MackyHeels

Throw away society. Meaning how on earth would you wash them? Dry clean of course but very unpractical. Special order, to get foot size to match the hips and leg inseam has to be custom job for gal like Kim the proportions must be staggering.Lol..

2 hours ago, Cali said:

Kill them with kindness

Thanks. Already have schemed up a plan to get my revenge. First get her to trust me and become courteous and full of compliments and be caring. Yet difficult to do  when someone has no style whatsoever or has no fashion sense.  Or understands caring enough of her fitness approach, diet and physique to achieve any results. Someone who acts very smart judges others as fools in comparison. Yet she can’t understand basic body function between tricep, , bicep or back muscle laughing upon herself as if it was joke. 
 

Often my revenge to hostile gal i can’t avoid is opposite to run away or back down. Have the problem play into my advantage.rather trying fight current upstream I follow the current.  It’s to have the gal notice me in different clothes I enjoy to wear. Hostile gal can’t ignore this on daily basis something new I wear Upping the bar so to speak, yet same style I’m use to. Gal might get angrier even try to ignore me but time wears them down when the truth comes out. Jealousy or envy often is motivating factor for recognizing hate.
 Only my neighbour gal has no jealous bone in her pale old body. Neighbour gal with her narrow mindedness of her beliefs of appropriate attire or lifestyle choices I make is one she can understand or care for. Her belittling behind my back is only way for her to vent disapproval. 

Once my plan takes shape I feel neighbour gal  will get exactly what’s coming to her. Only then I will satisfied not caring ever again what she really thinks of me again. Little will she know will enter into my trap only then will figure out he was only planning for his sweat revenge. 
 

Sorry W6ish if i planted a seed back of your head about tragedy that could occur. Often it can't be shaken off to readily but pokes fear to be cautious at any bumps in the night or footsteps on gravel road.  Although fun experience to read about your screaming gal pal only imagine it being like  Horror movie. Your gal seems to be like some females  afraid a wasp might sting them running away screaming to effect.

Like this covid virus many over reacting to it being female doctors and most woman i observe everyday being overly cautious making it a habit of virtually nothing.

While i was wrong about the cooler temperatures i followed my advice to bundle up to wear a hoodie for my walk last night which turned out very mild. Wore my denim blue gym leggings crops showing off my tan shins and white compression adidas shirt underneath the camo dark black/grey hoodie. While going for long 50 minute walk i could observe how other gals stare upon my outfit. One particular 20 something runner gal was approaching down slope road on a intersection of crossroads. She seen me crossing along her path and line of sight for long distance away. The residential street was empty of any traffic just before dusk at 7 pm. She could clearly see my coloured leggings and body shape less the fitted black grey camo coloured hoodie. slightly unzipped.  As she ran closer to end of the crossroads and me her bulging eyes looking directly at my legs and  dark, bright neon blue  nike sneakers. Her reaction was as if she never seen anyone wear leggings before total shock. It was telling tail that some gals just can't accept male attired in similar female style as her. While gal had on cropped black leggings and white flowing loose running top her reaction was not encouraging to me.

Again i maybe projecting what the running gal might of thought of me. She could easily been envious or jealous of my cropped denim lightly coloured blue leggings or  my body shape although she did look fit and lean enough to care about her body to be running. Yet couldn't shake the fact only  minutes into my evening walk gal took notice what i was wearing and couldn't stop from looking directly upon my legs and sneakers. Even though i have very good confidence to wear what i enjoy. Seeds of doubt often creep into back of my mind that what i'm wearing is wrong or bit much to be showing off on a public street. I'm never one with thoughts of modesty when it comes to my overall body shape to entirely cover up.

Recently seen a young fit lean young gal wearing similar style brand of yoga leggings i wear in a dark charcoal colour at Costco looking what i describe with perfection  fantastic. She had nothing to worry about showing off her perfectly lean legs but did see long white loose shirt curved hem underneath her jacket covering her buttocks slightly. Looked as if she had white bib hanging tucked in the waistband covering her buttocks. Many woman often feel their backside or butt never good enough to flaunt unless they are very plump and round. While i'm not fooling anyone with my lean fit body, showing off what you see is what you get their is no guesswork needed to gauge how i appear. 

Finally approaching 50 minute mark of my walk in the neighbourhood i was crossing a road few minutes away from my street. Seen my blonde old neighbour gal about to cross same way as me but just 100 feet further up the road.  As i crossed being dark outside street lights illuminating above the leafy  tree tops some parts of the sidewalk were darker then others.  i slowed my pace considerably for my neighbour gal  to inevitably catch up behind me which i was hoping for. Only side street to get to both our homes. As i got almost to 3/4 way into my main street which we both live, finally heard my name called "is that you"?  I turn around to look fully aware it was my blonde old neighbour gal. She caught up to me took her forever never occured to ask her how she recognize me from the back calling my name. While i recognize her from distance crossing the road earlier i thought she seen me too thus never wanted to walk with me on her way home.  She never looked at my outfit odd  guess she seen everything from behind we walked maybe 7 houses before we got to her home. Quickly she ended our chat telling me goodnight which again showed her less than enthusiastic interest in me. Normally the neighbour gal is very chatty but forever reason she wanted to quickly get inside her home.  I tossed the idea  she may need to use the bathroom from her hour long walk. Yet i know from past experiences the older blonde neighbour gal disapproves with my lifestyle and fashion sense her being very bland attired wearing office black pants and very old  fashion cheap white walking shoes. In the past caught her once ignoring me while we both walked out of a store parking lot to respected cars. She recognized me but acted like she doesn't know me head straight ahead hope that i won't say hello to greet her. While hearing my heels click clack on the asphalt as i caught up next to her from behind ready for her to recognize me saying hello i turned off into my car parking space.. 

Like to say it was perfect night for walk but from personal interaction and responses  with my appearance shows some ladies are lame and narrow minded with how someone enjoys to style themselves. Only takes select few special females like W6ish has with gal pal to have some freedom being  accepted in attire he so chooses. Although that night out i never got negative verbal response or criticism but if looks can kill and silence being red flag signal often one with good instincts can read feelings people's thoughts about them. Just like my neighbour gal catching up only few houses away for quick banter and goodnight. Seeing i was walking so slowly she would of passed me by without a word while down the road. Since we were close to home she decided a fake polite greeting  and be done with me, What irks me is phoney people being two faced acting civil or politically correct yet once your back is turned they shiver at your style or character mocking you to others as sad weird person or joke someone that should be ashamed and embarrassed. 

How do you deal with persons who are such phonies that is if they keep being polite but know for fact they are hostile to your style? 

For those who say how i know they are negative to me. One from impeccable source neighbour gal inadvertently posed her dislike in not so many words. Heard it second hand yet neighbour gal when posed what she thinks of me says people should mind their business as long he is on his property nothing others could do...etc

The afternoon looks mild temps but the evening mercury starts to plummet. Good luck in them shorts.

Best to walk inside a mall but again the mandatory mask wearing is silly and uncomfortable. Funny that boxes that the masks come in have warning “ this does. Not protect You from Covid 19.” 

stay safe not from the virus nonsense but from incoming traffic. Last thing I want to hear on the news is video showing only White  heels in the road. Someone got hit by semi truck leaving body unrecognizable. Not sure of the victims Believe two woman got hit. Lol.. only dental records Post Mortum will know there identity to next of kin... 
 

Hope you have fun time with gal pal. Imagine your gal pal be sexy as this italian beauty only can wish walking in heels....    https://www.instagram.com/beatricebulferetti/?hl=en What do think of her heel fetish..

Suppose fishnet panty hose or stocking work better then leggings. When i do wear leggings more in public streets since covid rules of limited time spent in the gym. Using my workout gear as everyday attire to and from the gym. With the added neighbourhood walks for my cardio calorie burner in the evenings.  Silhouette  i make appeals to me while no way a gal would ever say something like that to me as you heard. Usually noticing me woman feel bit unnerved that they can't get legs as toned and lean as mine. Lol...

You might want to up the bar start wearing leggings with them heels. Many woman see me in leggings often are envious and jealous. Yet they all don’t need to ask what brand I’m wearing. 
Best compliment I can ever get with my outfit is having gal copy my attire Then when I notice her she feels guilty, which is always fun brings a smile to my face.  Or very least if gal doesn’t respect me for wearing them leggings at least they know we have same taste in fashion and style. Which often comes with validating their outfits by my reaction what they particularly wear. 

You should send her a fun picture of yourself W6ish. She can have a lasting memory of you. See if she writes back.

You probably know type of pictures I would send the gal. For sure she would need to talk to therapist after viewing my pics. Lol...

Always fun to get a reaction. Often gals are  more forth coming about their thoughts with messages then in person. Usually when you plant seed in the sheltered gals eye. New outlook on how she views other males in heels has a momental action. 

On 9/6/2020 at 12:42 PM, w6ish said:

when she said:  boy you sure got the body for it, i have to admit i was in top form!  i was filled to the brim!  nothing left to the imagination and i felt it all over me, including her wandering eyes!  among other things!  super fun stuff.

So what was the hesitation with the gal to take things further? Is she married? 
 

I ran into my married gal pal yesterday after 6 months haven’t seen each other because of this virus craze. 
Her vocal loud hello, and big hug lifting me off the ground, touching,  feeling, squeezing, rubbing her entire body hands against me, out in public parking lot. Her excitement and happiness showed meeting me by chance. Since not wearing a bra under her tight workout tube  top and leopard skin leggings. Making comments how well oiled my dark tan legs lubricated with coconut oil appeared and felt. Later we got indoors walking upstairs her trailing behind me catching up, she couldn’t help feel my ankles on the stairs. Making me almost fall down, but that’s the type gal pal i have not being able to keep her hands to herself when she comes around me. 
Only if I had on heels she be Completely crazed enjoying the view from behind. 
 

few weeks before I sent my gal pal some old pictures of me in sexy heel outfit some may seen before. She replied I look so beautiful. First time I had that specific word from her to describe my appearance. It was comparison photo of bodybuilder asian  woman in similar outfit. Let me attach pic of the female I tried to compare with, see what some may think. 

So why wasn’t your gal comfortable enough to be honest with her feelings with you, enough to make you both happy? Words are great actions mean more and don’t lie. 

 Often I do comparison pics with my gal pal selfies she  takes of herself. She gets kick out of it. Most woman get angry or have negative mindset. My gal pal is cool loving it . 
see image below me on the left. 

 

looking to recreate some pics of gal I seen. 
sometimes the heels are the key for a photo shoot. 
Buying some LB red sole heels makes it impossible to compare  oneself to pro with couture outfit. 

W6ish your sure the gal wasn’t a vice cop? She wanted to feel you out. With the quick coffee and walk she figured your just regular dude not in disguise to solicit sexual favours for monetary gain. 
 

You know the gal better then me. Feel she is cop figuring you out. Only you confused her bet she had gun and badge handcuffs waiting for you to offer parts of your body for her pleasure. 
This whole experience of yours just seems awkward. Very odd at the gals intrigue with no goal in her mind. Usually there is catch like you believed a phone camera or you need to see my friends etc...  puzzles me,  

only reason I think gal you seen is suspected cop. Giving the line I hear often whenever gal rights me off as unattainable or finding last grasp of understanding why I’m outfitted certain way. Her saying “ you got the body for it”. What does that line mean to you?

i come to believe woman say this as to think, he’s not my cup of tea but whatever rocks his boat I guess no harm  in that. While giving you or me a last second look, needing to say something positive before they leave saying goodbye. Looking closely at our physique or body language the outfit sort of suits him... often envy or jealousy takes  centre stage, woman wishing to have legs, lean body to wear tight outfit in some lofty heels.  
 

is there something missing in the experience with the gal? That you can’t share in the forum. Otherwise very odd meeting. 

Rarely hear or have females admit their jealous of someone else no less a male in fitted outfit and six inch heels. Hearing such comments from a female about her envy is turn on but also a shock for me. In many cases females try to hide their feeling for whatever reason.

Is  it because they don't want me to know the effect i have wearing such outfits? 

Or they appear to be not in tune with society norms with ordinary female traditional beliefs not wanting to be different from the pack? 

Most females rather want the opposite effect, labeling  males wearing feminine outfit with assumptions and stereotypes making him feel uneasy and oddity for their bitter deep jealous attitude. 

Do find when i overheard two gals discussing me in the context of my appearance outfit, i can't help closely listen even though they were unaware i heard every word. One such conversation began with one gal admitting to the other of her jealousy of my branded female tight fitting yoga outfit. The other gal agreed with her. At the same time the woman mentioning her envy had to preface it was wrong for me to be in clothes not designed for male to be wearing, for various reasons;  traditional beliefs, attention it brought, modesty. 

Similar to your gal pal W6ish my gal pal tells me don't concern myself with what other females think of what i wear. Often woman expressions  can't be deciphered to see if they approve  or not. Sometimes reading into their reaction upon me can be mistake. Woman could be projecting the outfit i'm wearing even my lean physique to what they are striving for which is attention in subtle way. Often disappointed in themselves not looking the way i appear or bitter they can't have the means or courage  to wear  and stand out without insecurities convincing them out of wearing it.  Such as wearing black outfits feeling people less likely to notice minimal flaws yet envy those that don't.

W6ish your gal pal honest attitude enjoys your company and the attention it brings. Some gals just love to live through others be i attractive female friend or in your case a male with total confidence and blessed physique.  Most important trait woman love is male with superior confidence regardless of how they may feel about their appearance. Wearing something unique for your gender and looking oblivious is lesson many woman would like to master while still enjoying to wear what they want. 

Welcome to the big city diversity is one component and different beliefs of how we all appear. Unwanted negative  opinions are abundant if we want to hear it or not goes with the urban surroundings. Keep your head held high and let the heels do the talking click clacking away..

9 hours ago, w6ish said:

 

it was a blast at the party but i knew!  she was cranking about being too showy but when another gal, the one who said: you look amazing, started chatting me up and getting very friendly and hands on, that got cranky gal into the mix.  classic moment of jealousy taking over!  i ended up spending my time with the gal who said i looked amazing and that really ticked off the cranky gal.  ha!  she tried to keep up but it didn't work for her.  fun times!

but we're still at the cottage!  my new black bikini is working wonders and my tan is coming along super nicely!  going back out there for more tanning before tonight's party starts.  

photo of fun shorts to follow soon but not with me wearing them!  i'll put them on the floor next to the shoes i'm wearing!

(i should have brought my black 7.5 inch heels!!!)

(these  ones!!!)

Suppose different party needs different outfit. How do you change the style without getting bored wearing same stuff?

W6ish you showed dissonance to the cranky gal. No wonder gals get jealous loving your footwear wishing they too could wear such high heels. 

Often is the case of woman agreeing with other females in packs. When one gal finds your shorts distasteful, other females  join in agreeing to the point it' becomes justified and  they bond with agreement against you. That is if they find you awful  wanting nothing  to do with or any trait that they see, only mock with disrespect discussions against you.

Most often then not, gals in packs have the same viewpoint on how someone should dress or be. Lucky for you the other gal had different belief system. Or very least thought things through,  not to judge negatively your style  what the consequences would be.

Like they say, prize goes to the victor. Cranky  gal knew she played her cards wrong being to honest nothing she could do to repair the initial damage to your ego. While good gal might of felt the same but new she could win W6ish over to get what she clearly could see and desired so much, Lol..

As analogy feel your sitation as me seeing hot gal in very short tiny tight dress showing her buttocks off. Her asking if i like her outfit. If i said no, how would i expect to be in her good gracious? How would she give me the time of day let alone any attention. Yet if i persisted after her it would only make me feel like a bigger heel, pardon the pun..

W6ish hope you put cranky gal in her spot fetching you drinks etc... Like teasing a kitten on  a string, sort almost having it, yet pulled  out from under it  at every attempt... Fun night W6ish played things cool with kitten and cat, think they both found the mouse...Lol...

W6ish fun times at the party. In my experience always ask a question that you know the answer.. Gal saying she doesn’t like your shorts because they are showing off way too much oh no, such prude  . She had to rain on your parade. Reminds me of certain redhead three doors down..Lol...Luckily another gal came to save you with awkward situation.  Whenever a woman asks "why" to certain style a male is wearing thats clue to back away nothing good happens answering or commenting further. 

Black outfit is safe style. If you get little risky or bold you may try hot pink or any neon type of colours. Be it  only the heels or tight top or shorts. With bronzed tan white top or heels standout much more looking for daring outfit. Sure you had fun time with the heels oufit out and about. 
Anxiety you felt must of felt refreshing from all the months being isolated. Time to strut your stuff like you mean it...

Had experience doing errand at grocery store wearing camo spandex from my favourite yoga brand after my gym session. While butterflies feeling in pit of my stomach don't exist. Only because of the silly policy of by=law mask coverings  having feelings of bitterness, anger with regards to it. Cancels out any fashion styles i  wear no matter how risky isn't registering as anxiety like normal.  Yet did see many observing me similar to you at the cottage party. Only problem was it was mostly males stunned never seeing dude wear such tight shorts and short tank top like i do so well with that overall dark tan lean body.

Not many females in the store dared to look me over in fact many just minded their business or that it noticed. Only one gal was hesitant to enter the aisle i was in the middle of. From her reaction she noticed far to much for her liking. Again no surprise she being asian decent very conservative with regards to style or fashion sense. While entering the store did observe a 30- 40 year old woman in very short spandex shorts with long top covering her backside. She showed most of her olive skin legs and thighs. Felt little competitive but she never gave me any intrigue only apologizing to move her shopping cart out of my way. Sometimes you get attention you deserve or subtle avoidance from the gals. My hunch is woman often observe much more we give them credit for.

While waiting in long lineup for cashier did see gal in group further ahead of me. She was wearing what looked like a tight fitting  short dress that ended at her crease of her buttocks and lower legs. Only if she were walking the dress would rise up which i didn't notice. So i looked closely trying to figure out if it was bodysuit top shorts sewn together. While she definitely had the booty to wear any of the two options i mentioned. My eyes were stunned  at how abnormally large her buttocks filled out the outfit. From looking at her profile it seemed like she had pillows filled out the short dress body suit. She kept holding her fingers adjusting the hem of the dress cupping her buttocks which is easy for any elastic to hold onto her shapely backside all while on thin body frame.

This is something you maybe looking for. Seamless design.. 

https://www.nike.com/ca/t/icon-clash-seamless-20cm-training-shorts-JP5m5w/CJ5091-601

Easier to buy them then custom order. Although many guy model shorts are not in vogue the kind we wear. Needing to cross the store aisle to get the better fit. Always feel comfortable in shorter shorts 2.5" inseam any longer find them to warm to wear. W6ish you sure did get what  your looking for, with the seamstress custom shorts.

What i think your looking for was what is called booty shorts often found on ebay.  Making the backside cheeky very short coverage yet tight fitting. You pairing it with heels is some kind of adventurous style and eye catching. Good luck hope the custom order works out like you want.

On 7/17/2020 at 6:27 AM, w6ish said:

i do know some gals indeed find it a turn, not sure what this gal was thinking.  but i do know, when the above photo was taken, at that party, a woman did come up to me and say: i am coveting your shoes.  

now that was quite exciting!

Women often afraid to compliment another female appearance. Feeling they are losing status or giving the other wrong idea they are beneath them.  When they see a male like you many questions arise and assumption. Any loss of face or perception is thrown out the window and encounters often happen. 

I look at it as woman observe everything in your case the heels they deem to wear themselves.. While many females in my experience regard a male appearance as many have commented "weird" Whether  in heels or other type of feminine style or colours.  They feel safe even fun or obliged to voice a positive comment observing others surrounding being critical of males appearance. Even if the female herself disagrees of a male style they feel the need to add positive spin or specific part.

Maybe i'm pessimistic or can't take a compliment search for the worst. If it were me in W6ish heels i would question the remark. Asking if just  the shoes she likes or the entire outfit. This way my judgement about the woman making remarks can be tested. Bad apples tossed aside and befriending females who are less problematic and not bothered by the style and gender wearing it.

Vamp across your toes maybe reminder of camel toe, some gals find it a turn on for themselves. 

People need to label others to understand and make sense not be confused. Some need answers to questions that they don’t want or need to ask. Easier to put people in a box. 
If someone looks fit they can assume the individual is health nut. 
Sometimes we don’t see how simple people view us. No matter how smart we think we are. People are anomaly we often never figure out. 
 

Seen couple males who looked bit feminine pink hair shorts. . They had asian young female tagging along with them. 
 

While I was sitting the group sat down near me. Only the female gave me a judgemental scan upon my body. Her reaction what I read was amusing smirk smile upon my appearance. From my point of view felt as she was amused with my style and appearance. Is it my fault that this twenty something asian gal reacted to me which I consider negative. Or was her attitude justified, seeing I looked overdone and someone that couldn’t be ignored. 

On 3/31/2020 at 7:03 AM, mlroseplant said:

So let me ask this question: Is it the butterflies that actually motivate you? If you dialed it back a couple notches, would you even bother? The reason I ask is because I don't see either of your pictured outfits as being particularly radical, except for the shoes. I wear stuff like that every day, but with.  .  . you know.  .  . more normal high heels.

Try not to compare oneself to others. W6ish has is own motivation and reasons wearing outfits that most would normally not able to pull off only being laughed upon. At the same time we all have some sort of itch to display ourselves in manner that excites us or that we find pleasing for  our own eyes. Some may disagree on our outfits or style not being appropriate.  

The whole point is to excite to get a rush "butterflies"  to wear and display yourself  boldly. If you dial it down, it doesn't work or less effective, makes it complete mess of the style which you choose to achieve.

Some of us delight in showing our toned, tanned smooth legs with outfit that is effective to bring the style we enjoy. Doing any other way is incorrect or simply bad idea nonetheless incomparable to which you may reference.

W6ish devised a style for himself that many hear can't match. Invoking lots of double stares not only for his high platform heels but also his displayed outfits that can't be copied readily, size, shape, length of one's physique. Not to belittle anyone for their appearance some just have people glance upon them and look ignore sorry they existed. While some receive intrigue and closer scrutiny of their appearance and outfit which W6ish qualifies in that category..  

Been out of work l almost  a month first organization to do it as many heard on television. promises were made the work schedule will be postponed not canceled. Looks to me without any doubt i'm out of work for at least October at best. No help from the organization all alone now the government shuts down many businesses i frequent and rely on. Only sitting in house like a prisoner only with better food options.  Amusing part of the experience i'm healthy as many are why wasting away and time doing nothing or  ironically my taxes due  i need to pay following month.

Virus is not going away keeping people prisoners ain't stopping the spread. Unless half the populus contract the virus our bodies will make antibodies to fight it. We should go back to living our lives. Once we do those who carry the virus should be isolated and those who are healthy live their lives as normal.  We are only postponing the inevitable. there is know cure for the common cold what sense does it make to believe this is any different. Summer months might be reprieve from isolation seeing virus less likely to spread  or survive because of humidity and warmer temperatures. So waiting for summer isn't option because soon as Autumn arrives we are back to the same drama with the virus.  At least those who survived having  the virus have immunity from returning its severe symptoms.  

Once you take a man's freedom away and how he can make a living. Leaves to not caring about his own welfare. This can lead to careless acts and risks he  normally would never chance. Leads to anger from those who lie or tell small truths of the isolation is temporary measures.  Lot of politicians living under their pillows  hiding the truth trying to keep society calm. 

It's like a bank robber holding hostages in hopes that some way the police with guns surrounding the bank will lose interest at some point and leave. So he can escape with all the money he stole. So to people think if they wait it out virus will suddenly disappear. 

So politician listen to "health professionals" taking prudent steps. Yet want to give us hope saying go for walks take your dogs out keep safe distance from others. Yet our dogs carry a common cold virus and other fearful bacteria  sniffing licking everything in there sights. Yet have no symptoms unlike humans. Once we touch our pets they carry and spread the virus to us, while never considering our dogs are contagious. Soon we will learn, all lessons of isolations means exactly that no pets or anyone smoking letting out particulates from there lungs up to 30 minutes suspended in the air.

Once spring is in the air flowers trees grass pollen spread in air allergies will consume healthy person to be sickened. Everyone will begin to assume they have the corona virus needing immediate testing and isolation. 

Great stuff. To bad you missed out visiting Lululemon and the discount suppose you will regret it after you pay full price for all the right places leggings if you ever decide to purchase them.

Don't you just enjoy Asian gals with there shy intrigued demeanour. Suppose the gals felt safe asking for photos a with them using your impressive girlfriend as phographer.

Your description of these lovely asians often stereotype of a smug, snobbish unappeal to others especially likes of guys in heels. Usually i try to avoid group like you experienced knowing they be giggling, gossiping among themselves about what i must be like or wearing. You showed openness to these intrigued asians  probably noticed you in different light then their eyes initially were focused on.

Had newbie young asian couple walk in the gym seeing me dressed up in leggings. The asian gal had on the same brand and style i owned only reason i looked upon her walking passing me by. Yet she couldn't help stare initially what i was wearing and kept her eyes on me whole time turning her head staring deliberately. The feedback i gathered from her was serious don't know if she found it shocking seeing male dressed like i was or how my body appeared in the leggings. Either way another smart young fairly fit female working nearby with her trainer commented about me in some manner having chuckle with the trainer, good or bad think it was bit much for her to concentrate seeing me in her line of sight. Although i knew i was well dressed which was part of the initial appeal to gather some attention from the ladies in the gym.

Any specifics you want to share that appealed to you in the asian experience PM if you can't share details in the forum.

Don’t forget it’s international woman’s day. Lululemon has 20% discount on clothes when checking out. 
One sales gal gave me discount while another time told me I need to be female to get it even buying there clothes. 
let me know if you got the discount today?

What did the church woman comments you had to overhear or judgemental reactions?

As boring as the scene was described the crowd your gal pal might want to change her outfit to more daring just like yourself. When in company of a friend wearing dolled out outfit whatever you wear seems appropriate, both standing out of the crowd.

You should of entertained yourself better flaunting your heels by one foot rocking back and forth while legs were crossed. 

Outfits aren't total waste some might of enjoyed the show but to shy to admit it. You know if some woman act disapproving of your appearance they care a lot more then ones that ignore you.

I'm sure few ladies left the night thinking about you difficult to forget what they seen. 

5 hours ago, fashionablefun said:

I wore the exact above outfit today to lunch and shopping for a new bag at Coach, where I have purchased leather bags previously -- and this time I got a comment. The Asian sales associate was profusely complimentary about my shoes, telling me multiple times how much she loved them. She asked if I had purchased them there, at Coach, because she had an identical pair from the store. I told her I did not, that these were from Aldo, but she said they were a great color particularly for Spring and go well with a lot things. I feel like Asian women are more enthsiatic about high heels than Caucasians. 

Great outfit and heels well done.

Your opinion about ethnic groups is more likely by happenstance rather true ideology. Woman of all types of backgrounds have opinions or preferences what they feel looks great or not. Can tell you from experience Asian females are less enthusiastic about heels or cutting edge fashion and less likely to compliment someone out of fear or shyness.

What you have experienced is someone who wears certain specific item be it leggings, top, hairstyle, or in your case pair of court heels in exact same colour. This affects another individual deeply in emotional level seeing someone other than them, wearing their favourite shoe. 

From my experience if i see some gal in same outfit i own and wear, maybe not that particular moment or time, it is profound effect mentally.  Have  two options compliment the other person, or get angry that there wearing same piece of attire i also own feeling there copycats, or looking stupid being around someone wearing the exact same thing.

Usually when woman notice me in a favourite piece of clothing they adore and own, often speak out or react to it. Remarking they love XYZ,  learning they have deeper connection towards me only because we wear the same fashion item style, colour etc... 

Rarely if not all the comments regardless of gender fashion rules women will need to share their opinion either with me or someone close by. Overheard many comments, "OMG, i have the same button shirt as he is wearing". response is often so what! While other person doesn't feel the sense of connection those who share the same item often believe there is special bond amongst us. Rarely do woman judge saying, "yeah, he's a man it's not right to be wearing them heels", or whatever else it might be. This is forgotten only the exact same item your wearing is focal point in their minds how wonderful to look upon.

While i keep to myself when fashionably attired do try keep my distance from females who i paint with wide brush being judgemental with my feminine outfits. If i always expect the worse reactions from  woman regarding my fashion sense, then i don't feel disappointed or bad with what i'm wearing. My reasoning not asking permission nor there opinions how i appear. 

While walking in a mall passed many woman shopping in my heel booties. Can't help overhear comments behind my back from others. Such as, lot laughter OMG! he has same brand booties i wear, more laughter.... Usually i walk away fast enough getting away from the crowds  myself not getting blocked from slower people thus passing all so i don't inflict more comments or negative judgemental opinions about my style.

SA females often mention whenever i purchase piece of clothing such as two pairs of leggings  that colours are complementary would go well together if one was a top rather amusing comments.

Most of the time i try to get new items to wear just when there introduced. So any likelihood being stopped or commented upon that they own the same item usually isn't likely to happen. For one thing same woman who see me daily basis in new outfit colour style they will be less likely to copy or purchase when observing me  in it initially. While the response from same woman i observe often is anger or judgemental disapproval only because they want to wear something unique and i spoiled there chance seeing me in it first. Suppose i can enjoy some judgemental ladies gritting their teeth stewing there anger observing my new outfit. In a way it's my payback for most females for judging my style as negative teasing them with smart coloured outfit.  

The best response is silence and ignoring me when i wear new outfit. When i observe the same haters daily females reaction seemingly don't care about my outfit. Yet fun to watch over time many beginning to wear the same item hiding themselves ashamed to be seen by my eyes. Only because they liked the outfit initially and had to buy it for themselves. 

4 minutes ago, K2inheels said:

Sounds like you have been burned when giving a woman a compliment. I've had my share that just give me that, "Okay, now leave me alone" look. But most times they respond well to what I say. Maybe I come off as less threatening than you do. I have a tendency to be friendly and warm when I am out in public. I smile, say hello to strangers. I am at ease speaking to a woman and I have no ulterior motive than to brighten their day with my compliment. We all appreciate a kind word.

So I will still encourage people in general to be encouraging to people you meet, maybe say, "Love your Shoes!" Can't hurt, but it could just brighten up somebody's day.

Ciao!

I've had compliments from woman they have agenda for the most part. Either they want to stop me because they want to purchase the same clothes or shoes focusing on it not my body or anything else. Often woman preface it with my husband asked me, my children say mom, my boyfriend told me i need new outfit, etc.. all to disarm me that they are not cruising for a date or alone. 

Only there focus is on one thing my shoes or pants sweater asking the brand or see the label. Often asking where i purchased it this is not a compliment but a selfish act to get what they want copying my particular style. Yet may hate me wearing it but think it looks good on him will look amazing on me. 

Smiling helps but i expect nothing out of life so i don't ever get disappointed. So when guy the other week at Walmart asks me about my designer  Moncler puffy winter shiny jacket where i got it from. Tell them exactly where without searching for expecting any compliment. Usually from peoples initial wide eyes upon me in the store they noticed my designer jacket liking it but don't need to say it. 

1 hour ago, K2inheels said:

I've been in the same situation countless times. Whether I am wearing my heels at the time or not. I've always taken the opportunity to compliment her shoes and to engage in conversation. When I am wearing heels (which is about always) I still give a compliment which many times turns into a conversation about shoes, heels and wearing them. I've have not had to many women rebuff me for a compliment given. I think the majority of women appreciate someone noticing their style and giving them a thumbs up on it. I know I appreciate it when a guy or woman gives me a compliment on my heels. Kinda of makes your day that someone noticed.

So don't hesitate to give a woman a compliment on her shoes. I am sure she will smile and be flattered.

Ciao

In my experience usually i read females perceptions or reactions  once they take a good look at my style. Most times woman are put off with the feminine fashion attire at least for a man to wearing. In many ways female gets confused with my intentions jumping to conclusions assuming i have agenda which creeps many out.  

Often think i look good wearing certain clothes but especially some critical woman may have totally different outlook what i'm wearing. Them thinking this guy looks so creepy giving me compliment,  huh! Just look at what he is wearing, look at the source of compliment be polite and get away from him fast as possible, look at her phone distract him from talking to you anymore, it's embarrassing to be seen chatting with him, what a freak! 

While giving quick compliment often is less satisfying to a woman if they don't respect your style. They just nod politely smirk and  uncomfortably walk away, hoping to never meet up with me again. Yet if they see me say later in parking lot or in a line up at the cashier again will feel very uncomfortable in fact being afraid being alone.  If they are slow to catch on female getting the compliment might stand deer in the headlights confused making judgement call on my attire and reactions are ever so obvious. Usually negative expressions or body language tells me should of minded my business said nothing at all. Only making me angry or thinking she is a real Bitch while feeling i'm lowering myself towards her. 

Problem today women are afraid talking to strangers  the ones being unusually or femininely attired in heels or skinny jeans find it troubling. Unless woman your talking to assumes your flamboyantly gay, talking with lisp, gesturing in feminine manner. It can be  entertaining and amusing to listen a story that could be told to friends  or boyfriend or husband, honey, guess who i met at the supermarket today? He made me leave  laugh crying afterwards.

Biggest problem i experienced when complimenting a woman is she need to stop my good gesture by mentioning being married having boyfriend loving her children so i don't go down a road  assuming i'm traveling along. After she digest my honest meek compliment,  feeling bad for me. Assuming i'm lonely and i'm being kind to them so while they are abrupt to shut me down putting on the brakes of the compliment they need to respond in another good way to make face.

This is where i regret giving out a compliment when a woman believes telling me the hard truth will hurt but is for your own good how i'm being perceived. Her telling me what people are saying behind my back, all bad. Correcting my appearance suggesting  another set of eyes helps in how we see ourselves giving example husband does to her . Then trying to adjust my appearance telling me heels don't look so good on a man, tight pants either, suggest other form of style which would look much better, woman love that you know... etc...  After the chat i only brings me down and regret ever mentioning a word trying to be friendly. While the female in questions feels i was hurt with her suggestions, pitying me, more so wanting to console if we meet up again.  

Woman repond thinking i have good heart giving her a complement thus she can have maternal feelings back helping the poor confused man like a son. Change his perception find  a partner that can make him look like a real man, masculine in every way. Only then her job is done feeling better about herself and fixing society problems she believes are out there.

Ever have that chat from compliments given she retorts changing your style to mainstream male appearance thinking she is doing you a favour. Like telling you have spinach on your teeth or bad breath  saving any embarrassment for benefit of others.