MackyHeels

Has anyone come to your defence  knowingly, when your unaware others are talking negatively about your style or appearance?

Had two such incidents one very recent. Didn't know at the time couple euro males were discussing me in their native language.  Was oblivious to their comments or discussion not a clue they were bad mouthing me to no end. What these men didn't know, having a friendly female i known for over 15 years beside them understanding clearly what there saying about me. She kept her cool but when they jumped to  ridiculous, insane assumptions of me, she lost all control keeping quiet. 

She let the men have it telling them so, never talk about others negatively when you don't know the person basically was her comments. Then she began to compare there physiques to mine and criticize their bodies shaming them. Both males left not wanting to make a scene, but she agreed with them better for them to get lost, mocking them even  further for everyone to hear. She later told me what just happened i was speechless and not knowing how to react, she couldn't believe how she confronted them. Even people around her agreed, yet stood in her defence in case things got out of hand with these burly males. Found the negative comments made of me amusing but a first how ridiculous it sounded. Although use to hear all types of mocking negative descriptions labels so often it roles off my back. Like the old saying goes, Eating S#&T get use to it, how people treat you. So i was touched by my married females defence didn't know if i should cry with joy give her body hug seeing she is married and misconstrue my intentions. Always find my female friend very flirtatious caught off guard on many of her comments to me.  

Suffice to say the comments made of me were not to pleasant by the euro males.  Found it amusing that married woman who i casually seen over the years comes to my defence regardless of the consequences that she may incur by these ruthless males. She later explained the the root cause coming to my defence stems from a ex-boyfriend she dated long time ago. Telling me he liked to wear g-strings lounging at the pool.  She often defended his style found it really odd someone would label it gay or strange because what he liked to wear sunbathing. 

Wanted to share some experiences of mine to her about getting ridiculous comments made of me by shoe SA which i shared hear on the forum before. Just find explaining what pair of shoes i was looking to buy, would maybe startled her senses a little bit, many of you know exactly what i'm talking about. 

My female defending married friend is old school but gave me ample opportunity to learn more about me which i stood silent.  My female friend when explaining about her ex-boyfriend g-string proclivity. She seen me before wearing tiny speedo brief swimwear to the gym pool often, years ago, asking if i still did. While hesitating staying silent in large group of people easily overhearing our conversation not giving clue that i also thong wear g-strings at the beach and pool from time to time. While she was trying to explain motivation and examples what you wear doesn't equal a stereotype of sexual preference or deviant behaviour.

After the fact a male friend of hers, told me in front of her don't listen to those jerks after i was informed by my defending female friend. Found it very nice thing to do on her behalf.

Wondering how many more  insults of other people stand by listening in, minding their business, or smirking agreeing standing silent with negative commentary being said openly about someone that looks different? At my workplace they have rule ones who stand by staying  silent hearing negative comments is just as guilty as those making comments and treated with the same punishment.

6 hours ago, SF said:

AZ....   I like those shoes!!  But the heel is way to high for me.  Glad to see you are getting out especially in this rainy weather.  

I have had similar experiences where people see me in heels and sort of gawk or stare.  I think it's funny.  The few times it has happened I just want to ask, "so do you like my heels," and see what they say.    It is fun to be out in heels, I just wish there were more guys out there in high heels.  Have fun and stay dry.....    sf

It all seems fun. When you do ask, “do you like my shoes”, and they look at you strangely saying nothing what’s your reaction? 

Sometimes adults who do gawk acting like children need to be taught a lesson or at least recognize there impolite stare. . Suppose a retortical question needs to be asked. If they answer, “no! are you crazy, wearing woman heels”. I would look like a deer caught in the headlights, egg on my face.  Sometimes giving open question makes you vulnerable having others comment of your bold and shameless style they may assume of us. 

Had infatuated woman I often frequent at the gym but never talked to stare upon me in aisle at grocery store. Seen her stand looking upon me at the top of the aisle frozen with disbelief. While I was reading label of item on the shelf. Little did she know I was aware of her intense stare from corner of my eye. As soon as I began to move she  quickly ran off with the shopping cart buggy. Then I thought she didn’t want to communicate recognizing me from the the gym. Yet found it strange she didn’t acknowledge me by commenting your that guy from my gym. So I left passing her from checkout line without a word. Although did notice she was disappointed  that I ignored her. 

Did find it amusing and cute seeing her being intensely intrigued observing me in my summer street clothes. Not wearing heels but plenty of leg in short shorts and tanned skin showing must of shocked her from my usual feminine yoga wear i attire in the gym. 

Wondered often if I used the line, like what you see? I probably know what her answer would be. Yet doubt she would tell the truth thinking i’m to conceited or prumptionist of way I apprear. Best to leave not start with her knowing she has history of one track mind. 

6 hours ago, SF said:

 

1 hour ago, bluejay said:

Hey MackyHeels,

Do you have a pair of those snake skin leggings? Do you wear them out?

I have several pairs of Hue, faux leather leggings and I do wear them out and about with heeled shoes, booties and knee boots. I recently got a pair in silver/pewter. Look great with my black Aerosoles, "City Council" booties. 3-1/4" chunky heels. and a black fleece , long length, tunic 1/4 zip. Got a couple of compliments from my lady friends. And yes, I do have a pair of those white heeled booties, too.

Happy Heeling,

bluejay

No snakeskin leggings for me. Few years ago bought waxed burgundy wet look AG jeggings didn't like how they looked. Although maybe bring them out of my closet with right outfit.

Happy you got pair of those pointed toe block heel white booties. Like the diva with Alexander wang black suede studded booties.

You may try Kimono jacket, different to a blazer but office functional. 

Few pictures of examples of my typical workplace attire. If you ever want to go with the skinny leggings leather or in this example snakeskin. No need to go with denim, yet highlights heel booties. 

As far as woman’s reaction seeing me wearing flare golden  cords. It was years ago, you could say I had the Saturday night fever style, Lol..  Yet conservative woman would comment to there man about it. Yet whenever I wore woman’s button up dress shirt they immediately tell there man, I have the same shirt.., while there man cares less retorting, so what. To my amusement.

Understand the discussion brought onto you about the males dressed alike looking for heels.. Often whenever I’m in room someone observes others wearing unusual outfits, I’m asked about it or commented upon in comparison.  

Fashion is evolution of what we feel at the time. Don’t half ass your outfits out of fear.. People seem to accept your style in the office so don’t hesitate to try all feminine shirt, blazer, pants and yes those silk multi coloured beautiful stilettos. The better you evolve your style more compliments you will attract. 

On 1/11/2019 at 3:59 PM, p1ng74 said:

2 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

After walking around the hotel this morning I still could not let go of the thought of wearing this into the office.   So I put a belt on it and just followed my heart, so to speak.  

While the jacket is contrasting, I feel it dials back some of the edge of what is going on at the feet.  

And guess what happened at work today?  Two guys showed up in the exact same shirt and pants, and it was the first thing to be talked about at our team meeting.  Wasn’t me, though someone jokingly asked if they found some heels (in reference to matching my new look). I offered to take them shopping... 

That’s unbelievable that two other guys wearing same pants and shirt as you. Have they seen you wearing the shirt before? 

The pants are flare have worn corduroy gold ones before tight at the hips. Many at work also noticed making comments woman in particular. Now I stop wearing flare cut pants anymore only cigarette  or skinny crop leg styles. 

Ever consider wearing female blazer. Only because it may style better to the pants. Men’s blazers seem to look baggy. You can roll up the sleeves also nicer button silky blouse in white or cream colour may complete the outfit rather a plaid shirt. Try to shop at Mango for female shirt tuck it into the pants with nice blazer styled to contour ones body will look extraordinary yet professional. 

You will notice that pushing the envelope of conservative office wear your outfit will soon look boring in your eyes. Once you gotten the blazer and shirt and other gray pants similar style it would be time to express your heeling inclination. Spice up a dark charcoal black outfit with some red burgundy suede stilettos from Shultz. . You be surprised at how much fun you be having styling yourself and not second guessing to wear to the office.

 

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On 2/9/2019 at 4:22 PM, bambam said:

...are so firkin comfortable!! I just tried a pair I got off of amazon, and I couldn't believe how lite and pajama like they were. I let my gf try a pair of my Levi skinny jeans, and she couldn't believe how rough and 'rugged' they were, like I should be ready at a moments notice to wrangle a cow in the streets of LA. Only problem is, I don't have any shape, I'm just skinny, so the bulge in front is quite unsavory, otherwise my butt looks great from the back. 

One of the reasons males who have the necessary equipment liking to show off can, wearing ladies skinny jeans. Sort of compare it to ladies with open cleavage showing there large breasts finding it sexy to being able to flaunt ones body shape legs, breasts, buttocks and yes males bulge. We all know woman are intrigued and wired liking to subtly looking at men's bulge regardless the pants we wear. Lot more fun and comfortable  for me in ladies jeans. The wide eyed smiles or subtle glances i gather encourages me more knowing other ladies find me initially disgusted jealous, envious, confused. Yet after closer inspection the same observing woman comment to themselves when staring upon me from a safe distance using the same words "it's huge" or "he's huge" . Only reading their lips while they stare stunned upon me many times.  While owning handful of men's jeans and everytime i wear them, thankful of my cache of woman jeans i wear on daily basis in size 26. Also most woman i see wanting to get better closer look get excited when i wear tighter jeans with shorter top gives them ample opportunities to subtly glance at my bulge.

Often when needed you can cover up for more modesty sake, ,so no excuses not to be wearing tight soft stretchy women jeans.

https://video.asos-media.com/products/ASOS/_media_/29d/29d4383c-7822-4f20-977c-dbdb2fe776c9.mp4

While many skinny woman wear leggings or skinny jeans often observe them wearing long top covering their backsides. Confuses me to no end asking myself why? Seeing they are slim and lean why not have your booty shown. Answer to that question is, know matter how fit or skinny woman are, they find there buttocks flat when viewed directly from behind. Only special few ladies with very plump buttocks can get away showing their backsides in skinny jeans or leggings. Depending on the design of the jeans the buttocks can become a pancake under the denim. lot to do with the denier weight of the fabric  or type of cotton used. Often find Japanese cotton is soft and forgiving contours you backside better AG Jeans does great job upon most of their designs. 

There is stereotype when Yanis was on Britain got talent television show. He and his boyfriend made it evident there a couple or the looks of it, which is fine. Although brings heeling and dance as a gay dominated endeavour most people may view, 

Feel people begin to believe if your female in heels is okay and normal.. Openly gay male in heels is acceptable, maybe novel and amusing and entertaining to watch compliments are given. Straight male in heels just strange, puzzling or, confusing often bringing unacceptance as fashion style staple. Avoidance and re-assessment of said  straight male label him as gay or mentally disturbed. 

Even the host Simon on Britain got talent told them doesn’t know and probably doubts society is ready to accept any male in heels in popular culture seriously, 

21 minutes ago, nzfreestyler said:

its sort of funny

I got my first pair a long time ago - the kind of shoe you get just to have it cause its such an iconic shoe.

They are not my favourite shoe shape/silhouette, they are comfy (when you get sizings right) but I get so many compliments in them.

I think it is just the lean heel shape - which I don't like that much (give me the skinny So Kate or Hot Chick heel anyday) that makes the shoe popular.

I am wearing them again after a haitus of several years and instantly getting compliments and the shoes often recognised for what they are.

I suppose its like choosing something thats ok in my mind but I know is most popular with others.(probably sums up a lot of fashion trends and why we wear them?)

I get it your wearing it so people give you compliments. Could be said with exact opposite if someone you believe has good taste in style respecting their opinions when wearing something novel, they reject it, back into the closet it goes never to be worn again. 

Many people have the same response sometimes some things fit uncomfortably, or hurt wearing them yet you get good reactions to it. Yet in your mind you don't care for it that much yet when the need arises wounds heal you attempt to wear it again hoping for the same reactions as before. 

If you have something that is years old yet looks timeless wearing it for yourself often isn't as exciting as another person initially observing  it.  New trends and styles often bring brighter uplifting smile on my face then older outfits yet in pristine conditions. Something about my eye gets clouded from the visual picture i see myself in gets less stimulating to wear. 

If you want to know a way for heels on males to be somewhat mainstream Yanis can help make it happen with the art of dance some people can appreciate, read the comments ladies have given.

https://youtu.be/OuXIo_xTmto

Anyone heard of Yanis Marshall?

https://youtu.be/jsIz1L4NM6E

1 hour ago, Jkrenzer said:

I hear, he's not to fond of guys wearing his shoes. Odd, as I believe anyone devoted to designing high heels must have at one time or another tried one on.

He said men in heels Ridiculous! Really, while Prince wearing them on stage was okay? If that's his attitude why buy them. JImmy CHOO Anouks are just as nice. Yet something tells me designers have the same mindset males wearing stilettos, i'm sure  Jimmy's niece designing his shoes now has the same female negative mindset about men wearing heels.

http://fashion.telegraph.co.uk/news-features/TMG9210721/Christian-Louboutin-I-dont-care-if-my-high-heels-hurt-women.html

HOT CHICK 130mm https://youtu.be/6unZmth9H6I

Why the heading of his sexual preference makes heeling yet again for straight  men discouraging or boxed in with certain stigma. Take a view of some comments left. Not turning heads but stomachs... Although he did say getting compliments wearing them i believe him.....

https://youtu.be/KxX3Xf5uvhE

4 hours ago, Cali said:

I think the difference is I don't do anything to draw attention to myself. Especially at work. In this new era we live in, you don't want to do anything that someone might label as harassment - you don't want this stressful irritating inconvenience in your life.

At the waxing place, I didn't go out of my way to "show" the woman up, I didn't react except to smile. What is to gain from it?

Like what JeffB does, I make sure that what I have on is impeccable. For example: for the last few years I have had my fingernails colored with gel.  They are impeccable, both women and men are impressed, envious. I have different nails every time - drives my nail artist crazy (in a good way). But she always delivers big time for me always impeccable.

Agree with you about harassment my intentions are never that.  Let me give you example what i mean little later on.

As for your question What is to gain from it? Showing up negative woman.  Simply tell you what there is to gain getting even with many females of there negative mindset and belief system. Ever encounter woman that has drawn the line of what a male shouldn't wear. Those type of woman persist and none has taught any lessons.

Yes, some here on this forum when spoken or overhearing snide remarks about there outfits, have given quick smart remarks back at them. While my  approach is silent treatment letting my outfit do the talking. Understand there are some woman you can never cross or will be put in my place very quickly hiding with tail between my legs. While majority of females have narrow outlook upon male fashions and it disturbs and annoys them when some guy actually looks presentable, well attired. Yet i feel i can change some woman's mindset or put them in there place. 

For example when i target a female i notice what she is wearing and study her demeanour. Often i see ques or observed her often enough to get vibe what she is about. So when such opportunities strike i jump on it quickly analyzing there reactions and others surrounding us. Recently i was at the gym doing stairmaster and all of a sudden a untoned asian lovely young woman comes walking along in front of me. There were treadmills empty all along the row she choose one in front of me.  Seen her before she gave me scan noticing my superb feminine yoga athletic outfit. She started to walk slowly increasing to a run on the treadmill and made sure she adjusted her new Luxtreme black legging crops hiking them up, with obvious panty outline and lowering her light blue lululemon spaghetti tank top to cover her assets as best she could. Couldn't resist after finishing my Stairmaster cardio time to give her a show and few other older ladies to boot. Instead of using treadmill next to the ladies that were available i decided to go in front of there line of sight with other row of treadmills which they couldn't help but notice me. As i used the treadmill  to cool down from my workout, i practiced my high heel walk or strut one foot in front of the other in straight line heel toe etc... As it's good practice walking when i wear heels it by default accentuates my gait or entire backside when wearing naked sensation leggings and fitted compression long sleeve swiftly tech top. With the correct colour choices to complement my gym outfit i feel very confident strutting like peacock.  Other female passer byes give me smile observing me often at my presentation. Some older married woman pick vacated treadmills behind me smiling smirking to other like minded woman at who there observing in front. The asian female quickly notices me begins to put her head down as she was in my peripheral vision behind down to my right. She finally heeds and stops her run and brisk walk on the treadmill. Maybe she finished her cardio or felt despondent to observe what was taking place in front of her mainly me. 

Lesson learned i feel woman can look at someone like myself and honestly say male in feminine athletic wear can look unbeatable and at par as most women. So no hang ups should exist if the asian female has a  boyfriend wants to wear similar leggings out in public without her  judgement or anyone else's. Feel i pave the rooad for acceptance for straight hetro male to wear feminine fashions and look good doing it. Just like nzfreestyler, Cali do to well thus none says boo to discourage or shame them for there taste in fashion.

Don’t believe my entire experiences are terrible. Those good experiences are forbidden to be posted or mentioned on the forum. 

Yes, I like to get under most smart females skin. When I see gal eyeball me in odd manner or have enough information about her that she disapproves of my outfit. I subtly show off making myself seen  to everyone including her. Only then people can judge and compare me to the disapproving female, what I wear is so terrible or wrong. Often is the case  the female I target becomes self conscious about what she is wearing and her physique. Usually notice not to long the disapproving female, leaves abruptly or believes she is being shown up not participating in the spectacle I created for others to observe with my presence and outfit. 

Sometimes just by accident I unfortunately create an aura that some meek, self conscious ladies find intimidating thus avoiding me nearby. While those who feel that way can learn from my feminine style and helpful insight to better themselves rather running away.

As Cali pointed out in his experience of waxing and woman’s reactions. Understand and find it amusing getting same reactions from unsuspecting conservative ladies. Like many married older woman that don’t take things to heart or  fashion seriously, keeping things positive. Most will chuckle at the entertainment value of my outfits and not be fazed by me whatsoever. 

When it comes to alcohol woman can me belligerent and act inappropriately towards items or people they dislike. Many woman are not alone and when they have a fit with us one member shared with me, they are tempered or restrained by sober individuals to stop and leading away for any physical contact.    

Like many male co-workers i talk to telling many women hate me at work.  They laugh it off not knowing why. While i know these woman feel i show off having snobbish, entitled  attitude about fashion. Them believing there sub standard of there clothing yet they recognize how i wear things they die to be wearing it. When they find i don't give them any attention they feel i belittle them with smart smirk therefore hatred exists. 

As i experienced in the gym woman first hate me seeing my attire then become adjusted. Later as time goes on there true feeling comes to light accepting my style even loving it. So to in the workplace, yet many find the walls i build around difficult to have any contact.  While difficult for any woman to give me generous compliment lowering the walls i built for protection of the arrows pointed upon me.

Don't know if anyone has been assaulted physically not verbally abused for wearing feminine attire such as heels or feminine clothing?

Had experience recently at my workplace where i got white wine poured onto me from third floor balcony. Security didn't catch the female  tossing over top of me, yet felt what i was wearing a  feminine Tunic sweater that was clearly visible for many to observe.  Some could say it was accident or fluke not intentional targeting me. Yet i suspect many fashionista females giving me long serious glares what i wear at work as though they recognize the outfit or sweater. Often i wear feminine button down shirts, sweaters and the included  pictured tunic  i got wine poured on top of me. 

Not trying to be paranoid but have many encounters with fashionistas at my workplace who don't speak to me because what i wear being feminine designer skinny jeans etc.. Found sometimes when i have my back to them doing a task bending over, woman come walking by pretending to give me a running kick in there heels like punting a football. Male co-workers give me heads up, saying look out! Yet the females only smile saying there playing around joking only to appease the other co-worker looking out for me not siding with her. Although knowing the amount of hatred of me from certain females at work, it's rooted with the feminine clothes i wear, me recognizing it being envy. jealousy, and anger at times.  Also many find me peculiar that i pay no attention to there meek flirtatious advances.

Know many females reactions stems from overhearing the gossip, rumours  that spread throughout the company about me. Being very visible in the workplace many recognize me without actually knowing  or seeing them. Sometimes standing in elevator waiting to get off certain floor many woman in the office have a very wide eye stare upon me even when attired in relaxed masculine attire.  Once had encounter of couple  drunk female of male co-worker standing in the elevator we all shared, she was giving the whispers of,  "it's him" giving me a odd drunk greeting,  she glad to finally meet with me shaking my hand as though i'm someone famous or been discussed before, again rumours gossip people spread.

As you can see in the picture the tunic in question. Although was wearing male black chukka boots with female cigarette leg AG tight blue jeans over top. Hesitate to post the picture describing the incident feeling someone would recognize me from the workplace from the forum. So i will leave it up for a while before i delete the photo. 

Question is has anyone had backlash from the heels they wear or clothes on there back making woman angry?

Feel it's simply jealousy for woman to take some way of getting attention they don't particularly enjoy seeing male in feminine clothes. By ruining the said clothing by throwing a drink or etc... 

Discussed the topic  with another member of the forum of angry jealous woman being drunk and loud not liking our styles in public. Often woman want to start a fight with us for wearing our selective styles in public somewhat provocative other times modest yet can't let it go.  We concluded some woman feel a deep hidden desire lust for our style and proud displaying our physique without any shame. When these haters think of why they react negatively at first upon me they realize there at odds loving and hating at the same time. 

On 1/24/2019 at 12:18 AM, p1ng74 said:

I’ve been wearing my OTK boots under trousers, but I more fully appreciated the role of OTK boots in winter weather tonight as when I ditched the trousers for my first extended outing in an edgier outfit.  I bundled up like I usually do, but the OTK boots did the job of keeping my legs warm on my shopping trip to Last Call.  I got a few long looks at my outfit while spending over an hour there, probably due to the more fashion-conscience audience and the fuller exposure of my footwear, but I had a good time shopping.  I didn’t end up buying anything, but I tried on an item that had potential and gained general familiarity with the kind of brands Niemand carries.  

There is also a noticeable increase in boot inventory there over the last 7 days, indicating that we may be nearing the end of “boot season”.  Among other things, some Stuart Weitzman OTK boots were sitting in boxes at the front of the store with 50% off, including a pair of Highlands in size 11 exactly the same as the ones I was wearing, but in light color.  Clearly I did not need another pair, but the availability of larger sizes in Stuart Weitzman had been noted.  

I love the crescent  heel very modern where other OTK boots haven't learned this style worth replacing other ordinary boots. Stuart Weitzman OTk boots are always on sale when January rolls around. Autumn in 2017 SW came up with remarkable suede style boot and heel i mentioned. Woman would die to purchase these OTK boots. 

 Whenever you see your size of designer brand boots on sale don't wait but be forward thinking for the next season. Often is the case great popular style boots sell out quick when price is reduced. Even though there may be few occasions or weeks left to wear the boots this winter. 

Had the same idea wait for designer booties to be reduced further from the 50% retail price. Seen my size with inventory of one available and price was further reduced fifty dollars before Christmas holidays. So jumped at buying such luxurious suede booties knowing i will wear them spring or autumn. Yet had week of dry weather to wear them out without getting ruined. My suggestion is buy buy re-think about your purchase  later rather feeling regret later on. 

Amusing seen at work found last year 2018 January almost every woman i seen was wearing Stuart Weitzman OTK suede heel boots. While following sales online knew many woman bought them half price. My bemused smirk observing these woman was noticeable yet they didn't understand my reaction.  Yes they appeared pretty and look great but when random woman wearing same OTK brand boots in short period of time in January was funny to watch.

 

While your office experience seemed fun. Envy the woman you work with applauding your quick reply when asked if there woman boots.  Feel even if i dreamed same circumstance you experienced i'm sure woman would side with the male remarks of the boots being feminine and overall fashion style. Knowing attitudes at my workplace and reactions onto me females probably react with pitchforks to discourage me wearing what i enjoy.  If looks could kill i must be immortal from the evil stares and silent calculating intentional  refusal to pay me any greetings or goodbyes only because what i like to wear in the workplace. Once i wear something more masculine in style in the workplace which on rare occasion or accident happens. I then get surprising greeting and interactions with the woman at work. Which catches me off guard because i'm use to the silent treatment not expecting woman to offer a polite greeting. Yet best thing i do is avoid them in any circumstances or act busy when in vicinity of these prejudice lady haters. 

Streets are salted somewhat plowed yet so cold the snow won't melt. Yet the cold didn't discourage me visiting the mall doesn't stop many mature ladies either venturing out themselves. Had to make a quick decision to wear my born rubber sole block three inch heel booties or my new Karl Lagerfeld hiker boots visiting the mall. Thought to play it safe since it's cold and parking lots might be covered with blowing snow, since having wind gusts making it chiller then it was, i decided with the hiker boots and wool socks displayed on top of my  jeggings. 

To my surprise at the mall observing with more intrigue versus shopping were women's shoes or should i say boots they were wearing. Almost every woman i encountered with my short visit was wearing some sort of heel. In fact seen more woman wearing thicker stiletto heel knee high boots then i ever seen before. Even seen gal in five inch red sandal sling back stilettos which confused me because of the sloppy weather outside.  

Thinking because of the bad cold weather yet sunny skies woman would be in generally flat boots. Goes to show you never know what  woman will be wearing at any given day.  Although it seems to be older ladies 40's 50's years of age in heels rather any younger ones i may have glanced upon. Mall was quite from younger ladies maybe because it was too cold to go venture out  shopping. Felt it was a good time to venture out at the mall late sunday afternoon near closing time.  The shopping demographic seems to be more stylish and heel loving rather the normal black leggings flat sole knee boots or ugg wearing young woman. 

Did get many looks from woman even a bored  young SA had the surprised stare and scan of my attire namely the fur lined hooded parajumper jacket. If i read older female reactions correctly,  maybe they liked the style i was wearing as we made eye contact passing one another. Walking by shoe store one SA just locked her eyeballs onto my boots, after her initial full body scan for whatever reason. Woman maybe feeling suffocated wearing ugly winter boots needing to force the issue attiring there heels following bad storm day. Sort of same beliefs we as males on this forum go through mentally  desiring to do in public for ourselves and maintain some sanity wearing heels.

Just like anyone well styled  often motivates and encourages others and gives new ideas fashioning clothing when bad weather hits.  Do believe when the bad storm the previous day came through it narrows woman's choices of footwear they be wearing. When snow falls suppresses woman's choice of shoe attire they often need to express their desire by wearing heels  the next day as i mentioned above.

Could be coincidence or that woman want to wear heels even in a mall climate controlled mall setting. Seeing it would make it more difficult to venture outdoors on the snow icy street. One opinion i feel i learned was if the weather is dry and less frigid woman can wear almost anything heels at any given time. Often they decide to wear flats to the mall fully aware they can wear there heels later on the street because of there environmental reason allows it.

Think it's a matter of having to much of a good thing wearing heels whenever woman choose, often forgoing to where them at malls when shopping as change of pace. When the choice is limited for woman keeping there heel shoes  stored in the closet they resent that because of the weather. Yet often venturing in heels  in surroundings they normally wouldn't tread forcing the issue tired feet. Woman are more vain then we tend to believe.

4 hours ago, hernaezjames said:

I got a really nice deal from a very lovely lady. Given the price of these beautiful black patent pumps it was like sold to as 80% off. Shoes were still brand new due the fact that its too big on her (full size bigger from her original size) so i got pretty lucky. I was waiting for her to ask whom the shoes are for but unfortunately she did not wonder or anything. I cant wait wear these out with a nice out fit.

Lucky you. Michael Kors... Let me know the story how you got woman to sell you those heels. Sounds intriguing, what were you wearing at the time, etc? 

On 1/17/2019 at 1:45 PM, LovinHeels said:

Thanks everyone for the feedback. After I uploaded the pics I realised I couldn’t walk the distances you have to when travelling. So for me, my red Steve Maddens will not come with me. If I could I would!  The boots are much better to walk in.  

MackyHeels I like your idea. That tunic would work with a black long cardigan I have. Sleeveless things I stay away from because I don’t want to show muscular arms when trying to be feminine, but with a black long sleeve cardigan it would look ok I reckon.

Try wearing long sleeve shirt underneath. Understand not wanting to show off your arms wearing woman’s wear. 

Tunic with shirt underneath

First pic red heels look great. Understand the red t-shirt to compliment the heels. Find another blouse to dress up the outfit. 

Grey tunic works but may I suggest this Tunic only the hem  splits along the hips. Also fit is snug countours your lines of the body, just flows better. Rather looking to box shape often men’s shirts do that. 

White dress shirt works but try to accessorize it with a vest or short moto jacket of some kind. 

Thanks for sharing gives everyone ideas of what we wear out in public. 

Let us know the reactions you get. 

42 minutes ago, p1ng74 said:

When I was in high school, merely not having a girlfriend at any given moment was enough reason for guys to assume you are gay.  That shallow view of masculinity needs to be left behind.  I encourage any straight man who still makes daily decisions based on whether it makes they seem “gay” to quit being afraid and man up.  There are now entire professions (musicians, artists, nurses, teachers, clergy, etc) no longer staffed by men because of flawed views of masculinity.  I have two teenage sons and I hope they see too that I do what I think is good, rather than fear what other people might assume.  

Of all the reasons one might give me to not wear heels, the fear of being labeled gay will be the last one to make an impact on me.  

Wearing heels on it's own isn't the problem but flaunting or making bigger deal by posting videos photos for many people to view at any given time is the question.

People take what it's worth Prince Harry having three fingers showing off his wedding band to group of people. Yet a side profile photo shows only one middle finger which gives wrong impression on how he behaved.

Like you wrote better off wear them heels and let people see in person rather a video or photo online. 

Yesterday as i was leaving office building walking up metal open staircase staggered in design. So everyone can look above or below and through the stairs to see others. One group of young 20 something females we're making there way down noticing me in passing overhearing OMG!. As i walked upon the next segment of steps i seen the reaction of one young woman pausing frozen looking upon me, with  open mouth, wide eyed. Suppose it was the shock of seeing a male in dark jeggings and leather block heel ankle booties she never seen before. As i made my way out there was another female group noticing me wide eyed following my every step out the door. Looking upon Video's photos online don't have the same cache or impact for someone then seeing it in the flesh. Way to easy to ignore imagery off your phone or PC and not think about it. While observing someone in person begins a debate discussion criticisms that otherwise would never happen. 

Find the Hangover is good movie mocking the notion or assumptions people have of gay style or demeanour. Mr. Chow in the movie mocks or silently labeled assumed as gay but shocks the audience and actors once he announces he is married with a woman for long time. Confused why others are so stunned or surprised at his marred status.

It’s the saying what comes first chicken or the egg. 

Gay guys go through prejudice and hardship because of there desires beliefs with the same gender. So putting out a video wearing heels isn’t any different people mistreating or bias of them being unique. 

Straight guy doesn’t want to rock the boat or create headache around his proclivity of female fashions particularly heels. 

In fact many straight men hide the fact of wearing heels. Being seen in heels alows others to assume he must be gay also. Only because the community welcomes Cd’s so if your seen displaying female heels on  social media lgays gravitate towards you. Like it or not whenever a man dares to wear feminine fashions he is boxed into a group and community namely GLBQ. 

Thoughts of my own to post some photos, videos on IG such as have in this forum. Only reason I don’t is people who are sitting on the fence may believe i’m positively “Gay”. Once people make up there mind then doors close making life harder then it should be. Only because of me wearing a provactive tight short dress  and stiletto heels. Although it would be fun knowing I could push boundaries where this forum outlaws such sexy images. 

5 hours ago, SF said:

Two washers??  Must be nice.....  I have to get by with just one....   sf

Yes the LG sidekick thought it would be good idea. Since I immediately wash my sexy new gym outfits every night. Replacing old 26 year top load washer. Thoughts of fixing  broken hot water temperatures gauge and leaky valve on old Kenmore washer but 26 years needs to be retired  done it’s job.

Last thing I want is piling on my nulux leggings or street wear loose tops. Think I ruined many through ironing my shirts having small holes near the hem. 

Got to smell fresh and clean when out in public. No matter what you wear if you smell people will notice keeping clear. 

If you dress the part smell the part. 

Here’s tunic I’m considering to purchase. 

Travel the distance tunic

3 hours ago, balletboot said:

Outing went good. Did some shopping but didn't really find anything worth buying. So I went and did my groceries and headed home.

I hope to get out again soon!

Congratulations!  Nice outfit and colour choice.  Any problems doing grocery shopping lifting bags or heavy cartons of water? 

Also went out in my leather black leather Rag & bone booties block heels and denim black distressed leggings coming home, stopping by trying to buy some water and on sale Downy fresh scent booster  for my two new washers which has been delayed to be delivered.  So while in the store trying to find wash scent booster being sold  out off the shelves. Someone walked by saying, nice heels, caught me blind sided. As i turned it was young asian male smiling from his reaction he  looked sincere what he said to me. 

19 hours ago, Rick24 said:

mackyheels/ your body figure in tight femmine clothing is something that those women want on them. they don't dare admit it to your face. it's like how dare he look better than us in that outfit, it's unacceptable for a guy to look better than us. you should save your money up on buying a pair of kate louboutins with those tight jeans because you will have a great time wearing them out. also you might get some young girls trying to steal them off your feet. you said many times that women demand you take your outfits off and give it to them to wear. at least be flattered by there jealousy/envy of you.

Oh! some ladies have told me so. Saying I want your butt and legs all along laughing giggling that it comes off as some sexual flirtation. When they really mean is they want to look like me and admittedly, wishing to wear the same clothes. Sounds strange but often we both laugh while i understand they are paying some sort of compliment to my physique and clothing. 

While true a single school teacher i'm currently keeping my eyes on and  often observed has said, finding me impeccably dressed and demanded i give her some of my clothes. Tongue tied and difficult to express her feeling upon my attire i figure it's more than that. Only because she observed for long period of time, different outfits i was wearing, not being possibly for me to wear them all.  Yet few woman have seen me in outfit i truly find outstanding  and really proud to be wearing.

Giving the idea Kate LB in some incredible skin tight denim jeans maybe slim chance in the future to be outfitted. One female at work stood in front of me as we both were trying pass one another. For brief time we both  looked upon one another. I scanned her entire body noticing her black Kate LB's and she stood puzzled at my reaction upon her heels as she looked down onto them as well. Nothing was said but any woman wearing LB's often startles me neck snapping reactions  onto her heels. 

While i'm flattered of the envy and jealousy from some woman. Even one kind open minded woman told me so in good way. 

Doubt any woman would want to steal my heels off my feet, would be funny to watch.. Lately wearing my Westin booties i've seen random woman looking upon my feet with wide eyes shock. Enjoy being femininely dressed for the reactions i get, some shocked that guy is wearing it, while others i know better, hide there envy and jealousy. Even today i seen from distance a woman wearing exact same leggings, style colour and brand. Could tell she was well dressed deliberately to look pretty. Once she noticed we had on the same outfit she immediately left don't know why. Maybe she needed to leave or felt despondent and that the room was crowded. Also  i could assume that she noticed me wearing exactly same clothes as her, feeling humiliated, self-conscious or less unique of her little outfit  after she wide eyed noticed me..  

Do know the reactions from young female attractive fashionistas often will want to rain on my parade whatever i want to wear. That is why my only revenge from the inevitable,  outspoken, indirect, negative, comments and opinions observing my outfit, is to wear best female clothes as i can afford.  When i know i'm better dressed than most women surrounding me i feel as they do, showing them up. It can be as simple wearing hot looking stiletto's bootie paired with tight  designer jeggings at grocery store, mall fully aware no woman will dare wear such dressy footwear doing errands. This outfit of mine stops competition, unlike if i were to go out into a bar in social setting, where females are clothed to impress or stand out from the crowd joined in group. Usually with shopping surroundings everyone is solo for the most part, there is little gang mentality togetherness to mock my outfit then being alone.

So when i know i have on great outfit woman desire the negativity grows exponentially with greater amount of comments and opinions. Often it is clue of there deep jealousy, envy, hatred bundled up, that if they were honest and loving would compliment me rather tossing  out despicable commentary to others about me to overhear. While i know it takes time to break down the wall many woman build around themselves with the likes of me. When the wall falls they become much better human beings and caring for others releasing the vacuum they lived in so many years. They enjoy greater freedom and enjoy life less seriously making into someone i can be friends with.  

Amusing to watch belittling woman angry about someone else, what they are wearing, while the boyfriend or husband listens to her commentary  amused at her overreactions. Feel little sorry for the male to be joined with mean spirited woman like i described often these clues lead to relationship problems and divorce while the other can't be in same room together.

Seen it already happen to neighbour woman found out and seen me wear feminine outfits laughed out loud initially even found it disturbing keeping her young girls away from my immediate family. Before long her not liking my style becomes  insignificant of a problem  then just me, boiling over into other areas of her life. Now she is separated husband couldn't take it anymore not because of me but her attitude in general. Shows you when  a woman is angered or upset and full of hate upon one person insignificant part of her life there is bigger issue at hand then someone like me wearing feminine attire. Isn't it?