lovespikes Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 As it is Halloween my girlfriend and I went out to a Halloween burlesque party in Glasgow. I had ran it past her to go out dressed more in womans attire. these burlesque nights the crowed get dressed up all the time with the girls wearing corsets and pretty much nothing else apart from heels. so I was dressed in a custom made corset giving me a 24" waist along with a tutu skirt and 4.5" strappy sandals. I don't think she noticed that I could acutualy walk and dance in them! and wore them for 8 hrs! had a great night with some awesome comments from both guys and girls. anyway the past few days we have been talking about it and I have told her that I have always liked high heels and would like to wear them more often (just about the house to ease her into it) to my suprise she is pretty open to the idea. the only concern she has is that because of her health issues she cannot wear heels and would get jelous. she also laughed when I told her to clear some space for all my new shoes. a happy ending!!!
Jkrenzer Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 awesome - keep it up. No picture of the party outfit?
mtnsofheels Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Right On Lovespikes!Now just have Halloween type events every month...hehe.Good for you, keep going!
bluejay Posted October 29, 2013 Posted October 29, 2013 Sounds like a great time you had lovespikes, at the Halloween party. Glad to hear that your wife, maybe more accepting of your heel wearing. Keep us posted. Happy Heeling,bluejay
lovespikes Posted October 29, 2013 Author Posted October 29, 2013 I think i have a before we went out mirror photo on my phone will see if i can get it posted jkrenzer. Thanks guys, its a huge weight of my shoulders now she knows. I have hidden the intrest in heels for 6 year but i have only started heeling for about 7 months. She really doesnt seem that bothered by it, altho if she had of caught me hidding it it may have been a diffrent outcome. so it does pay to be honest ! we will take it slow so i dont freak her ouf lol. just need to find some stores that stock my size to go shoe shopping!
Steve63130 Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Lovespikes, Great post. Congrats on coming out to her. Just remember, don't shift your focus from her to your heels. Keep the focus on her, and you'll be ok. Steve
lovespikes Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Thanks for the advice Steve, much appreciated. I know what you are saying! Not many people are willing to accept you for who you truely are. think this one is deffo a keeper :-) . i havent been pushing it at all infact i havent heeled since saturday, it just good to know that she wont mind if i do
partyshoes Posted November 7, 2013 Posted November 7, 2013 Result !! Glad to hear that you only got nice comments - had a similar experience at our Halloween /birthday bash. People were very surprised that a man could handle heels for so long .. I claimed one back for equality sake. Anything girls can do, boys can do too !! Gingers Rogers did everything Fred Astair did .. but backwards and in heels
ShockQueen Posted November 15, 2013 Posted November 15, 2013 Sounds like a beautiful beginning to many more adventures! Glad to hear things went so well! SQ.....still busting societal molds with a smile...and a 50-ton sledge!
Lvemadomina Posted November 19, 2013 Posted November 19, 2013 Always cool to hear more people gaining support for their love of heels
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