them, they keep their distance, even laugh being teased by others of our similar taste in clothes that particular day.

While friendly female friend takes pictures of our same outfits like we were twins dressed alike she loves it. While my haters will always be that, never involving themselves onto me, even though it is coincidence wearing same outfit that day.

One reason i wear mostly woman clothes or jeans in particular. Most woman look upon other woman as trend they wear following the style. When they see it on me a male in envious slim legs and fit body they have bewilderment expression which i love. Tells me they have binary issues  of what man and woman should be wearing as a proper style traditionally suited in society. When they observe closely that the jeans fit me perfectly like they are designed and wash is intriguing to their liking. Woman need to re-think their thoughts asking themselves love what he is wearing even envious but he is a man in woman clothes. Everything the know or taught in life of gender traditional clothing goes out the window believing it doesn't matter he looks good regardless. Thus some might say love your taste in clothes or what your wearing looks pretty, beautiful.

Had seen the same compliments from woman about men's sweaters liking them. Only because it's male designed product and enough support woman give they soon be wearing same colour style print in there size owning it for themselves.

One example is camo leggings very masculine print but woman find it very popular taking that style for themselves. When woman seen me wearing it first notice many bulging eyeballs on me, they knew immediately they wanted wearing it for themselves, soon selling out the print and leggings of the brand i wear. It's compliment nonetheless knowing my taste in feminine clothes is in line with them. Although do know many females feel angst or uncomfortable sharing the same style as me as wrong thing for man to wear. Yet once i given them the idea or seen me in something they want wishing they bought it first.

6 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

This is what I love about visiting and buying from custom shoe store or a tailor. You start with the rolls of material and the whole world is yours.  

 

The stretch denim in the men’s department is usually only a 10% elastase mix at most, whereas in women’s they will use 30%+ to get the “jeggings” look and feel.  

It’s amazing all the fabrics most men miss out on because they are not used in their styles. I wonder if it is because we ignorantly gobble up the trash that gets dumped in the men’s departments.  You want trousers?  Polyester.  Oh you don’t like polyester?  Then we can move on to the higher end of the store where we will have wool.  That’s it, we’re just stupid men that would not appreciate anything different.  

When I am shopping trousers in the women’s department, I probably look like a kid in a candy store, running my hands through all the new materials and finally understanding why certain pieces there look and feel so good.  Cotton, silk, leather skins, Lyocell, rayon, viscose...  There is so much to enjoy about the different ways these materials feel, wear, drape, and move.  

The same goes with shoes.  The different hides, skins, shapes, and heels feel and move differently, and it’s a big part of your overall wardrobe experience due to all the physical movement of your feet as you go through your day. 

Some male super skinny jeans Calvin Klein have incredible stretch and comfort no other brand for men i seen. Problem with fabrics is most designs for men aren't tailored to fit tight or snug thus not needing elastic type of stretch. Men designs are suppose to drape a man while woman's are to shape contour there body hips butt etc..

While more men who are in shape tend to flock towards fitted even compression type clothes. Had amusing comments from colleague at work. In jest mocking my tight shirt or fitted pants, telling him i enjoy my clothes tight. He understood very well, saying he sometimes does it to. Funny part he admitted while i mocked myself saying he has difficulty finding clothes that fit tight going few sizes smaller, needing to shop in youth department, both of us laughing....  Little did he know woman fabrics do the same job and better. Guess it's emasculating to even admit saying your wearing woman tight style clothes. 

My latest heel adventure was different from any other time when going to the mall.

Had meet with female friend so called mall date. Was running late as usual so i quickly made my way through the crowded mall parking lot and into the building. Texting messaging was my only thoughts. In the past i would be like some members who have shared their experiences having wrote in there wearing heels in public butterflies in the pit of  there stomach. Little did i care or think i had on heel booties with my skin tight legging jeans and waist length parajumpers parka lined fur hood. 

Once i got to the place for a meet up with my lady friend she acknowledged me before i discovered where she was. She made a scene raising her hand waving me over. As i walked towards her she looked at my heels immediately loving the shoes. Other people she was with were in shock although she introduced me to them. We parted ways from her friends left together walking around the mall to grab beverage. Didn't notice one person around the mall that gave me erie stare or snubbing reaction. In fact i had long time family friend stop me with my lady friend to catch up, but left as quick not wanting to intrude in our outing together. As we sat having beverage together sitting at table seemingly in middle of the square of  crowd of people none seemingly recognize my footwear or skin tight jeans. 

After parting from my lady friend i walked to my car alone through the mall. Seemingly found none gave any care what i was wearing. Total difference if i were alone going on to do my errand thinking what other maybe thinking of my outfit. Looking at any slightest reaction expression from others was my hobby making it more clinic then it is actually.

Later went to another mall alone feeling very confident yet my feet began to hurt from the 4 inch block leather booties. Didn't care what others thought but seemingly was if i was wearing average joe plain clothes and flat sneakers. Knew i appeared very different from others for sure but that wasn't what i concentrated on all day. 

So when questions are asked on the forum is it easier to heel with a woman? Answer is Yes! wonderful experience. Wish more women would accept men in garb i wear. It only takes one and she totally loved it as much as me, noticing me smiling lot more. Suppose it was what i wanted to wear giving me happier expression thinking for that brief time my outfit is  acceptable in public eye or at least tolerated and ignored like every plain joe or jane. Yet difficult for me to ignore some nice looking ladies on my trip that day, pleasant eye candy to observe .

2 hours ago, Cali said:

I feel sad for those who are not “allowed” to wear your heels out with your SO.  As @AZShoeNut  puts it

And this is true also. 

There are many issues involved here: insecurity, jealousy, the fear of not be cookie cutter normal, ...

If you have been wearing heels all this time why should her knowing about it change things. The only difference is she knows about it.

This issue is particular important to me. 

I switched to wearing women’s shoes about the same time I was breaking up with my wife.  The break up had nothing to do with my shoes. I started to wear high heels a few years later when I found the benefit (pain relief) I got from them. So I wear high heels about 70-80% of the time, and I plan to for the rest of my life.

I am presently looking for a girlfriend AND I have decided that I am going to up front with wearing heels. My dating profile includes the lines

“I often wear 4+ inch heels (wedges, booties, ...) for … pain relief”

and

“I'm looking for a woman that has enough confidence in who she is that this isn't an issue or somehow feels threaten by it.”

I know this really limits who I meet, but then again I don't waste my time with a woman with a narrow mind about who can and cannot wear heels.

 

Think your not the only one searching? 

Found one married woman being honest telling about her male preferences when dating.

She had point system if you like can try to gauge yourself upon her rating system.

One she loved males with long hair as most woman no balding men 3 points

Comfortable with his appearance in public basically what your wearing no matter how controversial you do it with confidence 2 points.

Intelligence 2 points, which puts me out of luck Lol..

Overall body 1 point just don't be fat but fit.

Nice smile 1 point be fun to be around, not idiot like me being downer for everyone to read my lamentations.

Lastly just have something woman really sexually desire  and want you know what i mean so does she. 1 point.

If your 7 or higher woman begin to pursue you not need to look thy will find you. 5 or 6 she will accept advances,  3 or 4 could be just friends might get frisky now and again,  1 or 2 no interest. 

11 minutes ago, hernaezjames said:

Thanks for the compliments everyone.  Did not expect that the looks would pass as woman. It was only an experiment and was nervous the moment I walk out of my car and start walking. I think im going to do this again sometime because i like it. Love how it feels.

@MackyHeels i really appreciate your honest feedback. Thank you. I just put together the womens clothes that I have but unfortunately i dont have any blouse in the closet. My nails are polished with plain nude color on it. Tried before putting eyelashes and eyeliner but never got it right and too much of a hassle. My brows are fairly shaped so im good with that. Btw the hair is only wig.

Sometimes people stare because they are not sure or feel something is off about someone. If you go all out feminine the wig or extensions aren’t perfect may look odd for discerning individuals. 

Small stuff is also telling when skinny jeans are slightly baggy not skin tight is sign about someone’s body be it male or female. 

Think you done great job in fact for first time remarkably well, envy you in odd way. 

What puzzels me why the anxiety? Trust me that if walk appearing like that through a mall none would give you second look believing your 100% woman wearing female clothes. Only other reason people may give you second glance noticing your attractive demeanour and style impressed with it. 

Definelty should experiment with different feminine clothes and not worry of any reprucusdions. In fact only thing that might bother you some people may hit on you asking you out. 

16 hours ago, maninpumps said:

MackyHeels ,  Why do you care what others are saying behind your back ?  Pops told me a general rule to live by : "I have been accuse by a lot greater" .  In other words who cares what THEY say . The worst thing you can do is to let them know they are getting under your skin , they will only continue . From what I read in your short novel they seem to be getting under your skin and you seem to need female reassurance . True or False ? 

Respectively , MIP

Like i said in my initial post or as some wrote "novel", i could care less of what stupid males say to one another about me or being intrigued what they are saying, totally oblivious. Only because i heard almost everything someone would negatively say tiresome and boring. If it was a female saying negative stuff about me that's different story i'm more mindful what they think of me. Feel like it maybe constructive criticism so my ears are perked what they are thinking or find funny or odd. Does my colour choices i'm wearing work today; opera mauve or lavender mist  leggings complimented with  aqua mint SS tech shirt. 

What peeves me is that certain things stick when people talk truth or falsehoods about someone spreading rumours etc....  Amused at certain woman i see but never talk to comment about me being a dancer (what kind of dancer not sure) which is untrue and total fabrication in their minds. Yet many people label me as that which doesn't matter to me at all, so what. When others try to label me as someone that does harm to children, belongs in prison, people's ears perk up, true or not, they tend to take a total falsehood seriously and judge me without ever knowing me.  It's reputation you need to defend if men bad mouth a woman being a tramp or slut people sometimes believe in it even though it's untrue. 

So when i noticed my female married friend look serious not talking to me, unknown she was fighting on my behalf among two gorillas, wasting calories trying to set a standard which everyone should be treated with respect no matter how different they appear.  She told them if you have criticism about someone don't talk about it in public do it privately. 

While i do enjoy great feedback what i wear from females, be it a glare of jealousy or indictment snub of envy. Nothing more encouraging then hearing from surprising new woman i wear clothes better than them, or have nice taste in style and love enjoying looking upon my beautiful body. Is this a bad thing?  While at heart i know when i wear something feminine i wear it well and rare encouraging comment is breath of fresh air. Many here have happen to them at some point even posting a small remark about there outfit from strangers.

So my fear is if females do the fighting for my behalf because i tune out the negativity trying to protect my reputation when will this battle stop? 

Many of you find my so called  post negative and unbecoming but i find it reality in life that needs answered. 

When will woman stop defending me from idiots becoming tired of there negativity.  My fear is woman who defend me will become to realize others must have a point and become like them.

Had older married acquaintance believe i was gay but i shamed her from that wasn't true she apologized in embarrassment. She began to set a torch for me trying to persuade other female friends that indeed  i wasn't gay. Suffice it to say her efforts went wasted and she became tired and frustrated convincing like minded female friends i was straight comparing other males in magazines etc... While her efforts went on deaf ears she began with  innuendos i may want to try befriending the gay community meeting visiting gay friends. Found her subtle polite manner all to obvious what she began to turn on me believing her friends i'm gay. Suffice to say i avoided her knowing she changed her mindset upon me yet hides her true feelings in public giving lip service but narrow minded woman.