MackyHeels

12 hours ago, Stiletto6inc said:

FSJ sells on Amazon.com up to size 15 US by the looks of it. The reviews for some CL style stiletto pumps/courts seem pretty good too...maybe finally time to try

Seen pictures of the reviews of there heels 

Problems with fit and strength of the heel with no tread slipping as on ice. Second guessing to buy them now. 

Glad your booties arrived bought mine mid January so reading your timeline I should expect mid February delivery. 

Specifically intrigued on the quality. You wrote footbed lacks padding. Is the sole synthetic, plastic heel tips. Maybe better if they were leather sole or rubber? 

How is the nap of the suede? On the website they wrote all shoes are synthetic fabric unless you upgrade to leather. Does that mean suede fabric also? Doubt you can comment on the colour matching  being they are black. Doubting they can create the same colour on my style booties I ordered. 

Also how did you option one size shoe bigger then other on your order. If I desire to order other shoes want to change the heel shape from certain booties? 

Suppose I need to chance order specific heel booties hoping to get better quality like a lined leather padded footbed. 

Thanks for explaining your new booties. 

As far what to wear is subjective for everyone. Seen similar booties worn with hose, by the ladies. Suppose you can match the texture of the booties with suede contrasting leggings if it were me. 

Great leather leggings and heels, looks good. By the way what brand are the leggings?

16 minutes ago, BFGheels said:

Hahahaha .... 

What Chelsea boots did u order? 

I ordered Chelsea boots as well so I wonder if we got the same ones...

Hope they look the same as the designer ones only bigger custom size.

If all works when i get them then my wishlist will explode as my credit card.

Next on the list.

BFGheels i'm same situation one foot 271mm while other 267mm have pump bump  so i ordered 12 US to be safe for chelsea bootie which should be fine. Only heels i may take the special order making one shoe bigger like you done. Good point increasing the size for perfect fit. Only way i can see better option is cast my foot and send it to them. Like you said if the shoes are nice i to will be ordering a lot more from them. Only having you to blame or thank. While i will become a shoe addict.  

Bfgheels done the same bought some replicas of acne Jenner’s. Wait and see if the sizing is correct before I buy the heel stiletto’s in my wish list . What size are you?

Like the customized option adding leather, heel size, foot width etc.. Only option it lacks is the type of block heel designers use. Guess you can use a picture to show them so they can make it. . 

If the site makes quality shoes this may become addiction buying more customized footwear at a decent price. 

Size 11 US should be good  i’m 9.5 US in men’s. 

Thank you  BFGheels FSJ shoes looks like a great place to buy heels or other booties replicas of certain designer ones i had my eye on. Any experiences buying shoes at FSL?

Wanting to purchase suede stiletto bootie but having difficulty finding any. Here is a picture of the type of bootie i'm looking for but in chocolate brown suede would be ideal. So kate booty CL made are they out of style?

Find the heels for booties are trending to be narrow wide half chunky like stuart Weitzman makes such as these link below..

https://youtu.be/BtZyHAztLMg

Business class safe style. 

Walkingtall suppose the comfort level in stiletto heel may have not been appropriate outing for casual walk with the dog. Luckily for you the outing didn't  cause a negative incident having people giggling upon your dressed up appearance or they didn't notice and choose to ignore it.  This may have traumatized you silly not to attempt heel outing ever again, if someone was pointing finger upon your heels laughing.  Happy you had the courage and no negative feedback took place. Only time you may get flack wearing your heels is in casual setting,  everyone outfitted in relaxed manner, while your in dressed up appearance in heels has impact on how people react no matter the gender wearing it.  

Ever heard the saying all dressed up and no place to go? So when someone is wearing formal dressed up fashion style and is in atmosphere that is ordinary people mock or laugh reacting at the dissociation of task of someone in heels. Such as children playing in the park and your in heels or shoveling snow all appears out of sorts.

Best to outfit your heels in a more formal atmosphere dressed up manner would be the norm.  To many people seeing anyone in heels be it female or male walking in casual setting sometimes evokes a giggle at how overdressed they are for the occasion. While we first timers are hyper-sensitive observing reactions from others of our heel outing. In many respects people are just finding our heels don't fit the occasion or location. Not that we look bad in them but find our style to be to much. 

That's why i'm often wary of when i wear my heel booties. If i'm at  mall i observe many females wearing flat shoes only so they can be casual and comfortable walking all day shopping. Few woman do wear heels either working in posh store or much older generation enjoying there heel outfit  Later in the evening you will see many more heels worn by younger females going out maybe stopping for odd errand here or there buying wine or gift to a party on Saturday night. 

So it is sad case that society norms are being followed by woman thinking going to the mall on Saturday afternoon she wears black leggings, skinny jeans, flat knee high boots, ankle chelsea flat heel boots or sneakers. When the evening approaches woman put on stiletto heels with skirt panty hose or skinny jeans for movie or dinner. 

Saying all that it's wonder that anyone would be seen wearing heels unless there lover of them. We know the type of females that love there heels always in them for the most part depending on the occasion. Even some woman balk wearing heels feeling they are styled to formal. Yet if they wear a dress often or skirt rather the popular leggings or skinny jeans that woman often do they have opportunity to put on any heels  they want without being criticized.

Although i do feel wearing heels fun and criticism stupid but if your busy not paying attention observing people's reactions texting, living your life the way you want. Then any comments or background snipes heard about me is ignored or oblivious to it. You will know when your ready to wear your heels in public when it feels common place as breathing not concentrating on every breath but relaxed. Whenever people's reaction towards me is negative i can  easily brush it off not being bothered.  Do find it much easier to wear what i want today as oppose couple years ago when i first wearing heels. Find it's not my attitude that changed much but people being more politically correct being woman for the most part. Maybe because lot of woman recognized me over the years as male in female outfits isn't shocking to see as before. Guess woman get use to see that man at the grocery store or mall who wears this or that..

On 1/2/2018 at 9:21 PM, HappyinHeels said:

swedeheeler,

One way to avoid the Chinese sizing problem is to avoid buying Chinese shoes. Look for shoes made in the EU zone or the United States or some other nation where manufacturing is done with standards. You'll know your product was not made by a 14-yr old or the factory was not operating in a way which would be very illegal in countries with standards. Yes, you'll pay more but you will not have the headache of wondering about sizing or regrets about buying something which was made in an unethical way. The choice is yours. Ante up now and have peace of mind or play it cheap and regret it later. HappyinHeels

Your so right, bought some court heels months ago. The size guide on ebay page from 

Rick24 your synopsis is most accurate and intriguing. Love to hear some talk from other woman reactions of some  jealous fits.

Yes, i've heard woman talk about me saying exactly that, wanting my butt and legs even telling me so face to face. Often they laugh, embarrassed about what they are actually trying to say, having  a double meaning. Reiterating clarifying there not hitting on me, but actually fond or envious of my legs and butt cheeks clearly defined in tight outfits.

Even overhear woman talk to one another about there infatuation of me. Some jokingly tell single females he would  be a good catch nice taste in his clothing plus you can share outfits literally doubling your wardrobe. Often the females sneer at the true fact we be the same size and prospects of attiring the same clothes. Even twin sisters don't share outfits finding it unappealing.

Also find woman often trying to compete with me with outfits and one cried out loud saying she hated me so much because i wear better clothes then her and wishes to swap body type envious at my lean physique. 

Glad that your happy and content wearing your outfit. Only some females don’t enjoy a male wearing tight female clothes or heels. In my many experiences some females reactions from  there facial expressions of disgust seeing me and in various tight tops, skinny jeans, leggings. Often I doubt myself thinking why they don’t appreciate my attire. Yet they strongly believe only one should wear tight fitted outfits are female. If a male does it looks stupid or weird asking others why he is wearing such clothes. 

The answers to there question from what I heard about me from others are: Isn’t it obvious because he is gay. Or because he has a fetish and sick disgusting notion to flaunt his manhood for the world to see. Yet they are wrong about me not understanding why someone would outfit themselves to there own style and taste. 

Whatever woman opinions are about our style of dress. Most females find it novel  and odd seeing male attired in a tight fitted manner. Eyes of people generally find anyone attired different then the style of general trending population for there gender either looks stupid, funny or odd. 

Yet we wear what we want in the wind storm of opinions voiced or thought about us. My belief is wear great clothes  that any woman would envy. Keep my body in best shape I can so none can question that my clothes don’t fit properly. If those hater females are honest with themselves they can see that what I wear suits me well. It’s unfair people putting labels on us only because we style ourselves differently then others behalf of our gender. Either fearing us assuming we are crazy or having wrong homophobic reactions only because of our outfits. 

8 hours ago, w6ish said:

yes you're right!  she was wearing revealing black leggings, a very hot look on her.  but...  she was wearing the absolute most stupid looking tan coloured Uggs...  

once i heard her say: that looks stupid, i gave her a quick look over and when i saw those ridiculous and stupid Uggs, i laughed quietly and looked the other way.  

anyone wearing Uggs might as wear a label that says:  i give up.

Hold on W6ish i own UGGs shown below..

Now i understand the females position and voiced opinion of your appearance labeling it stupid.  Reading on how she was outfitted in a casual comfortable manner, is the trend young females feel the need to wear more and more these days. These females feel casual daily outfit is suppose to be comfortable black leggings which in my opinion should only be worn in the gym or when running. While Uggs boots are comfortable and warm but have the style of cartoon caricature as the Simpson's, of there footwear. 

Your reaction was indeed exactly same as i would of given in your situation. Yet i doubt she cared of your reaction of her Ugg's only that she believes your overly dressed up in  a style suited of victorian  classic era outfit, meaning your platform heel boots. If you outfitted yourself in formal poncho/top coat/clook  with high top white stockings it would sharpen the outfit as formal style.  Yet i believe the outfit i described would still be  mocked as costume. There's no way to win with gals like you heard saying you style is stupid. If your reaction was to sneer upon her, at least you quickly made a statement. Either she knows you heard her and don't give a damn, because  your lifestyle is far more interesting and goings on then hers. 

Think about it when do people criticize others? When they have to much time on there hands. In such a case they lead a boring life. If you don't pay attention or give anyone credit only self absorbed about yourself, you will find someone having a lot fun. Find any supermodel wouldn't dare think stupid  seeing your outfit. Only because they are having whirlwind happy life, to ever criticize.

 Heck, W6ish i got criticized recently from hater gal. Buddy asked her what she thought of my outfit from afar. She responded she didn't like the colour  that much of my crop leggings. My buddy  laughed it off but we all knew,  she enjoys subtly observing my many trendy outfits, or very least gets angry or cares what i wear with envy about my outfits. Yet i have to honestly agree with my hater gal initial opinion, not liking the colour as well. The hue of my coloured leggings seemed little dull. Yet seeing the colour more and more it has the ability to grow on me changing my mind. Thoughts of returning my leggings but wearing them few times and reaction from other females tells me i should hold on to these. While days later wearing some newer trendier darker leggings i thought she might like them. She acted as though she didn't care or notice me initially.  When she did notice me from behind i seen her reaction from a reflection in the  mirror, only described her expression as shock and envy upon my outfit. Didn't get a compliment but utter passive ignoring me as not caring, what i was wearing. Often woman find what we wear envious and never express happiness towards it only deep anger why she isn't so well outfitted.  Jealousy can really make others very mean spirited...

What if you came wearing the same court shoes of the last picture on the couch? What do you think her answer would be?

On 12/22/2017 at 3:06 PM, w6ish said:

wore this look the other day and heard a gal say to her friend:  that looks stupid!  wasn't sure if she meant me wearing heels or my skin tight pant legs pulled down over my boots!

What was the gal wearing as footwear and legwear? Usually woman need to voice their negative opinions to someone beside them,  in the general vicinity of us. They don't care if it hurts our feelings or not in fact many think they are helping us. These negative opinions are meant to be heard only because they believe what your wearing is wrong be it from gender point of view or style. Some females just believe platform heels is not good style for anyone to wear or that matter skinny jeans. Usually that thought of negativity is because they are not confident or hate their own body shape thus believing others should not wear them also.

Her thoughts our assumptions is guess work on why she voiced that negative word "stupid".  Doubt she meant your tight jeans over the boots mattered. It probably was the skinny jeans and or  platform heels. People may have opinion on how to style oneself and if it looks odd on someone or out of ordinary such as platform heels for example,  then outbursts  are said be it positive or negative in your case a bad vibe. 

If you rolled up your jeans it may look bit odd or to bulky of a roll being to long.  Maybe crop jeans would fit better with the boots. Again i wear tight stretchy jeans but often when wearing bulky loose circumference boot shaft i pull them over my booties. Otherwise tucking them in might not work because when walking the hems tend to stick out making it half tucked while other side is in the boot. Woman often fold their jeans showing little leg  towards the shoe.  

You could of asked nicely with a smile getting some fashion input. Easier said than done reacting to the word  "Stupid" might intimidate the woman afraid your confronting  her while she may of not thought you overheard. Sometimes she may close down thinking none of your business what our private conversation amongst us was about. Then if she ignored you leaving you then know she believed the whole outfit was bad. Usually people find one thing out of whack on outfit they may offer both  positive and negative opinions maybe lukewarm comments.

As you can see my crop jeans below  are sewn permanently with one cuff roll hem showing off the leg and Rag & Bone booties. Suppose W6ish your right about jeans over boots never thought about it much. Wearing any heels that is the predominant focus of the leg. While the skinny jeans is accent of it like a pedestal holding the prize which is killer bootie heels.

Only changes you can make is your boot heels are fitted tight along the leg. Which gives you the option when cold to cover them up a bit nothing wrong with it. Other hand to make your style a little trendy accent it with socks as leg warmers can be option. Many gals wear construction socks out of the boots clinging to there leggings or skinny jeans. When temperatures are warmer wear shorter crop jeans giving the hemed look and contrasts boot to the jeans showing some skin suppose it's sexy for the ladies knowing your legs are smooth not hairy. Also wearing distressed jeans showing some skin is way to accent your lean legs as mine. Often i see woman desiring envious of my skinny denim choices wash colour sometimes they forget the booties i'm wearing focusing on my slender lean legs they would want to appear exact same manner.

As above picture shows the jeans are to long bagging up hides the elegance of the nude court heel. Some might sneer or say it looks stupid or sloppy saying the jeans are to long for her legs etc.. So sometimes woman roll them up cuffing them once to stop sloppy male appearance highlighting the  effectiveness of the heels. Don't you think, few examples below.

Frayed hems really accent the heels between the jeans makes more of a stylish appearance then bland conservative over the boot. Woman want to be adventurous in their style  rather trying to look simple as you or me do.

https://www.pinterest.ca/pin/478437160393598733/

Find the perfect winter coat would be Calvin klein skirted jacket either military double breasted

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7 hours ago, Rick24 said:

balletboot. I'm sure you have heard women and and young women say things like./ I hate that the fact he walks better in heels than I ever could./ or his figure and dress code puts me to shame, and women that seen you wear your style. a week later they are wearing the same style that you where wearing last week. many heeling wearing men have said that women who spotted them in public wearing heels have then been seen wearing the same style of shoe or boot that the guy was wearing last time. I don't know why women make everything into a competition.

Your so right..... When i outfit myself at times impeccably as some women have told me. If i see a woman i personally don't know but is seen as egotistical fashionista of sorts, wearing nice outfits. If she looks stunned staring upon my outfit i try not to show any reaction only being aware i'm being stared upon. When i see the same woman again next day she attires similar colour theme as i did previously. Often i find it compliment although the woman copying the style or colour choice in some poorly done way, i get amused. Even though the said woman would never admit she is envious or compliment my attire at any given day. 

Worst of my experiences have woman mocked the colour of my outfit and belittled voicing their opinions to others in my presence. Then few weeks pass and noticed them wearing exact same thing. Only when she notices me remembers the mocking attitude of the said outfit and feels ashamed or embarrassment of being so wrong. 

As for competition women do trying outfit other gals is stupid. Yet when some females try it with me they often are at a losing end, while others i know they have unlimited bank account and afford shop being that is all they do as hobby. 

Balletboots, the heels i was wearing shown in my picture album Calvin Klein http://www.calvinklein.us/en/laneige-lace-up-bootie-81304357

As you can see me wearing said male peacoat doesn’t work with the outfit. 

https://www.berrylook.com/en/Products/lapel-pocket-plain-woolen-coat-196930.html

14 hours ago, balletboot said:

Thanks @pebblesf

 

I went out today in my new maroon skirt and a black sweater, i got some more christmas shopping done and then got sidetracked in forever21 trying on some more skirts i also made it back into aldo since they were having a good sale. Ended up ordering a pair of over the knee boots, i cant wait for them to come in! While walking around the mall a women in her late 30s came quickly walking all the way across the hall looking right at me saying "oh my god i love your outfit! and those heels are fantastic!" I smiled,  thanked her and kept on strutting my stuff through the mall

I don't understand how women can think its awkward to recieve compliments. Because i absolutely love it!

Try burberry peacoat... cost might be prohibited but it will complete any outfit. 

https://ca.burberry.com/wool-cashmere-trench-coat-p40192031

Dark forest green coat will match up well with the skirt. You can change up wearing dark blue skirt and burgundy opaque pantyhose.

Few examples you maybe interested in. 

Here is me in a sweater dress can work well with dark hose as you see here. 

15 hours ago, w6ish said:

you guys know what i mean:  a man in heels, in public, on the streets and in the mall, it isn't going to be a cake walk all the time.

It's never easy doing something that is risky and unorthodox  but we all know the payoff or reward when we hit the ball out of the ballpark or die trying. So what if someone tries to shame us wearing what we want....  It's all how we handle it when when someone pushes us down and amount of times we stand up.. Do we cry and run away never do it again or shake it off and keep on moving. Every woman also get bad mouthed even your gal pal that you seem so infatuated with. There are a lot of people would say bad things about your lady friend. Stemming out of jealousy or from a modest mindset. Fashionistas may  finding  your gals outfit sluty and over the top for the venue or time of day for older gal to be proud of.

In the same way i've overheard opinion by thirty something female making sure i knew that i should be ashamed for what i'm wearing rather being complemented or happy proud and excited of my outfit. Her and everyone noticing my supreme confidence strutting in my tight outfit and heel booties showing everyone what i had on and not afraid of people's reactions. Surely i seen reactions from people only translating to shocked envious stares with smiles.  Yet i heard laughter from married young adult females after her husband points me out. Life's not perfect or ideal we take the bad with the good. Just before you feel those butterflies getting out the car door, don't let the haters win because of some fear or angst you may be targeted. Fight it off by wearing some great outfits making those who appreciate it voice there compliments. End of the day we indulge in good thoughts and nice words describing our appearance. Make sure to love your outfit first then others with friendly honest words will echo them to you verbally or with their  physical expressions.

Coveting someones outfit is a sin...W6ish..Lol..

Desires run deep for what she was wearing don't they? I get it....  What type of sheen of leggings was she wearing? Metallic, lycra polyester? 

If you're looking for Foil luminosity tight pants here is new one she won't be wearing. You can guess what brand they are...

Last thing anyone wants is to be dressed in exact same manner then the other gal. Don't know about Anne but if some gal copied my outfit and we went out dressed exactly the same i would first laugh at the coincidence or be flattered by the person intentionally respecting my taste in style. Yet that gets old pretty quick and would feel bit uncomfortable wearing same exact outfit as her. Suppose only identical twins can get away with that even so, it looks funny. 

If you don't care, or Anne cares if people point fingers and laugh amused at your matching outfits when out in public, no problem. Although you may get comparisons seeing who looks better dressed in the outfit. If you're confident looking better than Anne, then by all means do it for gag or like i do, send a message to whomever observes me without saying a single word, let the clothes do the talking.

Try leather tight legging they are wonderful compliment to suede heels you shown. Every time i see some gal dressed in tight leather pants in heels it's stunning. Faux leather or coated denim jeans works own some myself burgundy AG, Black matte,  but i feel it's more for daily grind easy to wash etc,.. but leather stands out more to the eye for those special occasions...

If you want a fun colour try eggplant in leather find it on ebay cheap or just go buy it at Saks like these https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/main/ProductDetail.jsp?PRODUCT<>prd_id=845524447013599&R=3700918539858&P_name=Brockenbow&Ntt=coated+jeans&N=0&bmUID=m1khLin

J-brand waxed coated 

or option is to  buy polyester leggings lower cost have real shine to them.

Don't forget Rag & bone jeans  in a step hem crop style now trending, great for showing off them heels. In the summer i wear Rag & bone denim short shorts distressed.  Enjoy matching my booties to there clothes only caveat is i wear men's shirt or sweater along with my entire branded outfit, maybe i'm a snob that way.  Funny some female jeans i own are from Rag & Bone called DRE in boyfriend style larger rear pockets which i often buy few sizes smaller for better snug fit.

 Tried and true J-brand is default jean i own plenty of and styles, washes  which you can never go wrong with quality and fit with easy comfort without the AG or COH higher prices. As for lighter washes i go with different brand called FRAME jeans they tend to have nice niche for it. 

For well made jeans PAIGE is another but well worth it if you like a certain wash or fit.

Agree AG are my favourites also in Stilts, Prima or Leggings distressed and ankle. They really contour your shape well drives woman mad seeing me wear them. My all time favourite was 25 year wash so difficult to find but loved the wash so much had to have them.

http://www.agjeans.com/women/shop-by-fit

https://www.saksfifthavenue.com/PAIGE/Women-s-Apparel/Jeans/shop/_/N-1z12t7iZ1a7Z1z12pvdZ1z12rdpZ1z12mw2Z52flov?Ne=399545537&Ne=399545537&Ne=399545537

On 2017-12-01 at 5:41 PM, balletboot said:

When i ordered my aldos i also ordered a pair of nine west from macys. The aldos were a better fit a way better looking.

So went to macys to return them. I decided to wear my new aldos with my new super skinny jeans, black t and peacoat. Besides the cashier and the one woman trying on shoes i dont think anyone even noticed. The aldos are almost silent compared to my booties i have.

All in all it was a nerve wacking trip since it was my first time in skinny jeans and heels in public. But it was also fun and exciting. 

Here is a picture i took in macys. Ignore the filthy mirror.

Great try, very bold. Wear similar skinny jeans also. In my circumstance I get a few raised eyebrows from older 50 something females recognizing the fit head to toe scans. 

Must of been fun outing for you indeed congratulations!

 Surprising how few people notice what your wearing. Often people are self absorbed when shopping  ignoring you or me as generic background noise. People focus attention with one part of our body. One part being upper torso secondly  lower of our body less often people focus on our entire body head to toe. Some people stare down only passing by seeing your lower half legs and heels presume your a lady. Others just stare the upper body, hips, face, assume your just ordinary guy in peacoat unaware of your lower half. 

Only way to change that is blend a more contouring outerwear jacket that flows with your lower body. Easier said then done with the regards to male outerwear. Most jackets for men are styled in a boxie cut  design with disregard for cut and flow of your entire body. 

Finding a better outer jacket can make the whole outfit look spectacular. 

Jealousy plain and simple. Tight jeans and heels how dare you outfit yourself like us gals..Lol.. That’s totally wrong for male to wear, her thinking. Your legs probably looked better then her and friends included. Add heels to the mix your hated upon. 

Suppose other woman feel the same about females dressed better than them. Anger from her seeing your outfit makes said female mad. You can only guess why, insecurities, your lack of modesty, straight out lustful desires that almost every woman wants and fantasizes about yet afraid to obtain.

Dont take it personally. Lol.. 

Was there something else happen with the gals at the table notice besides your style? Uhumm, don’t answer that, never mind..Lol fun times..

Almost had evening similar experience at my workplace. Bunch of colleagues  were ready to leave while we all were finishing up frantically. One of the young co worker woman hater of mine was also leaving saying her goodbyes to everyone, of course not to me goes with the attitude. Normally she doesn't seem to care about us all being she has high opinion of herself. Only certain circumstance she came by as i was working away she stared upon me very closely. Yes i was also wearing skin tight ultra skinny jeans no heels though. No mistake about it, she deeply stared upon my legs although i was above her raised few feet away watching me work. Always she can't stand me for whatever reasons but she couldn't stop looking. Only after our co-workers were mingling around her she brought herself out of her trance stare leaving. 

My only conclusion was she envied my tight jean style and probably wished having similar lean thighs as well.  Although she maybe never admitting it to herself or anyone for that matter. What else could it been? She gives phoney or over the top compliments to others in reality she doesn't mean it only to appear nice. Yet whenever i get complimented in her presence by others never her, she rolls her eyes in jealousy, frustration, anger, confusion. Which tells me a lot of how someone real personality and character is.