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As far as I know, high heels have never been associated with being gay. People are much to quick to judge.

Yes Johnie, misjudgement is a terrible thing, you're right.

In my opinion, the confusion with heels and gays are related to travestites that are gay AND wear women attire including heels. Sometimes they are prostitutes and are in full view in the streets seeking for clients.

Drag Queens usually are artists and are gay or straight.

Maybe those are the reasons behind this misconception.

Kneehighs is really a great member here and I'm thankful to him when he asked me to translate some spanish posts in a forum to english sometime ago, he gave me the full credit for that job, what started me to post even more here and discuss any subject that I liked, something like it broke the ice for me. We exchanged some e-mails later on what makes kneehighs a good friend. He's a person I didn't had the opportunity to meet personally, but I'm convinced that anyone here that met him in NYC or in the heelmeets had great time with him. I don't know the reason why he don't like long term relationships with the stunning girls he knows in the streets of our small world but one thing is clear for me: it's too difficult to continue to travel the world and meet new people while you're commited to a serious relationship. But it's not a rule, I'm sure. The best for you, my friend!

I went into a local mall and went into the store called Charlotte Russe. They had pumps for sale for $22.99, and you buy a second pair for $10. I found some nice black ones with a bow on them, like Jessica Simpson's "Bacton" pump. I also found a hot red pair but they didn't have my size. I found some other red ones that will be ok.

Both are wonderful but the black ones are a rare especimen! They are so beautiful!

Well, they got some attention. Something like "free publicity" from our community.

Yes you do. I, too, like the denim. The skirt, the high heels and the jacket look so good on you. Keep them coming. We really like your style.

I have to be honest here. I don't think the jacket is coordinating.

The look of the shoes and the denin skirt is classy and easy on the eyes, but the jacket remembers something more sporty.

Maybe a tuxedo jacket would look better, but it's MY opinion. If it floats your boat, go ahead.

All your attitude is great at all! Congratulations!

yeaaa...im leaning towards 2.

im wondering if its one of those shoes that look not tall but when u wear it...its different..like u know some outfits on the rack u look at and think "ummmmmmm hhhmmmmmmmm ahhhhh hmmm" and then u try it on and it looks amazing....i dunno...but thanks billyb

Number 2, number 2, number 2 (that's the crowd yealling)

Women will never have to worry about loosing there edge when wearing anything. A woman can put on a ball cap and look sexy as most men I know wear ball caps to hide there hair loss spot.lol

Women, we hate them...

They wake up in the morning with that hair from the full night and you look to them and find them beautiful...

They come home, clothes off and take that horrible basketball team shirt go sleep and you find them sexy...

They use that green mask on the face and you find them lovely...

They clip their hair when they need to work and you find them powerful...

They get ungry with you and you can't stop looking in their eyes...

Women, WE LOVE YOU!

Guys wearing heels are just a sense of fashion, sexyness, feeling and sense for all us heelers. A movement like woman wearing pants in the past was not just a movement for ladies in pants - was a movement for ladies freedom and social justice, the pants where just the icon, that became commom fashion in the end and the simbol of the free women. I don't think we need a movement for acceptance since it will never solve nothing, either it changes some minds or not. What I think is that to wear heels regularly, specially here in this "macho" country, is that it should become mainstream someway in the local fashion industry. I keep my heeling indoors and some selected night clubs for a while and cautiously in the way from the door to my car. Of course I'm trying to save money to go to England and the participate the heelmeet where I will be totally comfortable around our friends here and show the world I can wear heels, unfortunatelly when you're married your money serves both and common priority is not that this time.

roniheels, what an amazing story!!! I liked a lot, enjoy reading every part. Your outing is interesting specially because of the caveats you experienced. It's a lot like the real world is about closed minds, conservative people, concepts and youngsters in their full testosterone of the puberty. Many many thanks for your piece!

I do wear my boots to bed sometimes, it's a good sensation yet I prefer to go walking around in them. I slept wearing them once and was interesting to wake up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom... I forgot I was wearing them and had to hold myself in the walls to not fall:nervous: What me and my wife do between four walls wearing boots (us both) are too much to talk here in the forum, but is wonderful!

Yes, and also the remark was made that with a wedge heel there is no front

of the heel.

Actually this is great!

I can buy a pair of wedges and say that they have no heels!

I was today at a shoe store, I aways try the shoes before I buy and remembered this thread imediatelly at the entrance door. Unfortunatelly I didn't find any shoe that fitted my desire and feet size.

I read somewhere that 6ihf shoes are good fitting and comfortable. The style shown is reallly beautiful, like it a lot.

Good news from you, kennard. Enjoy your stay! Are those the Eurico's sandals?

Hehe, on a serious note, like all things in life, there's sooo much room at the top, that in our close knit community, I look at it more as cooperation than competition.

On a lighter note, I'll let the girls be the final judge.

You said well and said it right kneehighs! A real gentleman to say it briefly.

But I think that the "competition" in Richie's words is something about nice and healthy competition we are never rid of in our hole lifes.

You should feel nice when another member like Maximilian tries to reach the level that you achieved before. And, of course, the student aways go far then the teacher.

Congratulations my friend! Read your stories are the best way to remember how good was my times when I was single. Be married is very good, of course, but those moments when single where enjoiable. Unfortunatelly I didn't have the courage to wear my heels at the street at that time, but it's another conversation...

It's aways good to know about a successful step of one of our members here. ShockQueen is a master. Kudos to you!

Welcome Johnmartin! You're in the right place to talk about your passion. Everybody here should be waiting for your pictures, I'm sure.

Me in my new red pumps:

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In like classic style with something cool (like this shirt).

rmaciej1983, your style is unique! Keep up the good work!

I don't want or need approval to wear high heels. I just wanted to be sure that I could safely walk in high heels in the street anytime I wanted, approved or not. My answer is none. Sao Paulo in Brazil is getting more dangerous every day. My wife was assaulted 3 days ago by a guy with a gun, I thank everyday she's alive. We have the largest gay parade of the world and every day an homossexual is violented around here. Street heeling is not so safe around this part of the world.

Even beeing in polish the video is great! Thanks for posting! If some good polish soul could transcript it and translate to english would be very nice, specially to see what those girls were saying about him. And, as someone recognized here, he's a techie guy as most of us in this very forum, he's a computer geek I think based on the video?

I marked boots and sandals. But was just because I don't have pumps or wedges Otherwise I would be wearing any style.

I agree there. Love that pic!

Agreeeeeeeeeeed tooooo!!!

Awesome, both pumps and boots. I like boots more, but I never had a great pair of pumps like those. Congratulations.

Simply... WOW Love them hidden under pants AND in full show. Super congratulations in this fantastic pair. You appear to be happy in a shoe that fits well, I'm a big foot and know exactly what you're talking about.