MackyHeels

1 hour ago, p1ng74 said:

The gym is not a place where I would expect to get much positive encouragement about attire.  I imagine if people are comparing anything would be mostly their bodies.  I think interactions in the gym may not be representative of broader attitudes towards fashion, or apply to heels, seeing as they are not worn there.  

On contrary many want to encourage others to look better, clothing is icing on the cake.

Bodies are scrutinized but many know they aren’t perfect. 

Heels are worn for many fitness pageant woman practicing there stage posing routines. 

Yet many woman obsess working there glutes in order to look firmer when wearing heels. 

At the same time many just use the gym for what it is. Leaving in same black athletic wear they were exercising in. Making it staple many woman wear as appropriate casual style attire. Yet try to ignore others in comparison. Only when someone compliments them they tend to realize what they wear is just important then anything else.  

13 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

I received a third comment this evening right after posting this.  When the lady tending bar in the restaurant gave me the bill, she said “You probably walk better in those heel than I can.  You’re rocking them!”  

Fun day today - and I get to contemplate opportunities to wear these nice pants 

Accepting all compliments no matter what their motives are. Way to go P1ng74!

Being renowned pessimist always trying to figure out someone’s angle. Asking myself  questions and  others motives, why the comments. Taking them with grain of salt, just as if negative opinions were being tossed around. 

In my experience you can notice a noticable difference with the vibe, around you. People looking at you differently than ever before. Not because the style has changed  or is different in small way but how well you wearing it, such as complimentary colours, texture, fabric, design etc...  

People notice me but some outfits look more special and i can feel, observe, others paying much closer attention as ever before. Without getting a verbal comment about the outfit I can judge others are intrigued, envious. You know when your rocking it better than others surrounding you else, when you see them stare longer than normal. Often i can be scanned by someone and they look away quickly keeping a safe distance essentially ignoring me. It's telling clue they are not liking my outfit. When the opposite is true they scan me over and begin to take small glances time to time never seemingly taking their eyes away,  i then know i'm doing something right. 

Just yesterday i rocked a nice new gym outfit. From most females smiles, gleeful reactions, upon me i knew the new outfit was one many enjoyed observing which doesn't come along very often. Also me in it  had little to do with it, but a small part to model the outfit for there benefit.

Even some beloved members who seen me many times before without any animosity  or incident wearing my attire began to instantly get upset intially observing me.. Part of their anger stems from being aware  i beat them to the punch purchasing a new gym outfit. Also there binary beliefs  being much better suited for their known favourite colours then little old me. Overheard discussion amongst young asian posh woman unaware i was listening as the commenting about my passion for wearing  nice female gym outfits. Them agreeing i rock it better then many woman in the gym,  bringing some ire reactions from self conscious ladies. Telling their group of girlfriends inspiring, motivating themselves to work harder or visiting the gym more often. This was all said with slight bemusement amongst the group of asian gym rat females. Which is far cry to acceptance or comments made directly to me on there true feelings wearing said outfits. Shows me there is more in grained discriminatory  prejudgedice or non acceptance men wearing feminine clothing belief system for most woman out there.

Think that's the best I can hope for, then getting someone’s notable comments about my attire.  Yet didn't deter me from feeling upbeat and happy wearing my new attire. From my many years of experience wearing said outfits feels that when you put your head down through the pushing wind of negativity it will slowly change the tide with others realizing they were wrong  feeling better and positive with regards to my outfits.

On 10/8/2018 at 2:32 PM, hernaezjames said:

Done with pedicure, now will drive around and probably head to the car wash wearing these strappy sandals.

Nicely done, always liked clear polish. It's subtle yet not  gaudy at the same time. Great for the beach where coloured polish seems to formal or out of place.  Perfect heel sandals to show it off. Many would try to match the colour of heels with polish which blends in the toes to much. 

Did you get out of the car at the wash? No doubt you would get noticed by anyone and truth be told looking better in heels then most females.

What is psychological effect woman wanting to try on your heels?

Believe it stems from wanting to look attractive to any male in the room. While the  said male in heels there trying on, may affect his opinion onto the experimenting woman in different light. In my pessimistic attitude i would doubt any woman complimenting my bootie heels.  If indeed one would ask to try them on it clearly shows without a doubt they enjoy, love to own such a pair. 

Never happened to me or ever heard it voiced wanting to be wearing my heels from any ladies. Although had many woman ask wishing jealous, envious in wanting to wear my woman leggings and outfits. One asking to have me give her some of my outfits to wear. 

One recent married woman complimenting me on similar outfits we wear flirting with me at every opportunity. Devising plans to purchasing exact same outfits to wear out together finding it fun. Yet i feel bit of erotism to the idea being encouraged, complimented by an attractive married woman to be wearing same outfits. Clearly telling me i wear feminine outfits much better then her complimenting my physique enjoying observing me replying with smile, i look yummy, delicious. 

In my state find it erotic to have a woman wear my feminine clothes or heels. It's emotional bond that attracts us both to same piece of clothing or heel we once wore. it could be as personal as underwear or food we are sharing off the same fork, spoon, plate or glass to drink.

The idea someone loving your heels or piece of clothing that they need to be wearing it subtly makes for imaginary bond at least for the original wearer. Not quite knowing the woman's intentions sometimes it feels exciting maybe for both of them.

22 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

 

When any one of us heterosexual guys goes shopping, does errands, or simply has a conversation with fellow human beings while wearing our heels we all do more to convince others we are doing our thing, enjoying our lives, and perhaps encouraging other men to do the same thing. And doing it with no apparent agenda. Going to the Bata Shoe Museum might be a much better idea. Especially if you visit it in heels. HappyinHeels

 

Glad that they are at least showing men in heels despite there sexual gender or outlandish taste in fashion. 

Telling the truth that having pessimistic attitude onto male society of observing a trend men wearing heels is hopeless. 

First reason women don't want there man in heels! If they disobey then walk away from the freak in heels forever. Some of our HH place members are married once his woman asks, to refrain from wearing heels going to meet the family, he bows to her wishes. While other members here on the forum have woman that indeed  tolerate his heeling outing maybe enjoy it as much as we all do ourselves, yet it seems rare to find such woman, very extinct.

Second reason is  the topic of men who are single. Other peers will reject a man  as a friend for that guys night out party at the club. Potential single woman will find it to much or not her type  finding his outfit disgusting or very least amusing, rejecting him and his group of friends. This is difficult to accept but true woman have particular style should wear that attracts her to him, not the cologne, open collar shirt with hairy chest, accessorized with gold jewellery hanging from his neck.

We have to lead by example my first compliments wearing heels from male standpoint was two gay males. One telling me i look sexy in my heel black booties while the other smirked saying, nice boots.  Yet to receive any compliments from any woman wearing my heel booties. Although do know sometimes women are less likely to say anything about it. Assume those who did look at my appearance liked it yet never have the opportunity to tell me or may find it uncomfortable for both of us. 

Do remember one time trying on ankle block heel booties by myself in  a store. Woman came walking out of the blue, surprising me saying, nice! Wearing heels, good for you.  All awhile i was observing this older couple shopping in the women's shoe isle. The male stared upon me very oddly but his wife told him stop looking. While the man replied he's shopping for himself and trying on woman shoes. The wife said i know try not to look. 

Feels like we are living in the 50's having to present ourselves in conservative public manner always. If we deviate in our taste in masculine style we  find ourselves beaten, arrested or hospitalized for psychological disorder. Just be thankful that LBQT communities fight for  freedoms and there choice of fashion if they choose wearing heels, leggings, skinny jeans etc,  so be it. It might make straight community heel wearing males like some of us breathe easier knowing some group standing up for their rights in the workplace and government politicians are listening making laws to support such things.

Can you imagine a day being employed and wearing heels you want and the boss or company employees  can't fire you or  talk trash about your attire or very least will talk with lawyers before anything is said to you.  Got to say it, Gay community strikes fear into the world to be PC. Even someone talking negatively about others those merely standying by saying nothing are now guilty by association in our workplace.  So now anyone snickering in the workplace about my feminine clothes they can be reprimanded for such actions. Just love it that before i overheard name calling about my attire laughter, whispering now the same people shut there mouth and look the other way ignoring me. Doubt this type of corporate workplace policy would be possible without the help from discrimination of LGBQT communities and liberal PC politicians.

My recent purchase these  booties,  something less noteworthy  on this forum. 

Chelsea Rag & Bone Westin Boot more ankle length then actual boot.

Yes i know no substantial heel, (1.1/4 inches at best) feeling uneasy and depressed about the purchase. Only because  it has no distinct heel like the others shown below i wanted in same colour tan suede as i settled for the Westin boot instead.

Funny that these are woman booties yet could easily bought men's in similar style. Doubt i would get the pointed toe or heel metal shank with brand logo stamped. Guess it's style to make it more feminine, differentiate it from certain style male boots. Have similar style in female moto chelsea boot in black leather rarely or never wear it only because lack of high heel. 

in truth wanted to purchase these below instead. Makes me feel happier with some kind of heel. 

Some here may have misunderstood what point  i'm trying to get across. Woman often or never purchase on the men's side of the store  isle like pants for example. Females have there own attire that look similar to male styles but they make it there own. While some stores like H&M make feminine styles for men. My recent outing at work i was wearing a long tunic male style, over my skinny cropped jeggings. My male coworker complimented me while i mocked my style to him saying to him shirt, its a dress, lol... Yet even if i picked out a female version of the same long hemed curved style tunic shirt open collar showing off much of my bare shoulders, upper back, and smooth chest who would notice the difference. Only thing they would see maybe a brand logo or different lilac colour rather bland grey which i was wearing. 

Amusing to observe some designer male shirts i wear sometimes show off my upper body because of the wide collar. Seeing i'm looked upon oddly styled feminine but the actual shirt was strictly made for male side of the isle it was meant to be purchased and worn for a man. Yet people don't know think i'm wearing a female blouse yet it's designer JV just a cut that men normally don't wear or find it to feminine. 

Bought myself woman black dress pants while ago feeling they are different then men's style which i like alot. Wore them to work seemingly they appear basic loose style black pants. On closer examination those who know can see the leg inseam is shorter, the fit is much more tight along the hips, the stretch is forgiven not rigid like male pants, pockets are smaller which emphasises shape of my buttocks yet loose the style is different compared to male pants. Woman often wearing male style pants have accented it with complimenting their shape prominently the hips. 

Even female blazer jackets are cut and styled differently then men's like the woman's style lot better. If you're anything like me enjoying to show off male physique through clothing is what i enjoy doing. Male styles often are to bulky or cut wrong so your shape is hidden in rectangular box. Just simple T-shirt male styles i've looked and seen are cut sharply while female styles are hemed curved to exploit there curves which looks much better on both genders, yet one is woman's the other is men's. 

What point i'm having difficulty expressing is NZfreestyler isn't who someone would be confused, what he is all about. None will tell our beloved high heel member your wearing heels OMG! do you realize what your doing. Only because his entire outfit skirt dress, jacket, purse, blouse is styled appropiately feminine.  So none will comment or judge only appreciate his unique style that he loves to wear. Either you ignore him leaving him be or compliment his precious style as adorable. Rather spewing negative rude comments that anyone with sense will believe your not going to change his mind or care he would listen.

So to with my female outfits in the gym everyone notices but few say negative comment aware i either have fetish for leggings or just enjoy being exhibitionist. Gives me a license to wear whatever colour i wish no matter what it is. While the truth is anyone looking upon me will conclude he exposes his body shape as well as he can. Some appreciate it others intrigued  comparing themselves to my body parts making a clear judgement. Most can't point fingers and accept for how i appear. 

JeffB you said best. What i conclude reading many posts in this forum and from experience whenever a male is fully open, honest, wearing entire feminine outfit. He is better accepted compared to one choosing outfit that is half masculine and feminine. Conclude people get confused or find it odd to look upon someone that doesn't complete an outfit for his or her gender coming off as androgynous style.  Just like many here showing there outfits who boldly wear fully garbed in feminine outfits such as skirts, tunics, dresses, pantyhose, stiletto heels, wedges, hand bag, makeup, manicures, pedicures, etc.. get less negative reactions such as long stares or cackle laughter afterwards.

Sometimes in my outings many overlook my appearance and i sneak through without being noticed, lucky me. While other people closely stare, observing my upper body wearing male fashions,  while belt down in feminine styles. This confuses people and reactions tend to be puzzlement and later bemusement figuring indeed i look half man half woman. While others who delve in a more serious female style i wrote earlier have no problems with people being confused. People ignore what they clearly see, not liking it, or accept them  for who they are, CD, or assume LGBTQIA group thus no need for any overreaction.

Seen this play out in the gym wearing strictly obvious female athletic attire colours, brand name logos visible. Many must conclude without blinking an eye or taking a closer look he dresses exactly like a woman, accepting it with no drama delivered. Either they see me initially for the first time are shocked but conclude what i wrote earlier he  likes wearing  women's clothes. In fact seen colleague male mock certain females directly in front of me, seen  wearing exact outfits colour choices etc...  Greeting them with hugs and kisses using my name in vain so to speak, as though they got confused who's who..  

As time passes people who seen me for years wearing strictly feminine athletic tight fitting clothes showing my shape mellow out. In fact initially name calling assumptions being gossiped about. Yet when people notice you for years begin to accept my style even encourage it with compliments the truth finally comes out they were jealous envious with looking upon me. Now they find themselves in competition with the clothes i buy or wear finding common ground just like my female counterparts i enjoy to shop wear new fresh different colourful outfits boldly, without care what others would think or say. While small group of encouraging woman exist for me do feel there are many more who at least want some validation from me upon there new outfits. Guessing they respect my taste in female attire yet none better to read my reactions what they are wearing.

Walking from work late Friday night with male co-worker while in passing seen a male crossdresser in blonde long wig and makeup. My co-worker overreacted saying woe, laughing what the world is going to hell, yet corrected himself saying i do some F&*Kup things myself.  Yet i responded she looked like homely female co-worker sister. My co-worker i was walking with corrected me said no brother didn't you notice it was a guy? Sort of knew it but didn't want to judge him with the same wide brush. Yet the crossdresser had his head held high yet something told me it had to feel difficult to walk out in public like that. While my co-worker kept mocking the CD saying wow he even held his head high as though it was wrong for him to do so.

Even at my workplace a victoria secret runway model showed up posing for pictures with attractive friend. Seen the female friend before she reacted poorly to my tight jeans style snearing. Now that i know i'm regarded poorly upon my style to this specific fashionista i didn't bother to look upon them even ignoring there photo IG posing sessions legs up on chairs etc.. many others had their eyes glued to them even wanting to say hello. If they don't respect my style i double the effect, hating them more, then usual person i don't know. Some people i chatted with didn't like  them as well being so self absorbed only caring what others are wearing judging them while dolled up in there designer nude coloured sheer tight fitting clothes. Later that night i seen them leaving together the models while one young girl wanted to say hello before they were escaping. Had my phone speaker on playing some nasty strip club songs from Juicy J - Can't stop Dem Whoes was so appropriate watching them leave in there high stilletos and skinny legs and flat butt.

11 hours ago, HellHeels said:

@MackyHeels

Tried to roll up the jean a bit, calves too big though haha 

 

 

Nice try, Lol.... In my opinion long hem roll ups don't look as nice as smaller cuff hem jeans. You need to buy  shorter inseam skinny crop jeans, couple rolls and your shins are showing your done. 

Yet those particular boots you should leave the jeans tucked seeing the fit snug to your leg. Or wearing cigarette leg cut jeans wear them over top. Rolling your hem would bring them up to high on your leg or calves better to roll pant leg cuffs with shorter bootie shaft.

 

2 hours ago, HellHeels said:

haha Well if you are ever interested.

https://www.callitspring.com/us/en_US/women/footwear/boots/Frerrassa/p/11355068

(They got them in black too)

And yea they look nice when the jean is rolled up, but these ones don't have a high shaft, so I don't mind tucking them into the jeans.

Your sure there genuine suede outer materials? The website descriptions seem to stare syntheti materials. Sometime descriptions state leather but often is faux leather synthetic suede. Picture you shown looks like real suede. 

Sock bootie video

On 12/18/2018 at 3:33 PM, HellHeels said:

Hi everyone, my first post on here. I just made a welcome thread too for more info, but here are the booties I recently bought from Call It Spring.
Suede front, everything else stretches which is nice, since my feet are kind of fat now.. I love how point they make my toes look.

4.5 inch heel, no platform, size 10US for those curious.

I've worn 7-8 inch heels in the past, but none with this arch. And I don't think I can ever go back to anything less than a 4 inch arch now.
I definitely like them over leggings or under tight jeans, I love the look.

Please enjoy!

 

 

Well done. Perfect sock booties, the heel looks fantastic. Pointed toe makes the shape of the feet better, or sexier for lack of a better term. My higher heel booties are oval toe, round. Find a pointed toe really is striking to look upon. Such as my asos chelsea tan suede pointed toe for example. 

Only problem i find with them is the toe box gets scuffed, discoloured difficult to impossible to clean. Yet tan goes very well with light coloured to medium wash blue denim  skinny jeans. Like you shown covered cigarette leg skinny jeans often make my bootie's look better then displaying the entire shaft. Only difference your sock like bootie is fitted to your ankle makes it look much better than the gap i show here. Usually i see woman roll up there skinny jeans so show off some  skin or wear very short cropped skinny jeans. My only problem i own and wear the trendy  staggered, distressed hem skinny jeans which is difficult to roll up. 

Definitely looked upon purchasing similar sock booties but never could have the nerve to pull the trigger. Sometimes lack of sizing was the con in wanting to purchase such great heels. 

Schutz Krysta Suede Mid-Calf Boots 

https://video.asos-media.com/products/ASOS/_media_/b9b/b9b2b344-218e-4692-961d-bcfb2ea2e91e.mp4

1 hour ago, p1ng74 said:

@MackyHeels I assume you don’t know the lady that you linked as a “perfect example”, so perhaps our of respect her let us not come to any conclusions about people we don’t know.  

Believe P1ng74  very positive at my instincts, have very similar infatuated woman i known for years exactly like the one i wrote linked about. She may have noticed the stare from the beauty contestant upon me, as i was walking. Even my infatuated lady hater would nod to the beauty queen thinking the same mindset,  i know exactly what your thinking, i see him wearing these type of jeans all the time, disgusting that's why i ignore him entirely. Observing  the beauty queens demeanour about me is telling if something disturbs her. Difficult to approach her in friendly manner without being thought as someone that has ulterior motives. Yet not impossible to chat with her but you usually get superficial political correct answers.

Maybe i'm painted these woman with the same wide brush but experience taught me just from visual que's upon me they have issues of my style. Heard others voice out so i could clearly hear in polite manner " he has issues". Sort of pointing out my fashion sense is wrong and continuing to be wearing it in public is more then fashion mistake but psychological one. Nice way telling me indirectly that i'm certified crazy.

Yes, i try not to assume what others maybe thinking about my fashion sense. Although do have example of another beauty contestant Capital city from Florida. She is very outspoken little less PC as we made eye contact. She definitely noticed my rags i was wearing. Although at the time my jeans weren't super tight as the other woman seen. She gave me pleasant smile and nod looking me over. Without a doubt i sensed she liked my feminine outfit yet didn't faze her like the others. Which tells me she is cool with whatever fashions i may wear heels, skinny jeans, because it's not her business to judge disliking others because what they are wearing. So 3 out 4 attractive woman i had interactions with hate my fashion style while other just doesn't care or judge. 

Ask myself why only clues i can conclude is the other three woman observing me shocked have slender lean attractive model bodies. Assume they believe in themselves not being self conscious about showing their body. While the positive minded outspoken beauty contestant may have larger shapely physique as the years have gone she isn't as slender compared to the others yet just as attractive.  Sometimes woman who are considered overweight or large often are marginalized in the beauty competitions. Thus understanding other marginalized people being more sensitive to there feeling rather staring making obvious judgement what they dislike. While the leaner beauty pageant gals don't worry about how people perceive them because they fall into a physical lean category that is medial normal range for that title. Often fashionistas with slender builds never perceive judgements about their body seeing everything they wear can't make there hips, thighs. to big or judged being to large.  Thus can't understand others being marginalized in society for there appearance. Only they perpetuate it more needing not to apologize for them being genetically skinny while laughing at the overweight cow saying lots of luck competing with me.

So when i get judged negatively by few beauty contestants i examine there lean untoned bodies. Doubting very much they can stand proudly next to fitness competition models in a bikini without feeling utterly self conscious. This make me amused they judge me but i can throw it back at  them and scan there body with judgement and smirk them fully understanding my demeanour. Voicing out loud to colleague, she ain't that hot, compared to gals in my gym, she need to do few more squats and situps, ass out stomach in to fill out that dress. Point made!

1 hour ago, p1ng74 said:

How do you know?  I can’t tell based on the interview...

Through experience not first time the "stare" from like minded beauty contestants given me, eyeballs bulging, mouth open in shock appalled disbelief as i kept walking the floor confidently approaching closer to her . Her eyes never looked away at least 15 seconds, more i noticed her focused stare upon my legs, she kept looking down upon my shoes at first i thought she recognized my designer nubuck black generic sneakers. At the time i had bigger smile amused at her disbelief stare down even had thoughts come to mind, she should see me in the gym with my tighter outfits....Although from her distance she couldn't possibly see the brand logo stamped on the back of the heel or doubt be impressed by the generic style. So i gather it was my female J-brand, photo ready, 620's, nightbird wash that had her full attention.

Could be she owns same pair or recognizes them. Yet i believe an attractive beauty contestant, fashionista is often scoping out how others are dressed then being appalled at a male like me wearing dark feminine  legging jeans in public so confident walking in them. Positive she feels how on earth does he think it looks good on a man with painted on tight jeans, looks like a girl. Have few gals that won't say hello if i wear anything like that funny that i passed by one at the same time making my way by being observed by the beauty queen. The common denominator of all these woman is there all fashion conscious "fashionistas" so they recognize what i have on even voice out the brand i'm wearing to others.

Knowing she likes wearing dark coloured exclusively sandal strap stilettos at least four inches.  She like me have same idea, wearing that with my said jeans maybe next time i bump into her we may talk fashion asking me what brand of jeans i was wearing. Like her taste the jeans would look better in heels, only if we ran into each other at a mall in my heel booties what the reactions would be.

Just example how fashionistas have one side talking in respects to female gender while never imagining a male might style similarly. Thus her response of shock disbelief which often comes that my fashion sense is all to wrong for my gender. She may even try to help me understanding men don't wear clothes woman wear.

Very attractive Fashion conscious woman gave me a real long stare Down one time. As I walked in my skinny jeans and sneakers. Her expression told me everything I needed to know about her perceptions for guys like us. Yet walking passed her couldn’t help observe her sandal heels and long legs, very beautiful. 

Here’s a link

https://amp.courier-journal.com/amp/29562851

Perfect example of a woman that doesn’t appreciate a male styling in feminine fashions no matter how great in shape he’s in. 

1 hour ago, nzfreestyler said:

I think most fashion conscious women are fashionistas - they wear hat they do more for themselves and other women who are also fashionistas - primarily not to lure men or to fuel envy in other women - but because they like to look good in their own eyes. Naturally the swim in circles of like minded women. And in the larger fish tank - well we have a lot of women who don't get into that because they have never tried, just knock the fashuonable ones back because it easier to be critical than to make an effort yourself.

I don't think its about stoking an envy - in my experiences women know I am not trying to outdo them. I actually do try to outdo them as I like to have the best legs, or the nicest outfit if I can but I appreciate being beaten and it makes me try harder

I appreciate the fashion and the style of clothes and shoes - and if women sense that I do = then they get it - a fellow fashionista - not a enemy. Hard to explain quickly but thats what its like for me.

Nzfreestyler You hit bang on! 

Take example of women that go to horse racing events at the track. Not the daily races but the special events like the Kentucky derby look at the hat wearing woman in pink, cream coloured outfits and court stiletto heels. These woman put lot of effort dressing much more formal than any wedding party just watching horses run around a grass, dirt track.

Take your point most woman outfit themselves for her not  deliberately for others only to get rise out of them, yet undoubtedly some do it anyway. You wrote Nzfrrestyler that you appreciate being beaten so it only makes you try harder next time. Guess that is the trap we all fall into unless you didn't put effort in your outfit in the first place, then just instincts tell you to sharpen up or  feel awkward wearing same thing next time. Countless woman feel that way feeling OMG i need to go shopping look at the room i'm in with all these ladies in new trendy outfits.

 Sometimes stokin envy becomes  class warfare. Usually if not always, the one wearing expensive designer rags and shoes wins even if the body is worn and tired displaying such attire it becomes a winner nonetheless. Queen of UK comes to mind.

There is distinction of fashionista trendy conscious fashion woman all to consumed what they are wearing needing to purchase unique rags to make the outfit work. Usually these ladies are very competitive and deep down very evil, egocentric, selfish. not wanting others to look the same as them. Trumps wife comes to mind. 

Maybe i'm legging fashionista and some percentage of women sense it quietly respecting my taste, style and choice of colour as if taking credit designing leggings myself. Sometimes i can sense and assume woman wearing new leggings want my reaction because what they seen me wear in the gym boldly no male would dream of or have the guts. If i look shocked stunned they figure they did something right, me being envious, jealous beaten to the punch. If i totally ignore don't recognize there outfit or stare longer upon them with a usual confused sneer as what are you wearing that for reaction, they figure shamed to buy a new outfit. 

My motivation is know your audience and dress according to get a reaction. Yes i need to pass few personal rules of my own before i wear it in public does it compliment my body or am i wearing it for the sake of any reaction. Yet being observant of many females in the gym keeping close eye on them versus me wearing different colours styles. Often i make assumptions what these females love hate, when wearing specific outfits. Some woman like bright cheerful colours telling me so, all while disparaging others looking like crap in dull, effervescent colours with muted pastel tones. While others enjoy the subtle conservative style and colours not wanting attention yet still looking unique. Very tight rope to walk on but wearing certain things makes others envious jealous while other days laugh disliking the range of choices i choose to wear on any given day.

Just once or twice a year i may hit the mark hitting home run wearing complete outfit almost anyone will have to admit envies. The expression on woman faces upon me is worth the effort and purchases needed to get me outfitted so well.  the overjoyed feeling that i found an new outfit that clicks for everyone looking is remarkable thing. Yet i know these feelings from others will pass tiring of the outfit in days following. Yet the road continues to be traveled looking for the next big thing. 

3 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

@MackyHeels while we might agree on being sensitive to what women are thinking, we don't seem to agree on our approach to this sensitivity.  Envy and jealousy are powerful emotions.  On the positive side, jealousy can be inspiring.  Yes, I get jealous of how much fun some people have when I see pictures and read their heeling accounts, and I think I have been inspired to try new things.  I know people around notice what I am doing, and I hope we have a positive interaction, so that we can all be inspired to enjoy different things.  But in order to keep things positive, we have to be sensitive and know when to slow down.  If your outfits are intended to stoke envy in such a way that it body shames other women, it will likely lead to many negative interactions with them.  And this danger is not just with women's clothes - I have specifically seen a situation where a man crossed this line at work with a masculine outfit.  

You haven't seen angry woman only because what we are wearing doesn't suit her particular taste. Yet we have the right to wear what we want but they stand against it no matter what we say or wear, slowed down as you put it. My experiences have taught me, as many here on forum repeatedly wrote, don't care what others might think, just continue wearing what you enjoy. Yes, the consequences can be steep depending on your intentions towards others.  

Often talking to few older mature ladies with euro background tell me repeatedly they are so envious and jealous observing my style, taste, and body wearing feminine outfits in the gym. In a good smiling way, giving me thumbs up often and compliments making me blush. Some tell me being so inspired knowing they can observe me from a distance, knowing i will continue to visit the gym daily wearing my sexy feminine outfits, thus helping there lack of motivation to exercise.

While other married younger females tell me for some odd reason they feel in competition about the clothes they see me wearing in the gym. They tell me they hated me at first, angry, because i better them wearing my outfits. Since they started to purchase my brand of feminine outfits they become happier inclusive of me, chatting me up, complimenting that i look better in these feminine outfits then they.  Even seriously encourage me to purchase same bright colour outfits, laughing asking me to wear it on the same days as they visit the gym. Some woman who kept their distance for years never speaking to me, now can't stop giving me compliments, noticing my cologne, outfits, physique, even gossiping about overhearing other woman talk about me privately to others in a positive light unbeknownst to me.

Although sometimes i slightly regret it,  regarding to stoke envy, going too far for some innocent young woman trying to better her body. They get frustrated at there results not achieving a goal  (there fault not mine), while feeling depressed looking upon there old worn, pilled, basic black, gym clothes compared to my new refreshing impeccable outfits seen on a daily basis. 

Observing recently some young attractive lean blonde asian woman copying my leggings style. Purchasing the same brand, colour, style, leggings walking into the gym feeling  self conscious seeing me around, modeling her pretty self in gym floor mirrors, staring upon her backside and flattened bootie, feeling deflated, avoiding me. Probably asking herself why she can't look as good as "that guy" (me) accompanied by her paranoid boyfriend. Often seeing the troubled meek females wanting opportunity to chat with me pick my brain about diet, exercises, clothing, or closely examine me  subtly while working out nearby, nothing wrong with that.  Although always the jealous asian boyfriends notices stares her down jumping  to get in between us, forcing her to move away, telling her she has no business doing exercises uses this or that nearby.  Telling to move another piece of equipment so happens to be other side of the gym, seen this phenomenon many times different asian young woman twin sisters and friends.. Shaking my head why these young males are so defensive upon my presence, looking out for their girlfriends not getting to close, watching over me like a guard dog. While times the boyfriend is not in eyesight watching over his girl if circumstances are ideal i may exercise next to her observing her in the corner of my eye. Telling that she observes every movement of me sitting on the gym bench

Yet i continue to parade around in the gym floor, pool, whirlpool  flaunting my body in feminine leggings, tight tech tops, thongs overhearing woman discussing what they think in positive lustful manner or observing there stare walking behind me. 

3 hours ago, Cali said:

Macky you buy a lot of leggings. I have about 30 leggings and yoga pants. But you are always buying. Where do you store them?

Always buying new ones feels, refreshing better than older ones with similar colour. When i outfit myself out in public i get satisfaction from  observing females envious, jealous what i wear. Compared to older cache style or colour leggings people seen me often worn for few weeks at least. Styles stay the same but colour changes slightly some might not purchase because it's not worth it yet subtly i can tell so to for others with decening eye. Even though buying leggings often having the hue changes slightly there is sense people feel as i that newer fresher colour is deemed more eye catching then the older leggings.

Anyway you haven't asked where i keep my tops, short shorts, but leggings are best hung over the old barber chairs have three to pile on including socks and thongs in boxes Underneath the chairs are my cache of sneakers including some bootie heels which are few. You can say it becomes very difficult to choose the right colour of leggings to wear each day in the gym. Sometimes colour of the day online chooses my outfits or just buy the newest trendiest out there wear them for cycle of few weeks before new stuff or colours comes out. Gets rather frustrating wearing leggings for maybe four or five times liking them but newer colours are purchased and they take priority to wear running out of daya of the week to cycle through them. Bought new sneakers yet have not worn them only because the colour schemes don't match with my outfits. Yet i know the newer colours down the pipeline will finally arrive to wear my new sneakers. 

There hasn't been a style of leggings or colour i wouldn't dare to wear unless there contrary to compliment my figure. Feel i'm legging guru knowing what works on my body rather playing it safe with colours like so many women do. 

1 hour ago, Cali said:

This is normal for this time of year when most men shopping in a woman's section are shopping for their wives or girlfriend(s). I just usually say "I'm a size 8 or medium."  No need to say more.

 

Laughing at that comment your so right!

Yet seeing most female SA are young they likely might not pick up on the comment and find your trying to being comical. Asking excuse me do you mean her, not you, funny guy,  giggling.... Feel some benign female young SA college age  i don't have any gripes  particularly needing to push her buttons. Just give me the size and style i'm asking for and go back doing nothing, thank you very much. Don't need to get personal on whom am i buying it for,  as one SA asked me  near mothers day.

If SA assumes i'm buying leggings for myself they may ask me to try them on for size just for intrigue or entertainment purposes. Believe me it would be tempting with my exhibitionist tendencies to model female leggings and tops in the store boutique. Did it before once but that's entirely different experience in virtual empty store. Yet the SA on my recent visit told me your sure about her size? In these styles  some find it better fitting sizing down? I said nothing although they were my first purchase for these particular style leggings yet i already fitted them earlier directly from my sisters cache of particular style different colour leggings. 

Few weeks ago had female SA at another particular yoga boutique picking up few leggings for myself. As i asked for certain, styles, colour, names and specific size. The helpful female SA warned me these leggings are meant for yoga rather then working out. I smiled nodding yes i know. She looked upon me afterwards reflecting saying, Wow! you certainly come prepared, knowing exactly what you want. I said nothing with grin except, thanks. Sometimes it's amusing listening to other woman shoppers never wearing leggings before talking to SA about them which specifically  wear all the time in the gym and purchase often. Just once, wishing to interjecting in a conversation  telling them it makes your butt look great while others more durable flatten your booty honey. Take it from me i know, you should see the stares i get from woman at the gym wearing them.... i could dream saying that what reaction would you say i get..?

It's far easier to buy women clothes at this time of the season being asked you need a gift receipt. Rather getting those intrigued confused stares judging me if i was buying the female clothes for myself. Doubt i care seeing almost every post on IG i hashtag the companies brand or local store. Any female vaguely interested would easily recognize me from the many photos i post in the leggings they sell. That's why often i wonder if some female SA recognize me on IG when i walk into a particular store, yet never say a word but gleefully smile for no apparent reason.

p1ng74 you said it so right!

On 12/14/2018 at 11:47 AM, p1ng74 said:

 

All of this I am sure complicates women’s  perception of men in heels.  When a woman sees a man wearing high heels, it is such a rare sight that they might not know what to think.  Is he wearing heels to mock women?  Is this some erotic expression that is inappropriate in public?  If men start wearing heels, will that dilute the power of heels in women’s fashion?  Is this man using women’s fashion to exert dominance over me?

Women do have a tendency to analyze things more than men.  When a man sees a guy in heels, they probably make a quick judgement, whether it be that he looks hilarious, insane, stupid, sharp, or bold, and then they move on without analyzing it further.  

Always ponder what woman believe when they initially observe what i wear. Often trying to guess upon there demeanour giving ques what they maybe perceiving.

Went to my favourite athletic yoga boutique recently to shop for some sharp new female sexy leggings and running tops. While being treated well by the female SA she automatically asked, WHAT SIZE DOES SHE NORMALLY WEAR? Not surprising seeing i'm shopping in the woman's section of the store. Only clues she could of caught on observing my outfit with female skinny snug fitting cropped distressed hem  jeans, with short insulated black jacket, and black leather sneakers which looked very subtle.  Wanted to correct the SA saying, No! there for me. Although feeling little awkward or a liar making her believe i'm buying it for someone else thought best to leave things alone or have any dialogue in crowded store people listening. Figure woman SA or guys in this forum find it very odd or hard to understand why a male like me wanting to dress in various woman fashions such as thong underwear, jeans, jackets, various athletic outfits, gloves, socks etc.., even though there are male counterpart outfits across the aisle in similar styles.

As i stood solely in line behind stanchions  waiting next to cash out older plain woman from my workplace came walking into the boutique few feet passing next me with another woman discussing shopping. Heard her chat about her being very aggressive shoppe don't know if she recognized me or not. Knowing her and husband are extremely  very wealthy, i wished i wore my black leather heel booties, she never seen me wearing at work, just so i would know she recognized me. Only interaction i heard from her at work was being upset telling her husband she has the same button down coloured violet shirt i was once wearing. Other then that often found her comments being negative onto my style thus never speaking to one another ignoring each other. So wearing heels to the mall would of gave her assuredly sneering, appalled expression upon the image of me standing in line with heels would be imprinted never forgetting what she observing for many days to come. 

Looking at it this way if i were in anyone else's shoes observing someone like myself.  It's as if i were buying sneakers and putting them on the opposite foot while SA trying to correct me saying your doing it all wrong yet i insist on wearing my left shoe on my right foot vice versa. So i can understand others being puzzled on what i'm wearing even laugh observing my outfits. 

While continuing to put myself in other people's shoes analyzing myself. Understand some females frustration with my outfits. Taking the point made earlier by p1ng74 of mocking woman's outfits is a valid point. To be honest it was one of reasons as many deciding to wear female clothes. Having to get even with negative minded woman. What i always knew about woman is they despised to look upon someone wearing a nice outfit that had no business in it.

For example old skinny sagging woman that had no shape trying to look good but only exaggerated her flaws even more thus bastardized the outfit in the viewers mind.

Analogy of a television having burn in issues, ghosting  for better term of a static image constantly subtly seen whenever the screen has bright light picture. So too when woman has desire to purchase a great  feminine outfit but sees it on me first, gets all upset. Only because she loved the colour. style but now when i wear it she can't get the initial picture of me in it out of her mind, like the burn in issue of a tv, it's always creeps in when you least expect it. Sort of spoils the outfit she maybe wanting to purchase for herself to wear thus getting upset or taking her anger upon me. 

Like p1ng74 remarked woman want answers for what we wear as unique or understand the significance of it. On the nude beach i get questioned about my c-rings by attractive naive young female groups asking is it for purpose of sexual activities..  On how i often respond to female questions to my c-ring sighting example from her  as wearing jewellery, earrings, bracelet, belly ring, toe ring just as accessory that's all nothing more. Yet one asking believes stumped at my answer agreeing with me but others nod smirking sarcastically doubting i wear it only for a bold fashion statement. Sometimes people's beliefs can't change no matter what you trying to explain they often think the worst or negative light believing more to it then it is.

While i know not every woman can be painted with same wide brush being all alike. Have to say some woman i've talked to notice me for sure and complemented  often enough. While i try to figure out why the positive feedback from one group of women versus another negative vibe about my outfit is intriguing and puzzling.

Had chat with a goddess female trainer at my gym, she finally recognized me from my workplace explaining she works part time there also, for five years. She stated an example recognizing me accompanied by her gym client that she described to him that's the same guy that visits her gym. The client responded you mean the man wearing the  tights in the gym. She exclaimed yah! She told me although i wear lot looser clothes at work versus the gym outfits, Lol... She replied to co-workers and client when initially recognizing me, do these people surrounding him know exactly what  type of great body he has under those clothes, again laughing at me with her tongue ring sticking out.... Just surreal that we worked so long never ran into each other or recognized  before now. Just because i wear my feminine tight gym outfit unique to any male visiting the gym, it often stands out, less likely to be forgotten or recognized by others. My only question is why it took 5 years....

Yet as our chat went along couldn't help notice her wandering eyes upon my new feminine gym tight outfit. Yes very feminine sparkle heathered violet red LS she kept eyeballing onto  paired with smokey green leggings.  Nothing more satisfying wearing new gym outfit so motivating to visit the gym to show off my new digs.

Most woman i come across is do what say, but don't do what i do, or should i say, wear.

Woman want exclusivity of there conventional style, colouring  hair, at salons, manicures, pedicures, eyebrows plucked, makeup, and yes feminine clothes and shoes. Once a man walks that line of feminine style  woman never dream or actually think any male would do just that unless your trans, crossdresser or troubled. Feel woman believe there are certainly freaks in both genders but they never expect observing males like us  in there work environment, community, neighbourhood would walk around in feminine garb. 

Funny how female psyche beliefs when they see a man if he isn't interested in her your either married, in a relationship or gay.  Sometimes woman's ego gets in the way going through life never seeing a male in heels or wearing female attire.  They get upset not that there jealous but feel they only can look sexy and attractive. While male boundaries is to look traditionally manly until they try to slowly feminize him to there tastes.

As for those woman that get outraged male wearing certain feminine attire i praise those like nzfreestyler able to talk openly with those kind of females. My reactions to these woman is to simply say little as possible ignoring them from my life. Difficult to do in the workplace but i try not to look at them or stay clear like a foul odour even sneer at the sound of there voice..  Some want to be noticed then smile saying hello walking passed but  her  greeting meant  upon someone other then me. Making me feel rejected and confused while i know it was deliberate on the females part. Yet i stand amused feeling relieved knowing there going out of there way to ignore me because of my feminine outfit. People like that show their true colours and character and easier for me to forget them, cheering inside that they don't want to be friendly. Who needs people that are narrow minded, traditional in their beliefs, yet don't respect others because they don't align with them. 

1 hour ago, nzfreestyler said:

don't know but I sometimes run in a running skirt cause they are really comfy, and my current Kayanos (shoes) are hot pink and black !

Curious seeing pictures of you in athletic wear. Always observed few  females i know in only a dress pantyhose and heels like my second female cousin for example. Never seen her in casual outfit always dressed up. Wearing a skort, for fitness exercise runny outdoors or visiting inside a gym.  Only seen two woman wearing that a skort, If you do exercise at a gym wearing what you described what were the reactions you seen?

While i wear exclusively very comfortable female leggings working out inside the gym, feels if i'm completely naked. When i began wearing feminine fitness outfits Initially got some flack, but since doing it for years i routinely wear them, the regular members are use to see me outfitted very well. Nothing more motivating than wearing a great skin tight feminine gym outfit showing off my shape observing more than my normal reactions i get. Often consider woman staring intrigued even envying my attire, some telling me so or they can't keep their eyes off me when i workout. Then i know i'm doing something right later on a few visits others are copying and wearing similar or exact outfit i had on with complimentary colours. 

Yet beside the leggings and tight tops more attention is given to my grey with accented pink nike sneakers. Yes, my body gets the initial scan legs upper body etc, yet often then not females stare glaring at my shoes noticing the colour. Yet it often matches the subtle  hue pink top i was wearing or purplish- pink mauve colour leggings.

Peeptoe i was in your exact shoes and had the same thoughts, so i understand fully well.

Although many here will say the opposite for good reason. There are many factors going into wearing booties you wore and shown in your post. 

First off when i was in your situation i was hyper observing everyone at a slightest glance, smirk, laugh set me off to believe oh no are they judging me, yet it had nothing to do with it.  Saying all that i wasn't stupid or totally paranoid either. Indeed many  looking giggling, teenagers, asian families, older woman with upset demeanour, single black woman with young kids shaking their heads discussing me that i look like a woman, tisk tisk. Angry young woman with there boyfriend voicing next to  my ear that i should be ashamed and embarrassed not proud wearing tight female denim leggings and those heel booties, disgusting. Sales people not helping me in stores virtually running away discussing about me with others that i'm on my way to becoming a dangerous psychopath because i don't care what people think of my attire in public. 

To help with your heeling pick an environment that is conducive to wearing heels. I know areas that if i walk in heel booties i be only one of either gender. Even if a woman wore heels she be looked upon oddly.  Sometimes just what your wearing or demeanour people will stare  upon you for no apparent reason and make judgements even smirk laugh at your attire unless it's so plain or ordinary. If you choose a good location and like some here post in there jaunts repeatedly visit people tend to get use to it and the smirks, laughs. stares gradually go away. in fact people tend to accept your heel style and compliment your bold courage to wear what you choose anti-establishment characters come to mind.

Set aside a good location to heel in public. Often find downtown areas are so busy people have no time to pause stare make commentary about your heels. Pick a good outfit that works with your heels makes peoples mind change saying yah he looks not to bad if you can get over the heels he's wearing..

Finally be busy meaning don't look for others accepting your style standing alone in the middle of  square begging to be seen hands out yelling look at me. If you find your mind is preoccupied, instead the place your in. then others are just background noise racing by never seen again and forgotten. Look at how many attractive woman don't give rats %ss when shopping onto others. Busy on there phones texting what there doing later meeting someone planning evening out focused on what they need to buy making a list, nail polish, tampons, XL condoms, licorice thong, padded bra, etc... you get the point keep your mind busy. Have a cup of Starbucks in one hand phone in the other while holding onto the shopping bags walking with purpose. If you feel sad ready to shed a tear put on some designer sunglasses on inside making you look so self absorbed worried only about yourself none else.

Think about it this way, people have hang ups we all do and certain lines we all won't cross. So to understand others will never accept your style ever so don't try to please them or wait for therm to accept you they will never do. Your not making friends walking out the door to shop doesn't matter what your wearing. So when you arrive home at least you feel better that you wore what you wanted and nobody could stop you from doing so. Then you feel better about yourself wearing clothes on your terms not what society deems acceptable or fashionable for your gender. 

Haters and prejudice people will always exist nothing you could do about it. Only when wearing heels or outfits that are unique i know from peoples reactions they aren't ready to see someone like me. Gives me insight on people's character living  a sheltered life never seeing a man in feminine fashions thus reacting as they do confused. After wearing your style out in public often enough it becomes easier and people tend to lighten up around. Intrigued  people will be chatting  you up then anyone else just for intrigue or curiousity. 

Think of it this way, taking the  easy road, nothing interesting comes of it. Having some adversity in life if you can pull through the hardships, in the beginning, makes your character stronger more intriguing attracting others to you which they normally wouldn't.  I'm testament to that yes lot of people shunned me in the beginning not being polite ignoring me because of my attire. Had many thoughts to quit stop the insanity mocked laughed ridiculed yet i kept my composure and fears not showing minded my business. Deep down knew i was doing the right thing for me maybe grown a complex of some sort very negative towards woman in particular. Yet today i can't tell you how many woman are attracted to me yet so shy to make a move or subtly checking me out. Only few brave enough to compliment me loving my style. 

Your choice, waste your time hiding from these haters because believing there judging you.  While it takes time to adjust when someone slaps you on one cheek turn the other cheek. Forgive them and it will make you a better person others will recognize that not the heels your wearing. Often others will see how your being treated by haters and will have compassion to give a smiling friendly compliment. 

3 hours ago, nzfreestyler said:

oops - and to answer your initial question re escalators and stairs etc...

I just put my hand on the back of my skirt - or often I put one hand on my side and pull the hem of my skirt and roll it in my hand - it just takes the hem of my skirt in and pulls it in tight around my legs/bottom.

I do the same thing with an a-line skirt or larger volume skirt/dress in the wind. Use my spare hand to grab one hem on the side and roll it up to stop it blowing. (only sucks when you have both hands full and all of sudden its windy  - like when you walk around a corner in town and theres wind !!!

 

Yeah see a lot of woman do what you wrote holding the hem. One property our company owns is a bar.  Sitting in a VIP area there is leather plush furniture we lay back, heads looking upwards. The hub of activity is a open staircase which is next to us. Many of us enjoy observing the attractive waitresses and females in heels and short tight dresses walking up. They all know we are looking observing smiles on our faces. 

Sometimes wearing short skirt is deliberate attempt to flash someone for there eyes only, using it to flirt. It’s  not surprising Victoria secret makes animal printed lingerie often showing bra straps under there tops,  and yes, sexy golden printed thongs.

Today woman are not labeled whores if they can’t help display some sexy coloured panty under her short skirt. At least there wearing something underneath.  Lot of things can get out of control in the vip area. Sitting closely with attractive female cross legged with no panties in short skirt begging to be seen. 

Agree with you open line long dress is much more provocative. Have problem with older married woman often visiting,  family friend since I was a little boy. Up to this day she is suddenly having major infatuation with me for some unknown reason Lol....While sitting with others she likes to adjust her large cleavage bending down over top of me. Later sitting in a group with open split along the front of her legs. Faces me only and points her legs from a distance directing towards me. Giving me a lot to observe suffice to say she wears no undies. Crazy but she knows I look and get a glimse then covers up before others notice her flirting with me very subtle but the point gets across loud and clear. 

Nzfreestyler do you have issues standing going up on escalators or paranoia creep in?

 Often observe woman pulling down there short skirts believing someone like me behind them might look. Like you said someone in front or further away could sneak glances what’s under her skirt. To be honest and labeled as you wrote a pervert. Curious whenever female wears a short skirt to see what she has underneath or if there is outline pantyline underneath. My interest is rooted  having same sense of style including  specific thong underwear females wear. As for looking subtly what’s under females mini skirt only once seen one without undies, it was pointed out because of the obvious way she was sitting. 

Suppose it’s all about what lingerie panties your wearing under that skirt. For an exhibitionist a short skirt could be just the opportunity to show off for those  female pervs intrigued or curious. It’s widely known males in kilts go o’natural. Most popular question I overhear is from woman who are bold asking men in kilts what are you wearing under that...Lol..

Just saying, short skirt your wearing could be very exciting  for the wearer. It  has a taste of sensual stimulation when you know someone is trying to look under the skirt. Sometimes there is reason why panties can be fashion style of itself colours and prints.  Cheetah, silk,  prints,  are only few choices to be wearing knowing your undies might show even if your not intentionally doing it. 

4 hours ago, p1ng74 said:

Actually I was just about to suggest that being 6 feet tall without heels actually causes people’s “peripheral judgment” as Macky put it to gravitate to masculine despite the details of what I am wearing.

In the end, whether or not people notice or say anything is secondary to me.  I am enjoying the fun feeling of wearing something wild and different while going about the usual, otherwise boring daily routine that I have had to deal with lately at work.  

Often it is true people observe a very tall female without heels is associated to masculine deposition.  Often observe a 6 foot 5 inch young woman in the gym with medium build for her size which is quite large for any any average size woman. Yet anyone i talk to gossips about how she appears bigger then most men. Could see it in her demeanour  talking that she feels less feminine and has angst being so tall and big. Feet are too large to wear women's size shoes and we all know tall woman wearing heels looks freakish. Only if your super model with skinny skeleton frame body physique requirement to attracting more attention. We as people enjoy standing out in the crowd being praised envied complimented  for what we wear.

Ask yourself has male in casual masculine clothes ever been complimented  compared versus  a  women in their feminine attire with the same frequency? Only time i noticed males get complimented  same equal frequency by others is when shirts off or semi nude and body is shown from a male. Guess today more men get complimented about their bodies, than woman. Which translates to what  woman  are wearing being more impaortant then what men style themselves unless it's formal tuxedo or suit and tie.

Agree with wearing and enjoy feeling wild in the clothes you wear. Puzzles me to no end why woman make a fuss about my feminine fashion style treating me with disrespect over and over again. Yet they themselves know how important clothes can make your daily routine fun and exciting not exclusive to only the female gender. I like to shop, i want to wear different colourful clothes,  shoes where the environment is suited like the gym or elsewhere.. While on the street subtle contrasting dark colours work with well fitted clothes bringing out my lean toned physique which is apparent when looking me over. Thus understandable when i get a startled stare once, from my boss which i worked beside.  He looked me over asking how do i keep in that shape. Let say my boss has smart discerning eye nothing gets passed him.