flavio

I forgot to use the word "permission" in my post. I think that no one needs to _permit_ you to wear whatever you want, as everybody is saying here. Of course, it's best for you to be with people that accept you but if it's impossible, go, do it, and hold what happens... maybe you'll be starting a new vogue. Heels for all! Flavio.

I do prefer boots also but I have a pair of sandals that are not so beautiful but are nice to wear at home when it's hot, since I live in Brazil and it's not so cold in Sao Paulo. But boots are the best shoe style in the world for me.

I think I'm a lucky guy about my wyfe too. She liked my style and we are happy wearing heels, both of us, in the privacy of our home. I received one bad comment from a friend of us (women) that is lesbian and said that this thing is neurosis. I never talked about this to family or friends and I started going to the street I live in in heels without any kind of comments from the neighbours or passants. Well, in my opinion, you need to be yourself. If everybody knows seems that you made the worst! Had courage to talk to everybody and seems that you weared heels in front of them. So, from now on, it's your decision, keep wearing what you want and expect for the best part! Good comments will appear. Good luck Heels for all! Flavio.

Once I got accostumed to high heels I don't feel any more pain wearing them. What I have to say is if a shoe is well made, you should not feel any pain. Custom shoes are the best if they are well made, they follow the shape of your arches and that's ok. What I saw in the shoes you bought, if I'm right, is that they are man made materials in China (for example, the trademark "The Highest Heel"). Those shoes are not so well made, however, they are strong shoes and don't get ugly after sometime wearing them. The sugestion, if this is the case, is to wear them the most you can, walking around, they should feel better after some days. Other thingh is if the heel height is too high for you, in this case try to wear something lower to get accostumed and go trying your oxfords sometimes. Ooops, I was wondering, those oxfords are nice to watch, I hope I need a pair of those in my collection! Congratulations! Heels for all! Flavio.

Jeff I think that you outing in thigh highs was like a second baby mother. It took a lot to born, but here it is! Congratulations! Flavio

Hey Jeff, I loved those boots, they are my style! Unfortunatelly they're not my size. Feet and Pocket size. But yes, they are wild, I shoud say stunning. If someone over there wants to hire me some money, he he he! Heels for all Flavio

2.03m, about 6 feet 8 inches Very tall isn't it? Adding the heels height, goes up to 2.17m Heels for all! Flavio

Ooops I forgot to say something. Since I opened this topic I knew just Kennard and DeSalto in Brazil that wants to start some stuff locally here. I think that there is a lot of guys in the forum users list, where are you people??? Heels for all! Flavio.

Kennard, I will continue using english here because of the hole forum. If you want to type in portuguese mail me privately, ok? I saw some stuff you posted about sandals you have. They are wonderful and you seem to have problems with family or street heeling as well. You've said that live far from Rio or Sao Paulo, where exactly do you live in? How old are you? Where do you find large sizes? Heels for all! Flavio.

I just wanto to say that the sandals in the Danielle's post are absolutelly wonderful! They design the feet!

Jeff, they are quite unusuall but I do like the look of them. They're ones I could want to have in my collection, but not for outdoor displaying. Heels for all! Flavio.

I'm with some friends here, I prefer pointed toebox too. But your boots are nice, good luck to street heeling! Heels for all Flavio.

Very funny motorola advertisement video. In the begginning I thought there was ishavemylegs at the store buying some new shoes for him Heels for all! Flavio.

This was a little hard weeked since I started moving for my new apartment, not to much heeling. My wife was worried about my high heels, because I got hard (you now what got hard) when I wear them. I think this happens to other guys here, I have read something. Was nice to explain to her that yes, there is a connection between high heels, fetish and sexual feeling. But was as nice to prove her that I don't need high heels to become hard. After that we had a wonderful night with and without high heels. Both of us wearing heels was the best! Heels for all Flavio.

Name: Flavio Age: 29 Gender: Male Location: Sao Paulo, Brazil Occupation: Industrial Engineer Height: 2,03m Weight: 130kg Shoe size: 44/45 (Brazil) 13 (US Women's) What's your favourite heel style: Stilettos What's your favourite shoe style: Knee High Pointed boots Do you wear your heels outside: Just at the street I live in. What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 14cm (5.5 inch) ( Your highest heel height: 14cm (5.5 inch) How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: Every night ( Your highest heel height: Every Night Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: barefeet or with socks for comfort Anything else you wish to add: This forum is the best place I ever found for exchanging information about heels and men in heels.

SndalFan, that's the point. I was completely surprised with her response. Even been homossexual, suffering with what other people does with her, she is against black people too. Well, this is a lesson for me! Never trust that someone will accept your shoe preference just because they have something different like homossexualing. Not everybody is just like me that can accept any difference between people.

I don't think it's just a "relationship thing". Do you think your wife is "old minded" but are you sure? Have you tryied to talk to her about something new, not shoes themselves, but anithing "untraditional", tatoos for example? I was very sad when my wife didn't know about my passion for shoes and high heels. Since I talked to her, everything got clear and good for me. You can be very sad to avoid her knowing about it, because you should be thinking about this stuff all the time. And if she got you typing in this forum? And if she got you wearing your boots not going to a party? That are good reasons to think about talking to her about you shoe style preference. Heels for all Flavio.

Hi everybody!

(english first because of the hole comunity here)

Brazillian boys and girls who want to create a brazillian comunity to organize ourselves, share experience and meet, everything about high heels either for men or women (women that accept men wearing heels), please, post in this topic or send-me a private mail to over_flavio@hotmail.com

(em português)

Homens e mulheres do Brasil que queiram criar uma comunidade brasileira para nos organizar, trocar experiências e nos encontrar, tudo sobre saltos altos, sejam homens ou mulheres (mulheres que aceitem a idéia de homens usando saltos altos), favor postar neste tópico ou mandar um e-mail para over_flavio@hotmail.com

Heels for all!

Salto alto para todo mundo!

Flavio.

It's a good idea this comunity DeSalto. I'll put a new topic to invite people. Heels for all! Flavio.

Really very nice pair of sandals DeSalto! I just find it wonderful. Brazillian shoes are usually beautiful like your sandals. Where did you bought them? Keep on posting pictures of your shoes for us!!! I have just privately mailed you in portuguese then we can stay in touch. Heels for all! Flavio

Hi DeSalto! It's very good for me too to hear something from someone in Brazil. What city do you live in? maybe we can share some experience in buying shoes and, who knows, start a local comunity of guys here. Heels for all! Flavio.

Hi everybody Unfortunatelly wasn't possible to go to the manicure in heels, since I was late at work that day and went directly form work to the manicure. Otherwise I had a different experience yesterday. There's a girl friend of me and my wife that was at home to have some conversation. She is lesbian and 44 years old, have a girfried that is our friend too. I decided to tell her about me and high heels, since she is lesbian she should be very open minded. But I didn't have a good response from her. She said that it is a kind of "neurosis" and she would not support any boyfriend in case of she would be heterosexual. Well... not so open minded I think. Heels for all Flavio

For sure I'm lucky sandalcrazy. The day I told my wife (at that time was my fiancee) is unforgettable! She gave me a loud laugh and told me "you fool!!! Let's go buying some heels for you tomorrow!!!" I'm starting going outdoors with my boots to smoke at the garage and manouver the car. Tonight I'm thinking about going to my manicure in them. Since manicures are places that mostly women go (do you believe that in Brazil men prefer to wrongly cut their fingernails at home because manicure is "women's stuff") I'll try to walk 'till there in my boots. It's rainy and cold in Sao Paulo today, a great day to heeled boot walking around the neighbourhood. Since it will be the first time real street heeling for me, I'll tell you tomorrow. And lets listen what women there will say about it. Heels for all! Flavio.

Ooops I forgot to tell my shoes size. Here in Brazil there's no relationship between metrics and shoe sizes at all. My feet are 29cm average large and the shoe number could be 44, 45 or 46 depending on the manufacturer. It's the same as US women's 13 men's 12.

You're quite sure heelme! It's wonderful to have a completely supportive wife, however, I think I should not say supportive because she is not only supporting but agreeing. For me and her, high heels should not be considered women's shoes, but shoes. They are made for feet, women and men are simillar in this part of the body, so it's just a matter of shoe feeling. My heeled shoes are "socially women's", they are stilletos, very high and pointy toed, some heeled guys would say "too feminine" but I don't feel like. They are SHOES. My prefered pair of shoes should be black, pointy and 5 inch stilletos, never chunky. I think you gave the first step with your wife - she knows about it - and maybe it would be just a matter of time to get accostumed with it and she will like the idea. She will see that you will still beeing a straight man, loving her, and you'll feel sad in flat shoes. I think also that social problems can happen to me too. Family, for example, they don't know about it and they are older people and very, very focused on society and the concept of what is correct or what's not. I would never wear any kind of "feminine looking" shoe at work also... I'm on a big multinational company managed almost by men... old minded men... I will not risk the job I like because of my shoe style. Heels for all Flavio.